FabSwingers.com forum: Splitting up

By *itguy21066 OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

Just wondered if any couples have ended their relationship over swinging, where one wants to do it and the other doesn’t! Love to hear your stories

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Im going to guess in most casses the cause wasn't swinging but more swinging exacerbated underlying problems.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Im going to guess in most casses the cause wasn't swinging but more swinging exacerbated underlying problems."

This sounds about right

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By *itguy21066 OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

I’m guessing the Male normally leads the way and the female goes along with it in a lot of cases

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I’m guessing the Male normally leads the way and the female goes along with it in a lot of cases "

I think that's a huge assumption.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m guessing the Male normally leads the way and the female goes along with it in a lot of cases "

I understand what you mean.....

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"I’m guessing the Male normally leads the way and the female goes along with it in a lot of cases "
nope

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have gone along with things that I wouldn’t normally for a guy that I loved. It definitely happens but I wouldn’t say that that’s why people are on here.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

A previous relationship ended because he wanted to swing and I couldn't get my head around it.

15 years later n he's the reason I'm here as he recommended the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure there’s a whole host of reasons - some ever changing or some just realise they’ve had enough of whatever it is specifically they don’t enjoy.

Plenty of people it works for, many it doesn’t, but some parts of both groups compromise too much at times, for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has more than likely been the catalyst for a fair few.

Swinging can definitely enhance insecurities which can in turn have a detrimental effect on relationships.

I know B isn't wired to have sex with just one woman, and as much as I'd love to say if I didn't want this lifestyle he'd drop it like a hot potato I can't.

I wouldn't want to make him miserable, so as sad as it may seem I think it would be the end for us if I didn't want to.

Would be a huge shame, as his half erect 70 year old man wang won't be able to wipe his arse for him when he is unable to do it himself, nor will it have conversations with him about their adventures and times they've shared. That's life though eh and we all want to make the most of the short one we have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m guessing the Male normally leads the way and the female goes along with it in a lot of cases

I think that's a huge assumption."

Actually it's true a guy who I met years ago was on he screwing around without her knowing.

They then made a profile which was him leading the way and she was just doing it to make him happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A previous relationship ended because he wanted to swing and I couldn't get my head around it.

15 years later n he's the reason I'm here as he recommended the site.

And they haven't changed the site design since then either lol

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have known a couple who split after she got too close to her fuck bud....

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