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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I see a few profiles of younger girls looking for daddies. I’m trying to understand the kink. Is it a kink? Or are they just wanted someone who’s going to lavish them with gifts and money and give nothing back?

Or am I looking at all this wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes it's age play, sometimes it's a money thing.

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Bored! "

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Sometimes it's age play, sometimes it's a money thing. "

Thank you

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

If you have to "understand" then step away from the Daddy!

It's not younger girls. Its not insest, it can be age play, but 99% not. Its not sugar Daddy. It is kink, it's a sub catogory of a Dom.

This thread will be closed quicker than you can say little girl.

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If you have to "understand" then step away from the Daddy!

It's not younger girls. Its not insest, it can be age play, but 99% not. Its not sugar Daddy. It is kink, it's a sub catogory of a Dom.

This thread will be closed quicker than you can say little girl. "

I was messaged asking if I’d like to be someone’s daddy and wasn’t sure what it meant. And still trying to figure out what the attraction is. That’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's age play, sometimes it's a money thing. "
most the time it's money

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

It's not an "attaction".

Are you an alpha?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Sometimes it's age play, sometimes it's a money thing. most the time it's money "

Where you you get your from? I think you mean a sugar Daddy, yes thats money. But a Daddy Dom, is NOTHING to do with money.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Sometimes it's age play, sometimes it's a money thing. most the time it's money

Where you you get your from? I think you mean a sugar Daddy, yes thats money. But a Daddy Dom, is NOTHING to do with money. "

I know age play/ daddy dom isn't about money. But some people asking for money will say daddy too.

I'm not saying they're interchangeable.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Anyone asking for money is a prostitute.

A lil, little ot baby girl / Daddy Ddlg will not ask for money.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Anyone asking for money is a prostitute.

A lil, little ot baby girl / Daddy Ddlg will not ask for money. "

I'm aware. But both might say "daddy"

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

I was messaged asking if I’d like to be someone’s daddy and wasn’t sure what it meant. And still trying to figure out what the attraction is. That’s all"

I'd say unless you state an interest in this role play fantasy on your profile anyone contacting you asking for it is probably expecting a financial transaction to take place!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"

I think you've misunderstood what I've said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would have to ask the person. A daddy for me would be a daddy dom which I see as a dominant who takes on a caring role. A sugar daddy holds no appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"

Is Ddsm something you indulge in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"

I like it when someone throws in some educating information. You clearly no what you are talking about so thank you for explaining the difference. It’s good to learn

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"
You need to relax! The man only asked a question! Phew angry much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me know who

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Some young guys like daddies too but I don’t like that term - I prefer being a Mister - sugar daddy is definite no no here

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"If you have to "understand" then step away from the Daddy!

It's not younger girls. Its not insest, it can be age play, but 99% not. Its not sugar Daddy. It is kink, it's a sub catogory of a Dom.

This thread will be closed quicker than you can say little girl. "

Why the attitude, he asked a question.

Nobody is born with knowledge of all kinks, everyone has to learn.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

If they are looking for a Dd/lg dynamic then it's a bdsm based relationship with a loving an nurturing role.

Sometimes it can incorporate some degree of age play where the "little" behaves in an age range, again this can be sexual or not... Some littles like to watch Disney films and cuddle or do colouring.

It's based on a more emotional connection rather than a typical Dom/sub relationship. Where even though there still is that connection it has another aspect to it

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"

Up to a point I would agree, however Dd/lg can incorporate into swinging too, like most aspects of bdsm it is all interchangeable depending on the couple and the relationship itself.

In the past I have had a slave who was a little, based on various aspects between us we also were swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did you last see him, think hard now and we'll track him down for you

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's thinly veiled escorting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see You need to relax!

The man only asked a question! Phew angry much! "

There's no such thing as a daft question if you don't know the answer.

Aggressive responses only make people shy away from asking questions. How else do people learn and understand other than asking questions?

Way too much anger and aggression in some of their replies, well said.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I see a few profiles of younger girls looking for daddies. I’m trying to understand the kink. Is it a kink? Or are they just wanted someone who’s going to lavish them with gifts and money and give nothing back?

Or am I looking at all this wrong? "

You have to ask them individually is my guess as there's more than one answer.

Gut feeling and experience is that a larger percentage are money and gift related rather than age play or something they're into for pleasure alone.

Shame as it spoils it when you're contacted and think omg a woman much younger than me likes older guys.

I know there are some who do you just have to go into it with open eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Hev) get messages from younger men (and occasionally older than me) asking me to be their "mum" or "mommy"

Is this a fetish thing also. I always have visions of being fetched round black bags of dirty laundry xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not change your status into 'looking for daughters' and see how it goes down

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol


"I (Hev) get messages from younger men (and occasionally older than me) asking me to be their "mum" or "mommy"

Is this a fetish thing also. I always have visions of being fetched round black bags of dirty laundry xx"

Daddy dom/Mummy domme are both in the same category as mentioned in my earlier response

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see"

Educate? Most of us are here for fun, not to be "educated". I'm afraid you come across as rather aggressive and arrogant. The OP only asked a question to which there are almost as many answers as there are people who indulge in that particular kink. Personally we find this and any other kind of role play a turn off, but thank goodness we're all different.

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By *rotica xCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow/Portugal

We met on a sugardaddie site but completely clicked because he’s a Dom Daddy and I’m his baby girl. Completely to do with sub categories- a woman can be older and a man younger but still be called Daddy. We get off on it - much like people call each other baby, or women call their hubbys in America “Daddy, Papi...” etc it is what the two people make of it

Hope this sort of helps

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thank you to everyone that replied. I’ve learnt a lot, and especially from the PMs that I got.

But from what I can see, it’s basically how I’ve always treated my women when I’m in a relationship. Care for them, look after them, treat them, etc.

Let’s not get started on the money side though lol

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"That is why Ddsm has no place in a swingers world. I'll leave you to your miss information.most of us kinksters are her to educate, but you can't always make the blind see

Educate? Most of us are here for fun, not to be "educated". I'm afraid you come across as rather aggressive and arrogant. The OP only asked a question to which there are almost as many answers as there are people who indulge in that particular kink. Personally we find this and any other kind of role play a turn off, but thank goodness we're all different."

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I could be your daddy

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I could be your daddy "

My daddy? The only daddy I’d want is one to buy me expensive gifts and not want anything in return lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive encounted this a few times, I was speaking to a girl once, she wanted to wear a nappy, use a bottle,dummy, call me daddy?? Im open minded but I have to admit it put me off, am I in the wrong place?

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