FabSwingers.com forum: Social almost as exciting as sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not that we've had any yet but it feels to us that the elements of a social meetup with like minded people, ie anticipation, nervousness, flirting, becoming more relaxed etc would be almost as exciting as the actual sex itself.

What say you's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the social part can be better than the sexual part, which is disappointing.

You can have all the sexual tension, flirtation and charged atmosphere of a social and the excitement before can be awesome but it can all go to crap in the bedroom, hence little point in social only meets, chat get on and then get it on, cuz you never know what you are going to get

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Can indeed confirm, (assuming you get on well and the attraction is or at least seems mutual) a social with somebody you fancy is INCREDIBLY exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social please you more

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Can indeed confirm, (assuming you get on well and the attraction is or at least seems mutual) a social with somebody you fancy is INCREDIBLY exciting.

I love that rush of meeting someone for the first time, the potential hanging heavy in the air. I like the flirtation and the easy conversation. It's not quite as good as sex but almost.

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

Not as good as sex but still very nice

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Can indeed confirm, (assuming you get on well and the attraction is or at least seems mutual) a social with somebody you fancy is INCREDIBLY exciting.

I love that rush of meeting someone for the first time, the potential hanging heavy in the air. I like the flirtation and the easy conversation. It's not quite as good as sex but almost."

EXACTLY! There's an indefinable air of... almost expectation. Promise. At this particular point in time, anything can happen. It's electric.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great social is a prerequisite to anything else happening so in that respect it's always more exciting. I find the anticipation of that first meet almost overwhelming.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah and if you dip ya cock in ya coffee you also get something hot and wet round ya cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A great social is a prerequisite to anything else happening so in that respect it's always more exciting. I find the anticipation of that first meet almost overwhelming. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" It's not quite as good as sex but almost."

Depends how crap the sex is lol

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By *uffinMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The social side of fab is sadly non existant, those of you who are lucky enough or pretty enough to be accepted by the elitist majority will have a wonderful experiance.

Personally FAB is a complete waste of time as emails are ignored regardless of content or how friendly or dominant you can be.

Yeah im a single male on the forum and there are a million for couples and single girls to choose from but what i look for is to find like minded others who may fancy a social meet to talk over a coffee and perhaps more or to just chat via mail about our experiances and fantasies.

Regardless i keep on looking hopeing that some will want the same.

So is the sex crap - it's not on the table yet and yeah it's currently crap on the social side also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree _uffin, find fab demoralising and a put down, dont think Im that repulsive, love someone to prove me wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The social side of fab is sadly non existant, those of you who are lucky enough or pretty enough to be accepted by the elitist majority will have a wonderful experiance.

Personally FAB is a complete waste of time as emails are ignored regardless of content or how friendly or dominant you can be.

Regardless i keep on looking hopeing that some will want the same.

So is the sex crap - it's not on the table yet and yeah it's currently crap on the social side also."

You won't get much more than _uffin with that attitude buster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nuffin and clitflicker, both of you have no public photos on your profiles. I wouldnt give you a second look for that reason alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social or a decent chat is an absolute must. The whole build up is essential. Without that, there's simply nothing to be turned on about

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By *uffinMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

it's not really an attitude against fab more that in general there is no or little social building - its all wow great i wanna fuck that and you either get it or ignored.

Personally ive had prof pics and a verification on my old profile but all i got was tv's and gay requests - sadly my physique is aparently very appealing to guys! whilst bi curious im not full on gay and having been to a tv swing club no offense it was really odd personally and the clothes were kept on and the cola d*unk quickly. But the dolls were chatty and ok just not my thing.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

"A social or a decent chat is an absolute must. The whole build up is essential. Without that, there's simply nothing to be turned on about

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah and if you dip ya cock in ya coffee you also get something hot and wet round ya cock

As long as you don't dip it in my coffee

Mrs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Have to agree _uffin, find fab demoralising and a put down, dont think Im that repulsive, love someone to prove me wrong"

Me? I’m not oil painting. Well, perhaps a tad post modern abstract, but proportion and scale are all trad. If I can make a ‘success’ of fab, then anyone can.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yeah and if you dip ya cock in ya coffee you also get something hot and wet round ya cock

As long as you don't dip it in my coffee

Mrs "
don’t you like cream in coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah and if you dip ya cock in ya coffee you also get something hot and wet round ya cock

As long as you don't dip it in my coffee

Mrs don’t you like cream in coffee? "

Not that kind of cream. It goes lumpy as soon as it hits temperatures above the body temperature.

Mrs

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By *iss_taylorraeWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

"Nuffin and clitflicker, both of you have no public photos on your profiles. I wouldnt give you a second look for that reason alone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a social meet just by virtue I enjoy meeting people, if it goes really well even better

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires

Always love the rush of a new meet , or the excitement of meeting some folks i have met before and had a really good time with - the social interaction and chemistry is really important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the social aspect as well as the sexual aspect of fab. Each has its own unique focusses of excitement for us. Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cannot wait to be walking into a bar somewhere, introducing ourselves to people we have never met before, with the thought that just possibly if all goes well, we'll all be having some naughty fun later in the evening

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