FabSwingers.com forum: One offs or regular

By *ain and sorted OP Man
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Have to agree there - regulars are more reliable too!

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Regular

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By *ain and sorted OP Man
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Very much so and much more rewarding be it a single or a couple , can't beat experienced people who know what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either or, both can be just as fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for regular here

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By *ain and sorted OP Man
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"Regular "

With you on that one. Nice town stone ,been there many times great pubs x

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

Prefer regulars. Building up on what excites the other person. Finding out new pleasures all add to the enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their merits for me and the beauty of fab means I don't have to pick one over the other

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By *ain and sorted OP Man
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"Prefer regulars. Building up on what excites the other person. Finding out new pleasures all add to the enjoyment."

Yes with regulars theres that greater anticipation with out the nerves and proberly more daring x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer regular meets

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By *ain and sorted OP Man
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"Both have their merits for me and the beauty of fab means I don't have to pick one over the other

That is the beauty of fabs and clubs too ! Love a club to go exploring in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regulars can be fun as you build on what you know the other likes, and are more reliable meets. One offs however just full of excitement.

So, both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have heir place but a regular allows you to build trust to experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular but it's like finding rocking horse shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet, we get it on, if it’s fun we meet again, if not we move on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely regular but it's like finding rocking horse shit"

What she said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if the person is worth meeting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More often regulars as has been said as it builds the experience, but one offs if were staying over somewhere in the country can be fun too. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if the person is worth meeting again "

I agree.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Regular meets are so much better.

We find once you build a connection, all parties are open to expanding the boundaries and you don’t have the worry of being let down by time wasters etc.

We are trying to build a small circle of fun friends again, after most we knew have either moved away or left the scene.

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

We prefer regular

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By *arcolemMan
over a year ago

Killarney

Regulars. Hard to find regulars in my part of Ireland and travel 3 hours to meet my 2 regulars.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Regular is best as you get to know each other better one offs can be good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"

Definitely regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular. Dont do kne offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"

Very true I've been meeting with a regular guy I met more than two years ago on fab much better than one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We would be happy with either at the moment lol bit I would defo say regular. I love the idea of teasing each other all week before a meet then letting it all go when we finally get in bed together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stone also has a decent cricket ground.

Used to be a good batting wicket!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s different for couples and singles

Singles who moan about not finding a another single regular are not searching for swingers more like a FB or partner in effect a relationship, and that’s not swinging really, it’s dating. Maybe that apples to some of the posters above? If it does, maybe ask yourself why you are searching on a swinging site, which ranges from fantasists via club socialites to hard core players but very few people looking for relationships

We have no problem finding regular couples and singles although some have flown a little bit close to wanting to be exclusive etc, again that’s not swinging.....

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Depends if the person is worth meeting again "

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"

Clubs one off

But i like regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried regular but it all gets complicated you get feels! & everything else so now just 1 offs

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

One offs are fine and good for variety but if you meet someone you click with well then definitely regular fwb type scenario

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By *ush12345Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

It depends if they are any good!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

The great thing about swinging is that you can have both. It's nice to have one-off play with total strangers from time to time as well as regular friends meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular ! The best sex I’ve had is with someone who’s a regular , you just get to know what’s going to work !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be regular for me fab may be a 'sex site's but one offs don't appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don’t think you control that really. If they are fun, they become regulars. Else they become a notch on the bed post. You don’t have to pick one approach. This is fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular 100%. One offs? I'll go clubbing for that.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Regular is better in order to explore what really turns each other on.

One offs, are fun... For a one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has to be regular for me fab may be a 'sex site's but one offs don't appeal to me"

This

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Regular is my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely regular but it's like finding rocking horse shit"

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs fill the excitement gap. The unknown. Regular is good too though as you get to know how those people ‘tic’ sexually.

Enjoyed both to be honest.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

One offs. Not interested in repeat meets anymore. Have found it comes with too much baggage, particularly with singles. Only interested in fucking, don't want to be involved with drama and find one offs are better for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex gets better with someone you know well in my experience. So regular for single guys.

If I meet a couple nowadays I rather not play regularly. I have done in the past.

One offs have their place and let's face it when you try someone out they might not be what you're looking for

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Neither. Just fbs or fwb when we can. Nothing regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one off has the potential to be a regular fuck buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Prefer one offs.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Regular, things just get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is definitely what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the variety of one offs but I'm always reasonably nervous on first meets so I also like when people want to meet again. It's also a confidence booster to know they liked you hehe. I usually find thought that the people interested in return meets are the people I didn't enjoy playing with much, and the ones I did enjoy playing with don't want to meet again. Annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a problem here...I can’t comment as I don’t get either

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

One offs are fun Regular is much better.

Yu reach a better understanding of what you enjoy.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Prefer regular

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me too sex gets better with regular meets

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Regular feels a bit boyfriendy to me, gives me a cold sweat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular feels a bit boyfriendy to me, gives me a cold sweat

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ouch the commitment fear surfaces lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a problem here...I can’t comment as I don’t get either

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hahaha best reply on the entire thread

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I'd love regular sex... But don't want them just as meets x

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Both in different ways. I have a regular, which is fantastic as both a sexual relationship and friendship, but still like the thrill and anticipation of a one off meet. Which he knows about and encourages.

Who doesn't like to have their cake and eat it too....

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Either as you can have as much fun with both

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Repeat meets with friends are what I prefer, as the fun gets better the more you get to know someone, plus you rarely get let down. Occasional one-off club meets can be fun, but nowhere near as reliable

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’d like regular ... but doesn’t seem to happen... it’s making me question should I be here ... profile hidden while I think things through and decide what to do

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I used to like both. With regular the fun does tend to get better as you get to know someone.

But there was always that amazing thrill of being stripped naked in front of a total stranger.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer NSA but I can see the appeal of having regular fun but due to having commitments and a life outside fab I'd prefer to keep things NSA.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A regular poly would be fun, equally one offs have a stunning dimension too.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Having been fortunate to have done both, think regular meets with the same person or couple is better as overtime the connection and sex become incredible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been on the site long but would say regular, get to know what each other likes and build friendships with that little secret haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both and there is the risk and excitement in one-offs but the sex is sooooo much better with someone regular who you can trust and push boundaries with

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By *ain and sorted OP Man
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"I've done both and there is the risk and excitement in one-offs but the sex is sooooo much better with someone regular who you can trust and push boundaries with "

That pretty much sums it up really , a spontaneous meet , one off is exciting and a quick release , which may leaf to regular fun and a new fab friend. Regular more meaning g ful passionate longer lasting lust and bigger things to cum haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer NSA but I can see the appeal of having regular fun but due to having commitments and a life outside fab I'd prefer to keep things NSA."

Yeah this is where I am. Very few special people get that regular can remain NSA. As soon as they show signs of becoming complicated they are no longer regular.

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By *ain and sorted OP Man
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Prefer NSA but I can see the appeal of having regular fun but due to having commitments and a life outside fab I'd prefer to keep things NSA.

Yeah this is where I am. Very few special people get that regular can remain NSA. As soon as they show signs of becoming complicated they are no longer regular. "

That's the emotion thing we all have them I guess , ive found if your honest and up front that seems to be dealt with, but do totally get that. Easier with couples as you are aware there together and understand that its just swinging and fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer NSA but I can see the appeal of having regular fun but due to having commitments and a life outside fab I'd prefer to keep things NSA.

Yeah this is where I am. Very few special people get that regular can remain NSA. As soon as they show signs of becoming complicated they are no longer regular.

Yes. I'm part of a couple but still the odd one seems to think they can control the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has to be regular for me fab may be a 'sex site's but one offs don't appeal to me"

Build the chemistry and the excitement on a journey of exploration of each other's bodies mmm now that's fab for me. Mr

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By *ature watcherMan
over a year ago

lichfield

"Regular "
. Wow ! Anyone that met you would want a regular arrangement, I'm sure once would never be enough ! Gorgeous ! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting read

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

We are one offs.

If we happen to meet someone we like again, we have no issue having repeat fun.

But we can't commit to swinging over our own family and work life.

We are each others regular fun.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I’m a repeater! Hate one hook ups, not satisfied in the least! Love my ever growing circle of swinging friends!

As for the post about singles here not being swingers, you’ve got it wrong. This is a lifestyle choice, and I choose to be a single female in this scene (so much more fun), I attend many parties where I have lots of friends who I play with with, both singles and couples.

I’m a true swinger, I can be who I want, without the judgement (sadly I feel you’re judgemental towards singles, and for that reason I wouldn’t meet you).

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

How about one offs... regularly ?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I wouldn’t know no luck so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to meet for regular fun. The more comfortable we get with who we meet, the more relaxed we become. Which means we’re

more likely to explore our boundaries more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every one off has the potential to be a regular fuck buddy.

This is so true, I guess until you try once you won’t know if you want it to be regular..... but as someone else said, like finding rocking horse shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both as mixing it up so things are more exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me. I like to get to know a person, know what gets them going and for them about me

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Regular fun is definitely better. We have been lucky enough to play with couples for a second time and whilst the first time is great, the second is far better. We think you can experiment a little more on the second round too.

We once had a double session with a couple at a club and again the second time was better as everyone was more relaxed x

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Much prefer regular meets as you can really get to learn what they like best as it adds to the fun for both.

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By *nnaandchrisCouple
over a year ago

loughton

We prefer regular meets as trust builds. However we have had a couple of amazing one off’s

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

"Hi everyone, what's your thoughts on one off encounters v regular swinging friends? Ive done both ,find the one offs exciting at the time but not so rewarding as regular play x"

Mix of both..ive had ladies ive met a few times and been joined by folks for group fun as one off which has turned out awsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs don't appeal to me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a regular guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is better, aslong as it's good...

then it can get even better..... Do like ones offs if you both click, for the intensity.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I find a regular is much better than a one off

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Regular...saves me a job after a long day

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By *jb773Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Would love to have a regular lady to have fun with, just a phone call or text away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs are exciting but awkward ...a regular can be more rewarding sexually...each have their place I guess. We enjoy both

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By *ittlecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Oxford

Yeah random can be hot and filthy but regular would be much more fulfilling sex.

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Regular..

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Regular is our preference, less awkward and developing friendships adds to the sexual side of things.

One offs are fun and we enjoy those too but regular is what we look and hope for

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

What we're ideally looking for is a few regulars. We have a couple of couples which are going that way. People we can get on with and have a good time as well!!

We tend to leave our one off encounters for parties and clubs

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Regular for me, the sex gets better and better and I like to develop a friendship with them...

Althou I do wear my heart on my sleeve so to speak and been burnt more than once with the feelings shit...so think it might be time to try the one offs for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both simply because why must I choose?

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I have a problem here...I can’t comment as I don’t get either

not on your own

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Neither. Open friendships with good people and getting together when we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for sure

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