FabSwingers.com forum: gangbangsin Bristol,timewasters abd paypal

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We organise gang bangs in Bristol every couple of months and in the end they usually go really well. We have had a rant on this forum before about time wasters and what a pain the the arse they can be.

The first couple of times we tried were a disaster, the first time we took the first 6 guys who said they would come at face value and only 1 did.The poor bloke found us in not the best of moods.

Next time we tried speaking to them all on the phone and even theguys who stressed they were not time wasters etc only half showed.

It is a double bummer because genuine bangers are getting turned away as well as only half what we want coming along.

Someone at some stage on this site suggested we do as they do and only offer someone a place if they confirm by chipping into costs by pay pal.

It really really works. Everyone who has given us a call and chipped in by pay pal toward costs has turned up.

We are completely up front and transparant. We use a hotel in centre of bristol easy to get to, studio rooms with sitting space and mini kitchen as well as bed space so area torelax and offer buffet in between rounds of play. Reception leave 7pm so perfect for purpose. Rooms about 110 quid, add another 30 for nibbles,drinks and big box of condoms makes around140 quid theball park figure for us to put a gb night on. We ask usually 4 or 5 single guys to chuck 20 or 25 quid into the kitty. Nominal and defo non commercial if we have any change we spend it on more drinks for the night and the sole purpose we ask it is to get rid of time wasters and no shows.

We get loads and loads of guys pretend to be ok with it then when they call us they ask for a 1 on 1 meet, or argue about using pay pal saying they will bring cash on the night.

Given most people use pay pal and even if not its easier to set up than a fabs account.If people have an issue with pay pal there are 3 reasons.

-they are married and cheating(not for us)

-they think we are a scam(check our verifications, many happy cummers ALL confirmed by pay pal)

-they are not sure they will turn up.

Anyway rant over. Last few times we did this we left recruiting bangers till week before and timewsaters caused stress and we only got line up sorted night before. The night was worth the effort but we are thinking to recruit guys in advance for future bashes.

Any single guys out there interested in attending a gang bang in Bristol we would like to hear from you. We will do another in about a month, mid to end of april in line with period cycle. Will book hotel and start firming up details about 10 days before. At that stage we would like to then invite guys we have already chatted to and established how we do things.

Please don't get in touch unless genuine, timewasters have really plauged us and we are looking for a way round all that.

Love n light, The Joys

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Easiest way round it...go to a GG night at a club

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

You'd better hope that none of your gang-bangers gets disgruntled and reports you to Paypal, I think you'll find it contravenes their Terms & Conditions, they love closing down Paypal accounts associated with "Adult" pursuits. (I think you'd lose the funds too, but wouldn't swear on it)

I know a Pro Domme who was pissed off with no-shows so opened a PP account for deposits and they closed it without warning, no appeal, end of story. Then, of course, because she'd had to use her real name to ensure the funds went to her bank account, it also screwed up her (vanilla) E-bay account, and other personal PP accounts etc etc. I can't recall all the details, but she strongly advised against using PP to do ANYTHING remotely connected to sex!

Be warned...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid couples with rants, problems, unrealistic expectations, we don't meet this, we don't meet that. If you say you have posted rants before, I wonder why singles don't steer clear of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they dont want to use paypal because other family members use it and dont want people asking what that transaction was for

I have a paypal account thats linked to ebay, i also have 3 kids that use the same ebay and paypal account as i cant see the point in having an account each, i wouldnt pay for a meet in this way as my kids could go into paypal and wonder what it was

I know some will say its nothing to do with my kids what i do etc but im their mum and protecting them from what i do is important to me there for i wouldnt do anything to raise their suspicions and it would be even worse if they have a partner questioning

So i can understand why a lot would back out when you say payment thro paypal as i would too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you lodge a complaint with paypal for a refund if your not happy with the service provided/was not as described/showed more wear and tear than the description and pictures say and show?

Also on a more serious note, surely if you pay for something on paypal, are all your personal details on view to the payee as you have paid them for 'goods' ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for everyones thoughts and ideas.

We have been to and continue to enjoy greedy girl nights out. It is nice to hostess and have pics too

We do not share paypal with our kids but admit that be a prob for parents that do. We also don't mind if people find out our names as we are genuine and comfortable with what we do. Usually consider ourselves positive and not usually ranters but have had an out of character moan because all talk no trousers type guys have wound us up a few times. Thats why we started the pay pal thing, to scare of no showers and be sure people were genuine. Its an online whip round for hotel, booze and big box of condoms.

We will continue to try and organise the odd gang bang as they are always worth it in the end. lol

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By *ngie-babyWoman
over a year ago

huntingdonish

sorry if i'm wrong here.

but surely, technically you are charging for sex, so that makes this a form of prostitution even though its only to cover costs ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

only as much as we are paying.

No, the sex is between mutually consenting adults in a space that everyone makes nominal chip in too. If we picked up 5 single guys in a swingers club and went off to a hotel everyone would chuck in 20 quid to get the room. We think this is standard swingers etiquette as we got the idea from this site and others doing it.

We try and do it online with no change left that doesnt get spent on snacks for the night.

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By *ngie-babyWoman
over a year ago

huntingdonish

well, good luck with it.

personally, i would very carefully check the law on this, as receiving payment for sex wether in goods, kind, or cash is prostitution, especially as it is advertised (technically) and payment recieved (even to cover your costs)

different in the club scene you described but this scenario you are doing is pre planned and payment accepted up front.

and the fact that others on here do the same, does not make it any more legal.

check the law carefully guys, could save yourselves alot of hassle and maybe avoid a mention in the press

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