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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here

any input would be appreciated

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they might like what they see and be in touch in due course

wait for them to contact you.

good luck

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Doesn't really mean anything, could be they might respond later or it may mean they just haven't got round to bulk deleting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Is it as simple as people will reply if interested?"

Yes.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here

any input would be appreciated"

It's best to not look at the status of sent messages, you'll send yourself doo-lally lol!

The inbox is your best bet

Good luck and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here

any input would be appreciated"

If I don't delete I may get back to someone. If I get the you didn't delete pester message then it puts me off.

Mail then leave a few weeks minimum I would advise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i was starting to think that funnily enough! hopefully one day ill be able to use that button myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've not deleted I've either not had chance to reply or I'm on the fence and want to take some time to decide. Sending me another message just makes me delete both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

weeeeeks! only joking thanks even i realise sending that sort of msg screams looooooooser! cheers for reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I've not deleted I've either not had chance to reply or I'm on the fence and want to take some time to decide. Sending me another message just makes me delete both. "

same

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"just a question about sent messages i understand that a deleted message is a very clear "not interested" but is there anything in a message that has been read and not deleted or am i just reading between the lines too much! Is it as simple as people will reply if interested? just getting used to how things run on here

any input would be appreciated"

I'd send you some advice in private but you have blocked single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...no-thanks thats easy enough to work out, if its a deleted mail....try again in a good amount of time(of course they might have a meettoday thing on...chance ur arm), a read mail.....is not different to a deleted mail.

And when i get mail that sounds promising particularly from a couple..I wait till Ive acknowledged its not just the male half thinking this will be great,getting my wife/gf/fb fucked.Often wonder if this is the case for many no-shows from cpls!- I'd like the female half to know if she thinks shes gonna like me, before Ive set foot anywhere near them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any messages to my couple profile will be read by either me or the oh first, but may take a day or so for both of us to get around to reading it, discussing and replying.

Its possible that the other half of the couple is away and so no answer will be given until they are home??

*and yes ive just assumed ur talking about messaging couples*

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Hmmmmm, see now I delete anything that's either outside my age criteria or hasn't sent a pic immediately.

The ones that are withon my criteria and have sent a pic, just not for me, I save with every intention of replying but.....the best intentions and all that. Sometimes I then just mass delete after a few weeks.

It's harsh, but I would say, deleted or not, usually if you've sparked interest, you'll get a reply pretty much immediately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no not just couples but certainly see your point thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't read much into it. That being said, I sent a message the other day that wasn't deleted, but later realised they blocked me! Don't think I said anything offensive...don't have it in me!

Anyway, no offense taken (in case they read this )

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I reply to mail fairly quickly. Opened mail just sits there until I get round to doing a big delete.

But sometimes I leave it there on purpose to wind someone up, and then I see how many times in an hour they check my profile

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

never check your sent messages, people have lives outside swinging it means nothing

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We don't delete at all. Wouldn't ever bother checking sent mail. Lifes too short!

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