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32 year old and 45+ is it weird or not??

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Ok ok. Now I know everyone says each to there own etc how ever I really want to sleep with an older lady at the minute. Older the better however 45+ would be nice.

For me there’s just something about the older lady normally bustier, wear much nicer clothes and that whole experience thing drives me wild.

So, what’s people’s thoughts is it acceptable or not? For example tinder looking for older women just isn’t happening

What do we all think

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

I'm 50. My fwb is 29. So what you are suggesting isn't shocking

Go for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

Don't think anyone would bat an eyelid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 47 my Dom is 36 love a younger man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not weird x actually horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 24 and would love a woman 48+

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

I enjoy younger and older age doesn't come in to it, it's the attraction that counts not the age

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Thankyou everyone

So looks like I just need to be patient and keep searching for that older lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok. Now I know everyone says each to there own etc how ever I really want to sleep with an older lady at the minute. Older the better however 45+ would be nice.

For me there’s just something about the older lady normally bustier, wear much nicer clothes and that whole experience thing drives me wild.

So, what’s people’s thoughts is it acceptable or not? For example tinder looking for older women just isn’t happening

What do we all think "

Tinder works fine for me for

Older and younger, no one gives a shit really. Plus not like everyone will know the age gaps anyway unless you walk about with a sign saying your 32 on the front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not weird, If you feel well about her then it's fine, don't worry about it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not weird at all x

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Not weird at all x"

Thankyou. Love the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy regular last year, he was 33

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older the berry, the sweeter the juice

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not weird at all x

Thankyou. Love the profile "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with that at all. Have at it OP

Holly

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm 30 (K) and I've slept with a 55 year old. He was good!!

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I prefer younger guys. In general, not saying everyone so don't get your Y-fronts in a twist, but in general I find they have a more positive attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it, you are a grown man. Some older ladies look great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok. Now I know everyone says each to there own etc how ever I really want to sleep with an older lady at the minute. Older the better however 45+ would be nice.

For me there’s just something about the older lady normally bustier, wear much nicer clothes and that whole experience thing drives me wild.

So, what’s people’s thoughts is it acceptable or not? For example tinder looking for older women just isn’t happening

What do we all think "

Perfectly acceptable

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Ok ok. Now I know everyone says each to there own etc how ever I really want to sleep with an older lady at the minute. Older the better however 45+ would be nice.

For me there’s just something about the older lady normally bustier, wear much nicer clothes and that whole experience thing drives me wild.

So, what’s people’s thoughts is it acceptable or not? For example tinder looking for older women just isn’t happening

What do we all think "

Acceptable to who? You're both consenting adults... personally I love older women, 60+ really does it for me

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely nothing wrong with an age gap in either direction, I enjoy the company of younger men and women

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Nothing wrong. I love (and have slept with) men MUCH older than me as well as MUCH younger. All good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks as long as it makes you happy then go for it

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Bustier? 55 years old, 36A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer younger guys. In general, not saying everyone so don't get your Y-fronts in a twist, but in general I find they have a more positive attitude."

I (Hev) find this too, younger men have more stamina and are less likely to think you are their new FB after one meet. I find them less demanding. I am 55 I prefer under 30-45 year old men.

Charlie likes younger females/males also x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your both happy and legal ... Just enjoy yourselves

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Thanks for the reply’s everyone really appreciate it. Gives me faith in the whole age gap scenario after all

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I will be 54 on Friday . I have never slept with anyone older than 41. That will change in November when he turns 42

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I will be 54 on Friday . I have never slept with anyone older than 41. That will change in November when he turns 42 "

Ha ha I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not weird at all. I much prefer people older than me

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I much prefer younger men .... and there’s a lot younger then me

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I much prefer younger men .... and there’s a lot younger then me "

And not to far from me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soo weird that is, can't believe you even asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is ANYTHING weird these days? If it's what u want, go for it, I'm sure alot of other would agree.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

You're 32 not 21.

Doubt it anyone would bat an eyelid if they saw you out together, doubt they would second glance if she were in her fifties. Newsflash!

You may be a little bit over the hill for cougar and cubs night but fit right in with the dilfs around here.

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By *smfuncplCouple
over a year ago

WESTON SUPER MARE

If only you were closer x

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

My hubby is already older than me im 55 he is 65 ,but since being on here most guys are younger ,i was vary to start if they were the same age as my daughter who is 30 i said no ,but now i realise its not odd or weird they actually enjoying an older woman and im all for that ,hubby needs all the help he can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless it's brother and sister

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

OP, 13 years is not much of a difference.

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"If only you were closer x"

Shame your so far away your pictures are stunning

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it mate! I love a more mature woman. Conversation is more articulate, sex is usually great and you cant beat real woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 25 and have had amazing sex with 50+ year old hotwifes at clubs.

They are amazing !

Also have very interesting chats, which I love

So any cougars or young meet lovers, please drop me a message or a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a body like yours, you don’t look a day older then 25 my darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 20 my fun friend is 41 and I'm happy so what's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's ok and it's not weird in the slightest.

Have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not seeing any issue

I meet with lots of different ages actually my young fb has met someone apply within lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only you was closer to London

Would love to give those gorgeous tits of yours, a good sucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only weird if you make it weird I’ve been with older women age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb is 25!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I enjoy younger and older age doesn't come in to it, it's the attraction that counts not the age"

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By *jangoMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Nothing wrong in that. The older the fiddle, the better the tune.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'm 50. My fwb is 29. So what you are suggesting isn't shocking

Go for it x"

What's your middle name "lucky"

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London&Dublin

Just saw a profile with 95 and 25.

So, you are not as shocking OP.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

on the road again

Everyone has preferences.

Yours I don't believe to be anything out of the ordinary.

The fact according to this site an 18 year old could be looking for a 99 year old.... That could be a little awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both developed consenting adults, not an issue..

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's not an issuse. A good proportion of the women I've dated and been with in my adult life have been older (8-15 year +). You fancy how you fancy. For me it was more a case of attraction and chemistry for the people I've met rather than a target age group. Just always got on well with older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last two was only 31 both hot ladies.

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Thanks everyone

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

I was 53 when I started a 2-year affair with a 28 year old woman. We had a great time, parted amicably and now have new partners. We still meet occasionally.

As long as you're both happy, that's all that matters.

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I was 53 when I started a 2-year affair with a 28 year old woman. We had a great time, parted amicably and now have new partners. We still meet occasionally.

As long as you're both happy, that's all that matters. "

Thanks very much

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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm only interested in younger guys.

Nothing wrong with personal preference.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

11 years between us - no issues at all!

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I'm only interested in younger guys.

Nothing wrong with personal preference.

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How much younger aged 32

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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm only interested in younger guys.

Nothing wrong with personal preference.

How much younger aged 32 "

I had a regular for a few months, he was amazing, and only 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 25 and have had play mates 50+

Love older women as much as women my age

Older women know what they want just us much as the younger generation

I Never discriminate on age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only interested in younger guys.

Nothing wrong with personal preference.

How much younger aged 32

I had a regular for a few months, he was amazing, and only 30. "

Judging by your pics, you could easily pass as 30 yourself

Gorgeous lady !

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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm only interested in younger guys.

Nothing wrong with personal preference.

How much younger aged 32

I had a regular for a few months, he was amazing, and only 30.

Judging by your pics, you could easily pass as 30 yourself

Gorgeous lady !"

Most usually guess me to be around 33-35, but thank you.

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

He’s not wrong you look very well for your age

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By *mc1122Man
over a year ago

fermoy

I'm 32 and my fb she is 58

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Ok ok. Now I know everyone says each to there own etc how ever I really want to sleep with an older lady at the minute. Older the better however 45+ would be nice.

For me there’s just something about the older lady normally bustier, wear much nicer clothes and that whole experience thing drives me wild.

So, what’s people’s thoughts is it acceptable or not? For example tinder looking for older women just isn’t happening

What do we all think "

Sounds like Buxom Babes or Milf Monday would be a perfect event for you if you’re interested in club events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a relationship with a woman 20 years older then me people could not get it but she was a great fuck and that’s what I told them

I would go fuck old anyday

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Depends if the older ladies would be interested in a younger person etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 20 the guy I meet off here is 41.I think as long as you both have fun fancy each other and get on then she isn't a problem.

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

My fwb is 29..we go out all over together, shopping, zoo, cinema he's ace

If people have a problem thats up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a teenager I had a thing for my neighbor, she was mid 30 at the time and so hot. Nothing wrong with fancying an older lady. I think Joanna Lumley is still hot and she's in her 70s!

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Believe me, there’s plenty of younger guys have a milf fantasy.

Kim does cam (on another site, not here) and majority of guys who want to watch her are 20’s and 30’s, there’s even been a few in their teens.

Weirdly she quite often gets asked to do mother role play , don’t get that one

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My 32yr old never complained.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I'm 35 and hubby is 45 age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a number unless one is under 16 then its all sorts of wrong

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

That's entirely different from as long as there over 18 and caple of making the choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last two lady friends was both 31 one was straight laced the other a filthy slut and she told me so too then proved it.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Have met lots of younger males ..... very enjoyable experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have met lots of younger males ..... very enjoyable experiences "
younger males loves experienced females

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london

I’m 45 his 30s

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's not at all a big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok. Now I know everyone says each to there own etc how ever I really want to sleep with an older lady at the minute. Older the better however 45+ would be nice.

For me there’s just something about the older lady normally bustier, wear much nicer clothes and that whole experience thing drives me wild.

So, what’s people’s thoughts is it acceptable or not? For example tinder looking for older women just isn’t happening

What do we all think "

Not weird at all mate. Age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not strange at all, works the other way as well. Ex wife was 8 years younger than me, ex girlfriend 10 years younger and have had encounters with women 16, 20 and 25 years younger.

Have also had some of the best sex ever with older women when I was younger. Met 60+yr old when in my 30s.

It's a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The youngest guy i have been with was 31..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not weird at all .. I was with a 44 year old when I was 24 .. Mrs Robinson dressed in stockings suspenders and lovely heels.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Healthy and fine

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

A bit mumsy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer younger guys. In general, not saying everyone so don't get your Y-fronts in a twist, but in general I find they have a more positive attitude.

I (Hev) find this too, younger men have more stamina and are less likely to think you are their new FB after one meet. I find them less demanding. I am 55 I prefer under 30-45 year old men.

Charlie likes younger females/males also x"

I am not far from you..

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By *ylonbiWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Still looking for a regular young bull

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By *irsttimers3338Couple
over a year ago

waterlooville

I (mr) have a big thing for lady’s that are 45+ But have to be curvy/bbw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been on the site more than a year

I'm more shocked that you would ask such a question.

Look at your news feed,see how many women 45 and older are verifying and being verified by much younger men.

There's nothing shocking or taboo,on a site like fab,about it

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Absolutely normal. As long as I can remember I’ve had a fondness for older women. Even as far back as being 16 I think I would have happily dated a 50+ year old, and I wouldn’t have been ashamed to admit it either. You can’t beat experience and the taboo nature just adds to the excitement.

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