FabSwingers.com forum: Bi guys pretending to be straight

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Getting very bored of guys who claim to be straight on their profile, but can't stop messaging me that they want my cock! Now I appreciate me being honest about being bi does cost me meets with some women or couples but surely honesty is the best policy. I've blocked over100 "straight guys" and will continue to do so! And these women who think straight guys on here are all straight trust me far from truth.!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Yup..its a pain, and cos we dont know if they really are bi, or saying it to shag me, we delete and move on...

There is prejudice from some swingers, one i dont understand, and couples and fems who state on their profiles they wont meet bi guys...cos everyone knows they are just going to leap on the straight guy first chance they get

But i dont see the point in lying in order to get a meet...

There are of course those who dont think they are bi cos they dont do anal ect ect...thats a whole other kettle of denial and societal attitudes

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Getting very bored of guys who claim to be straight on their profile, but can't stop messaging me that they want my cock! Now I appreciate me being honest about being bi does cost me meets with some women or couples but surely honesty is the best policy. I've blocked over100 "straight guys" and will continue to do so! And these women who think straight guys on here are all straight trust me far from truth.!!

most of my so called str8 friends have sucked more cock than i have lol so yes your right most are not as honest about their sexuality than most women are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight .....and thats that have no intention of ever sucking anything !! although if this si the case about "straight" guys ...would explain why so many assume because i put straight on my profile that im really bi lol , just wish folk could be honest about their sexuality then we can all save a bit of time .

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

we still live by and large in a homophobic society..

amongst other things etc..

give it a couple of thousand years..

maybe..

not..

holding..

my..

breath..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You are asking to meet guys so is your issue that you will not meet guys claiming to be str8 and only bi ones.

block guys and do the picking if it is annoying you so..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are asking to meet guys so is your issue that you will not meet guys claiming to be str8 and only bi ones.

block guys and do the picking if it is annoying you so.."

I'm primarily looking to meet bi couples and women, however I am bisexual...so if a guy messages me and fits the criteria ie a decent message,pics,looks, and Honesty then would consider meeting. Definitely will never meet a guy claiming to be straight, but yet wants me to fuck them. Having a laugh, and bringing shame to the game! Appreciate all comment above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

putting bi on your profile dont cost you meets, as for those that rule it out they plenty that are looking for that and not having it on your profile costs you meets with them.

swings and roundabouts but i think people who are more honest are the ones not costing themselves any fun at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we still live by and large in a homophobic society..

amongst other things etc..

give it a couple of thousand years..

maybe..

not..

holding..

my..

breath.. "

to the op you can either humour em or block em

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just let them suck your cock.. surely its a win win?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can put what you want on your profile

Dont see why its such a big deal, i have met loads of bi guys on here who dont like to put bi on their profile, i dont see it as them being liars, things is on here things are done on a need to know based, you tell people what they need to know and keep the rest to your self, its a sex site not this is your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But i dont see the point in lying in order to get a meet..."

Considering the number of straight men who message me or who state meet tv/ts those couples who put no bi-guys on their profile might as well not bother....

I could digress here as to why some put that (a smidge of unfounded fear in some cases) but I won't.

Back to the OP come on guys it's a swinging site so if you like being sucked by a guy or sucking a guys cock be honest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you can put what you want on your profile

And I could have sworn I just saw Michael Aspell and his red book

Interesting point however if lying about sexuality what else lying about. Furthermore on the point of honesty I suppose what winds me up is missing out on couples,women who don't meet bisexual guys, when meeting "straight" guys! But hey as a previous post said if I didn't have bi on my profile I'd miss out on couples looking for bi's, so swings in roundabouts. I'll put my toys back in my pram now

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

OP i agree with you why cant they just put bi on profile , it would save the true straight guys being hassled and lets face it they do get hassled if what they say in chat is true that most of the mail a straight guy recieves is from other guys.

Guys if u like to suck cock ur bi , if u want to meet tvs no matter how convincing they look you are bi.

Honesty with yourself if not others will be good .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lozbbw absolutely hits nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow same issue but with a male perspective! Sounds like these guys are in total denial and can't embrace who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant really call anyone for doing it as i have straight on my profile but im bi

The reason i dont have bi on my profile isnt because im a lair, its not cause i now cant be trusted, no im not married really i didnt lie about that too

its simply to stop couples mailing me, tho i am bi i only meet men on here and seeing as no guys going to turn me down on here based on my sexuality, lets face it they wont. i dont see what my sexuality matters to them

When i had bi on my profile i got loads of couples mailing me even tho i made it clear i dont meet couples but then they'd want to know why i dont meet couples etc if i was bi and i really cant be arsed explaining myself and why i dont want to meet people to them so i swapped it

It was just a case of making my profile work best for me and not because im attempting to trick anyone into meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure why anyone is too bothered about the label.

95% of it's single male profile population on the site are probably married, but not being up front about it.

I know if it was a purist swing site everyone would be up front, but they're not and that's the way it is.

Being a Gold or Silver member is fun to see all the "straight" guys looking at my profile, I really don't mind, if they want to play and there's a click, then who am I to judge?

I think the most humorous "straight" profiles are the TV/TS profiles with verifications from straight guys. Erm hello....

We know what we enjoy, or would like to enjoy, live and let live.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

We're both bi and have always said so clearly on our profile. When we've met some couples in the past, sometimes at parties, we've discovered that a few 'straight' males are actually bi/curious/playful and that's been fine - if we fancy 'em, we play with them! There are lots of reasons for people to be unwilling to put their status as bi, and we frankly don't give a toss! We're being honest with each other, only practice safe sex so we just don't worry about anyone else's morals or motivations - we're on a swinging site, not the bloody ALPHA course!

Why do people get so worked up about this? Can understand if they picked a straight guy (or girl!) who turned out to be bi and hit on them, but if they are bi themsleves...??

Each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup..its a pain, and cos we dont know if they really are bi, or saying it to shag me, we delete and move on...

But i dont see the point in lying in order to get a meet...

There are of course those who dont think they are bi cos they dont do anal ect ect...thats a whole other kettle of denial and societal attitudes

We have on our profile that we don't meet bi guys, it's not that we don't like bi guys in general(we have some bisexual male friends) it's that the mrs finds male/male action a huge turn off so it puts her off a bit. To us it's the same as people who don't meet black guys, Asian guys and any other combination you can think of! It's all down to preference, Nothing else! And its not because we think that because a guy is bi that's he's going to jump on me at all, it's preference!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's right...and I prefer not to be bombarded with messages from "straight" guys so am just about to block all men, and stick to couples and women. Rather that than sift through crappy messages from closet hoggers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

remember to always trade up a level

straight = bi playful

bi playful = bi curious

bi curious = bi sexual

bi sexual = gay

gay = elton john

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"remember to always trade up a level

straight = bi playful

bi playful = bi curious

bi curious = bi sexual

bi sexual = gay

gay = elton john

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"remember to always trade up a level

straight = bi playful

bi playful = bi curious

bi curious = bi sexual

bi sexual = gay

gay = elton john

Bisexual =gay...didn't realize gays like shagging women

Do agree with bi curious being bisexual though..but at least a degree of honesty.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"remember to always trade up a level

straight = bi playful

bi playful = bi curious

bi curious = bi sexual

bi sexual = gay

gay = elton john

I know posted as a bit of banter but the above is why certain people have a beef with bi guys thinking 'there are no 100% straight guys'...

THERE ARE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"putting bi on your profile dont cost you meets, as for those that rule it out they plenty that are looking for that and not having it on your profile costs you meets with them.

swings and roundabouts but i think people who are more honest are the ones not costing themselves any fun at all"

I am sorry but if you confess to quite a lot of women that you are bi, they end the dialogue, albeit with a sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexual =gay...didn't realize gays like shagging women"

Bisexual males do have and like sex with women they just swing both ways the same as bisexual fems do.

Bi & bisexual women have been accepted for many many years so its called equal rights.......accept males doing the same and encourage it on the profile.

If its not for you leave alone my wife is not bi-fem she leaves alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"putting bi on your profile dont cost you meets, as for those that rule it out they plenty that are looking for that and not having it on your profile costs you meets with them.

swings and roundabouts but i think people who are more honest are the ones not costing themselves any fun at all

I am sorry but if you confess to quite a lot of women that you are bi, they end the dialogue, albeit with a sorry."

why you have to confess anything, you just list it on your profile,

sometimes to not hurt feelings sometimes people use things like that on profiles as a reason not to meet and something you cannot argue with or get overly down about being rejected.

rather than them saying they dont fancy you etc, they might say too old/too young or we dont see bi people. its something you cant change or really have a sensible argument for or against.

sure they are some it puts off and makes someone a definite no, but for all the ones it does they are just as many who are activly looking for genuine bi guys too. and they are lots out there who either dont read it or arnt bothered about it.

i think if anything since i had it on my profile im curious my meets have probally gone up (cant say thats 100% to do with me changing it as i may just be finding the site easier and/or having a more appealing profile) hasnt gone up by loads but i certinetally havent noticed any negative effects to me meeting people.

but agree some people it puts off, but as many people or couples who will not accept it, they are just as many who are looking for that too.

maybe alot has how you go on with messages telling them this, its not something i bring to the forefront, its their for them to see if they are looking for that i know they will check and normally if they are interested in that way then they will normally show interest by asking a few questions about it to get an understanding of me

but never under estimate peoples potential to use it or another thing on your profile as an excuse to hide another reason why they wont meet you when they are just thinking of a way to be polite and not offend you or hurt your feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Bisexual =gay...didn't realize gays like shagging women"

Bisexual males do have and like sex with women they just swing both ways the same as bisexual fems do.

Bi & bisexual women have been accepted for many many years so its called equal rights.......accept males doing the same and encourage it on the profile.

If its not for you leave alone my wife is not bi-fem she leaves alone."

I am bisexual and fully aware what it means. I just prefer to play with bi couples, not bi or gay guys pretending to be straight. Liars = timewasters to me.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i cant really call anyone for doing it as i have straight on my profile but im bi

The reason i dont have bi on my profile isnt because im a lair, its not cause i now cant be trusted, no im not married really i didnt lie about that too

It was just a case of making my profile work best for me and not because im attempting to trick anyone into meet me"

i understand your reasons, however from our _iew when guys contact us, knowing our profile says bi single men wanted, how are we to know if they are bi unless their profile says so...

We just find it easier to meet men who are open about theur sexuality

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

""Bisexual =gay...didn't realize gays like shagging women"

Bisexual males do have and like sex with women they just swing both ways the same as bisexual fems do.

Bi & bisexual women have been accepted for many many years so its called equal rights.......accept males doing the same and encourage it on the profile.

If its not for you leave alone my wife is not bi-fem she leaves alone.

I am bisexual and fully aware what it means. I just prefer to play with bi couples, not bi or gay guys pretending to be straight. Liars = timewasters to me.

.. but as you've yet to get verified on here, (perhaps you're having fun elsewhere too?) does that perhaps indicate that your tactics are limiting your opportunities a bit? If, as you've said earlier, you would play with openly bi men, then why not a discretely bi male?

Just playing Devil's Advocate here - as in all aspects of swinging ("no short/tall men/women", "no black/white", "no fat/skinny" etc,) it's all about personal choice.... am still left wondering why there's so much angst and brimstone levelled at guys who don't want to openly proclaim they are bi... as long as they come clean at the message stage, before you agree to play, and assuming you're happy to play with bi guys, then what's the issue? NO one is totally open on a site like this (or else there'd be face pics and email addresses, job information, mobile numbers and the like on everyone's public profile)... so is it not unreasonable, in light of the often repeated if mildly homophobic reaction to bi male sexuality versus bi females, to keep some things private up to the point where you are contacting someone?

As said earlier, we've met some 'hidden bi' males (and, we should add, for the sake of balance, some 'straight' females who also played for both sides!) who turned out to be sexy, lovely people. Not a bunch of lying schemers who we wished we'd never met!

It's supposed to be fun isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"remember to always trade up a level

straight = bi playful

bi playful = bi curious

bi curious = bi sexual

bi sexual = gay

gay = elton john

I know posted as a bit of banter but the above is why certain people have a beef with bi guys thinking 'there are no 100% straight guys'...

THERE ARE

well I'm one, I experimented(literally for a few moments) a long while ago, however I've got to the point where I'd refuse a meet based on any bi-play towards me or expected from me...even if theres hot fanny on offer!!!!!

I dont mind if the guy gets off watching and participating with his partner,just as long as I'm not touched(in the sexual manner)by himself.

and actually I ind it more annoying to hear that straight guys pretend to be bi,just to get into the female halfs knickers!

I stand my ground until my sexuality might change, but its not gonna happen until I've shagged every woman on earth,mars etc etc etc lol

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

"remember to always trade up a level

straight = bi playful

bi playful = bi curious

bi curious = bi sexual

bi sexual = gay

gay = elton john

I know posted as a bit of banter but the above is why certain people have a beef with bi guys thinking 'there are no 100% straight guys'...

THERE ARE

I dont mind if the guy gets off watching and participating with his partner,just as long as I'm not touched(in the sexual manner)by himself.

and actually I ind it more annoying to hear that straight guys pretend to be bi,just to get into the female halfs knickers!

I stand my ground until my sexuality might change, but its not gonna happen until I've shagged every woman on earth,mars etc etc etc lol

.. absolutely agree with and respect what you say.... my points above are solely based on the apparent contradiction of a BI bloke, (or bi male couple) who WOULD play with a bi guy, turning them down because their profile said straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had several meets with guys whose profile said str8 but following messages they reveal that they are infact bi.....

Its a different story once games commence the str8/bi only concentrates of the female and frowns on bi involvement, making the female feel awkward, noticing her partner is left out of any activity, this put this fem off for a long time.

So I support those that say bi on the profile and not in chat after contact, I believe its being open & honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The fact of the matter is if you can't be honest about your sexuality on a swingers site, what else will you be dishonest about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"remember to always trade up a level

straight = bi playful

bi playful = bi curious

bi curious = bi sexual

bi sexual = gay

gay = elton john

I know posted as a bit of banter but the above is why certain people have a beef with bi guys thinking 'there are no 100% straight guys'...

THERE ARE

I dont mind if the guy gets off watching and participating with his partner,just as long as I'm not touched(in the sexual manner)by himself.

and actually I ind it more annoying to hear that straight guys pretend to be bi,just to get into the female halfs knickers!

I stand my ground until my sexuality might change, but its not gonna happen until I've shagged every woman on earth,mars etc etc etc lol

get ur point..

some straight people will experiment, but not class themselves as bi in any form..if this leads them to a bi-curious status fine,or bi-sexual fine.

I think what people should do is update their sexual status's when its becoming pretty apparent they are meeting same sexes(for same sex sexual fun). as long as they play with the bi-male and female as agreed(not to lick n fuck the female half, quickly get ready to leave when the male half shows interest).

without sounding big headed, I know I could increase my meets with either bi-couples,or bi-males no problem...but not at the expense of my actual sexual preference!

Someones mentioned bi-verifies:I have met a broad spectrum of people on here, of all sexualities ..some have left verifications but this doesnt mean I've played WITH everyone I've met.

I still love a comment from years ago i was asked, "so u'd do my wife's arse..but not mine! Whats the difference!?"

silence befell my brain

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By *ittle miss cock suckerWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

i may be wroung on this but i always thought that the word swingers was some one who went with man and woman

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

That's swing both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5, a & b are of interest...you read it how you will.

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adjective

characterized by or capable of swinging, being swung, or causing to swing.

intended for swinging upon, by, from, or in: the swinging devices in a playground.

Slang . excellent; first-rate.

Slang . lively, active, and modern; hip.

Slang .

free and uninhibited sexually: a swinging bachelor.

exchanging spouses for sex: swinging married couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just come across this thread and some interesting points of _iew - which of course are all correct as we're all entitled to our own _iewpoint!

Plus it makes a nice change from all the previous "Straight guys pretending to be bi!" threads i've seen before!

Shoe certainly seems to be on the other foot now!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am a 5A

been called many things in my life... never a 5A tho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get more messages off straight guys saying they are bi than bi guys that have it on their profile that they are.

We're both bi, don't always want to play bi but we only really meet bi guys so the option is there if the mood takes us. We wouldn't message a guy that had straight on their profile so all these guys putting straight on their profile when in fact they like a bit of both are just costing themselves meets with bi couples which just seems daft to me.

Just be blooming honest! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... as a single girl I would love to meet a couple of bi men... but am struggling trying to work out how to arrange a three way meet where there is an attraction between all three parties... there are obviously enough of them on here

I just wish I knew how to contact them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... as a single girl I would love to meet a couple of bi men... but am struggling trying to work out how to arrange a three way meet where there is an attraction between all three parties... there are obviously enough of them on here

I just wish I knew how to contact them

if I let the guy peck me on the cheek, can I come?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish I knew how to contact them

if I let the guy peck me on the cheek, can I come?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very irritating when guy's do this... it makes them look very desperate in my opinion... and are you not comfortable in your own skin? If you're bi, you're bi... you know this pretending to be macho man stuff is getting sickening if i may be honest.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

I put on my profile that I do not tell lies and do not like being lied to. So if I get a message from someone who'se profile says straight but he says he's Bi then I tell him he's lying and block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone who swore blind that he was 100% straight but turns out that he would happily meet men on his own for 'sucking' fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i know guys who will only meet TVs and thinks that makes them straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So here's the question: why aren't guys just up front about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made a comment on my past subject in the forum about bi ladies and I was totally told about labels. I had explained that Dr Kinsey had done a study which shows people have a spectrum of sexuality. The report states people fall into the 1-5 spectrum 1 totally straight - 5 totally gay most people fall in the 2-4 section. Also sexually changes with time also so you can be a 1 at one point in your life but is can change to a 2-4. It's human nature to have changes. I'm not labelling anyone but those are scientific facts they are the basis of most sexuality studies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've made a comment on my past subject in the forum about bi ladies and I was totally told about labels. I had explained that Dr Kinsey had done a study which shows people have a spectrum of sexuality. The report states people fall into the 1-5 spectrum 1 totally straight - 5 totally gay most people fall in the 2-4 section. Also sexually changes with time also so you can be a 1 at one point in your life but is can change to a 2-4. It's human nature to have changes. I'm not labelling anyone but those are scientific facts they are the basis of most sexuality studies. "

well i say never say never, but only when i want it to change...the minute i start taking twinges at cocks or a manly face blowing me off...then I'll know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get loeads of straight guys message us even thought it says on our profile, if it says straight on your profile you wont even get an answer.

but i think this is more about people not reading lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting comments problem is not many people actually bother too read the profile through to the end like too think mine was plan enough and polite but i still get messages from st8 and bi guys etc there just working the percentages make enough hits one will bite as for loads of couples looking for st8 guys only bet they have met a few who are actually bi or have had bi experiences without the guy telling them know this form previous site and out dogging seen guys happly sucking on guys then couple turn up suddenly they are st8

guess honesty may not be the best policy,not my option but thats another issue

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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago

Any place 4 the right Person

I was just thinking of posting a thread on the same thing.

I met a guy from Fab STRAIGHT profile and started checking out the verifications. He seemed to like couples rather than single females and the men of the couples tended to be bi-bi curious. 8 months on I ask the question he is actually bi. Of course he had a Fabguys account for a while and is into Tv's, TS's etc etc each to there own mind I have no objections. But I like informed choice if a profile says straight and your not you meet people under false pretenses Right? When you introduce them to friends that sort of leaves you feeling you've lied as well only you didn't know, so do you tell them? Lol but it isn't funny. Mi x

If anyone will accept you for who you are it's on a site like this, and you are bound to find exactly what your looking for without the lies.

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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago

Any place 4 the right Person

if i'm reading your post right it basically says people can be straight or gay and those inbetween who may have bi tendancies. For example a stright guy that likes anal sex?? My personal feeling is that people can be straight with bi tendancies but ut doesn't make them fully bi. Please don't shoot, just my thoughts and opinion?

Mi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are probably not but if it bothers you block all the single males and it will stop them mailing you.

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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago

Any place 4 the right Person

But i dont see the point in lying in order to get a meet...

Considering the number of straight men who message me or who state meet tv/ts those couples who put no bi-guys on their profile might as well not bother....

I could digress here as to why some put that (a smidge of unfounded fear in some cases) but I won't.

Back to the OP come on guys it's a swinging site so if you like being sucked by a guy or sucking a guys cock be honest?"

Here, Here

Totally agree

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By *orset manMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I am straight- not the slightest bit interested in another mans cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They are probably not but if it bothers you block all the single males and it will stop them mailing you."

Blocked them yesterday as had enough. Now instead of getting 20 messages a day, of which 15 would be from "straight" guys I'm getting a handful of quality messages. I'm happy as less admin

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

OMG! Where does this thread leave us? Our profile has this in it..

"Bi-sex?:

Whole can of worms here! I suppose you can’t call Innuendo either bi-sexual or Bi-curious. She prefers men by a country mile and has tried Bi and is no longer curious! She, however Bi-playful! If the feeling is right and there is some sort of attraction, she will play and play fully! Rumour? Not been there, but never is a very long time. In the heat of the moment and in a tangle, anything may be game if all agree! Certainly not ruled out! Bi-guys are not excluded from our games."

I can't say I think about playing with guys, Innuendo doesn't fantasise about ladies, but in the heat of the moment, something may happen! Innuendo has participated fully with one fem we know but if you ask her in the cold light of day.. As in our profile, nothing is ruled out, but we are Bi-Friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a MF couple seeking bi/gay men, it's really difficult finding men on swinging contact sites like this. We get much better response on bi/gay contact sites.

If only FabSwingers would put a search / block filter on guys who say that they're "straight", "Bi", "gay" etc, then it would save a lot of time & wasted messages.

"Broadminded" should be another one to filter out, what does that mean these days?

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