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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it cos you can't keep it up when a condom comes into play

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that is actually a really good question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"that is actually a really good question"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am more used to condoms than without so all good here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow where did that question come from then lol. Good one tho I must say. Dont have a problem keeping it up at all with condom on. Can get hard work tho keep putting condoms on or off when switching from oral to full on sex etc etc.

Heres a flip question for all you ladies tho. When a guy takes condom off for you to give him oral does it taste proper mingin then or what? I imagine it may do from the stuff inside the condom that lubricates it and im not talking man dat inside condom lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That thought cross my mind the other day I dont know if was because it was a first meet. Coz was using delay type condoms or not but a meet was hard till condom went on.

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

love bareback with mature ladies ; so much more natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That thought cross my mind the other day I dont know if was because it was a first meet. Coz was using delay type condoms or not but a meet was hard till condom went on. "

Maybe depends what kind of condoms were used and what strengh of thickness. Some are very light for extra feeling aint they but can rip easy. Others look like they have been made by left over inertube from a HGV blow out on the motorway and even castrol GTX couldnt get through to put some feeling into it haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"love bareback with mature ladies ; so much more natural."

Doesn't answer my question though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts "

I so with you there I hate condoms but theres only one man I bare back and no one else at all no ifs buts or maybees every man I meet on here is condoms

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

oh ok. no, just find em annoying. i never saw the correlation but it might affect some .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it cos you can't keep it up when a condom comes into play

unfortunatly that does sometimes happen!!

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Nowadays guys should be used to wearing them so it shouldn't cause problems with erections....

Just make sure you using the correct size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im terrified of ending up with a cock like a toffee crisp, rubber up every time

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By *hooter McGavinMan
over a year ago

Exeter

yes i do tend to stay hard longer without them, also i expect there is no real difference but i prefer mates to Durex as they don't feel as tight, but i would only bare back a partner i am in a serious relationship with, like i heard tonight "no glove no love"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it cos you can't keep it up when a condom comes into play

I find if I'm really aroused it makes no difference, in fact it lasts longer once I put a condom on. you have to add in the things that effect men, a cold room makes me limp, as for alcohol its a no no, age I guess

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

spoke to the house expert on having a penis about this once,curious about how sex with me felt(bb)compared to sex with other people(protected)...his answer of course was there is no comparison i have a perfect pussy

Seriously though kev said there is a difference in sensation,which is what i suspected...i suppose men who want bb are just going for the better sensation over the risks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen the health and safety msg at the bottom of condoms?

Na well in that case your not rolling it back far enough then are you

lol soz its an old joke is that but I just couldnt resist it.

Anyhow back in work tomoz so im off fab now for the week.

Bye all have fun yeah take care xx

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

"oh ok. no, just find em annoying. i never saw the correlation but it might affect some ."

we all find them annoying but are essential if you don't want to risk your health!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't bother me at all.

Trace wasn't on the pill from '95 'till last year so used them all the time.

Can get 'em on and off in a trice and don't really notice that much difference in sensation either.

Also, condoms for anal are mandatory, no matter how well you douche, unless you want to risk a urinary infection.

XXXX

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Also, condoms for anal are mandatory, no matter how well you douche, unless you want to risk a urinary infection.

XXXX"

only if you have vaginal sex after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have already stated, very good question. Last time I played, The Little Porter was all raring to go....

...until I put the mac on, then he didn't want to know.

To be honest, it was a little bit deflating, til I realised that it'd simply been a while since I'd last worn one, and I just wasn't used to it.

Not that I'd ever play without a condom of course(IMHO bareback is a huge matter of trust that is not to be taken lightly)..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fiddling with condoms can be a bit of a turn off.

I have found the best solution....

Get all intimate, and then ask her to help you put one on.

You share the awkwardness, so it goes away.

and if mr happy dips slightly, no problem, a laugh and a kiss sorts that out.

Men feel awkward turning away from an intimate situation to put a foreign body around an intimate body part.

Ladies, help them, for everyones benefit. A giggle goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my OH sometimes finds this but what's more likely is that he finds it hard to cum with a condom on. And sometimes its fine. And sometimes he has sex, doesn't cum, but as soon as the condom is taken off and they suck him, then he cums.

It doesn't bother him because it isn't essential he cums when playing with others (his words not mine). As long as fun is had then that's the main thing.

He has bareback sex with me during the meet with others and therefore he finds it easier to cum then.

Sometimes its a mental thing too, if you think and worry that a condom will diminish sensation then that may have an affect.

I think I must have a slight latex allergy, I haven't figured out which condom brand does it, but if I'm sucking a guy that has previously worn a condom, my tips start to sting and they feel as if they're swelling. It only happens occasionally and I stop when I feel that sensation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* obviously should read lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've encountered the odd drooper with a condom, but I often find that helping out putting them on tends to stop that problem.

BB fun scares me a little. I do think brand has a lot to do with it though - featherlights FTW!

I accidentally got flustered in sainsburies when I picked up the last box of feathrlites and then they told me they couldn't sell that box, and ended up buying the extra safe ones as they were the only ones left. Don't think I'll ever get them used up

Unless I need a disguise to rob a few banks that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fiddling with condoms can be a bit of a turn off.

I have found the best solution....

Get all intimate, and then ask her to help you put one on.

You share the awkwardness, so it goes away.

and if mr happy dips slightly, no problem, a laugh and a kiss sorts that out.

Men feel awkward turning away from an intimate situation to put a foreign body around an intimate body part.

Ladies, help them, for everyones benefit. A giggle goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's the nearest thing to feathlites when having bareback sex?

veinlights

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Fiddling with condoms can be a bit of a turn off.

I have found the best solution....

Get all intimate, and then ask her to help you put one on.

You share the awkwardness, so it goes away.

and if mr happy dips slightly, no problem, a laugh and a kiss sorts that out.

Men feel awkward turning away from an intimate situation to put a foreign body around an intimate body part.

Ladies, help them, for everyones benefit. A giggle goes a long way.

i asked for advice once on putting them on,as i wasnt used to them...the great advice was help...since them i have discovered if u help with your mouth there are no floppy problems.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

My partner has recently told me that he has this problem which has only started since we started swinging.

It has taken a few weeks for him to tell me about the problem with the condoms as he is fine when he is bareback with me. We will now be looking for a condom that works so that everyone is happy.

Shows how important it is to talk to each other about problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no better feeling then sex without a rubber!

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

"I think I must have a slight latex allergy, I haven't figured out which condom brand does it, but if I'm sucking a guy that has previously worn a condom, my tips start to sting and they feel as if they're swelling. It only happens occasionally and I stop when I feel that sensation.

Apparently a brand called skins are very good - they are latex free and aren't too thick either. MrShields always takes them with him when we go to clubs or if we have that rare thing called a 'meet'. (only rare cos I'm not up in Shields as often as I'd like) I'm presuming you get them from Asda as that is his main supermarket. I'll mention it when I chat to him tomorrow (or later today as it's now 3am and I can't sleep) if it's wrong then I'll get him to post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow where did that question come from then lol. Good one tho I must say. Dont have a problem keeping it up at all with condom on. Can get hard work tho keep putting condoms on or off when switching from oral to full on sex etc etc.

yes there is a rubbery taste, its not that nice to be honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you very much, that is rfeally useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it cos you can't keep it up when a condom comes into play

ive seen mine go in a huff when he realises that he is about to be suffocated

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

It is good manners to wipe after taking a condom off and before oral

In our perv bag we have flannels just for this purpose, they are also used to wipe hands when moving between females.

To the original question, on some meets, not on our verifications, the male has tried the "I hate condoms", you can guess our reply, and yes they didn't get it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had any problems covering up

yes better with out.

i have a long term thing going with one lady we got tested then we did not need them , but have to have trust we would with anyone else

my question is you see ads for cream pie cleaners or husband that like to ream pie clean wife how does that work unless you have bare back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah !

don't be so silly

it's because they have a latex intolerance of course

if they didn't, things would be so much different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use Skyns, latex free and pretty cheap from super drug.

Failing that I but french ticklers and put them on inside out so I get all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never thought about that... but had some meets with guys who couldnt keep it up past oral or hand play.. never even associated it with the condoms.,,, maybe your on to something..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"never thought about that... but had some meets with guys who couldnt keep it up past oral or hand play.. never even associated it with the condoms.,,, maybe your on to something.. "

I thinking my meet might have had issue with what ever was in the condoms to make them the delay sort. Gonna take normal ones to next meet I not missing out again lol

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

"no better feeling then sex without a rubber!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Can get hard work tho keep putting condoms on or off when switching from oral to full on sex etc etc.

isnt that just the worse pain in the arse going, altho they are a must they are such a passion killer, i love lots of variety in sex and swapping from sex or oral and back regular etc but i have to admit at times after 3 or 4 times of taking condoms off and putting them back on i sometimes look at it and think sod it cant be arsed dong it again lol

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

My preference is for bareback, but I will happily wear one when the circumstances dictate it is the right thing to do.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

". Can get hard work tho keep putting condoms on or off when switching from oral to full on sex etc etc.

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

same here; def prefer the bb fun -- but if the mature lady i see insists on condom then so be it. though i might not see her again lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why question just the men ? surely there are some women too ? As for the actuall question ... who knows could be a variety of reasons maybe its the type of condom , maybe they struggle to put them on , the de-sensitising affect of them , they are lazy , dont know their choice each to their own .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"same here; def prefer the bb fun -- but if the mature lady i see insists on condom then so be it. though i might not see her again lol. "

to be fair i dont think thats a problem you'll have offen as i doubt many women on here who insists on condoms would meet someone openly advertising for bare back sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why question just the men ? surely there are some women too ? As for the actuall question ... who knows could be a variety of reasons maybe its the type of condom , maybe they struggle to put them on , the de-sensitising affect of them , they are lazy , dont know their choice each to their own .

i think the questions aimed at guys because the question is do they find it hard to keep it up with a condom, a question that dont apply to women really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts "

my thoughts exactly

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

"same here; def prefer the bb fun -- but if the mature lady i see insists on condom then so be it. though i might not see her again lol.

to be fair i dont think thats a problem you'll have offen as i doubt many women on here who insists on condoms would meet someone openly advertising for bare back sex

oh well; c'est la vie

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i always wondered how it would go down if i pulled out some female condoms when i always get asked if i brought any haha , ya never hear of anyone using them tbh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"same here; def prefer the bb fun -- but if the mature lady i see insists on condom then so be it. though i might not see her again lol.

to be fair i dont think thats a problem you'll have offen as i doubt many women on here who insists on condoms would meet someone openly advertising for bare back sex

oh well; c'est la vie

indeed lol

there are lots of people on here who will bare back but i think you just tend to find those who dont wont mix with those who will

Suppose it makes life easier that way

personally i cant feel the difference wether a man has a condom on or not so i honestly cant see the point in not wearing one if i dont get any benifit from it

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public"

i actually think im lower risk, i go to chams most mondays and they have a STI clinic there once a month on a monday so i always just go a little earlier that monday and get fully texted before going off for a play

how many none swingers do you recon gets texted every 4 week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i always wondered how it would go down if i pulled out some female condoms when i always get asked if i brought any haha , ya never hear of anyone using them tbh lol"

i used one once just to see what they was like, wasnt keen and the guy said it was like fucking in a bin bag

noever worked out if he ment the femidom or my fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public"

My thoughts exactly. This does suggest that the ladies on the Fab site poses a higher risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public"

I would only bareback with my partner.. even if only we have sex for a while we still both get tested regularly.. so we both know we are clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public

My thoughts exactly. This does suggest that the ladies on the Fab site poses a higher risk

no it suggests that people that regularly bareback with other people on the site are at a greater risk of STI/D not necessarily a greater risk to you than the "vanilla" community but a greater risk that using condoms... with anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"love bareback with mature ladies ; so much more natural."

What's the difference between mature women and younger women when having bareback sex?

STI's don't care what age, sex or whatever you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops! didn't see the above posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think this is a genderless issue. If (for whatever reason) someone cannot use a condom, then what about the Femidom?

Yes, its a plastic liner for your vagina; a condom is shrink wrap for your dick with a zip tie on the bottom.

At the end of the day it shouldn't just be about who can and cant use condoms - because there is more than just condoms on the market for practising 'Safer Sex'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I think this is a genderless issue. If (for whatever reason) someone cannot use a condom, then what about the Femidom?

Yes, its a plastic liner for your vagina; a condom is shrink wrap for your dick with a zip tie on the bottom.

At the end of the day it shouldn't just be about who can and cant use condoms - because there is more than just condoms on the market for practising 'Safer Sex' "

i dont think anyone does not use condoms because they have problems with them, there are some many on the market now days that if you want to practice safe sex you will find something to suit you, you just need to put a little time and effort into finding whats works best for you

Im my opinion the only people who dont use condoms are people who simply dont care for them so dont want to use them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public

how many none swingers do you recon gets texted every 4 week?"

see I never get this as when I get tested I dont have sex for 2 weeks before or 2 weeks after the test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah that is pointless having a check and then immediatley having sex afters,

when ever ive had a test they have always said not to go with anyone until you get the results.

it kinda means even though you had a test you cant say your clean as you have already done something that has discredited the results of the test!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah that is pointless having a check and then immediatley having sex afters,

when ever ive had a test they have always said not to go with anyone until you get the results.

it kinda means even though you had a test you cant say your clean as you have already done something that has discredited the results of the test!"

That was my thinking as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask to all these that use condoms do u get checked for std s coz u can still pass them

On with oral only safest way to have sex is not to have any at all lol but then id be climbing walls nightmare to live with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant safe sex lol I know Wht I meant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah that is pointless having a check and then immediatley having sex afters,

when ever ive had a test they have always said not to go with anyone until you get the results.

it kinda means even though you had a test you cant say your clean as you have already done something that has discredited the results of the test!

That was my thinking as well "

kinda worries me the logic of the club testing people and letting them play too as the clinic made the point really clear to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public

how many none swingers do you recon gets texted every 4 week?

see I never get this as when I get tested I dont have sex for 2 weeks before or 2 weeks after the test

Most clinics now can give you a result the same day so why wouldnt you have sex for two weeks before or two weeks after?

Even if they didnt give you same day results, i can understand not wanting to play till after you get them but why not have sex for two weeks before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 12/03/12 11:12:54]"

because as the clinic told me It takes up to 2 weeks for anything to show so pointless getting tested before and seeing as how I get the full works done and those tests take days to grow have always waited till I have had results which is 2 weeks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah that is pointless having a check and then immediatley having sex afters,

when ever ive had a test they have always said not to go with anyone until you get the results.

it kinda means even though you had a test you cant say your clean as you have already done something that has discredited the results of the test!

That was my thinking as well

kinda worries me the logic of the club testing people and letting them play too as the clinic made the point really clear to me "

shouldnt loose to much sleep over it lol

Lots of people go and the clinic goes round lots of clubs so im guess its works

Ive never had a problem, i dont think i need to go as regular as 4 weeks but as im at the club anyway i cant see the point in not going

whats the difference in me going every 6 months, waiting for 2 weeks after my test and then playing for another 24 weeks straight thro or going every 4 weeks and not taking a break every two week?

if i went to the club and didnt get tested id play so whats the difference if i play after i have been texted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw someone mention the B word the other day on a thread, and thought 'hmm I wonder how long's its gonna take to surface?' - lol

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clinics I am aware of do not give results the same day. They have to send the bloods/swabs to the lab for testing. Microbiologists do not have the resources to test the same day and cultures need time to develop.

What clinics do though is ascertain the level of risk by asking questions and if a person felt they could be at risk, then treat them at the time of testing ie, chlamydia / gonhorrea can be treated fairly easily by tablet and injection and won't cause any harm to the patient if the test results came back clear.

But obviously clinics do ask people to abstain from bareback sex in particular because without definite negative results, you could be passing infection on.

Just because a person goes to the clinic for a test, does not make them any lower risk. The actual risk taking in sex is the issue not how regular a person attends a clinic.

Women on here aren't at any higher risk than in the vanilla world, in fact maybe they are less risk because many who partake in this hobby take their sexual health serious enough to keep safe.

And my OH sometimes finds it difficult to cum in condoms. If that is the case then he may have sex but he just wouldn't cum. A woman on a meet is not important to risk his health for. So he keeps the condom on and just doesn't cum, not a biggie really. The only people the two of us have bareback sex with is each other.

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

the barebackers will inherit the earth -- not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used one once just to see what they was like, wasnt keen and the guy said it was like fucking in a bin bag

noever worked out if he ment the femidom or my fanny

hahahhaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how many none swingers do you recon gets texted every 4 week?"

judging from talks with friends most never do.. unless something is suspected as being wrong.

I get tested roughly every 4 weeks.. sometimes its nearer 6, just depends on when I have my normal bloods done. I dont refrain before but do after, except with each other or orally.

We hate condoms.. feels naff for me, naff for Master, and most guys I have met are all hard for oral.. put a condom on.. and its not great.

but its mostly something that we just have to get around.

To be fair Master doesnt really bother fucking other women.. purely because he hates sex with condoms.. but if he does have another woman will use one.

We mostly use them with other men.. but to be fair I give oral mostly (without) but this is why we like to find one regular guy.. as then we will not use them for that one person.

I think 99% of men I have been with struggle once a condom is put on.

and yes it tastes foul when you take a condom off.. so if they fuck me they can wank over my face or pussy or arse to finish off..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Funny that the men that are soo keen on bareback haven't actually answered the question... if I had said I was a big fan of said bareback, they'd be queueing up to discuss the matter!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ok...

Honest answer is no since I discovered XL condoms, the other things strangle it to death.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok...

Honest answer is no since I discovered XL condoms, the other things strangle it to death.

Wolf

i thought i was having the same problem until i realised i was using water balloons by mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, condoms for anal are mandatory, no matter how well you douche, unless you want to risk a urinary infection.

XXXX

only if you have vaginal sex after"

What about the guy, infections don't do sexual discrimination!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, condoms for anal are mandatory, no matter how well you douche, unless you want to risk a urinary infection.

XXXX

only if you have vaginal sex after

What about the guy, infections don't do sexual discrimination!

XXXX"

what difference does it make if you have a condom on or not? if your swapping from anal to vaginal sex and you have a condom on how is that going to stop passing whatever it is that gives you this urinary infection when you going into the vagina after anal? its just going to be on the condom instead of the bare cock surely?

or am i reading this wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, condoms for anal are mandatory, no matter how well you douche, unless you want to risk a urinary infection.

XXXX

only if you have vaginal sex after

What about the guy, infections don't do sexual discrimination!

XXXX

or am i reading this wrong"

Surely no guy would use the same condom for both, or any woman allow it either!

We were talking about bareback and anal between long term couples.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts

my thoughts exactly

who would you bareback with

someone you are in a relationship with?

a woman you meet in a nightclub

not having a pop but just because we are ALL on here doesn't make us ALL a higher risk than joe & josephine public

My thoughts exactly. This does suggest that the ladies on the Fab site poses a higher risk

The poster had stated that " Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts" which stipulates "women on here " hence suggests that we are a greater risk than "vanilla" females. Think females/males on here are more aware of the risks of STi/Ds and most (not all)would take the necessary precautions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, condoms for anal are mandatory, no matter how well you douche, unless you want to risk a urinary infection.

XXXX

only if you have vaginal sex after

What about the guy, infections don't do sexual discrimination!

XXXX

or am i reading this wrong

Surely no guy would use the same condom for both, or any woman allow it either!

We were talking about bareback and anal between long term couples.

XXXX"

oh well being beilly no mates anything between long term couples aint my specialist subject lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely no guy would use the same condom for both, or any woman allow it either!

had to re quote that again because ive just had to think about it and i have to admit if a guy was wearing a condom and was having anal then yes i would let him do me vaginally after, its my arse he cant give me something i dont already have surely?

i have a feeling now im going to regreat asking that as i have a feeling im now going to be told loads of facts as to why thats not a good idea that i never knew about lol

but i also have to state that even tho i have done this in the past i do have regular checks ups and ive never had a problem so its never accured to me it may not be safe???

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Surely no guy would use the same condom for both, or any woman allow it either!

i have a feeling now im going to regreat asking that as i have a feeling im now going to be told loads of facts as to why thats not a good idea that i never knew about lol

but i also have to state that even tho i have done this in the past i do have regular checks ups and ive never had a problem so its never accured to me it may not be safe???

There is a very low risk of a uti...and the swinging police will tell u that all sex not in there full body armored suits is WRONG

As a non swinger i say,me too...i prefer my fun spontaneos and manage my own risks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely no guy would use the same condom for both, or any woman allow it either!

i have a feeling now im going to regreat asking that as i have a feeling im now going to be told loads of facts as to why thats not a good idea that i never knew about lol

but i also have to state that even tho i have done this in the past i do have regular checks ups and ive never had a problem so its never accured to me it may not be safe???

There is a very low risk of a uti...and the swinging police will tell u that all sex not in there full body armored suits is WRONG

As a non swinger i say,me too...i prefer my fun spontaneos and manage my own risks"

well yes me too

And tho id never meet someone off here and do anal to vaginal un protected id would assum if they wear a condom the only thing that could be passed is whats in your own body anyway so how can it not be safe?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Surely no guy would use the same condom for both, or any woman allow it either!

i have a feeling now im going to regreat asking that as i have a feeling im now going to be told loads of facts as to why thats not a good idea that i never knew about lol

but i also have to state that even tho i have done this in the past i do have regular checks ups and ive never had a problem so its never accured to me it may not be safe???

There is a very low risk of a uti...and the swinging police will tell u that all sex not in there full body armored suits is WRONG

As a non swinger i say,me too...i prefer my fun spontaneos and manage my own risks

well yes me too

bluntly...poo carries nasty stuff in in which can give u an infection...but in 22 years of doing it with kev i have never got one...and antibiotic can clear it up.

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over a year ago

Surely no guy would use the same condom for both, or any woman allow it either!

i have a feeling now im going to regreat asking that as i have a feeling im now going to be told loads of facts as to why thats not a good idea that i never knew about lol

but i also have to state that even tho i have done this in the past i do have regular checks ups and ive never had a problem so its never accured to me it may not be safe???

There is a very low risk of a uti...and the swinging police will tell u that all sex not in there full body armored suits is WRONG

As a non swinger i say,me too...i prefer my fun spontaneos and manage my own risks

well yes me too

Ever wonder why you were always told to wipe your pussy from front to back instead of the opposite?

Just good old common sense really but we all make our own choices and take our own risks.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bluntly...poo carries nasty stuff in in which can give u an infection...but in 22 years of doing it with kev i have never got one...and antibiotic can clear it up."

oh you see i never think of things like that in the heat of the moment and as i said because ive never had a problem in the past its never accured to me i could give myself something lol

See we're never to old to learn

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By *ady H and steveCouple
over a year ago

raylirgh

it makes us wonder how many people actually catch something from bareback at clubs or swinging at home.

do you know of anyone ??

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By *anoman1Man
over a year ago

london

Play safe!! If there is problems when wearing a condom, refer to viagra

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By *anoman1Man
over a year ago

london

Play safe!! If there is problems when wearing a condom, refer to viagra

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By *anoman1Man
over a year ago

london

Play safe!! If there is problems when wearing a condom, refer to viagra

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By *anoman1Man
over a year ago

london

Play safe!! If there is problems when wearing a condom, refer to viagra

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By *anoman1Man
over a year ago

london

Play safe!! If there is problems when wearing a condom, refer to viagra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if you use flavoured condoms!! A cock that taste of chocolate and spunk YUMMMMMY!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id never bear back any woman on here... thats crazy... just my thoughts "

Just on here ? Tut tut

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By *tavangerMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Actually I love condoms, find them really exciting, not sure why, but just the thought of putting one on gets me hard......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Not if you use flavoured condoms!! A cock that taste of chocolate and spunk YUMMMMMY!!!

PMSL!!!!! And what a pity you're in Pontefract!!!! Damn! Just invested in a gross of Charbonnet & Walker Trojan XL's too...... Bollocks!

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always wear a condom and that will never change.

dont care what others think my health comes first.

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By *exy milf 1962Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

OMG!!

Seriously can't believe that ppl in 2012 would STILL contemplate Bare~Back with strangers etc!!!

For me it's 1 Million% safesex "all~the~way" My sexual health is parramount & FAR OUTWAYS any small difference there is in the feeling i get "without a condom" & TBPH when arroused long enough,ya really cant tell its on (and obviously lubey Lube) helps considerably IF 4play is lacking of time is short etc x

Seriously though ~ ALL the fab ppl i've met and spoke with on here ,at clubs and or met in person ,ALL wouldnt dream of having unprotected sex with ANY1 OTHER THANtheir "REGULAR"partner ,spouse,B/F ,Fiance etc and JUST "presumed WE ALL FELT THE SAME !!! OMG!!! ~ what IF ya caught Herpes 2 or HIV?Aids etc ~ these are for life!!! ~ it's not like a dose of the clap n it's 4 tablets and "Bob's ya Uncle ya know!!

I still get checked after a meet and have throat swabs done !! ~ as STI's CAN BE PASSED "Orally" which i didnt know could happen

So obviously ~ Mutual ORAL SEX is "unprotected",so that's Russian Roulette i a way,if ya think abt it x

But i feel the cleanliness aspect kicks in here ~ like never go from Anal to Vaginal n back etc (Thrush or Cystitus OR even worse ~just 4 the sake of a good wet wipe down and a "wash" done in a sexywayx

That LATEX TASTE is also just F***ing awful and lingers 4 Hrs @ the back of ya throat ~ so 4 me it's Oral as 4play anyday & so much nicer 4 both parties x

I've met ppl that wanted to go from Backdoor to Front without a break,but NOWAY HOSE!! LOL x

I also love a shower together and is also a gawjus sexy way of finishing a Gud meet off ~as there's nothing betta than snogging naked with ya back to to a pounding hot powershower,thenswapping round whilst ya wash his bits for ya aswell in return

so rant over !!! ~ bare back isnt CLEVER ~ IT'S DOWN RIGHT PATHETIC and any1 that would consider it or does BB on a regular basis with multiple parties

~ is simply "dicing with death" and doesnot Value THEIR OWN SEXUAL HEALTH @ALL !!!!! ~ No amount of tiny differnce in sensitivity is surely WORTH THE RISK of the "possiliblty of catching or passing on STI/STD's or worse 4 that matter !!! ~ I'm shocked that there's FABmembers that do are are soooooo clearly "Blarzay" about this ,and @ some point "almost bragging abt the fact that THEY DO

WE MUST NOT BE THE ONLY MEMBERS THAT THINK SO STRONGLY ABT THIS ~ 4 US IT'S 1,000,000% NO GLOVE = NO LUV !!!!

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By *exy milf 1962Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

AND B4 LOL ~ WE GET "bombarded" with messages pointing out the quite obvious BB Avitar ~

;-) THAT'S ME N MY OTHER HALF !!" ~ just in case sum clever sod looked up and said wtf!! lol x x x x

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