FabSwingers.com forum: 20-30 year old swingers

By *ayswings69 OP Man
over a year ago

walsall wood

What attracts 20-30 year olds to the swinging scene ? Xx

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Good question, they should be out dating. Leave swinging to us old farts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

We started at that age I think

It is all the new experiences

Then you become to enjoy making new friends and having

Sex with them

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The freedom to express themselves? They're in their prime and in a time where freedom of sexuality and sex positivity makes it a pretty natural thing to do.

The older generations still have the swinger stigma where its seen as dirty to enjoy sex with multiple partners. Millenials are freer of that hold back.

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By *ayswings69 OP Man
over a year ago

walsall wood

"The sex"

Fair comment do you talk about swinging when your with your friends ?

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Lol at party's then you end up

Swinging,mind the older swinger's it was all hush hush

Behind closed doors it is more

Open now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sex

Fair comment do you talk about swinging when your with your friends ? "

Why do you ask? Just a general question or is it because of my age?

And no, not really. With one or two of my very, very close friends yes. Never details, never names, never pictures etc.

But I don’t discuss my sex life with anyone really either.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I think younger people now being more comfortable with an alternative lifestyle, wouldn't worry too much about the swinging scene. So to go to a club that actively encourages sexual engagement in its venue, would be an experience they could embrace.

I used to regularly go out to Fetish clubs and plenty younger girls and guys turned up, looking for something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts 20-30 year olds to the swinging scene ? Xx"

Errr cock and pussy, just a theory like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really, I've been dating nearly 10 years getting nowhere, never had a relationship before and ideally I just want to skip the dating process and just skip straight to the naughty bits.....

Just a shame I fit no woman's preferences unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts 20-30 year olds to the swinging scene ? Xx"
sex

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Daddy issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Daddy issues.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it’s fun? Haha

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Daddy issues.

Brimming with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m not after a relationship with a woman, just sex

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By *ayswings69 OP Man
over a year ago

walsall wood

I have seen 2 of the ladies out the office at work on here but we never discuss it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have seen 2 of the ladies out the office at work on here but we never discuss it "

Good

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By *ayswings69 OP Man
over a year ago

walsall wood

"Because it’s fun? Haha"

Haha that’s fair enough

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I joined aged 19, because a much older guy friend of mine recommended it to me.

At first I thought I was joining to fulfill the need of unusually high sex drive.

But it became more than that, it allowed my explore sex with like minded and sex positive people.

I can't think where else I would of been able to explore, voyeurism, exhibitionism, group sex, cuckholding and gangbangs.

And it isn't just the sex either, I've made friends for life on the scene.

I'm doing it because its what I want to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, as a single guy coming out of a very messy divorce, it was about sex without the risk of getting emotionally attached.

Everyone knew why they were there and what was expected of them. I had a blast for four years and met some awesome people, many of whom are still swinging.

Back then, I was in a great deal of demand

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By *parks87Couple
over a year ago

huntingdon

We had some friends tell us bout it sparks being disabled found it had to go night clubs and pubs so couple friends said come to jaydee's told us everything bout it so we tagged along wernt intentionally there for fun but minds wonder so never looked back everyone was welcoming friendly had first encounter 3rd time we went bit nervous but we never been so stronger and sparks self confidence is bigger than ever thanks to swinging scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The forums

Best joke this week

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

"Daddy issues.

Hahaha found myself a daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that there’s something for everyone and your not judged is a big thing! Every one at clubs is fun and down to earth gives for exciting times

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

"What attracts 20-30 year olds to the swinging scene ? Xx"

Why ask this question. It can be said about any age.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

The ability to expand my experiences and understanding of the experiences of others. To gain a better understanding of myself sexually through experience. To converse with an array of other people in the form of threads and ultimately because I enjoy it.

Time is a luxury that many don’t have. It makes total sense to live a fulfilling life today than to rely on tomorrow coming around.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Because me and my husband aren't done fucking other people and having new experiences

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By *0rn1Man
over a year ago

soutport

"What attracts 20-30 year olds to the swinging scene ? Xx

Errr cock and pussy, just a theory like. "

That’s hit the nail on the head!

But that and also the sexual experience of it all!

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By *quirt23Couple
over a year ago

wiltshire

I think it’s becoming more and more common with the younger generation and more accepted... just my opinion though! And it’s great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Cake"

I’m obviously young at heart

Cake gets me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cake"

Where is this cake you speak of?! Best not be carrot cake

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We enjoy meeting like minded people that we can be open with sexually. We’re both adventurous and sexual so it helps with that, and L loves playing with other women which she wouldn’t get to do without this part of our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts 20-30 year olds to the swinging scene ? Xx"

We don't believe Monogamy works. The vast majority of relationship break downs are due to cheating/affairs/stale sex/interest from other parties and so we have eliminated that problem and also get to explore our sexual fantasies completely judgement free with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We enjoy meeting like minded people that we can be open with sexually. We’re both adventurous and sexual so it helps with that, and L loves playing with other women which she wouldn’t get to do without this part of our lives. "

I should have added that to our answer. I think our age group are definitely more sexually open and adventurous. I also think the rise of LGBTQ+ acceptance has meant a lot of people are now comfortable exploring their sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The freedom to express themselves? They're in their prime and in a time where freedom of sexuality and sex positivity makes it a pretty natural thing to do.

The older generations still have the swinger stigma where its seen as dirty to enjoy sex with multiple partners. Millenials are freer of that hold back.

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because sexual interest and freedom to Express a naughty adventurous side isn't defined by age.

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By *leo and LeoCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

This puts it nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sex"

One and only answer lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first started swinging with my Ex Gf when we’re 23.

Watching Playboy Swingers played a big role !

The excitement and buzz was there for us.

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