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By *erseypair OP   Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

gripe about rudeness of some couples who dont bother to write back - some advertise a party but dont respond then block you- i know its peoples right to refuse who goes to a party but a simple no thanks would show some class and not bad manners- gripe over - now to focus on the 99.9% friendly & genuine couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what do you think they should do?

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By *erseypair OP   Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

a simple reply- no thanks is all -simplez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a simple reply- no thanks is all -simplez"

I would say the same at one point but we don't reply to all that mail us. I think its as read if you don't get a reply or you are blocked then they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im a bit bad at replying to everyone too

I do try but get distracted by the ones that im interested in along with existing friends that im making arrangements with,so by the time im thinking I should reply to the ones im not interested in I think they will have probably forgotten they had messaged me anyway and it does'nt really matter anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think yours was the only message they recieved? Perhaps they got 30+, perhaps it was just easier to delete those that didnt interest them and reply to the ones that did..... ive found you reply with a polite no thanks, then they message you back to either say thanks for replying or asking why..... suddenly your messages have doubled in amount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite simple really...manners cost nothing and mean everything...it takes a second to reply to an email, far shorter a lengthy message on a forum! If they insist on responding to a no thanks, then a block is warrented i think

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

I saw a profile today and the member had had 200 messages on day one. She gave up trying to answer them all.

That's why you don't get a reply. It isn't a personal insult - it just happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes people block straight away because they have had abuse from people they have said no thnx to in the past.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We noticed a profile the other day, they had a header saying they was thinking of going to a club we regularly attend. So sent this couple a lovely message along the lines of say hello, etc etc, as they said they was a little nervous. And blow me they coup,don't even bother to reply, can't stand bad manners we was only being friendly. Don't want to meet ppl with crap manners anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on sites like these for about 10 years..and this topic comes up again and again.

There is no answer apart from in my experience, the nice genuine ones usually do reply and the rest are often (but not always so please dont give me a hard time if you are the exception) fakes and timewasters.

It is frustrating when you have put effort into a proper message, even more so when it is using a mobile phone but if you let it get to you you, you are definately fighting a losing battle. Better to move onwards and upwards and eventually you will be rewarded :o)

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

If people are looking for others to attend their party then I think it only fair they should reply!!

As the OP mentioned a party being advertised, I will assume the others where looking for people to show an interest??

Unsolicited mail is one thing, but when you looking for others to respond!! At least show them you have manners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to read its not just the single blokes who come on here to whinge about having a hard time on here lol.

My advice ( not that you will loose any sleep over it!) hmmm shut up moaning and just get over it and move on already xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are looking for others to attend their party then I think it only fair they should reply!!

As the OP mentioned a party being advertised, I will assume the others where looking for people to show an interest??

Unsolicited mail is one thing, but when you looking for others to respond!! At least show them you have manners!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck em, one less bunch of snobs to the bin...

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

I think its because you use the word "simplez".

It makes you sound dull and uninteresting Im afraid.

Hope that helps !

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