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By *nnie2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

lol. dunno . does happen a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A myriad of reasons

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So they don't bother you again by mistake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they don't bother you again by mistake?"

This! LOL - Not all are site supporters so may contact you again by accident in a few weeks (especially if like me you swap your avatar pic). Quite considerate of them actually x

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?"

How ould you even know they have blocked you unless you change your mind

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By *nnie2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

he just said "ok thanks BLOCKED" and blocked me

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So they don't bother you again by mistake?"

My guess is also this - saves them getting a 2d/ 3rd/ 4th refusal. Have seen profiles where they say they'll do this or ask for the other party to do it so they won't bother them again.

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough


"he just said "ok thanks BLOCKED" and blocked me "
lol

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By *nnie2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

just pissed me off

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"he just said "ok thanks BLOCKED" and blocked me "

Were you going to change your mind then?

And what you really meant to say was - thanks but no thanks for just now?

If not why worry that he has blocked you? You didn't want to meet him anyway!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"just pissed me off "

why? if you didn't want them anyway it makes no difference, surely?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"just pissed me off "

Tomorrow is another day....you'll get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he just said "ok thanks BLOCKED" and blocked me

Were you going to change your mind then?

And what you really meant to say was - thanks but no thanks for just now?

If not why worry that he has blocked you? You didn't want to meet him anyway! "

+1

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By *nnie2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

lol, thats it i"ll stop ranting

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"just pissed me off

why? if you didn't want them anyway it makes no difference, surely?"

lol - we used to block people that we'd chatted to then decided not to meet, saves going through the whole rigmarole again if you forget - we tend to add notes now, would get pissed of just because some (stranger) blocked us! Z

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?

How ould you even know they have blocked you unless you change your mind "

Save a note against their profile...

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By *nnie2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

thx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"just pissed me off

why? if you didn't want them anyway it makes no difference, surely?

lol - we used to block people that we'd chatted to then decided not to meet, saves going through the whole rigmarole again if you forget - we tend to add notes now, would get pissed of just because some (stranger) blocked us! Z"

lol - that should be 'would not........'

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?"

Cos it saves them wasting time contacting u again...why are u looking if u dont want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"he just said "ok thanks BLOCKED" and blocked me "

Personally I think he wanted you to fall apart weeping that you had been blocked

Lots of people do block after a no thanks to stop them contacting again but most would'nt tell you like that unless he wanted to make an impact,

It was a flouncy block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont want to meet someone why would it bother you if your blocked or not?

or more to the point if you have already sent a thanks but no thanks message why would you go to mail them again to know your blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you dont want to meet someone why would it bother you if your blocked or not?

or more to the point if you have already sent a thanks but no thanks message why would you go to mail them again to know your blocked? "

Maybe it's an ego thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?"

Why wouldn't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?

Why wouldn't they?"

well i have to be honest if i mailed someone and i got a no thanks reply i wouldnt block them as i see no need to block someone just because they didnt want to meet me

But all because i wouldnt i dont think its wrong other do

Its upto them what they want to do and it wouldnt bother me if someone i didnt want to meet blocked me, infact i wouldnt even know if they had as i wouldnt se going back to look at their profile or mailing them

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?"

Maybe so they don't contact you again by mistake.

Maybe because you dented their ego.

But does it really matter why, when you don't want to meet them anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be so they dont message you again by accident ? say a few months down the line you change your username of your main pic is changed and they think its someone else , you get a message and then oh dear that guy again so you end up blocking him .

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

Its hard to know exactly why he's blocked you,but I suspect its so he doesnt contact you again by mistake.

Has anyone else come to that conclusion ? Lol.

Love it in here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why when you say to someone thx but no thx they block you?"

because they are 'Timesavers'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people after I say thanks but not for me.. and I have also been blocked..

it just saves messaging the same person later on.

It certainly doesnt bother me.. not even when they do it because they do a snipe attack then block.. well except that it prevents me getting the last word in.

cali

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"he just said "ok thanks BLOCKED" and blocked me "

i know... how dare someone block them after they were rejected..... the cheek of it!!!!

the irony of the thread is that one person obviously moved on..... and not the one who did the rejecting...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I seriously doubt the OP is dwelling on it

She only asked the question why

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Blocked don't appear in local updates

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"could be so they dont message you again by accident ? say a few months down the line you change your username of your main pic is changed and they think its someone else , you get a message and then oh dear that guy again so you end up blocking him . "

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