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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? " Start a couples profile and say you meet separately, offer for women to talk to your wife so they know she exists | |||
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"We do have a couple page ad well xx " Maybe refer to that on your profile, makes it more legit sounding | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? " We don't knowingly meet married men To much potential drama, And Im sure you can understand not all men are being completely honest on here. Not judging just saying. | |||
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"She does And we both play with others " Of course | |||
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"We do have a couple page ad well xx " I would reference that couple's profile. It may help people believe you are playing with permission Holly | |||
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"She does And we both play with others " so you do get to play ? I’m confused as you state in your op that you don’t get any interest from females or couples | |||
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"If the guy is honest about being married then him being married isn't an issue,it's the lies that are the issue" Not sure if being honest has helps me at all, usual response is I don’t meet married men, yet there are a load of married women out there doing exactly the same and nobody bats an eyelid | |||
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"We do have a couple page ad well xx I would reference that couple's profile. It may help people believe you are playing with permission Holly" put them teeth away | |||
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"We do have a couple page ad well xx " What’s her username? | |||
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"Not finding anything for bbwckick. You spelt that correctly, op?" Maybe a spelling mistake? I tried .... bbwchick .... that person lives on the other side of the country, is married but partner doesn’t know ...... something not quite making sense in my opinion | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? " People like what they like its all about choice and you can't make them want to meet you. Everyone has reasons so respect their reasons. | |||
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"Sorry its bbw ckick xxx" That's better. Definitely getting her to veri you and saying she approves will help your cause, maybe reference the couples profile too. Always best to inform the reader than let them come to their own conclusions which can be to your detriment as you're finding out. | |||
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"I wouldn't meet a married man as I can't fucking stand cheats " That's right! All married men are cheats. The lot on em' | |||
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"People are naturally a little skeptical on here. Maybe you have more success at a social where people could get a better feel for you in real life?" By that I mean a organised social type night. | |||
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"Its not cheating if hubby and wife are part of a swinging reletionship and both have each others consent. And both enjoy it. We have no secrets xxxx and its great. " As has been said, put the name of your couples/wife's profile in your bio plus get her to verify you saying she knows! Problem solved! Then you are obviously not cheating | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence" Ouch! | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence Ouch!" Very harsh wasnt it lol | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence Ouch! Very harsh wasnt it lol" Its their lives and their drama. | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence" That's really spiteful | |||
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"Your wife’s profile doesn’t exist???" found the profile no problems | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence That's really spiteful " I agree, i would be very wary of anyone whos willing to expose people. | |||
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"Swinging is generally a couples sport, something missing from the table doesn’t help " How would that work with threesomes without us singles then? Would you borrow someone's wife or husband for the occasion? | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence" If you read his posts, both him and his wife play separately as well. Where did anyone or the OP state he was cheating. That's just plain nasty. I'm assuming you'd be happy for someone to do this with either of you too if either of you ever cheated on each other? Nobody is ever perfect and you could well find yourself in their shoes in the future. Don't hurt yourself falling of that high horse, will you? | |||
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"Yeah...totally agree...why come on here say you will meet men then block all males ???" If you use reply and quote we know who you are replying to. X | |||
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"Yeah...totally agree...why come on here say you will meet men then block all males ??? If you use reply and quote we know who you are replying to. X" I havent | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence" And thats why some couples get such a bad reputation.. they spoil it for all the good ones. | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence" Try reading his posts before you go all self-righteous | |||
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"Yeah...totally agree...why come on here say you will meet men then block all males ??? If you use reply and quote we know who you are replying to. X I havent " Not you, I meant this guy, Horny bastard lol. | |||
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"It's not spiteful it's exposing yet another cheat we don't tolerate it at all and yes that's our choice and if you choose to cheat you should be able to accept the consequences." | |||
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"Not been aggressive your just reading it aggressively" No, I'm perfectly calm. Changing the subject completely, how does Mrs get her eyeliner so straight with the winged bits in your pics and which mascara does she use? I need to get a new one. | |||
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"Not been aggressive your just reading it aggressively No, I'm perfectly calm. Changing the subject completely, how does Mrs get her eyeliner so straight with the winged bits in your pics and which mascara does she use? I need to get a new one. " I think it's snapchat or a filter. | |||
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"Not been aggressive your just reading it aggressively No, I'm perfectly calm. Changing the subject completely, how does Mrs get her eyeliner so straight with the winged bits in your pics and which mascara does she use? I need to get a new one. I think it's snapchat or a filter. " Ahh, OK beat I keep looking then, thanks. Didn't realise you could get filters to do that, I don't use them unless it's crop or something like b/w. | |||
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"Not been aggressive your just reading it aggressively" No it is aggressively written. | |||
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"If the guy is honest about being married then him being married isn't an issue,it's the lies that are the issue" i was going to say something on the same lines. its a swinging and sex contact site. | |||
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"No it's not we just don't tolerate cheaters end of story " i am not a cheater you just dont get it do? OMG | |||
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"No it's not we just don't tolerate cheaters end of story i am not a cheater you just dont get it do? OMG " ps if you read what i oringally said wife nows and supports me !!!! | |||
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"No it's not we just don't tolerate cheaters end of story i am not a cheater you just dont get it do? OMG ps if you read what i oringally said wife nows and supports me !!!!" why do i get the impreesion your coments are amiad at me ? | |||
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"Murderers get exposed thieves get exposed pedophile gets exposed all these affect a family's and destroys family's and so do cheaters so yes they need to be exposed" There’s many people (not on here obviously) that would put swingers in the same bracket or label them as perverts. | |||
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"Totally agree but pedophile and perverts are different" i am on here for some harmless fun xxxx | |||
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your back" whatch this space she will later. | |||
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. " you don’t have to prove anything fella. | |||
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. " thankyou very much xxxx | |||
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence Ouch!" double ouch | |||
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. thankyou very much xxxx" you dont have to no but it would substantiate what you've said wouldn't it........ Job done | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? " The answer is simple. Go to a club. There are many couples and women like me who get a thrill out of anonymous sex, and when we play in a club we aren't particularly interested in finding out about your private life. As long as you're clean, polite and show respect there will be plenty who are happy and willing to play irrespective of your marital status. | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? The answer is simple. Go to a club. There are many couples and women like me who get a thrill out of anonymous sex, and when we play in a club we aren't particularly interested in finding out about your private life. As long as you're clean, polite and show respect there will be plenty who are happy and willing to play irrespective of your marital status." See that’s more constructive. | |||
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"I never said you was" Then who were you referring to as you mention a persons verifications and the time they have been on the site? | |||
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. " Exactly. | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? The answer is simple. Go to a club. There are many couples and women like me who get a thrill out of anonymous sex, and when we play in a club we aren't particularly interested in finding out about your private life. As long as you're clean, polite and show respect there will be plenty who are happy and willing to play irrespective of your marital status." This is why we like clubs too | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? " Ignoring the (inevitable) “we hate cheaters” digression, OP; your profile could do with sprucing up somewhat. It currently reads like English isn’t your first language | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? Ignoring the (inevitable) “we hate cheaters” digression, OP; your profile could do with sprucing up somewhat. It currently reads like English isn’t your first language " I did say about the profile near the top of the thread but turned into a witch hunt of "cheating men" | |||
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. thankyou very much xxxx" Tony, couples even if they play apart should talk through a couples profile it shows both can read and there's less chance of secrets there for less chance of others thinking your cheating | |||
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"Swinging is generally a couples sport, something missing from the table doesn’t help How would that work with threesomes without us singles then? Would you borrow someone's wife or husband for the occasion? " | |||
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? Ignoring the (inevitable) “we hate cheaters” digression, OP; your profile could do with sprucing up somewhat. It currently reads like English isn’t your first language I did say about the profile near the top of the thread but turned into a witch hunt of "cheating men" " I felt that was very unfair to the OP. Had nothing to do with his OP. | |||
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"The Ops not cheating he's part of a couple his wife or partner let's him shag who he wants and visa versa and if your partner is pretty can I perhaps be thought of, I've got your back Op wink wink " | |||
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. thankyou very much xxxx Tony, couples even if they play apart should talk through a couples profile it shows both can read and there's less chance of secrets there for less chance of others thinking your cheating" That would be a logistical nightmare when both parties are looking for totally different things. It also doesn't prove anything as anyone can set up a couples profile. I personally know a woman who's ex is continuing to use their old couples profile without her. If someone wants to talk to my partner, I'm happy to arrange that. Surely it's also more obvious it's legit to see an active singles profile for the other partner than a couples profile as it would be hell of a lot of effort to create a whole fake partners account with verifications, statuses and pictures posted over time. It would be easier just to pretend to be single if you were that intent on being dishonest. | |||
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