FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it I attract gay men and not women?

By *ustjay1985 OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Because a lot more guys go perving other guys profiles than women do? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moustache?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"
could be the arse pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing you’re doing wrong chap...it’s just the way it is on fab...lots of “straight” men just perving over pics..take it as a compliment

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

"Because a lot more guys go perving other guys profiles than women do? Lol "

Do so not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look abit ghey, sure you haven't sucked a fat one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies loss! Looking good though

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I presume you're referring to the fact that your "Looked At Me" reflects mostly men looking at you (can't be men messaging you as you have them filtered)?

If so, then it might be no or "Fab straight" guys checking to see if you're listed as bi, or could simply be other guys just checking your profile for ideas etc, which is something I do often.

Also bear in mind most women and couples look in stealth mode, so you'd never know they had looked

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By *aughtyboi1979Man
over a year ago

near camborne

i seem to have to same , 13 views so far today , All men , varying from straight to bi etc , i even get winks from them .

Does get frustrating, .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get it all the time more of my pics are fabbed from other guys than women even though it clearly states im straight. like others said take it as a compliment guys just look (perv) about more

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lolcould be the arse pic

Aye this!!!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"i get it all the time more of my pics are fabbed from other guys than women even though it clearly states im straight. like others said take it as a compliment guys just look (perv) about more "

Lol same here. Today a "straight" guy fabbed some of my pics. doesn't bother me though I take it as a compliment.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Just remember there are at least 10 men here for every woman. Take it as a compliment and don't get frustrated.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"

You are well fit...(female J )

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Just remember there are at least 10 men here for every woman. Take it as a compliment and don't get frustrated. "

You are way out. There are about 60 men to every woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why worry op ?? you know your sexulality you know yorself just take it as a compliment and move on ..

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

"Nothing you’re doing wrong chap...it’s just the way it is on fab...lots of “straight” men just perving over pics..take it as a compliment "

Exactly this

I thought the same for a long time most of my pictures where being fabed by guys now it's great that other guys like my pics, just got to find the women that like them to now

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"The ladies loss! Looking good though"

How is it their loss if they don't want to meet him?

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By *riveroneMan
over a year ago

Hyde

"i seem to have to same , 13 views so far today , All men , varying from straight to bi etc , i even get winks from them .

Does get frustrating, . "

A view doesn't mean anything could be somebody local seeing you and wondering if they recognise you, somebody seeing the'competition' or somebody looking for ideas to improve their profile, it's messages you need to consider most

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"

Get to a club!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Take it as a compliment. Might not be the results you want but it's an ego boost.

Bottom line is gay men are still men. They are just as pervy as the rest of us..

Most women (not all) will have theirs sweet to not be listed as viewed.

Also there are men that will check out the competition. Or ideas for profile layouts etc.

So all of the above being mixed with the fact that men far outnumber the women it will seem even more this way.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

"Just remember there are at least 10 men here for every woman. Take it as a compliment and don't get frustrated.

You are way out. There are about 60 men to every woman. "

At least 60 Probably even more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"

The arse pic is obviously more inviting to men than women

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"i seem to have to same , 13 views so far today , All men , varying from straight to bi etc , i even get winks from them .

Does get frustrating, . "

Why's it frustrating? It doesn't impact you in any way other than seeing you have a wink and they don't match what you're looking for

As I said further up, the vast majority of ladies and couples look in stealth mode and you'd never know they looked - plus, just because someone looked at you doesn't mean a thing.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

You look hot to gays.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I'd suggest it is because you look very fit and handsome in your pics. Take it is a compliment. No need to worry about - you know your own sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol

You are well fit...(female J )

Yep I think you’re fit too..and Iv perved your pics..I just do it in stealth mode

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I'll look at guys profiles too as a straight guy.

Not that often, but its good to check out competition every now and again

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By *ob rodMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Downside of being fit as fuck and gorgeous lol

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London

"You look abit ghey, sure you haven't sucked a fat one"

U talking from experience mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your pics/ profile. If you were what I was looking for I’d message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You look abit ghey, sure you haven't sucked a fat one

U talking from experience mate?

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in your dreams. Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few straight men looking at my profile but I don't instantly assume it is cock hunting. Could be various reasons.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Cos the "straight" men in denial are clutching at straws cos they not getting punani either elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You look abit ghey, sure you haven't sucked a fat one

U talking from experience mate?

in your dreams. Paul"

Don’t knock it till you tried it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want to attract gay women!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"
Same

For me

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Harmless banter dood, but the mustache and bicep flexing pose looks a village people to me!

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London

"You look abit ghey, sure you haven't sucked a fat one

U talking from experience mate?

in your dreams. Paul"

Haha, no that's the prob u look to gay for me

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London

"You look abit ghey, sure you haven't sucked a fat one

U talking from experience mate?

in your dreams. Paul

Don’t knock it till you tried it

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I doing something wrong? Take a look at my profile and help a guy out would you? I've been out of the meeting people thing for 16 years, throw me some pointers please lol"

Ok just looked at your profile. In fairness you look a little too preened, like a lot of gay men can be. Your hairstyle and lack of body hair is not very masculine, but these days seems common in straight lads. I have short hair, stubble and hairy chest, seem to get a lot of female attention, maybe a lot of ladies still like a masculine look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just spotted your ear ring and goaty too. Can see why you are attracting gays to be fair haha

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I got told its not ghey unless you push back.. its true honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because a lot more guys go perving other guys profiles than women do? Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would gay women look at you?

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By *0rn1Man
over a year ago

soutport

Try putting your picks in a album.... then everyone can’t see them

that’s what prob attracting people lol..

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By *0rn1Man
over a year ago

soutport

"Just spotted your ear ring and goaty too. Can see why you are attracting gays to be fair haha "

Hahah and this...

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By *ubzero99Man
over a year ago

County Durham

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Filter them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moustache?"
Tha cracked me up

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