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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individuals preference surely . Agree or disagree it’s got nothing to do with us

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think that's a slight exaggeration

Just move on to the ones that don't have that on their profile, as you'll never convince those who do that they'll want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know dude ! But if you listen to them it is their preferences, no harm meant by that.... Unless that you as a human being you have feelings and I understand why it is painful to see that people do not even want to talk to you because of your skin colours.

Wait for the comment that will say move on

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

I've not seen it often, maybe different search criteria though

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I know dude ! But if you listen to them it is their preferences, no harm meant by that.... Unless that you as a human being you have feelings and I understand why it is painful to see that people do not even want to talk to you because of your skin colours.

Wait for the comment that will say move on "

Hey, I said move on

But I do agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first real Swinging experience was with an Asian, and it was one of the most Unforgettable experience nces I've ever had. I adore Asians and have always been treated well by them. Arabic men totally do it for me but I have to say, I took it rough anally by a few Kurdish men xxx

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By *ungle_kingMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

No different to people wanting BBC !!

The only scene where it's acceptable to use this stigma.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Life is too short mucka. Am asian and have good meets, just a case of finding the profiles that are attracted to you.

Good luck

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

OP, concentrate on your profile rather than criticising others.

Make changes in things within your control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every other is probably an exaggeration, everyone is entitled to put whatever preferences they want on their profile although statements like no Asians/beards/fattys will obviously offend! Maybe it would be politer to say I want Asians/bearded men/fattys rather than focusing on what we don’t want!! But that would mean people would actually have to read and take note on profile wants, this is never going to happen hence the I don’t want statements even if it doesn’t come across very nice

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

It is an unfortunate side effect on putting ourselves on here that we are exposed to just not “floating someone’s boat”, whether we are fat or thin, tall or short, black or white.

As a single guy who already has vast amounts of competition to deal with it can be disheartening to find that some people’s preferences exclude you.

But OP there is no value in beating yourself up or letting this impact you in a negative way. In a strange way it’s a positive thing, in that people are confident in saying what they like and dislike in this liberated place, and you are part of this liberated place.

My advice, focus on the You, write the best profile you can, be honest, share pics that show you in your best light, engage respectfully and patiently. You won’t turn people from their choices, but you will impress others with your decorum, manners and behaviour and hopefully that will bear the fruit you desire. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
Well if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
Well if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
Well if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lolWell if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really "

Such a profound statement you had to make it twice....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lolWell if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really

Such a profound statement you had to make it twice...."

3 times

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I think "every other profile" is exaggerating somewhat. And yes, this has already been mentioned on many previous threads before. Like people have already advised, concentrate on the profiles that do want to meet Asian guys rather than getting hung up about the ones that don't want to meet you. Your fab experience will be a much better one. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have strict rules on who we will and will not meet. But thought it best not to mention on profile. We just ignore them instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s worse when it says no blacks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first real Swinging experience was with an Asian, and it was one of the most Unforgettable experience nces I've ever had. I adore Asians and have always been treated well by them. Arabic men totally do it for me but I have to say, I took it rough anally by a few Kurdish men xxx"

You are definitely My type of woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lolWell if you know it's been mentioned previously you know what the answer will be so kind of a pointless question really

Such a profound statement you had to make it twice...."
yes don't know why that happens a lot on the train must be a signal thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh so lets see, I shall go have sex with every person I do not want to have sex with just to not cause any offence.

If someone doesn't want to have sex with Asian men then that is 100% their choice and they should never be embarrassed or feel bad about stating so.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"

Just looked at your profile:

I’m outraged that you don’t want to have sex with other men or cd/tv...

How dare you exclude over 60% of the population on Fabs based purely on your own choice

Same shoe, different foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh so lets see, I shall go have sex with every person I do not want to have sex with just to not cause any offence.

If someone doesn't want to have sex with Asian men then that is 100% their choice and they should never be embarrassed or feel bad about stating so."

If someone is hurt by someone stating that due to their skin colour they won't have sex with them....they shouldn't feel bad about stating so

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Called focus of attention. If something is important to you your conscious awareness will focus on it.

A friend who had cancer once said, ‘it is everywhere, magazines, television, radio’. Actually it’s not, it wouldn’t sell the media.

People who object are usually to highly focused and not referencing reality.

That or playing a poor me race card, well from my perspective.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

One of the things I do before replying to a thread is to green arrow the OP. If nothing else it helps me to see whether they are a new poster or not and then tailor my message.

OP welcome to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concentrate on those who include you rather than exclude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never seen a profile where it says that, you must be getting unlucky OP

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

And the 2019 FAB swingers most flogged to death subject award goes to........

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"

Mine doesn't.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol

Mine doesn't. "

Us too, however we are Spartacus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh so lets see, I shall go have sex with every person I do not want to have sex with just to not cause any offence.

If someone doesn't want to have sex with Asian men then that is 100% their choice and they should never be embarrassed or feel bad about stating so."

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol

Mine doesn't.

Us too, however we are Spartacus!"

You can be Spartacus.

I'm Batman.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"
The whole site just wans BBC. !

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol The whole site just wans BBC. !"

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"

This is being replayed again??

Mentioned just a few times???....

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’d swear these stupid posts will keep coming until someone finally comes along and says they are racist just to keep these OPs happy

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol

Mine doesn't.

Us too, however we are Spartacus!

You can be Spartacus.

I'm Batman. "

Damn, I’ve morphed into iron man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the 2019 FAB swingers most flogged to death subject award goes to........ "

The award goes to this old chestnut again!

Nothing to do with the very poor effort put into profiles....

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol

Mine doesn't.

Us too, however we are Spartacus!

You can be Spartacus.

I'm Batman.

Damn, I’ve morphed into iron man."

Is that a euphemism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See loads of Asian couples asking for Asians only. And no one gets their knickers in a twist over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your hot, your in a club and you catch my eye.. I might and I have

All depends on your approach and personality.

I have my preferences just like anyone else on here. Have been quite vocal about them in the past. Not worth the hassle tbh.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I know this has been mentioned a few times... but nearly every other profile you click on says no asians lol"

I can honestly say that I've only seen four or five profiles saying No Asians.

I'd say just block people who are not interested in you and concentrate on people who might be.

Cal

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

The idea of labeling a vast and varied group of people by using the term no asians is a broad as saying I won't meet any white europeans because I don't like Italians (just an example).

We have numerous winks/msgs off people who state no Asians but still contact us.

It just seems a bizzare situation.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

PM me to chat MJ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no asians" can refer to half the world. Tej prefers white guys or cut greeks/turks but on the whole white guys we are "asian" its a preference

We alsoprefer, well i do the cock to be as large and hard as possible it turns me on Tej is to shy to admit it but i can tell she gets on better with a bigger cock

we prefer polite, clean, nice guys with a clean home

so it is preference

HTH

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We are new to this, and just find it very odd.

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

We have seen a cpl of profiles with no Asians , but I guess it’s there preference , we all have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather see an ad here saying 'No A/B/C' at least we know where we stand and saves all wasted time and effort.

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By *illUpMySensesMan
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

I was asked the other day if I was Asian by an Asian couple, turned out to be a none starter when I wasn't. People have their preferences and that's fine and normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The idea of labeling a vast and varied group of people by using the term no asians is a broad as saying I won't meet any white europeans because I don't like Italians (just an example).

We have numerous winks/msgs off people who state no Asians but still contact us.

It just seems a bizzare situation."

Exactly my point .

It's such a broad term used by some people here blatantly, giving it a nice term called "preferences"

We just block them and move on . Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The idea of labeling a vast and varied group of people by using the term no asians is a broad as saying I won't meet any white europeans because I don't like Italians (just an example).

We have numerous winks/msgs off people who state no Asians but still contact us.

It just seems a bizzare situation.

Exactly my point .

It's such a broad term used by some people here blatantly, giving it a nice term called "preferences"

We just block them and move on . Simple

"

Their loss

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Nothing to do with colour it's about behaviour.

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By *haz23Couple
over a year ago

dagenham

2 different arguments here. Don't think that you gaslighting will work.

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By *haz23Couple
over a year ago

dagenham

The ones that say no Asians clearly find every Asians ugly. But they won't say that as it will make them look bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL and there’s some who straight block without having said any preferences

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