FabSwingers.com forum: Photo impression versus in-the-flesh

By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

It is a fact of life that we form impressions based on what we see on photos. I would like to know; how many of you have been in a situation like the following. You have rejected somebody because their photo wasn’t to your liking. And then, you saw that same person in a club or somewhere and you thought “f@ck he/she doesn’t look that bad actually”. So, if you thought that, what did you next? Did you “make a move” or did you just keep your distance because, “once the glass is broken, it’s broken” so to speak?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is a fact of life that we form impressions based on what we see on photos. I would like to know; how many of you have been in a situation like the following. You have rejected somebody because their photo wasn’t to your liking. And then, you saw that same person in a club or somewhere and you thought “f@ck he/she doesn’t look that bad actually”. So, if you thought that, what did you next? Did you “make a move” or did you just keep your distance because, “once the glass is broken, it’s broken” so to speak? "

topic hit in the very center .... thank you ..... I hate myself to take pictures of myself ... I feel not photogenic ..... how to remedy this?

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't tend to look at a person in a club and say "I bet that's (username)". I look at them as I find them.