FabSwingers.com forum: Couples.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So the last 2 couples I have met, despite all the chat on here, hasn’t worked out. Firstly because on one case one partner was more in to it than the other but wanted to please the other partner, you could tell in their body language on the meet they weren’t and secondly I find the end of the meet very awkward. They have each other I have a journey home alone.

Do other people find this or have I just been unlucky on my last 2 socials/meets?

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I await the responses with interest as I have never been with a couple before and it's partly because of what you say - they leave together and you/I are alone so wasn't sure how I would feel about that and also most couples I have chatted to it's mainly the male so it makes me wonder if the female is totally into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met with a couple yet - we got stood up.

It does seem harder than it should be.

Perhaps it's because one member of the couple is on here and the other doesn't necessarily get involved in the chats until the last minute.

Or just that people don't know what they want...

Or maybe most people are just arseholes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't met with another couple yet as it's hard to chat to them both to find what people like

However, only our F plays, she's a sub so it's also hard to find a couple that both play Dom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I await the responses with interest as I have never been with a couple before and it's partly because of what you say - they leave together and you/I are alone so wasn't sure how I would feel about that and also most couples I have chatted to it's mainly the male so it makes me wonder if the female is totally into it

I’ve read on a few profiles “all we want is fuck and go, no one is staying the night”.

This so puts me off

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Haven't met with another couple yet as it's hard to chat to them both to find what people like

However, only our F plays, she's a sub so it's also hard to find a couple that both play Dom

*Waves*

As for OP, we’ve never met a single female but that “was” why we joined. We can see that it may be more than a little hard for them. Not just leaving alone, but arriving alone too. We guess there’s a lot of couples who only one half is into it, but we both def want to play with the lady!

With regards to the leaving alone while the couple have each other to “go home” with, we’d probably try to involve you (the single female in general) in the after fun by way of messaging, photos etc. It’s not quite the same as going home together, but possibly it would be something to help alone play...

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

I (mrs) have been on both sides of the fence, playing as part of a couple with single fems, and as a single fem with couples. As someone has already mentioned you can be included afterwards with texts etc, but I'm wondering if you are looking for more of a poly arrangement. When I play as a single fem I don't expect to be part of their relationship, the fun was great but I move on. As a couple, yes we may remain friends afterwards with the single fem but nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is say you’ve just been unlucky. When we play, we make it clear to the third party that we expect to be both equally involved. If after initial contact they don’t float both our boats, we take it no further, explaining why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t had a single female but we wouldn’t let her go home alone we would offer her to stay the night or take her home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met with single females. For us the playtime is very much for all of our enjoyment, the build up of messaging and anticipation is key for all people to feel relaxed, happy and wanted.

We prefer to meet single women in a public place first, maybe have a drink and chat. Then we would let her decide whether she wants to come back to our house, or we go to her house or we have even gone to a hotel.

After the play has finished we don't want to rush off, we enjoy laying together all touching and cuddling with plenty of affection and conversation.

Polite messages after play are sent, just like we would for another couple or single man. But once we leave we return to being a couple, we reclaim each other at home and discuss the fantastic shared experience.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

The last couple I've met have been incredible, so much so we meet again next week but I can see how you may feel the way you do. I'd say just unlucky xx

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We are both into the women we meet or wouldn't be meeting with her.

We both want to have fun and I the male for one wouldn't ask the wife to do anything she didn't want so definitely not on here for my benefit, she wants to play with women so here we are and play together we are happy with how it's going

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I do love meets with couples and some have had me message them to let them know I got home okay and then messaged me again thanking me &saying what they enjoyed about our meet. I found this wonderful and this made me feel id been part of their after play thoughts

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"So the last 2 couples I have met, despite all the chat on here, hasn’t worked out. Firstly because on one case one partner was more in to it than the other but wanted to please the other partner, you could tell in their body language on the meet they weren’t and secondly I find the end of the meet very awkward. They have each other I have a journey home alone.

Do other people find this or have I just been unlucky on my last 2 socials/meets?"

Sounds to me like you've been unlucky. I know that when we do get to meet a lady we would like all to be involved to be attracted to each other and to all play together and for everyone to enjoy the time together.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens....but tbh speaking as half of a couple, sometimes we can't win. We have managed to put people off by being "too into each other", people seem to find that quite intimidating.

I don't play with anyone I'm not comfortable with and always either meet at a club or have a social first so as to see the dynamic in play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 2 pence regarding couples it’s been hard to find the dominant couple dynamic, hopefully will come across them soon till then don’t let one or two couples out of hundreds put you off

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We played with both single ladies and couples.

We get let down by 50% of planned confirmed meets by both.

Saying that we get let down by just as many single men.

Makes us look bad, as we put out meets semi reg. Lots come to nothing, but makes us look like right perves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we have arranged a few socials only to be let down

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

If any single females in Devon or Cornwall give us a shout we are very interested in giving you a good time x

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

It's a very tricky balancing act in that any two meets, even with the same people can often be very different. Even sex between regular partners can be average one day but mind-blowing the next. Adding more peeps to the mix just complicates further and everyone has to be 'on form' for want of a better phrase, for it to be mind-blowing all round.

We'd love to find a lady who feels so comfortable with us that we could all just fall asleep together AND still feel relaxed and comfortable getting up the next day. Maybe as someone has already alluded to, this might be considered bordering on a poly relationship?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I enjoy meeting couples but it is a tricky dynamic. I like to read and see that they are "together". I have walked out of meetings where one party was not sending the right signals.

I find meeting in a bar beforehand with couples allows for greater unpressured discussion where you, as a single, can see how their dynamic works. When the time feels right I pop off to the gents to allow them to chat and discuss whether they would like to go further. Upon my return it's usually a yay or nay.

The hollow empty feeling you get driving home? Now that is a little harder to deal with, but if you have had a good meet, it is usually much diminished.

Good luck in the future x

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"Haven't met with another couple yet as it's hard to chat to them both to find what people like

However, only our F plays, she's a sub so it's also hard to find a couple that both play Dom

*Waves*

Totally with you guys on this we both joined happily together to look for females, but it seems to be a harder task than expected, we try and be respectful and consider how the single female feels when there is 2 of us that’s why I (fem) always try and start a conversation hubby is always about and can chat anytime the female wants, but even with this I still hear about a lot of pushy couples or how one isn’t as into it as the other?...it’s very hard to get 2 personalities across...for us it’s about everyone having fun and getting along...(fem)

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