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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New to this site need some tips I’ve not had nothing off this site couples say they want male to join I txt get no reply what am I doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On paper, you could be everthing they want in a playmate but if there is no attraction then that is the end of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m good looking stud haha only joking thanks for advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the thing is single men are 10 a penny and couples/ladies are spoilt for choice.

Makes it almost impossible to click with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile. Multiple cock picks, many of which are inserted in someone else or with a dirty toilet in the background. Maybe try fab guys, they maybe less picky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So how u getting any then your pics are on toilet sat on a tree and covered in spunk ??????

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By *0rn1Man
over a year ago

soutport


"So how u getting any then your pics are on toilet sat on a tree and covered in spunk ??????"

Haha this tho!!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I wouldn’t have someone else in your photos unless it was a couples profile. Numerous dick pics are same old. And the toilet very off putting! You need to stand out, your profile doesn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how u getting any then your pics are on toilet sat on a tree and covered in spunk ??????"

Probably because I have put a bit of effort into my profile, like being covered in cum, sat on a clean toilet (lid down) used as a photography prop, and possibly something to do with me being female. Fair or not, they apparently have the upper hand when it comes to selection. Can’t imagine you’d be in anyone’s top trillion any time soon.

You’d make it into my top 2 if you had a pic covered in cum and a tree up your arse (save you talking out of it).

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land


"New to this site need some tips I’ve not had nothing off this site couples say they want male to join I txt get no reply what am I doing wrong "

Pictures. Profile. And, reading the thread, attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to this site need some tips I’ve not had nothing off this site couples say they want male to join I txt get no reply what am I doing wrong

Pictures. Profile. And, reading the thread, attitude. "

Notice any sort of trend in this thread OP? It’s genuinely good advice. Don’t ask for it if you’re not prepared to consider it. Add in your sense of humour failure, it’s not good. Girls like a well written profile, nice pictures (an odd cock pic is ok too, for me anyway) and above all else, we like the chap to make us laugh, not the pictures. God forbid the pictures that make us wrench thought. Hint hint.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wow u not getting any love u getting stressed ain’t u ha fuck me I asked for advice not a lecture sorry if my pics want up to your standards I’ll clean seat next time or put a table cloth over the wall make it look more pretty just for u sweet cheeks x so u try fab guys stop u taking the frustration out on someone asking for advice

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

You do realise that many women will read posts like this OP, get a feel for your attitude, and block you on the basis of that before even looking at your profile?

It's worth just bearing that in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This stuff is cracking me up. I’m genuinely laughing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This stuff is cracking me up. I’m genuinely laughing. "

You must be watching our windows get cleaned by the OP then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This stuff is cracking me up. I’m genuinely laughing.

You must be watching our windows get cleaned by the OP then."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another man asking for advice and not liking it because he doesn't know that men and women are different, despite being on a site like this. Your pictures will put alot of women off, the other poster you aaked about theirs would probably put single women off too but men, not so much. Hence why women and couples, seeking men can, if they choose, have explicit pictures, it doesn't mean a female wants to see that on a single mans profile. Plus... The toilet?! Really? Your pics meant I wouldn't get as far as reading anything... I didn't even get to the last pic before pressing back, then I would have deleted your message. You asked for advice, take it, or don't but getting arsey when people give it will not help your cause, even if you take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to this site need some tips I’ve not had nothing off this site couples say they want male to join I txt get no reply what am I doing wrong "
your pics are probably your downfall but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to this site need some tips I’ve not had nothing off this site couples say they want male to join I txt get no reply what am I doing wrong "

11 months isn't new to the site.

Some tips:

1. Lose some of the cock pics.

2. Lose some of the pics of you hanging out of the back of someone, women don't always like that.

3. Use some punctuation, it makes your messages and profile easier to read.

4. Wind back the hostility a notch or five.

What are you doing wrong?

You just aren't appealing to people and coming across as fun. If you want to be used as a pole of convenience, keep doing what you are doing. Some people will want you when it suits them.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


" wow u not getting any love u getting stressed ain’t u ha fuck me I asked for advice not a lecture sorry if my pics want up to your standards I’ll clean seat next time or put a table cloth over the wall make it look more pretty just for u sweet cheeks x so u try fab guys stop u taking the frustration out on someone asking for advice "

Unfortunately that rant will have blown your chances with most people. Unpleasantness is the most unpleasant characteristic.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


" wow u not getting any love u getting stressed ain’t u ha fuck me I asked for advice not a lecture sorry if my pics want up to your standards I’ll clean seat next time or put a table cloth over the wall make it look more pretty just for u sweet cheeks x so u try fab guys stop u taking the frustration out on someone asking for advice

Unfortunately that rant will have blown your chances with most people. Unpleasantness is the most unpleasant characteristic."

Agree! You are coming across as very unpleasent. Why would anybody want to meet you if you can't talk constructive advice without having a hissy fit.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I would rethink your profile pic's for one,I don't suppose many like seeing toilets or multiple dick pic's. I know it's a sex/swingers site but I would try going a bit more enticing with your pic's rather than full on toilet/cock/action pic's.

and I'm sure you have now realised there's different rules for men.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

You are going to struggle to get anywhere here as we have so many guys to choose from. We’re unlikely to choose someone with loads of cock pics, bareback pics, a poor profile and a bad attitude. If youre serious about meeting here then you need to review all of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are going to struggle to get anywhere here as we have so many guys to choose from. We’re unlikely to choose someone with loads of cock pics, bareback pics, a poor profile and a bad attitude. If youre serious about meeting here then you need to review all of that. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I’ve made some changes to my profile now . Thanks for everyone’s advice sorry if I sounded like a twat I’m not I’m nice guy really ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how u getting any then your pics are on toilet sat on a tree and covered in spunk ??????"

Because they're a MF couple and guys will always want to fuck her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to this site need some tips I’ve not had nothing off this site couples say they want male to join I txt get no reply what am I doing wrong "

Picture's are fine. You can't please all at the same time . But question is how you have playing pictures and no verification?. To a woman that's a big turn off as who is she,does she know her pictures are being used.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes she does it’s lady off here she not verified anyone and thank you .still got my pics in friends but took half of cock pics off from public view

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