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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not really come accross that tbh, not that I've noticed anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

Perhaps said stunning woman has had her fill of liars and scared blokes and is with a man she finds confident and honest?

Maybe his sexuality doesn't come into it? Maybe shes as fucked up as he is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand "

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it turns them both on.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m hoping that if I ever get a man, he’s bi. I would love that!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If someone is bi, being in na relationship won't suddenly turn them straight. They're still bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!"

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?"

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider"

It just seems a little homophobic to me

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me "

Definetely not any form of phobia it is a simple observation

Maybe i dont understand the need for any individual, male or female, to be attracted to their own gender but certainly i have no issue with it

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?"

Because straight guys find two bi women hot. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me

Definetely not any form of phobia it is a simple observation

Maybe i dont understand the need for any individual, male or female, to be attracted to their own gender but certainly i have no issue with it

"

Yep, still seems homophobic

Are you straight? If so, you can’t help being attracted to women.

Same goes with anyone of any sexuality. Its just who they are.

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me

Definetely not any form of phobia it is a simple observation

Maybe i dont understand the need for any individual, male or female, to be attracted to their own gender but certainly i have no issue with it

Yep, still seems homophobic

Are you straight? If so, you can’t help being attracted to women.

Same goes with anyone of any sexuality. Its just who they are. "

You can have it 'seem' whatever you like

I am fully aware of anyone and their sexuality, i have a gay son. I am perfectly content with it too before you challenge it. I have him and his boyfriend stay frequently so i think homophobia is not something i could be accused of.

It is not for me but every individual has their own choice and right.

All i have said is as an observation i find it a strange occurrence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me

Definetely not any form of phobia it is a simple observation

Maybe i dont understand the need for any individual, male or female, to be attracted to their own gender but certainly i have no issue with it

Yep, still seems homophobic

Are you straight? If so, you can’t help being attracted to women.

Same goes with anyone of any sexuality. Its just who they are.

You can have it 'seem' whatever you like

I am fully aware of anyone and their sexuality, i have a gay son. I am perfectly content with it too before you challenge it. I have him and his boyfriend stay frequently so i think homophobia is not something i could be accused of.

It is not for me but every individual has their own choice and right.

All i have said is as an observation i find it a strange occurrence. "

Rightio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

same reason a man can be smoking hot and his partner might want to be with females.

Sexual preferences, we can all want it all. Him wanting things besides his partner just means he’s a swinger, curious and adventurous. Same as most on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know how you can say not homophobic but you don’t understand “the need” to be attracted to same sex. It’s not a choice dude. People like what they like.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?"

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

we find it never a pattern ... it is all about personal preference, orientation and sensual/sexual identity ... my George is very much a str8 guy, retro 1940s in many ways lol

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence "

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

What you hedge observed is that bisexual people remain bi when in a relationship with someone of the opposite gender to themselves.

Which ought to be quite readily understood. Their sexually, their ability to be attracted to men and women, won't go away due to being in a hetero relationship.

Likewise, if a bi man is in a relationship with another man, he'll still find women attractive.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"have" not "hedge". I'm going to kill SwiftKey one day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

The attractiveness of your partner has no bearing on your own sexuality.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

And dude... It's not a choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP.. this is why we think you dont get it..

"If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

That shows very little understanding of bisexuality.. and people in general.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style "

It’s not an observation when this ? is attached. That makes it a question, you equate a hot woman with sexuality, you can’t be both surely if she’s hot. Now check out the definition of homophobia;

Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT).

If you don’t see the negativity within your question you initially posed, if she’s hot how can he like cock ?

I don’t know you personally it’s your initial comment I find Homophobic, for the reason above.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Also I’ve had questions like that thrown at me and previous female partners

‘ don’t you want a real man love ?’

‘ why do you dress up, it’s weird ?’

‘Why go out with a sissy? ‘

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By *picknspan OP   Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

It’s not an observation when this ? is attached. That makes it a question, you equate a hot woman with sexuality, you can’t be both surely if she’s hot. Now check out the definition of homophobia;

Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT).

If you don’t see the negativity within your question you initially posed, if she’s hot how can he like cock ?

I don’t know you personally it’s your initial comment I find Homophobic, for the reason above.

"

Your perogative to have the opinion and your option to be wrong

If you knew me then that would be apparent but sadly as is so frequent here emotionally inaccurate justifications are too prevelant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

How pathetically narrow minded to the swinging world is that comment.

You're on the wrong site our kid!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Let's turn the question around.

OP, why would a man who is bi and in a relationship with a great woman cease to be interest in men too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m hoping that if I ever get a man, he’s bi. I would love that!"

I can fully recommend it

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

It’s not an observation when this ? is attached. That makes it a question, you equate a hot woman with sexuality, you can’t be both surely if she’s hot. Now check out the definition of homophobia;

Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT).

If you don’t see the negativity within your question you initially posed, if she’s hot how can he like cock ?

I don’t know you personally it’s your initial comment I find Homophobic, for the reason above.

Your perogative to have the opinion and your option to be wrong

If you knew me then that would be apparent but sadly as is so frequent here emotionally inaccurate justifications are too prevelant.

"

If you can point out where I’m wrong, it would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence "

yeah that's argument us a bit like the "but I've friends who are gay" argument. It's irrelevant to the view just expressed in the manner it was.

Language is key. IF you'd rather not cause offence in the future. IF you dont really care.. in which case, say what you will.

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By *lienrockMan
over a year ago

Fife

Think this forums turned into battering the OP down about being homophobic rather than agreeing or disagreeing with his observation. Yeh he's called it off a bit but there's so many people jump on preaching about what's right & whats not regarding opinions on here. When did the world become so offended so easily & when did everyone become right! Each to their own & all that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this forums turned into battering the OP down about being homophobic rather than agreeing or disagreeing with his observation. Yeh he's called it off a bit but there's so many people jump on preaching about what's right & whats not regarding opinions on here. When did the world become so offended so easily & when did everyone become right! Each to their own & all that.."

1. It's not something I've ever noticed.

2. People are always easily offended. Forum is no different.

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By *lienrockMan
over a year ago

Fife


"Think this forums turned into battering the OP down about being homophobic rather than agreeing or disagreeing with his observation. Yeh he's called it off a bit but there's so many people jump on preaching about what's right & whats not regarding opinions on here. When did the world become so offended so easily & when did everyone become right! Each to their own & all that..

1. It's not something I've ever noticed.

2. People are always easily offended. Forum is no different."

Agreed on both points & after all it's just my observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this forums turned into battering the OP down about being homophobic rather than agreeing or disagreeing with his observation. Yeh he's called it off a bit but there's so many people jump on preaching about what's right & whats not regarding opinions on here. When did the world become so offended so easily & when did everyone become right! Each to their own & all that..

1. It's not something I've ever noticed.

2. People are always easily offended. Forum is no different.

Agreed on both points & after all it's just my observation "

So you can give your observation but others can’t give theirs?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Think this forums turned into battering the OP down about being homophobic rather than agreeing or disagreeing with his observation. Yeh he's called it off a bit but there's so many people jump on preaching about what's right & whats not regarding opinions on here. When did the world become so offended so easily & when did everyone become right! Each to their own & all that.."

Make these forums very boring if we went no or yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you feeling a little bitter ay? Don’t worry lad you’ll find a girl one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me "

here we go play the homophobic card all he's asking is why I've often wondered what a woman See's in a bloke that fancies another each to there own not homophobic just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me here we go play the homophobic card all he's asking is why I've often wondered what a woman See's in a bloke that fancies another each to there own not homophobic just saying "

Jesus Christ

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Why would a woman not be interested in a man who is bi?

That's bi-phobia plain and simple.

And why would said bi man lose his attraction to men when he's in a relationship with a woman?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Why would a woman not be interested in a man who is bi?

That's bi-phobia plain and simple.

And why would said bi man lose his attraction to men when he's in a relationship with a woman? "

I'm not interested in bi men, it's preference Fi

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By *lirtwithmeWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

This is such a juvenile point of view! Why are there gay men in the world when there are also supermodels.....

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Because he’s not a narrow minded tw*t and is open to new experiences and he has a lovely wife whose happy to support her partners kinks and I’d probably extremely turned on by them

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?"

Surely that’s obvious, women are only bisexual for guys pleasure and not their own

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By *r_GirthMan
over a year ago

Leeds

To paraphrase Billi Piper... Because he wants to because he wants to...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Why would a woman not be interested in a man who is bi?

That's bi-phobia plain and simple.

And why would said bi man lose his attraction to men when he's in a relationship with a woman?

I'm not interested in bi men, it's preference Fi"

The poster above was saying he couldn't understand why *any* woman would ever be interested in a bi man.... Which is different from you personally having a preference and is bi-phobic.

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By *lirtwithmeWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"

Surely that’s obvious, women are only bisexual for guys pleasure and not their own

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Why would a woman not be interested in a man who is bi?

That's bi-phobia plain and simple.

And why would said bi man lose his attraction to men when he's in a relationship with a woman?

I'm not interested in bi men, it's preference Fi

The poster above was saying he couldn't understand why *any* woman would ever be interested in a bi man.... Which is different from you personally having a preference and is bi-phobic. "

Turn that statement around & you’ll see why people are saying it come across as homophobic because I honestly don’t beliebe you’d have any trouble finding a queue of guys who’d be interested in a bi woman

So on the flip side why would women not be interested in bi guys In fact there are plenty of women whose preference is s bi guy & plenty of others who find watching two guys together a turn on

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Seems to me that a bi guy with a smoking hot wife who also gets to play with smoking hot men has the absolute best of both worlds! He's someone to be envied xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

It will be just what they are into and if it works for them, why not.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Not sure you know how the whole sexual thing works..

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

It’s more prevalent the other way round and that never gets a mention (married bi female straight male)

Sexist???

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Op it’s so obvious you want to try dick !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term homophobic has been used a lot on this thread and you have to be careful how you use it. It’s definition is “having or showing a dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people”. If people have shown this then fair enough but if it’s just a question of “why do....” then that’s not homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. Someone else who doesn't understand what swinging is about

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm bi sexual. Just because I'm married doesn't change that!! I love C but he's not a lady. Hence this lifestyle works for us. It's the same principle for men too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this forums turned into battering the OP down about being homophobic rather than agreeing or disagreeing with his observation. Yeh he's called it off a bit but there's so many people jump on preaching about what's right & whats not regarding opinions on here. When did the world become so offended so easily & when did everyone become right! Each to their own & all that..

1. It's not something I've ever noticed.

2. People are always easily offended. Forum is no different.

Agreed on both points & after all it's just my observation "

ummm 1. Was me referring to not noticing hot women only liking bi men.. I wish that were the case. I've not noticed it though.. I'm not with anyone.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

That's not really how sexuality works. Would the hottest man in the world stop a straight men being straight?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I don't understand what you expected from this, you're being openly disrespectful about bisexual men by questioning their sexuality based on your own standards.

1. What has it got to do with you?

2. Why should bi men have to stop being themselves to fit into the little box you seem to live in?

3. Bi men cannot just change their sexuality, it's who they are, not a lifestyle choice.

4. Why do you think it's OK for banging hot men to have bisexual girlfriend but not OK if the situation is reversed?

You are showing a distinct lack of understanding and tolerance of sexuality, and it's a very immature point of view, 'I won't question it if its two women but if it's two men kissing then i need to question why'. Do you not see how backwards that is?

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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Because everyone wants to be part of the crowd.

It's the fashion now.

I would never be with a man, who wanted cock.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Because everyone wants to be part of the crowd.

It's the fashion now.

I would never be with a man, who wanted cock. "

This is such an awful statement. You think everyone chooses to be gay or bi?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

You do not understand sexuality, if you believe it should be determined by how beautiful another person is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Because everyone wants to be part of the crowd.

It's the fashion now.

I would never be with a man, who wanted cock. "

It’s not a fashion, it is just people’s sexuality.

My husband is straight and if he wanted to try cock, It wouldn’t change my mind, because I love him, and want to be with him whoever he is.

Also lots of guys on here are what is known as fab straight.

Your words are pretty horrible.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Because everyone wants to be part of the crowd.

It's the fashion now.

I would never be with a man, who wanted cock. "

If it's 'Fashion' to be more open to different sexualities and lifestyles, that actually include the swinging lifestyle. Then I'm glad to be Fashionable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Because everyone wants to be part of the crowd.

It's the fashion now.

I would never be with a man, who wanted cock. "

Ah yes. Men are so desperate to fit in, they’ll suck and fuck cock just to be in fashion. Makes sense.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

Definetely not any form of phobia it is a simple observation

"

..and a flawed assumption, unless you can prove that your theory doesn't apply to women who don't excite your interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Also lots of guys on here are what is known as fab straight.

Your words are pretty horrible. "

That's what I was thinking. You can never be certain a guy isn't bi! Especially in the swinging world.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Because they are bi curious or bi sexual. Not hard to figure out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear. Someone else who doesn't understand what swinging is about "

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

OP i respect that this is your opinion but sometimes having an opinion does not mean you have to express it, especially when it can come across as more biphobic than homophobic.

In the long run no onne has to justify their sexuality to anyone.

Also it comes across that you think its ok to want to suck cock if you dont think the wife as smoking hot.

No one is asking you to do it. No one is saying that in your mind you need to understand it.

In the long run all you have to do is to accept that their sexuality is part of who they are and they have the right to explore it how they see fit.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Because everyone wants to be part of the crowd.

It's the fashion now.

I would never be with a man, who wanted cock. "

Well it's up to you if you dont want to date or play with a man who is not bi.

But you probably have in the past if you have played with men on here.

But wow just wow to even having a thought that being bi is just a fashion now days is sorry down right stupid.

Especially men the amount of bi erasure that exists in society still today towards bi men is horrific.

I have bi male friends that have gone through hatred and violent attacks when they have come out as bi

To be so flippant about it and say its fashionable is heartbreaking

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Because everyone wants to be part of the crowd.

It's the fashion now.

I would never be with a man, who wanted cock.

Well it's up to you if you dont want to date or play with a man who is not bi.

But you probably have in the past if you have played with men on here.

But wow just wow to even having a thought that being bi is just a fashion now days is sorry down right stupid.

Especially men the amount of bi erasure that exists in society still today towards bi men is horrific.

I have bi male friends that have gone through hatred and violent attacks when they have come out as bi

To be so flippant about it and say its fashionable is heartbreaking "

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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style "

Oh dear. You've got all the snowflakes bent out of shape.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Not too sure if this is a troll post......but....

Yes OP people are bisexual because they don't find their current partner attractive enough.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

Oh dear. You've got all the snowflakes bent out of shape.

"

And I was wondering when someone would throw the snowflake comment into it all.

To stand up to what you believe is right is not being a snowflake.

To debate and question someone elses opinions that they have put out for public scrutiny is not being a snowflake.

It's the modern version of Godwin's law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

Oh dear. You've got all the snowflakes bent out of shape.

And I was wondering when someone would throw the snowflake comment into it all.

To stand up to what you believe is right is not being a snowflake.

To debate and question someone elses opinions that they have put out for public scrutiny is not being a snowflake.

It's the modern version of Godwin's law."

Those who use the ‘snowflake’ insult are those who can’t stand someone disagreeing with them

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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

Oh dear. You've got all the snowflakes bent out of shape.

And I was wondering when someone would throw the snowflake comment into it all.

To stand up to what you believe is right is not being a snowflake.

To debate and question someone elses opinions that they have put out for public scrutiny is not being a snowflake.

It's the modern version of Godwin's law.

Those who use the ‘snowflake’ insult are those who can’t stand someone disagreeing with them "

The man asked a simple question. Obviously not understanding why people do, what they do.

Instead of explaining it to him, like an adult, he gets attacked and accused of all sorts of intolerances.

And the more he tries to defend, and explain himself, the more bent out of shape, you all get!

It seems to me, that you "snowflakes" need to practice some "tolerance" yourselves. Don't assume that everyone understands your lifestyle.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

Oh dear. You've got all the snowflakes bent out of shape.

And I was wondering when someone would throw the snowflake comment into it all.

To stand up to what you believe is right is not being a snowflake.

To debate and question someone elses opinions that they have put out for public scrutiny is not being a snowflake.

It's the modern version of Godwin's law.

Those who use the ‘snowflake’ insult are those who can’t stand someone disagreeing with them

The man asked a simple question. Obviously not understanding why people do, what they do.

Instead of explaining it to him, like an adult, he gets attacked and accused of all sorts of intolerances.

And the more he tries to defend, and explain himself, the more bent out of shape, you all get!

It seems to me, that you "snowflakes" need to practice some "tolerance" yourselves. Don't assume that everyone understands your lifestyle.

"

Not at all I put my opinion forward I did not bend what he said out of shape.

In the long run because someo e disagrees with an opinion does not make them a snowflake.

What was said could be and was seen as biphobic in people's eyes. Because it is how someone sees a comment.

In the long run it's simple as this. They like cock because they are bi.

There was no need for the question in the first place as he had already answered his question when he said bi in his original post.

No one attacked him they simply felt that his comment was homophobic and pointed that out.

That again is their opinion

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Nobody has attacked OP in calling out his bi-phobic comments. The mention of bi-erasure especially for men is very pertinent.

Most of us judge very politely pointed out that one's sexuality is not related to the relationship one is in at any given time, nor to the attractiveness of a partner.

Why would a bi guy with a hot girlfriend /wife be into guys too? Simple.... Because he's bi.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

It can be a number of reasons, tried it when younger wants to try it again. Seen some gay porn and wants to try it.

Thought about it, wants to try it, finds it erotic.

Wife wants him to try it.

Likes to be pansexual or metrosexual, trendin.

He's been hiding a secret, he's really gay.

Wants experience what his wife does, empathy, slightly verging on cd/tv without the clothes.

The law in his county says he must suck cock or he has to leave........joking.

Like anything taboo, it arouses some guys curiosity. He mighty not like it or try it again, just a one off.

I see your point, he's opting for cock when he's got a gorgeous lady.

His levels of what he is attracted to are more liberal than the typical male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if thats their thing and not yours let them get on with it, not your problem, move on and find someone else

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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It can be a number of reasons, tried it when younger wants to try it again. Seen some gay porn and wants to try it.

Thought about it, wants to try it, finds it erotic.

Wife wants him to try it.

Likes to be pansexual or metrosexual, trendin.

He's been hiding a secret, he's really gay.

Wants experience what his wife does, empathy, slightly verging on cd/tv without the clothes.

The law in his county says he must suck cock or he has to leave........joking.

Like anything taboo, it arouses some guys curiosity. He mighty not like it or try it again, just a one off.

I see your point, he's opting for cock when he's got a gorgeous lady.

His levels of what he is attracted to are more liberal than the typical male.

"

An honest, simple, adult answer, without being condescending and accusatory. Thank you. I was wondering the same thing as OP, but didn't dare ask. You can see why.

Shame on all of you who are so quick to use the "labels" you have been programmed to use, and still believe yourselves to be "free-thinkers". Grow up.

And this;

"Why would a woman not be interested in a man who is bi?

That's bi-phobia plain and simple"

Are you for real?!

No, I'm not interested or attracted to a man who is bi, bi-curious, gay, and anything else that isn't straight. That is my choice. Who are you to tell me what I should be attracted to?!

We are not fully at the

"4. Forced participation (everyone must partake in the new culture)"

Stage of "The 5 stages of cultural conquest", yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a woman not be interested in a man who is bi?

That's bi-phobia plain and simple.

And why would said bi man lose his attraction to men when he's in a relationship with a woman? "

I don't think this is bi-phobia at all, just preference. I'm a bi woman, but I'm not into bi men at all, it's just a turn off for me.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Perhaps because the majority of women enjoy guy on guy sex, and perhaps because the majority of men register somewhere on the bi scale.

Works exactly the same if you reverse genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be a number of reasons, tried it when younger wants to try it again. Seen some gay porn and wants to try it.

Thought about it, wants to try it, finds it erotic.

Wife wants him to try it.

Likes to be pansexual or metrosexual, trendin.

He's been hiding a secret, he's really gay.

Wants experience what his wife does, empathy, slightly verging on cd/tv without the clothes.

The law in his county says he must suck cock or he has to leave........joking.

Like anything taboo, it arouses some guys curiosity. He mighty not like it or try it again, just a one off.

I see your point, he's opting for cock when he's got a gorgeous lady.

His levels of what he is attracted to are more liberal than the typical male.

An honest, simple, adult answer, without being condescending and accusatory. Thank you. I was wondering the same thing as OP, but didn't dare ask. You can see why.

Shame on all of you who are so quick to use the "labels" you have been programmed to use, and still believe yourselves to be "free-thinkers". Grow up.

And this;

"Why would a woman not be interested in a man who is bi?

That's bi-phobia plain and simple"

Are you for real?!

No, I'm not interested or attracted to a man who is bi, bi-curious, gay, and anything else that isn't straight. That is my choice. Who are you to tell me what I should be attracted to?!

We are not fully at the

"4. Forced participation (everyone must partake in the new culture)"

Stage of "The 5 stages of cultural conquest", yet.

"

Are you a white knightess here to and save the day. If so, give him some ideas on how to put across a piece of text, that doesn't sound deogratory towards any type of sexuality on a public forum. Growing-up starts from there - his question has a immature undertone!

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

No doubt this will be ignored but here goes

There has been several answers to this already mainly along the lines that hes bi and they swing with like minded people.

To he honest that is all the answer that is needed.

I dont the OP would ask why a hot wife would want extra cock if she has one at home

Of why would a couple swing with others when they have each other.

In the long run how he put his question forward was seen by some as biphobic.

To call them snowflakes etc is denying their right to be offended.

It's obvious that you are offended by some of the answers and that is your right.

Simply put the answer to the OPs original post is.

Because they identify as bi.

They are in a ethical non monogamous relationship

And because they want to.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

And one last point.

It's no ones business what others do on this site unless it involves them.

It may not be your thing and that is fine but then dont have anything to do with bi people or what other preferences you have.

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Your profile pic is you stood with a pair of knickers around your cock. That’s hot for you.

That’s weird as fuck for me.

Different strokes for different folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many ladies in this thread have handled this well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vegetarians still eat salad at steak restaurants if their partner really loves a steak now and again.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"If someone is bi, being in na relationship won't suddenly turn them straight. They're still bi. "

This!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"

Your profile pic is you stood with a pair of knickers around your cock. That’s hot for you.

That’s weird as fuck for me.

Different strokes for different folks "

Yep weird for me too

Mrs J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh, the high horse brigade are in town

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

The bi-phobia is not people who find themselves unattracted to bi people.

It is the notion that a bi man wouldn't want to explore his bi side if he was in a relationship with a hot woman. The failure to accept that a man is still bi when he's with a great woman.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I’m hoping that if I ever get a man, he’s bi. I would love that!"

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been following this thread and was not sure to respond or not but here goes.

To the OP the simple answer is they are bisexual and swingers so they like to play with male and females.

There sexuality means they enjoy both pussy and cock play and have found an environment where they are free to do that without feeling bad about it.

Also OP I would say that you could of worded the question better because it can come across as negative.

To those that have used the snowflake comments etc.

Debating challenging or disagreeing with someones views is not being a snowflake.

MT here I came out as bi in the 80s and went through hell when I did. It's easy to say that comments like this are innocent but if you dont know someone story you are just dismissing how someone feels and the negativity they have had coming to terms with their sexuality.

In the long run the question was answered by the original OP before he asked it

He is aware of what bisexuality is so he is aware why people do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi "

They get a loving relationship that is open and free to explore all sides of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi "

The same things you’d get from a relationship if you were both straight, or both gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

They get a loving relationship that is open and free to explore all sides of themselves "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi "

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?"

no because I get that I just don't get what ever get out of a relationship if one is bi or gay simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?no because I get that I just don't get what ever get out of a relationship if one is bi or gay simples"

The relationship is exactly the same as any relationship. Be the female bi or the male is bi or If both are straight or both are bi.

The swinging is carried out for the same reasons there is no difference.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?no because I get that I just don't get what ever get out of a relationship if one is bi or gay simples"

I don't understand what you don't get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?no because I get that I just don't get what ever get out of a relationship if one is bi or gay simples"

I’ve already explained what.

Do you think someone is just going to change their sexuality because of the relationship they are in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?no because I get that I just don't get what ever get out of a relationship if one is bi or gay simples

I’ve already explained what.

Do you think someone is just going to change their sexuality because of the relationship they are in?"

no I wouldn't expect it but still confused as to what a straight person gets out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?no because I get that I just don't get what ever get out of a relationship if one is bi or gay simples

I’ve already explained what.

Do you think someone is just going to change their sexuality because of the relationship they are in?no I wouldn't expect it but still confused as to what a straight person gets out of it"

What apart from a loving relationship. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you op but Yes better wording might have been better id have put what do you get from a relationship if you're straight but your partner is bi

Would you ask a couple that were both straight what they got from swinging?no because I get that I just don't get what ever get out of a relationship if one is bi or gay simples

I’ve already explained what.

Do you think someone is just going to change their sexuality because of the relationship they are in?no I wouldn't expect it but still confused as to what a straight person gets out of it"

A loving relationship?

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand "

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever think maybe people just like what they like.

I'm bi, I have a hot man who fulfils me sexually, I've no real desire for other men. He can't be a woman though, so my preference is women right now. He's also bi and his preference is men. We get all the straight sex we need from each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

"

that I don't believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe "

Why ?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Surely sexuality is a natural attribute not a choice.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ever think maybe people just like what they like.

I'm bi, I have a hot man who fulfils me sexually, I've no real desire for other men. He can't be a woman though, so my preference is women right now. He's also bi and his preference is men. We get all the straight sex we need from each other. "

that's good but your both bi so irrelevant to The question what does someone straight get out of a relationship if other half is bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ever think maybe people just like what they like.

I'm bi, I have a hot man who fulfils me sexually, I've no real desire for other men. He can't be a woman though, so my preference is women right now. He's also bi and his preference is men. We get all the straight sex we need from each other. that's good but your both bi so irrelevant to The question what does someone straight get out of a relationship if other half is bi"

I’ve explained what. Twice.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"

Ever think maybe people just like what they like.

I'm bi, I have a hot man who fulfils me sexually, I've no real desire for other men. He can't be a woman though, so my preference is women right now. He's also bi and his preference is men. We get all the straight sex we need from each other. that's good but your both bi so irrelevant to The question what does someone straight get out of a relationship if other half is bi"

A loving relationship.

What's so hard to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ever think maybe people just like what they like.

I'm bi, I have a hot man who fulfils me sexually, I've no real desire for other men. He can't be a woman though, so my preference is women right now. He's also bi and his preference is men. We get all the straight sex we need from each other. that's good but your both bi so irrelevant to The question what does someone straight get out of a relationship if other half is bi"

No, your question was why would you want cock if your Mrs is hot.

Not sure why you're finding it so hard to understand.

Different people like and want different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ?"

simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ? simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work"

Oh my god

I’m out

I genuinely can’t believe people can be so narrow minded

That can be the EXACT same for a straight swinging couple (which is what I assume you’re referring to - why else would people be on ‘dates’ if they aren’t swinging)

But nah. Need to bite my tongue now.

I sincerely hope you open your mind a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ? simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work

Oh my god

I’m out

I genuinely can’t believe people can be so narrow minded

That can be the EXACT same for a straight swinging couple (which is what I assume you’re referring to - why else would people be on ‘dates’ if they aren’t swinging)

But nah. Need to bite my tongue now.

I sincerely hope you open your mind a little bit "

With you on that Queenie!

I can't bite my tongue though

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ? simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work"

So do you have an issue with straight couples swinging

Swinging is swinging

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ? simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work"

Umm.. You really don't understand this swinging lark, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ? simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work"

Do straight people wanna fuck every other person of the opposite sex? No! So why do people think being bi means we wanna fuck everyone?!

My partner and I play together! We occasionally invite others to join us because it's fun. Neither of us needs it.

If on the rare occasion, we meet someone on our own, they are of the same sex and everyone is happy for that to happen.

We are very happy, very much in love and very secure in our relationship.

As Queenie said, open your mind.

Your way isn't the only way!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

If you have a freezer full of steak you can still have a burger every now and then , x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a freezer full of steak you can still have a burger every now and then , x "

Hahaha brilliant x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ? simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work"

Would you enjoy having a bi girlfriend, maybe she would let you watch her and join in with a threesome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me

Definetely not any form of phobia it is a simple observation

Maybe i dont understand the need for any individual, male or female, to be attracted to their own gender but certainly i have no issue with it

"

Why are you posting about it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Seriously??? What is wrong with being bisexual??? Couples accept each other as they are. And we are not in the Middle Ages btw...

Niki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Seriously??? What is wrong with being bisexual??? Couples accept each other as they are. And we are not in the Middle Ages btw...

Niki x"

God doesn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They get the EXACT same things they would get from a relationship with another straight person.

I’m genuinely baffled as to why you don’t understand

+1. I have great difficulty in comprehending why the question is even being asked

that I don't believe

Why ? simple I don't believe the other half is happy if one is bi or straight what do they get if say women goes on a date with the other he just stops in cleans up or waits to find out what happened go on Tell me all about it what do you do for me it doesn't work

Would you enjoy having a bi girlfriend, maybe she would let you watch her and join in with a threesome?"

no I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a freezer full of steak you can still have a burger every now and then , x

Hahaha brilliant x"

why drop your standards and go for a cheaper cut if you like steak

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"If you have a freezer full of steak you can still have a burger every now and then , x

Hahaha brilliant xwhy drop your standards and go for a cheaper cut if you like steak"

What's inferior about having fun with someone of the same gender? Assuming one is bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Seriously??? What is wrong with being bisexual??? Couples accept each other as they are. And we are not in the Middle Ages btw...

Niki x

God doesn't like it "

God also doesn’t like sex before marriage and wearing two different types of material at the same time. But I betcha do it

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Which god? There are loads to choose from.

The Pagan gods seem to look kindly on consenting adults enjoying sex.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

ive always been surrounded by bi guys. My ex husband was bi. My partner is bi and ive been witj others in betweem. zits completly the norm for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

Seriously??? What is wrong with being bisexual??? Couples accept each other as they are. And we are not in the Middle Ages btw...

Niki x

God doesn't like it

God also doesn’t like sex before marriage and wearing two different types of material at the same time. But I betcha do it"

yes I'm a sinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a freezer full of steak you can still have a burger every now and then , x

Hahaha brilliant xwhy drop your standards and go for a cheaper cut if you like steak

What's inferior about having fun with someone of the same gender? Assuming one is bi? "

I would hope both are bi otherwise its one way

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?"

Because bi guys are really cool. You’re totally not getting the idea, are you? It’s the fact that seeing her man with another man turns her on - it’s all about what she wants.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

Let's not feed the troll anymore shall we folks.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Let's not feed the troll anymore shall we folks. "
yeah, you’re right. sounds like jealous sour grapes to me.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I'm bi and Steph is smoking hot.

I don't know if this adds anything to this thread

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Cause dick is good

Give it a shot OP, maybe you’d understand

Nope... no dick for me thanks. One is enough ..Mine!

Are you aware that even if you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it doesn’t change your sexuality?

If you were bisexual before, you’ll still be bisexual.

I adore my husband but I’m still bisexual. Why haven’t you wrote a forum post about women who are bisexual, when they have a man at home to fuck?

Simple! I don't see men as attractive and so the opposite scenario is not something i consider

It just seems a little homophobic to me "

Agreed

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'm bi and Steph is smoking hot.

I don't know if this adds anything to this thread "

Urghh you disgust me

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By *annnMan
over a year ago

Isle of Man

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By *annnMan
over a year ago

Isle of Man


"Why is it that when you see a couple with a bang on stunning female half, the male is bi curious or bisexual?

If the missus is that hot why you want to play with a dick?

It’s simple he’s bisexual, or do you think a Lesbian or bi Woman can be turned completely straight if the guy was hot enough ?

It does come across as Homophobic and having a gay son isn’t a great defence

You have an opinion that is fine but in this case it is about me and is wrong

I realise that a bisexual, gay or lesbian individual could not be turned straight and nor should they

I think you are confusing an observation with a criticism

My comment is purely an observation and in no way a criticism of anyone or their choice of life style

Oh dear. You've got all the snowflakes bent out of shape.

And I was wondering when someone would throw the snowflake comment into it all.

To stand up to what you believe is right is not being a snowflake.

To debate and question someone elses opinions that they have put out for public scrutiny is not being a snowflake.

It's the modern version of Godwin's law.

Those who use the ‘snowflake’ insult are those who can’t stand someone disagreeing with them

The man asked a simple question. Obviously not understanding why people do, what they do.

Instead of explaining it to him, like an adult, he gets attacked and accused of all sorts of intolerances.

And the more he tries to defend, and explain himself, the more bent out of shape, you all get!

It seems to me, that you "snowflakes" need to practice some "tolerance" yourselves. Don't assume that everyone understands your lifestyle.

"

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

I Hollie am bi my hubby is straight we have a loving sexual relationship I love him but also want to play with women it doesn't harm our relationship if anything makes it stronger Hollie

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Let's not feed the troll anymore shall we folks. yeah, you’re right. sounds like jealous sour grapes to me. "

Yep I'm out of this thread too.

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