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By *he Happy Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Had you looked at their profile? I've known people take offence at that... Not sure how you're meant to know that till you read their profile?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mistaken identity?

If you appeared on their ‘looked at me’ list, they may have taken it wrong way.

But, as they say “Nowt queer as folk”....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers. "

Bollocks to em

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Maybe it's the weather, the heat can send folk a bit doolally

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By *he Happy Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Mistaken identity?

If you appeared on their ‘looked at me’ list, they may have taken it wrong way.

But, as they say “Nowt queer as folk”...."

I have the looked at you option turned off. If I look at a profile i don't show up on their looked at me list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mistaken identity?

If you appeared on their ‘looked at me’ list, they may have taken it wrong way.

But, as they say “Nowt queer as folk”....

I have the looked at you option turned off. If I look at a profile i don't show up on their looked at me list. "

OK...our feelings, mistaken identity...sorry to hear you had such abuse.

Take care.

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By *he Happy Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Had you looked at their profile? I've known people take offence at that... Not sure how you're meant to know that till you read their profile?!"

Aha. You were onto something. Apparently I fabbed on of the females pictures.

They must of thought me fabbing a pic was me chancing my arm lol. For fucks sake I don't fab somebodies pic who lives 300 miles away hoping the fab will result in a meet. I am not doing a 600 mile round trip for some sex. I don't fab any pictures hoping it will result in a meet. I fab it because i like it. There is no ulterior motive.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers. "

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

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By *he Happy Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Mistaken identity?

If you appeared on their ‘looked at me’ list, they may have taken it wrong way.

But, as they say “Nowt queer as folk”....

I have the looked at you option turned off. If I look at a profile i don't show up on their looked at me list.

OK...our feelings, mistaken identity...sorry to hear you had such abuse.

Take care."

I don't mind. I thought it was funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had you looked at their profile? I've known people take offence at that... Not sure how you're meant to know that till you read their profile?!

Aha. You were onto something. Apparently I fabbed on of the females pictures.

They must of thought me fabbing a pic was me chancing my arm lol. For fucks sake I don't fab somebodies pic who lives 300 miles away hoping the fab will result in a meet. I am not doing a 600 mile round trip for some sex. I don't fab any pictures hoping it will result in a meet. I fab it because i like it. There is no ulterior motive. "

Ahh...if we did that, we would have no,bloody ‘fabs’ at all...

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By *he Happy Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though."

They did have a (stupid) reason I fabbed one of their pictures.

Anyway they just sent me an email saying bye and blocked me lol. I think I will go and have a good cry because some random couple 300 miles away who i don't know and have never spoken to blocked me lol.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They did have a (stupid) reason I fabbed one of their pictures.

Anyway they just sent me an email saying bye and blocked me lol. I think I will go and have a good cry because some random couple 300 miles away who i don't know and have never spoken to blocked me lol. "

We only have one side of the story though.

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By *he Happy Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They did have a (stupid) reason I fabbed one of their pictures.

Anyway they just sent me an email saying bye and blocked me lol. I think I will go and have a good cry because some random couple 300 miles away who i don't know and have never spoken to blocked me lol.

We only have one side of the story though."

Of course you do. However, I am not lying. I have said exactly what happened.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They did have a (stupid) reason I fabbed one of their pictures.

Anyway they just sent me an email saying bye and blocked me lol. I think I will go and have a good cry because some random couple 300 miles away who i don't know and have never spoken to blocked me lol.

We only have one side of the story though.

Of course you do. However, I am not lying. I have said exactly what happened. "

That’s what you say though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though."

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on "

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something."

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

"

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude."

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

"

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

"

He was horny and you were asleep....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx"

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had you looked at their profile? I've known people take offence at that... Not sure how you're meant to know that till you read their profile?!"
lol yes this but you can set your settings to ninja saves that crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

He was horny and you were asleep.... "

Hahaha probably

This site is great but does open your eyes to some right nutters

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous "

Absolutely not; I am comparing two different forms of unexplained, unprovoked rude behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers. "

Couple years ago on my old fab profile half asleep messaged the wrong couple by mistake , The male half messaged back being right grumpy and nasty at the time I had my pic on display and whatsapp number for contact he said I'll come find you and smash you up I work around your area on the pub and clubs doors and am not to be messed with and will keep your pic with me so I can find you and teach you a lesson etc etc.I did say if it upsets you so much single guys messaging you why not write not after single males you feeling okay or something wrong with you or you just some mad old bully,He just went even mad I was like ok grandad whatever.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury


"Had you looked at their profile? I've known people take offence at that... Not sure how you're meant to know that till you read their profile?!

Aha. You were onto something. Apparently I fabbed on of the females pictures.

They must of thought me fabbing a pic was me chancing my arm lol. For fucks sake I don't fab somebodies pic who lives 300 miles away hoping the fab will result in a meet. I am not doing a 600 mile round trip for some sex. I don't fab any pictures hoping it will result in a meet. I fab it because i like it. There is no ulterior motive. "

I get my pics Fabbed by people who are not on my looking for list I take as a compliment because that is exactly what it is. Laugh it off and enjoy fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous

Absolutely not; I am comparing two different forms of unexplained, unprovoked rude behaviour."

Blocking someone is harmless

Abusing someone isn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous "

What the heck is wrong with you? He didn't say that at all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on, there are some weirdos out there who take offence even if you just look at there profile, fortunately we run in stealth mode so can look at the weirdos and either block them or hotlist them for future shits & giggles

As for fabbing pictures, if you display them anyone can fab them, you shouldn’t mind who! Again just weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers. "

Had worse than that....got a fantastic msg about how she'd seen me on the forum, read my profile, finally plucking up courage to ask me for a meet from a forum post....she meant the bloke above!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude."

I'm trying to get my head around this. Either you are being incredibly philosophical (ie everything has a reason of some kind) - or you are being incredibly kind towards a relatively-few people out there who are unlikely to return the favour. We are living in an age of internet and atrophy. People get online and leave their intelligence behind. Some people online don't need a reason to do or to think anything, they just act.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Had you looked at their profile? I've known people take offence at that... Not sure how you're meant to know that till you read their profile?!

Aha. You were onto something. Apparently I fabbed on of the females pictures.

They must of thought me fabbing a pic was me chancing my arm lol. For fucks sake I don't fab somebodies pic who lives 300 miles away hoping the fab will result in a meet. I am not doing a 600 mile round trip for some sex. I don't fab any pictures hoping it will result in a meet. I fab it because i like it. There is no ulterior motive.

I get my pics Fabbed by people who are not on my looking for list I take as a compliment because that is exactly what it is. Laugh it off and enjoy fab x"

I didn't think of the fabbing thing. Sometimes I load up the main page here, see a great looking picture and just fab it. Why not? People don't understand the site if they don't understand that.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something."

People block for a reason. Their choice but there is always a reason. The blocked person may not know the reason but the blockee does.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous

What the heck is wrong with you? He didn't say that at all!!!

"

Green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous

What the heck is wrong with you? He didn't say that at all!!!

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Yes he did! He said it’s exactly the same excuse that validates blocking someone!! So he’s comparing the two ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous

What the heck is wrong with you? He didn't say that at all!!!

Yes he did! He said it’s exactly the same excuse that validates blocking someone!! So he’s comparing the two ffs "

No he didn't! I think you saying his views are dangerous is really out of order. You are inferring goodness knows what.

He absolutely wasn't justifying abusive behaviour at all. He's just saying that some people block over anything- even if they just say "how have you been?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

Had worse than that....got a fantastic msg about how she'd seen me on the forum, read my profile, finally plucking up courage to ask me for a meet from a forum post....she meant the bloke above! "

Ouch!

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


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People block for a reason. Their choice but there is always a reason. The blocked person may not know the reason but the blockee does. "

This is true we have blocked people just so their pics don't come up in our local updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous

What the heck is wrong with you? He didn't say that at all!!!

Yes he did! He said it’s exactly the same excuse that validates blocking someone!! So he’s comparing the two ffs

No he didn't! I think you saying his views are dangerous is really out of order. You are inferring goodness knows what.

He absolutely wasn't justifying abusive behaviour at all. He's just saying that some people block over anything- even if they just say "how have you been?"

"

You need to read all of his comments, I can quote them if you’d like, yes people have reasons but no they’re not always valid! And it is dangerous to say “Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx”

To believe someone has the same validation to my example which is directly above that quote of his is dangerous on here.........

he very clearly states ‘exactly the same excuse validates”

Read properly before you get involved in someone else’s debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers.

If they said that to you, they must have had a reason though.

They don’t need a reason, some people are just weird! Block and move on

That’s what you think. Some other people apparently think that there’s always a reason when people do something.

Absolutely not! I’ve been on n off here over 6yrs and I would have had that view when I first joined, I very quickly wised up. Some people are rude and others are abusive but thankfully the majority are quite nice.........

That is wrong. There is always a valid reason for people when they do something, even when they are rude.

In my early naive days I would have shared that view.........

Someone messaged me a while back ‘good evening’ I replied when I logged back in the next morning with a polite ‘good morning, did you sleep well?’

No other messages had ever been exchanged between us............ ‘ffff off you fat slag blah blah blah’ ......... I won’t repeat the rest, SO WHAT EXCUSE VALIDATES THAT ?!

Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx

You’re comparing blocking someone to verbally abusing someone, nothing validates verbal abuse! I think your views are dangerous

What the heck is wrong with you? He didn't say that at all!!!

Yes he did! He said it’s exactly the same excuse that validates blocking someone!! So he’s comparing the two ffs

No he didn't! I think you saying his views are dangerous is really out of order. You are inferring goodness knows what.

He absolutely wasn't justifying abusive behaviour at all. He's just saying that some people block over anything- even if they just say "how have you been?"

You need to read all of his comments, I can quote them if you’d like, yes people have reasons but no they’re not always valid! And it is dangerous to say “Exactly the same excuse that validates somebody blocking you after you have asked them "How have you been? You've been quiet lately" xx”

To believe someone has the same validation to my example which is directly above that quote of his is dangerous on here.........

he very clearly states ‘exactly the same excuse validates”

Read properly before you get involved in someone else’s debate "

Read properly.

You tell me which posts I'm allowed to comment on then I don't get involved in something I shouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faqs no reply means no thanks

I know from previous experience admin advise blocking anyone you don’t wish to communicate with........

If you don’t like how the site works then why be here

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

There is definitely a flaw on this site with how easy it is to accidentally delete an email in certain layouts. One click and its gone for good. When it's the first ever contact, there is no way to see it again. This happened to me and I just knew the person wouldn't try again because that is the general rule.

'No contact means No interest' is probably the rule that is prevalent in most of these type of websites. But some women especially can get inundated with mail, and they simply can't, for whatever reason, read them all. Of course if they feel they've somehow missed a message by mr or misses perfect they'd love them to try again! But people say 'no means no' because of course it's generally true, and it helps manage the place, and keep the annoyances at bay. But there is a paradox here, and always was.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers. "

Mate, realised on this place, the couples are as bad as the single bloke's, if not worse

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

We like to think of as these kind of groups or communities as 'x cultures' - ie with lots of shared values. But I've wondered if that's not just a little bit optimistic - if not exactly wiffy. Maybe everything is just like real life? Some poeple are polite and chatty, some people are nice but terse, and some people are just plain rude. The politics chat, and most forum chat here, is certainly like you'd find anywhere else.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Had you looked at their profile? I've known people take offence at that... Not sure how you're meant to know that till you read their profile?!

Aha. You were onto something. Apparently I fabbed on of the females pictures.

They must of thought me fabbing a pic was me chancing my arm lol. For fucks sake I don't fab somebodies pic who lives 300 miles away hoping the fab will result in a meet. I am not doing a 600 mile round trip for some sex. I don't fab any pictures hoping it will result in a meet. I fab it because i like it. There is no ulterior motive. "

Bloody hell. I don't even pay attention to who fabs my pics. They've clearly got too much time on their hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got an email form a couple that said "Can't you read? No single males"

I have never spoken to this couple. I have never tried to ask for meet. I have never so much as sent them an email. Also they live about 300 miles away from me. Weird fuckers. "

Quip back at them saying "yes I know, it says on your profile, which is why I didn't send you a message first"

Some people need to get over themselves.

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