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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From another of my threads, I have been asked to put this question:-

Why don’t people read profiles before messaging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some of them are like War and Peace.

There are many many other reasons too I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're probably fed up of doing so. Tailoring a message and getting nought

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Some just lo6at the photos and then message thinking that they are exactly what we are looking for. Basically wasting our time and there own.

Mr2

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I would guess because they have absolutely no interest in 'the person'

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’ve had a long profile and now I have a short tongue in cheek profile..

I get meets whenever I want either way ..

And I’ll be honest , the minute I see a long winded profile I skip to the next ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they're probably fed up of doing so. Tailoring a message and getting nought "

I wouldn't bother reading the profile until they actually replied.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol a guy asked a question - I referred him back to my profile. Then another 2 times. Still didn't get that I'm not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would guess because they have absolutely no interest in 'the person' "

This . The casual fuckers *just* want a fuck.

I asked hubby the question asked by the OP on this thread and apparently the "cut and paste" merchants will send the same message dozens of times if they like a photo, and will only bother if and when they get a response. He reckons if you throw enough shit some of it will stick.

My first response is usually asking if they read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some of them are like War and Peace.

There are many many other reasons too I'm sure."

But if you don't read the profile, you don't get a meet. People who haven't bothered are pretty obvious. Today it's 3 messages from men who cannot accommodate, 5 winks from same, 2 messages from couples where one smokes.

I just delete and block now. If they can't read then they are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love reading profiles!

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because ( besides being lazy) they think they’re the exception, always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they're probably fed up of doing so. Tailoring a message and getting nought "

Exactly this

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Zero in zero out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read a profile and If I don't tick their boxes for whatever reason then I don't message them, there is no point and it's a waste of both parties time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol a guy asked a question - I referred him back to my profile. Then another 2 times. Still didn't get that I'm not meeting"

Have you read your profile?

Some profiles are very contradictory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because ( besides being lazy) they think they’re the exception, always. "

Yes I agree with you

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would guess because they have absolutely no interest in 'the person' "

Nailed it. Why bother messaging me at all if you are short, attached or a smoker? It’s because you want a wet cock, nothing else.

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