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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person "

I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex. "

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person

I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex. "

Who said anything about paying for sex

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would rather fund my own lifestyle than have any man to thank for doing so.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Block/report.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather fund my own lifestyle than have any man to thank for doing so."

Yes and thats fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block/report. "

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation ! "

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I can see how some people get off on it. If everyone is happy then it’s not my problem

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement."

Your implication is clear, and you know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person

I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

Who said anything about paying for sex "

You are implying you are willing to be a "sugar daddy" . A sugar daddy pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex with a person who probably wouldn't have sex with them otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see how some people get off on it. If everyone is happy then it’s not my problem "

I dint see what the problem is if both parts are happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?"

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person

I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

Who said anything about paying for sex

You are implying you are willing to be a "sugar daddy" . A sugar daddy pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex with a person who probably wouldn't have sex with them otherwise. "

It's more about been controlled and stuff like that nothing to do with sex

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person

I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

Who said anything about paying for sex ..exactly

You are implying you are willing to be a "sugar daddy" . A sugar daddy pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex with a person who probably wouldn't have sex with them otherwise. "

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why "

Too many judgmental people

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex "

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person

I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

Who said anything about paying for sex

You are implying you are willing to be a "sugar daddy" . A sugar daddy pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex with a person who probably wouldn't have sex with them otherwise. "

The idea that the person wouldn't normally have sex with them is a huge assumption. It maybe that they both want to have sex but like the added kink of ownership via gifts.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

At 54 my sugar daddy would need to be in his 80's at least ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you bit young mate to be a sugar daddy yet haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why

Too many judgmental people "

Your right there is to many judgemental people

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why

Too many judgmental people "

It's against the rules of the site. There begins and ends my judgment.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why

Too many judgmental people "

Too true. I'm always amazed by the judgmental and those with a closed mind on a site that is about being the very opposite.

A sugar daddy type scenario/relationship does not have to be about sex at all.

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why

Too many judgmental people

It's against the rules of the site. There begins and ends my judgment. "

Not only judgemental, but incorrect too.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

If it makes everyone happy, I don't see the problem.

It's not really paying for sex if you're buying someone gifts etc.

I need one to fund my sex toy fetish!

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"If it makes everyone happy, I don't see the problem.

It's not really paying for sex if you're buying someone gifts etc.

I need one to fund my sex toy fetish! "

Now that made me smile. With a good sugar daddy you shouldn't really need many toys lol

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"If it makes everyone happy, I don't see the problem.

It's not really paying for sex if you're buying someone gifts etc.

I need one to fund my sex toy fetish! "

Great to see a light-hearted post. Mwah ! xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why

Too many judgmental people

Too true. I'm always amazed by the judgmental and those with a closed mind on a site that is about being the very opposite.

A sugar daddy type scenario/relationship does not have to be about sex at all. "

You will always get judgemental people I just dont have time for people like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sugar Daddy?

What if the poor young woman was diabetic?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I don't think the sugar daddy scenario is about money. It's about ownership and control. But the tools used are gifts as opposed to toys. If both parties are willing what's the issue?

I think a few people have issues with it and I dint get why

Too many judgmental people

It's against the rules of the site. There begins and ends my judgment. "

But it isn't really, he isn't paying for sex or exchanging money for services, he's looking for a particular style of relationship that involves giving gifts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it makes everyone happy, I don't see the problem.

It's not really paying for sex if you're buying someone gifts etc.

I need one to fund my sex toy fetish! "

People are just to judgemental then it comes to this kinda stuff its just like female led relationships people are just the same with that as well

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"If it makes everyone happy, I don't see the problem.

It's not really paying for sex if you're buying someone gifts etc.

I need one to fund my sex toy fetish! "

This!

And my lingerie / latex / shoe fetish.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I am a supper daddy. I have 4 supper kids.. and a wonderful wife hehe. Yes it’s not mentioned in my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it makes everyone happy, I don't see the problem.

It's not really paying for sex if you're buying someone gifts etc.

I need one to fund my sex toy fetish!

This!

And my lingerie / latex / shoe fetish. "

See here comes the light hearted people that dont take things to seriously and it's good to see

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If it makes everyone happy, I don't see the problem.

It's not really paying for sex if you're buying someone gifts etc.

I need one to fund my sex toy fetish!

Now that made me smile. With a good sugar daddy you shouldn't really need many toys lol"

I want the toys though, I love experimenting.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction."

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction.. "

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then. "

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship... "

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction. "

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come.. "

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

Your implication is clear, and you know that."

Yes my statement was very clear fabswingers is a site for swingers to meet.

It isn't a vehicle for prostitutes or their clients to advertise for each other. There are other sites which cater for that.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

Your implication is clear, and you know that.

Yes my statement was very clear fabswingers is a site for swingers to meet.

It isn't a vehicle for prostitutes or their clients to advertise for each other. There are other sites which cater for that."

Wow, he didn't even do that.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

Your implication is clear, and you know that.

Yes my statement was very clear fabswingers is a site for swingers to meet.

It isn't a vehicle for prostitutes or their clients to advertise for each other. There are other sites which cater for that."

Then why are there so many singles here if it's for swingers?

So should all the single people be forces to leave and only couples who are truly swingers remain?

People use this place for a lot of things and the poor guy never mentioned money. And merely asked a question.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol. "

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

Your implication is clear, and you know that.

Yes my statement was very clear fabswingers is a site for swingers to meet.

It isn't a vehicle for prostitutes or their clients to advertise for each other. There are other sites which cater for that."

You dont have a clue do you

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

Your implication is clear, and you know that.

Yes my statement was very clear fabswingers is a site for swingers to meet.

It isn't a vehicle for prostitutes or their clients to advertise for each other. There are other sites which cater for that.

Then why are there so many singles here if it's for swingers?

So should all the single people be forces to leave and only couples who are truly swingers remain?

People use this place for a lot of things and the poor guy never mentioned money. And merely asked a question.

"

Eh, you can be a single swinger..

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside.. "

My husband takes me shopping in exchange for sex.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside.. "

I never said anything about sex so what would it be if I took someone shopping and that was it

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

Your implication is clear, and you know that.

Yes my statement was very clear fabswingers is a site for swingers to meet.

It isn't a vehicle for prostitutes or their clients to advertise for each other. There are other sites which cater for that.

Then why are there so many singles here if it's for swingers?

So should all the single people be forces to leave and only couples who are truly swingers remain?

People use this place for a lot of things and the poor guy never mentioned money. And merely asked a question.

Eh, you can be a single swinger.. "

Swingers are couples who choose to have an open relationship, allowing their partners to have sex with other people. You can't have an open relationship if you're single. So no is the answer.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I don't think you're allowed to advertise that your willing to pay for sex.

At best a somewhat presumptuous statement, at worst a downright rude accusation !

Did I accuse anyone of anything. I made a statement.

Your implication is clear, and you know that.

Yes my statement was very clear fabswingers is a site for swingers to meet.

It isn't a vehicle for prostitutes or their clients to advertise for each other. There are other sites which cater for that.

Then why are there so many singles here if it's for swingers?

So should all the single people be forces to leave and only couples who are truly swingers remain?

People use this place for a lot of things and the poor guy never mentioned money. And merely asked a question.

Eh, you can be a single swinger..

Swingers are couples who choose to have an open relationship, allowing their partners to have sex with other people. You can't have an open relationship if you're single. So no is the answer. "

I’ll let you look it up first..

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

I never said anything about sex so what would it be if I took someone shopping and that was it "

You’re the one that brought the subject up..

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside.. "

Are you trying to imply I've let a man buy me stuff in exchange for sex?

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

Are you trying to imply I've let a man buy me stuff in exchange for sex? "

Do I also need to explain hypothetical..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

I never said anything about sex so what would it be if I took someone shopping and that was it

You’re the one that brought the subject up.. "

And your the one saying I am doing it for sex so i am asking you what it is call if I just took someone shopping and that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a difference between a sugar daddy fantasy (younger girl look older boy notional treats) and a more "professional" relationship?

Or are any relationship of imbalance evil?

I think the last.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

I never said anything about sex so what would it be if I took someone shopping and that was it

You’re the one that brought the subject up..

And your the one saying I am doing it for sex so i am asking you what it is call if I just took someone shopping and that's all "

Eh I didn’t, as you’re not a sugar daddy..

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

Are you trying to imply I've let a man buy me stuff in exchange for sex?

Do I also need to explain hypothetical.. "

'A sugar daddy is usually a generous older man who spends lavishly on his mistress, girlfriend or boyfriend.'

Tell me where it says exchanging gifts for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

I never said anything about sex so what would it be if I took someone shopping and that was it

You’re the one that brought the subject up..

And your the one saying I am doing it for sex so i am asking you what it is call if I just took someone shopping and that's all

Eh I didn’t, as you’re not a sugar daddy.. "

So now your saying if you take someone shopping and dont get sex after it you ain't a sugar daddy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

my partner jokes that if instead of meeting me he had gone with a prostitute it would of cost him less and he would have more sex

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

Are you trying to imply I've let a man buy me stuff in exchange for sex?

Do I also need to explain hypothetical..

'A sugar daddy is usually a generous older man who spends lavishly on his mistress, girlfriend or boyfriend.'

Tell me where it says exchanging gifts for sex.

"

a rich and usually older man who buys presents for or gives money to a younger person, especially a woman, usually so that the younger person will spend time with him and have a sexual relationship with him.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

Are you trying to imply I've let a man buy me stuff in exchange for sex?

Do I also need to explain hypothetical..

'A sugar daddy is usually a generous older man who spends lavishly on his mistress, girlfriend or boyfriend.'

Tell me where it says exchanging gifts for sex.

"

" mistress, girlfriend or boyfriend.'"

These words indicate a sexual relationship of some sort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my partner jokes that if instead of meeting me he had gone with a prostitute it would of cost him less and he would have more sex "

Now that made me laugh

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


" pays for stuff, rent, goods, food ect. Therefore they are paying for sex

Nope. They are paying for "stuff, rent, goods, food ect.[sic]" Nice contradiction.

It’s an exchange for services, I suppose you can dress it up whatever way you want to suit a narrative but at the end of the day it boils back to the same transaction..

It's a form of relationship, by your logic every relationship is an exchange of services then.

And picking up a woman on a street corner is also a form of relationship...

Not really though is it? It's a business transaction.

As I said, things can be dressed up but be the same out come..

But this isn't even the same thing lol.

Not sure where the confusion is.. If a man took you shopping in exchange for sex, what is that? Putting any possible past experiences aside..

I never said anything about sex so what would it be if I took someone shopping and that was it

You’re the one that brought the subject up..

And your the one saying I am doing it for sex so i am asking you what it is call if I just took someone shopping and that's all

Eh I didn’t, as you’re not a sugar daddy..

So now your saying if you take someone shopping and dont get sex after it you ain't a sugar daddy"

Are you a fish and forget everything you write..

YOU said you’re not..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

op your 27 who would you be planning on being a sugar daddy for?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

So if a guy takes me out for dinner on a date, if he pays, am I expected to have sex with him. Always felt uncomfortable on that one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"op your 27 who would you be planning on being a sugar daddy for?"

You can be a sugar daddy to anyone it's just a name for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person "
Are you wealthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's peoples thoughts on it I cant say I wouldn't do it for the right person Are you wealthy? "

There you go, OP. Snagged one already....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Asking for a sugar daddy or offering to be one is against site rules.

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