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By *airywurzel OP   Man
over a year ago

Somerset levels

Common on here or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Frustratingly so

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By *airywurzel OP   Man
over a year ago

Somerset levels

Ahh shame then

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

It happens, even after the initial pic attraction the conversational part via messaging can also put folk off. Just keep going is what we say, thick skin, water off a ducks back approach and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means the person has lost interest and doesn't want to chat anymore or take things further. It's not a shame x

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By *arc5t5Man
over a year ago

Chorley

Some people just chat if none of their friends are on. Then you get ignored once one appears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annoyingly common. Good manners surely to just say you aren’t interested?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I don't see it as ghosting unless we've met a few times and become friends. Anything else is just a loss of interest - frustrating when you think it's going well but saves you time in the long run as they weren't right for you.

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By *airywurzel OP   Man
over a year ago

Somerset levels

Ohh definamitely a case of sussed them out and move on.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

People disappear into the morass of my inbox...it happens....if I really want to keep in touch or keep a convo going I will.

Thems the breaks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is ghosting

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"What is ghosting "

Watch an episode of Scooby Doo...

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

When you start to receive or find yourself sending 3 or fewer words in a message you have reached the end of the conversation. Recognise it and be prepared to move on .

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

It well fucks me off when this happens then you start to think shit was I rude ???

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Oh yea we've been ghosted by couples and single females we've made friends with. Just delete them and move on, not everyone is ignorant but unfortunately there's some who are just to far up themselves. Frustrating, yes. It's that people like that move along, we just feel sorry for the next people they are going to try n fool. Looks like we have one at the minute, a single male. Hey ho, it takes all sorts. We remain positive and keep smiling throughout

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"What is ghosting "

Saved me asking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a fair bit after face pic has been sent.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"What is ghosting

Saved me asking xx "

Yup. Pray tell!

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

Ghosting is when someone you have been chatting to for a fair bit, or are friends with (usually in real life) or in a relationship with and suddenly pooof! They disappear no messages, no contact..evaporated like a ghost into the ether x

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Ghosting is when someone you have been chatting to for a fair bit, or are friends with (usually in real life) or in a relationship with and suddenly pooof! They disappear no messages, no contact..evaporated like a ghost into the ether x"

Thank you. Thought it might be something like that.

And yes, I have experienced that too. Always a shame but people have their reasons I guess and each to their own, I say.

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By *airywurzel OP   Man
over a year ago

Somerset levels

Well thanks gor the input. Like people say just delete and move on then.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Well thanks gor the input. Like people say just delete and move on then."

Yeah, it's good advice.

With the amount of mail single women and some couples get, I just think it's good that they looked at it. I think it can become small talk quite quick, and that's genuinely hard for some people.

From a bi perspective, I actually did it to someone today and I honestly try my hardest not to. I always reply at least once to everything. He just started repeating himself tho (while upping the game) and I just couldn't think of anything else to say. Prob was I'd only slightly hinted that I probably wasn't interested, rather than said directly said so - so I know I did leave him hanging. I think the semi-txt speak even 3 messages in was starting to piss me off - doing that gives people an easy excuse to bail out imo. If makes people seem a bit high, but he possibly wasn't. I was just slightly at a loss, which is unusual for me.

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