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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm married and that I'm on here to fulfill fantasies I've never had? I don't want to separate from my wife, I've always had a list of things I wanted to experience sexually, one of them being part of a threesome. Now I know I'm to be slated on here and I've tried to make these thoughts go away but it won't and never will, I'm here to tick them off my list, I'm n not looking to do it full time, just something I can look back on and say I've done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you haven’t said is does she know you’re on here?

If she does then I don’t see an issue but would want verification from her first. If she doesn’t, well at least you’re honest, but it doesn’t state any of this in your profile. You may tuck someone’s boxes, others will see you as a cheat.

It says on your profile this isn’t your first time here, were you with her then?

Personally not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* tick not tuck!!

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Have you not thought your wife might have her own fantasies that she wants fulfilling, maybe one of hers is a threesome... Next time you are fucking maybe whisper in her ear you would love to see her satisfying 2 men...

If she has the same fantasy that might just open things up for you to talk about it.... And it saves you potentially being caught out as a cheat and losing her in the process

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

You say that you don't want to separate from your wife.

If you do not have her permission or she is not aware that you are on here you have to remember that if she finds out, you will hurt her incredibly and you may very well end up separating, with all the emotional and financial repercussions that follow. Only you know if fulfilling or even just trying to fulfil a fantasy or two are worth potentially hurting and destroying lives?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It's your life so do what you want...you're the one who has to look yourself in the eye's and live with it.

Why do you care what people think?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean is it wrong to pursue sexual happiness? I would say that it depends. Since you've mentioned your wife I would say that in your case it would depend on how your wife feels about it.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile suggests all the wrong things if what you say above is true If you truly love her and care. I’d leave the site and work on your relationship because this is only going to end In Tears and ridicule from the formalities

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