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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree.

If I found it boring, I’d leave.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

This site is whatever you make of it

I don't find it boring atall

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like it. If not, I’d just leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe it’s different for ladies

But I do value your opinion

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's what you make of it. Effort in, rewards out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you find boring OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always put a wig on and become a cum dump. That would spice things up a bit for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find there’s hardly any Londoners up for a good time

Usually people up north or down south are the fun ones

Just check the forums, it’s always people from the above locations that respond usually

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb"

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?! "

The first ones has gone travelling the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being bored really hard

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

The first ones has gone travelling the world"

good luck in your quest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

The first ones has gone travelling the world good luck in your quest. "

You seem like the ideal match. Shame your so far away !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could get a meet every hour of everyday if i wanted to how the hell is that boring ??? the site gives you the tools to have fun the tools nothing else .. the rest is down to you as a person agree with misswoods you get out what you put in

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

The first ones has gone travelling the world good luck in your quest.

You seem like the ideal match. Shame your so far away !"

Definately not, you are 20 years below my age range lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm asain and it's difficult for decent ish Indians on here, but I know Asian men are terrible on here, but I've met some decent people on here that over look the Asian thing

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"i could get a meet every hour of everyday if i wanted to how the hell is that boring ??? the site gives you the tools to have fun the tools nothing else .. the rest is down to you as a person agree with misswoods you get out what you put in"
thankyou jen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

The first ones has gone travelling the world good luck in your quest.

You seem like the ideal match. Shame your so far away !

Definately not, you are 20 years below my age range lol. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i could get a meet every hour of everyday if i wanted to how the hell is that boring ??? the site gives you the tools to have fun the tools nothing else .. the rest is down to you as a person agree with misswoods you get out what you put in"

I could get a meet everyday if I wanted to but In recent years it seems like the quality of people on this site has diminished.

Lots of timewasters too.

And a lot of jokers who are not serious at, take a look at one or two of the responses in this thread as an example.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

The first ones has gone travelling the world good luck in your quest.

You seem like the ideal match. Shame your so far away !

Definately not, you are 20 years below my age range lol. "

Age is nothing but a number lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have so much fun on here, just being noisy on the forums really.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It can be at time's I have a break when it feels like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m sure the ratio of men to mf or f on this site must be crazyyyy

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

The first ones has gone travelling the world good luck in your quest.

You seem like the ideal match. Shame your so far away !

Definately not, you are 20 years below my age range lol.

Age is nothing but a number lool"

Ahh, that old chestnut, its important to some of us, I have no desire to meet someone and play with them when they are close to my children's age. We all have reasons for our preferences and they should respected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It can be at time's I have a break when it feels like that."

Glad someone genuine agrees with me!

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Windsor-ish

I wouldnt say it boring but it is a lot harder for a single guy to get a meet simply because there are sooo many of them...they really need to try hard to stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb

A second one? Is the current one not nice enough?!

The first ones has gone travelling the world good luck in your quest.

You seem like the ideal match. Shame your so far away !

Definately not, you are 20 years below my age range lol.

Age is nothing but a number lool

Ahh, that old chestnut, its important to some of us, I have no desire to meet someone and play with them when they are close to my children's age. We all have reasons for our preferences and they should respected. "

Absolutely ! Without respect this site is merely an empty site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i could get a meet every hour of everyday if i wanted to how the hell is that boring ??? the site gives you the tools to have fun the tools nothing else .. the rest is down to you as a person agree with misswoods you get out what you put in

I could get a meet everyday if I wanted to but In recent years it seems like the quality of people on this site has diminished.

Lots of timewasters too.

And a lot of jokers who are not serious at, take a look at one or two of the responses in this thread as an example."

lol so you blame it on quality ??? the quality is the same in fact in bigger quantity man wise maybe thats why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldnt say it boring but it is a lot harder for a single guy to get a meet simply because there are sooo many of them...they really need to try hard to stand out from the crowd."

Totally agree

Although I have had some great meets even as a single male

Now that you mentioned it, what’s the top three things that make a guy stand out in your opinion ?

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

The answers actually seem to confirm the OP's initial position.

Most answers have been from single women or couples saying it's great.

Not a deluge of single guys saying it's easy fun. It can be fun, but some of the fun is worn down by the effort required.

I like it, and enjoy myself here. But I have effectively stopped trying to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The answers actually seem to confirm the OP's initial position.

Most answers have been from single women or couples saying it's great.

Not a deluge of single guys saying it's easy fun. It can be fun, but some of the fun is worn down by the effort required.

I like it, and enjoy myself here. But I have effectively stopped trying to meet people. "

Why have you stopped trying to meet people ?

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"I’m sure the ratio of men to mf or f on this site must be crazyyyy"

You got that right!

Problem is there are far too many males all seeking the same thing so you have to SELL YOURSELF to stand out amongst everyone else.

But to suggest there aren't enough people in London making any approach, would be wrong. I have at least a dozen couples or single females who are in Greater London, who have been in touch in the past month and with 3, I'm going to be meeting up soon. I'm 90 miles away in Warwickshire!

To paraphrase someone else, Efforts In = results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure the ratio of men to mf or f on this site must be crazyyyy

You got that right!

Problem is there are far too many males all seeking the same thing so you have to SELL YOURSELF to stand out amongst everyone else.

But to suggest there aren't enough people in London making any approach, would be wrong. I have at least a dozen couples or single females who are in Greater London, who have been in touch in the past month and with 3, I'm going to be meeting up soon. I'm 90 miles away in Warwickshire!

To paraphrase someone else, Efforts In = results."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a fab but not just for the sex, looking for a lot more than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure the ratio of men to mf or f on this site must be crazyyyy

You got that right!

Problem is there are far too many males all seeking the same thing so you have to SELL YOURSELF to stand out amongst everyone else.

But to suggest there aren't enough people in London making any approach, would be wrong. I have at least a dozen couples or single females who are in Greater London, who have been in touch in the past month and with 3, I'm going to be meeting up soon. I'm 90 miles away in Warwickshire!

To paraphrase someone else, Efforts In = results."

Please Elaborate on what you mean by effort exactly.

I think my page is decent, but need a few more pics too.

I always read profiles and tailor each message to that profile.

I must admit I hardly contact anyone lol usually wait for people to wink me or fab my photo or even message me first. Probably where I’m going wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm asain and it's difficult for decent ish Indians on here, but I know Asian men are terrible on here, but I've met some decent people on here that over look the Asian thing"

Asian men aren’t terrible on here. No more or less than other men. That’s just an excuse people use.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I'm asain and it's difficult for decent ish Indians on here, but I know Asian men are terrible on here, but I've met some decent people on here that over look the Asian thing

Asian men aren’t terrible on here. No more or less than other men. That’s just an excuse people use. "

That’s a pure excuse I agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find there are a great deal of statuses, saying things to entice, but almost no conversation to back up their claims.

I don't find fab boring when it comes to the forums and chat rooms.

I do find the lack of chat outside those arenas to be just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm asain and it's difficult for decent ish Indians on here, but I know Asian men are terrible on here, but I've met some decent people on here that over look the Asian thing

Asian men aren’t terrible on here. No more or less than other men. That’s just an excuse people use. "

Sadly lots of people have ‘no Asian men’ on their profile. While they’re entitled to not meet anyone they don’t want to meet, it seems to be quite a common thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I'm asain and it's difficult for decent ish Indians on here, but I know Asian men are terrible on here, but I've met some decent people on here that over look the Asian thing

Asian men aren’t terrible on here. No more or less than other men. That’s just an excuse people use.

That is their preference, so it’s all good.

A lot of profiles say “no old men” “no fat people”

Etc

That’s just preference

Sadly lots of people have ‘no Asian men’ on their profile. While they’re entitled to not meet anyone they don’t want to meet, it seems to be quite a common thing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm asain and it's difficult for decent ish Indians on here, but I know Asian men are terrible on here, but I've met some decent people on here that over look the Asian thing

Asian men aren’t terrible on here. No more or less than other men. That’s just an excuse people use.

That is their preference, so it’s all good.

A lot of profiles say “no old men” “no fat people”

Etc

That’s just preference

Sadly lots of people have ‘no Asian men’ on their profile. While they’re entitled to not meet anyone they don’t want to meet, it seems to be quite a common thing. "

There’s a difference between judging people on race, and judging people on age

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m sure the ratio of men to mf or f on this site must be crazyyyy

You got that right!

Problem is there are far too many males all seeking the same thing so you have to SELL YOURSELF to stand out amongst everyone else.

But to suggest there aren't enough people in London making any approach, would be wrong. I have at least a dozen couples or single females who are in Greater London, who have been in touch in the past month and with 3, I'm going to be meeting up soon. I'm 90 miles away in Warwickshire!

To paraphrase someone else, Efforts In = results.

Please Elaborate on what you mean by effort exactly.

I think my page is decent, but need a few more pics too.

I always read profiles and tailor each message to that profile.

I must admit I hardly contact anyone lol usually wait for people to wink me or fab my photo or even message me first. Probably where I’m going wrong lol"

Are you really reading profiles? You said in an earlier post we were a good match whilst ignoring my age range and then saying it didn't matter?! Try going to an organised social. They are good for networking OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

I think I need to find me a nice fwb"

You should leave then

but we'll all wave good bye n sob

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"The answers actually seem to confirm the OP's initial position.

Most answers have been from single women or couples saying it's great.

Not a deluge of single guys saying it's easy fun. It can be fun, but some of the fun is worn down by the effort required.

I like it, and enjoy myself here. But I have effectively stopped trying to meet people.

Why have you stopped trying to meet people ?

"

A number of reasons, some not to do with FAB at all (e.g. I have fwbs met in other ways).

Mostly to do with geography, I live on on the East Coast, surrounded by countryside. The pool is therefore already comparatively small.

My age then puts me out of range for a big chunk of that pool!

However, the above being said, I could and have met people off here. It's simply the effort required does not encourage me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure the ratio of men to mf or f on this site must be crazyyyy

You got that right!

Problem is there are far too many males all seeking the same thing so you have to SELL YOURSELF to stand out amongst everyone else.

But to suggest there aren't enough people in London making any approach, would be wrong. I have at least a dozen couples or single females who are in Greater London, who have been in touch in the past month and with 3, I'm going to be meeting up soon. I'm 90 miles away in Warwickshire!

To paraphrase someone else, Efforts In = results.

Please Elaborate on what you mean by effort exactly.

I think my page is decent, but need a few more pics too.

I always read profiles and tailor each message to that profile.

I must admit I hardly contact anyone lol usually wait for people to wink me or fab my photo or even message me first. Probably where I’m going wrong lol

Are you really reading profiles? You said in an earlier post we were a good match whilst ignoring my age range and then saying it didn't matter?! Try going to an organised social. They are good for networking OP. "

That was a spur of the moment comment on a forum! Wasn’t meant to be taken seriously.

If I am to message anyone , I DEFINITELY read profiles.

I DARE SOMEONE TO CONFIRM I HAVE SENT THEM A MESSAGE WITHOUT READING THEIR PROFILE....that’s right I’ll continue to wait hahaha

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I am occasionally bored by it.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think a lot of the time location is the problem

People I’d love to message are always too damn far

Sod’s law eyyy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am occasionally bored by it.

V x

"

Next time drop me a message I’ll see if I can entertain you lol

I’m sure I can

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The answers actually seem to confirm the OP's initial position.

Most answers have been from single women or couples saying it's great.

Not a deluge of single guys saying it's easy fun. It can be fun, but some of the fun is worn down by the effort required.

I like it, and enjoy myself here. But I have effectively stopped trying to meet people.

Why have you stopped trying to meet people ?

A number of reasons, some not to do with FAB at all (e.g. I have fwbs met in other ways).

Mostly to do with geography, I live on on the East Coast, surrounded by countryside. The pool is therefore already comparatively small.

My age then puts me out of range for a big chunk of that pool!

However, the above being said, I could and have met people off here. It's simply the effort required does not encourage me.

"

Try living in Cornwall lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think a lot of the time location is the problem

People I’d love to message are always too damn far

Sod’s law eyyy"

I have the same problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a lot of the time location is the problem

People I’d love to message are always too damn far

Sod’s law eyyy

I have the same problem. "

Yeah! Cornwall doesn’t seem like a region full of swingers lol

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


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Try living in Cornwall lol

"

I feel your pain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I set up a social in central London, in a nice pub or bar....so would come ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If I set up a social in central London, in a nice pub or bar....so would come ?"

Try it, put a thread up in the meets section. I'm currently trying to organise a singles social in Cornwall. Doesn't need to be a massive event, just a few for drinks. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I set up a social in central London, in a nice pub or bar....so would come ?

Try it, put a thread up in the meets section. I'm currently trying to organise a singles social in Cornwall. Doesn't need to be a massive event, just a few for drinks. X"

Sounds like a good idea

I’ll try it

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

I may not be right in saying this but I'd say those who say no Asians are going from stigma associated with being Asian. It's a tag all with the same label "Asian men"

From swingers clubs to normal night clubs Asian men tend to be predatory of white women. Have no respect for the women that interests them. I've seen it with my own eyes. I've been the one they've been interested in. But like any guy who doesn't like no for an answer and will pressure and pursue till they get what they are after. Treating a woman like a sex toy nothing more. Just sadly a large majority of Asian men believe women especially white women are 2nd class citizens or worse and not equal in deserving respect.

I meet anyone I feel I have a connection and attraction regardless of gender or skin colour. Personality is key for me. Acting like a disrespectful predator is one huge turn off. What ever race, religion or gender!

All the same with majority of single men on fab using it as a fuck n run, free whores.

As a single guy of any colour got to make every effort to show your better side and attract what you want.

Become the peacock! Prean those feathers and get to work showing off your talents and desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it boring sometimes. I do miss some who used to be on here a few years ago, so it sometimes triggers a little nostalgia. I think we are getting to the point that we are going to delete soon. It's not anything to do with the site though. More that we are moving on from it and have no desire to meet anyway

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything this site is only as good as the work you put into it

We have made some great friends on here and enjoy the lifestyle. But dab isbonly a little part of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may not be right in saying this but I'd say those who say no Asians are going from stigma associated with being Asian. It's a tag all with the same label "Asian men"

From swingers clubs to normal night clubs Asian men tend to be predatory of white women. Have no respect for the women that interests them. I've seen it with my own eyes. I've been the one they've been interested in. But like any guy who doesn't like no for an answer and will pressure and pursue till they get what they are after. Treating a woman like a sex toy nothing more. Just sadly a large majority of Asian men believe women especially white women are 2nd class citizens or worse and not equal in deserving respect.

I meet anyone I feel I have a connection and attraction regardless of gender or skin colour. Personality is key for me. Acting like a disrespectful predator is one huge turn off. What ever race, religion or gender!

All the same with majority of single men on fab using it as a fuck n run, free whores.

As a single guy of any colour got to make every effort to show your better side and attract what you want.

Become the peacock! Prean those feathers and get to work showing off your talents and desires."

Sorry to hear of your bad experiences

But not all asian men are like that.

I’m certainly I’m not like that when I go to clubs. I always read body language and wait to catch signals that a lady is interested!

Always shit men in every race, making it harder for us genuine men!

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"I may not be right in saying this but I'd say those who say no Asians are going from stigma associated with being Asian. It's a tag all with the same label "Asian men"

From swingers clubs to normal night clubs Asian men tend to be predatory of white women. Have no respect for the women that interests them. I've seen it with my own eyes. I've been the one they've been interested in. But like any guy who doesn't like no for an answer and will pressure and pursue till they get what they are after. Treating a woman like a sex toy nothing more. Just sadly a large majority of Asian men believe women especially white women are 2nd class citizens or worse and not equal in deserving respect.

I meet anyone I feel I have a connection and attraction regardless of gender or skin colour. Personality is key for me. Acting like a disrespectful predator is one huge turn off. What ever race, religion or gender!

All the same with majority of single men on fab using it as a fuck n run, free whores.

As a single guy of any colour got to make every effort to show your better side and attract what you want.

Become the peacock! Prean those feathers and get to work showing off your talents and desires.

Sorry to hear of your bad experiences

But not all asian men are like that.

I’m certainly I’m not like that when I go to clubs. I always read body language and wait to catch signals that a lady is interested!

Always shit men in every race, making it harder for us genuine men! "

If you read it again I'm not saying all Asian men are like that.

Just like I'm not saying all single men are fuckwits just a lot prove they are.

Fab is extremely hard on the genuine guys. But those guys if they persevere and put as much effort they can into it they reap the rewards.

You get out of it what you put into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results".

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By *untime77xxMan
over a year ago

birmingham

True

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results"."

You should experience a womens box . That would also open up your eyes to how shallow and thoughtless most men really are just for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results"."

I would disagree there. I have found spending time. Chatting and getting to know females at clubs.on here and at house parties has meant that I have a few lovely ladies that I play with now.

No it's not easy but worth effort and a respectful manner it does work

But everyone is different

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results".

You should experience a womens box . That would also open up your eyes to how shallow and thoughtless most men really are just for a shag.

"

A couple of friends have shown me examples over the years. Which is why I don't, after saying blokes have it hard, say women have it easy.

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton


"You should experience a womens box . That would also open up your eyes to how shallow and thoughtless most men really are just for a shag. "

Well I must be one of the few men on the site that is not shallow and thoughtless!

I suspect there are more guys like me on the site than you may think, but because we are thoughtful and respectful, we don't make nuisances of ourselves and thus have a low profile!

And yes I do think it is far more difficult for single guys on this sites than couples or ladies, but it is not impossible to get some meaningful meets rather than just fuck and go!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results".

You should experience a womens box . That would also open up your eyes to how shallow and thoughtless most men really are just for a shag.

A couple of friends have shown me examples over the years. Which is why I don't, after saying blokes have it hard, say women have it easy.

"

Have handed my phone to male friends before now, the longest time they lasted before handing it back? Approx half hour. They were shocked by some of the messages as well.

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By *jb773Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Ive been on the site a little while and haven't had much luck finding anyone, could my profile be at fault or what I write when I send messages?

But i do enjoy using the site and i hope to find people soon

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It's what you make of it. Effort in, rewards out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find there’s hardly any Londoners up for a good time

Usually people up north or down south are the fun ones

Just check the forums, it’s always people from the above locations that respond usually "

I live in London and have plenty of fun thanks but I prefer doing it as part of a couple than as a single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on the site a little while and haven't had much luck finding anyone, could my profile be at fault or what I write when I send messages?

But i do enjoy using the site and i hope to find people soon"

Six weeks is not long and you already have a veri.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find there’s hardly any Londoners up for a good time

Usually people up north or down south are the fun ones

Just check the forums, it’s always people from the above locations that respond usually

I live in London and have plenty of fun thanks but I prefer doing it as part of a couple than as a single. "

Yes I used to go clubs and meet other couples, as a couple with my fwb. Much more fun!

Are you still looking for someone to join you, perhaps for a swinging relationship for clubs and socials etc?

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By *arcuszMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst


"I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results"."

Nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find there’s hardly any Londoners up for a good time

Usually people up north or down south are the fun ones

Just check the forums, it’s always people from the above locations that respond usually

I live in London and have plenty of fun thanks but I prefer doing it as part of a couple than as a single.

Yes I used to go clubs and meet other couples, as a couple with my fwb. Much more fun!

Are you still looking for someone to join you, perhaps for a swinging relationship for clubs and socials etc?"

I’m not looking for just that, I want much much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good 100 to 1 I’d say bet it’s mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single guy looking for a female or a couple to meet up with but im struggling to actually get replys, any advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im single guy looking for a female or a couple to meet up with but im struggling to actually get replys, any advice ?"

Improving a profile to include pics and something about yourself may help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im single guy looking for a female or a couple to meet up with but im struggling to actually get replys, any advice ?"

Maybe have a profile which shows who you are instead of nothing on it.

With no profile or public pics why do you feel people will want to respond to you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree.

If I found it boring, I’d leave. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male this site can be really boring

Had a lot of fun on this site with my fwb, on our couples profile.

Who agrees ?

To be fair it is a Swingers site not a singles. I and my previous lady had lots of fun was "daytrippers" as a single guy you have to be patient.

I think I need to find me a nice fwb"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit late to the party here - I understand what you mean, it gets a bit tiresome endlessly messaging / being ignored etc as a single man.

However, I’ve never failed to get the entertainment I was looking for from here either (meet / chat etc)

But yes I wholeheartedly agree it’s very tedious being a single man on this site. Dread to think of the amount of time, brilliant creativity, time refreshing waiting for a reply I’ve spent on here haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’ve been chatting with the wrong people guys. Evaluate what you’ve been doing and change it. The single guys I know kn here have no problems getting meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results".

Nailed it. "

Absolutely!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of you need to create a male profile to see how vastly different the experience is.

It simply does not boil down to "effort in = results".

Nailed it.

Absolutely!!!"

Agreed. Well played

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

It is very tedious but for a guy you have to work at it, I met a great girl and over 24 hours she had 400 plus messages, what is worse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually agree with the blokes on here, it is tiresome/boring. But for me, it is boring every day getting the same old message from blokes “hi, wanna meet?” *insert dick pick here* or messages from supposedly the female half of a couple that eventually lead to “can he watch”. If any body bothered to read the damn profile it would save both our time. I find what I want on here, just a shame I have to wade through waves of bullshit messages to get there

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"If I set up a social in central London, in a nice pub or bar....so would come ?"

Lots of people do....

Myself and others on here hold them regularly and are always well attended and definitely not boring!

Rabbit

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Im single guy looking for a female or a couple to meet up with but im struggling to actually get replys, any advice ?"

There's advice on my profile, feel free to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always go and watch paint drying OP now that is boring. We love this site and if we didn't enjoy it we would leave. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually agree with the blokes on here, it is tiresome/boring. But for me, it is boring every day getting the same old message from blokes “hi, wanna meet?” *insert dick pick here* or messages from supposedly the female half of a couple that eventually lead to “can he watch”. If any body bothered to read the damn profile it would save both our time. I find what I want on here, just a shame I have to wade through waves of bullshit messages to get there "

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I found it was boring I would leave the site

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By *ockonmeMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

As a single here myself, I’ve taken the approach of, if I don’t meet I’ll have a wank instead lol.

I’m not desperate and have to click with the other party, I won’t fuck for the sake of her having a pussy, heartbeat and a set of tits.

When I first joined it was hard work and I’ve met and spoke to lots of wonderful folks here. Be selective OP it’ll pay off long term and you’ll have some good fwbs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's boring just hide your profile for a bit and concentrate on doing other stuff instead! You can always pop back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a bit like ice cream really. Some days you crave it and some days you’re not interested. A little goes a long way we find.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"

Try living in Cornwall lol "

.

I'm trying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try living in Cornwall lol

Cornwall is grand and way not boring ... fab is a bit inc**tuous down west though

Luckily I love travel and adventure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I set up a social in central London, in a nice pub or bar....so would come ?

Lots of people do....

Myself and others on here hold them regularly and are always well attended and definitely not boring!

Rabbit "

Definitely not boring!!! I love the London socials. As long as guys get that it’s a public social and not an orgy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Take some time out to come and meet us outside of London - or entice us to meet with you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the moaning thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be at time's I have a break when it feels like that."
At last a sensible comment. You can have a bit of banter on here, but their are some really boring people who live on the forum who can killed a thread dead.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Only boring people get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be at time's I have a break when it feels like that.At last a sensible comment. You can have a bit of banter on here, but their are some really boring people who live on the forum who can killed a thread dead. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up on the meeting side of but the forums certainly not boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be boring because im very picky and most people that contact me either dont read profiles properly, are here to steal pictures or time waste or are fake.. So I might hide my profile for a while till I feel like being on here again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the majority of the people on the webcams, sat in shitty houses, lying there nonchalantly playing with their floppy cocks. It's like broken Britain with a mental health crisis thrown in. It can be pitifully time, but luckily there are gay sauna regulars who I can message for the next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, the forums are pretty entertaining places and the socials are pretty good. Maybe it's just the way you're using it OP.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

The site works for me.

If it didnt I wouldn't be here .

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"You could always put a wig on and become a cum dump. That would spice things up a bit for you "

That works for me

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