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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How come there are so many people on here without verification or who aren't sight suporters? Is this becoming a social sight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies worded it wrong...

I don't think being a site supporter makes you 'genuine'

Sarah xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"How come there are so many people on here without verification or who aren't sight suporters? Is this becoming a social sight?"

what is wrong with this being a "social site".... for a lot of people is it as much about the social side of swinging as it is about the sex....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If the site allows people to be a member without paying, without adding pics, or without getting verified, then I don't give a monkeys. It's run by the admin so what they decide is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come there are so many people on here without verification or who aren't sight suporters? Is this becoming a social sight?"

Why would you need to be\have either to be involved ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it isn't, some people use this site to keep in touch with friends as they prefer to meet at clubs rather than though the site.

As to site supporters, some don't want to pay out, don't see the point

Neither makes this a social site, people do want they want

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

er... that could be because it's free to join this site, it's no a stipulation that you have to be either verified or a site supporter. Some people in today's financial situation can find other things to spend the money on. I'm also quite sure the vast majority of people enjoy the social aspects of swinging, not just the sex. To finish, why shouldn't people who are curious about swinging join and then decide if it's for them or not, not all people are so confident as to just walk into a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come there are so many people on here without verification or who aren't sight suporters? Is this becoming a social sight?"

Being a site supporter doesn't mean your genuine, it just means you have a few quid to spare.

It could also mean that you want more from the site than you get for free.

As for social, can't see anything wrong with that, we've had some great meets that started out socially.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The point I am trying to put across is that there is a lot of people on here that have no intention of meeting others, surely this is what this sight is all about???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point I am trying to put across is that there is a lot of people on here that have no intention of meeting others, surely this is what this sight is all about???"

Like I said, they perhaps meet at cubs not through this site, and who says they have no intention of meeting, have you asked them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do u mean photo verified by site admin or verified by other site users??

My old profile was photo verified..... this one isnt..... donesnt make any difference to the amout of interest or mail i get

and if you meant verified by others..... well, we all know how hard it can be to meet on here, so sometimes getting that 1st verification can be a real struggle

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The point I am trying to put across is that there is a lot of people on here that have no intention of meeting others, surely this is what this sight is all about???"

I agree, there are a lot of people on here who don't meet others. In which case I won't be meeting them and they don't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point I am trying to put across is that there is a lot of people on here that have no intention of meeting others, surely this is what this sight is all about???"

Perhaps some people join to use the chat room & forums, perhaps they join to keep intouch with "friends" they have made in the swinging community, perhaps being verified isnt the be all and end all for them, perhaps they just like the thrill of it all...... i for one couldnt careless what they do... all that concerns me is how i use the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seems that lately I have come across a lot of people ( no pun intended) that you chat to and when you sugest meeting they have no intention 'they are just on here to chat' or be friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seems that lately I have come across a lot of people ( no pun intended) that you chat to and when you sugest meeting they have no intention 'they are just on here to chat' or be friendly"

or they just dont want to meet you??? (no offence intended)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Just seems that lately I have come across a lot of people ( no pun intended) that you chat to and when you sugest meeting they have no intention 'they are just on here to chat' or be friendly"

no offence... maybe they are just not interested in meeting YOU.... there is a huge difference between that and what is being said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seems that lately I have come across a lot of people ( no pun intended) that you chat to and when you sugest meeting they have no intention 'they are just on here to chat' or be friendly

no offence... maybe they are just not interested in meeting YOU.... there is a huge difference between that and what is being said..."

Great minds!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I strongly agree with you _abio, there is a great difference and that is exactly the point I am trying to put across, I have met some very intelligent and vocase people on hereand some peole just seem to abuse the offerings of the sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" some peole just seem to abuse the offerings of the sight"

can you explain to me what you mean by that?? its late.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are here for the chat and laughs and others for a good old bit if slap and tickle xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come there are so many people on here without verification or who aren't sight suporters? Is this becoming a social sight?"

why would you care, surely the less people that meet means if you do meet your chances are greater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are here for the chat and laughs and others for a good old bit if slap and tickle xxx"

some for both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you just worry about yourself and stop worrying about what others are doing? Steer clear if you're not keen.

It's everyone's right not to be a site supporter and since when did no veri mean they're not automatically genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree that meet/webcam verifications are a choice that can be made by the individual, however I am firmly in support of the photo verification system becoming mandatory after a certain length of time on the site.

This site is chock full of fakes, idiots and people pretending to be something their not. Not a week goes by someone doesn't make a post in this forum bemoaning them.

You should have 14 days to get your account photo verified or its deactivated. Whilst your account is not photo verified you should have restricted access - e.g. you can read the forums (but not post) and look at profiles (but not able to click on the photos to see the larger versions).

Once you get photo verified, this gets you all the features of site you would normally get. Then its the individuals choice to get Site membership or not.

Seriously, its not like its a massive hoop to jump through (getting photo verified) but would seriously curb men pretending to be women, one half of a couple on here without the others knowledge etc. Plus it would trim down the number of accounts on here which are used by people who just want a quick 'hand shandy' and nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance you'll ever find me getting photo verified - if ever the photo was seen by the wrong person how do you explain that one away? I'm genuine, my meet veris prove that. Why are so many people so intent on telling others how to use the site?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Agree that meet/webcam verifications are a choice that can be made by the individual, however I am firmly in support of the photo verification system becoming mandatory after a certain length of time on the site.

This site is chock full of fakes, idiots and people pretending to be something their not. Not a week goes by someone doesn't make a post in this forum bemoaning them.

You should have 14 days to get your account photo verified or its deactivated. Whilst your account is not photo verified you should have restricted access - e.g. you can read the forums (but not post) and look at profiles (but not able to click on the photos to see the larger versions).

Once you get photo verified, this gets you all the features of site you would normally get. Then its the individuals choice to get Site membership or not.

Seriously, its not like its a massive hoop to jump through (getting photo verified) but would seriously curb men pretending to be women, one half of a couple on here without the others knowledge etc. Plus it would trim down the number of accounts on here which are used by people who just want a quick 'hand shandy' and nothing else.

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as brightbabe said why do other try to dictate how other should you the site....

if that is what you feel... practice what you preach... use the tools that the SITE GAVE YOU and use the filters so you only meet people who are photo verified...

what... you mean it will cut down your chances of getting a meet.....

just as well the person who gave you the verification was photo verified... oh wait... they weren't!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No chance you'll ever find me getting photo verified - if ever the photo was seen by the wrong person how do you explain that one away? I'm genuine, my meet veris prove that. Why are so many people so intent on telling others how to use the site?"

The photo verification pics are never seen by anyone other than site admin unless you re-post them yourself. You can have a face pic in your private pics, which the admins use to verify the 'photo verify' pic. You would never need to show either publicly or even on 'friends only'. So anonymity is preserved for those who need it.

I'm not telling anyone how to use the site - my post was actually proposing a way to reduce the number of fake profiles or people just here for a wank over a bunch of amateur 'pron' pics.

Getting verified by meeting / webcam / phone or even being a 'site supporter' is still down to the individual.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I am not a site supporter , but i am verified and I am genuine , the social side of the site is very good and i think those who use the place just for sex are missing out when they choose to ignore the social aspect, and by all accounts those who dont use the social events to network with like minded people find getting the sex they want a much harder task.

Just my tuppenceworth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come there are so many people on here without verification or who aren't sight suporters? Is this becoming a social sight?

what is wrong with this being a "social site".... for a lot of people is it as much about the social side of swinging as it is about the sex...."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The photo verification pics are never seen by anyone other than site admin unless you re-post them yourself. You can have a face pic in your private pics, which the admins use to verify the 'photo verify' pic. You would never need to show either publicly or even on 'friends only'. So anonymity is preserved for those who need it.

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Thank you I know. But if I forgot to delete it or made some cock up with it and it was seen its not easy to explain.

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