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How often is too often?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Guys,

I am fairly new to this site and still very new to swinging. I come from a very strict background and nasty divorce but have found my niche here - hurrah for sex!

I keep this side of myself very private but the few people that know have been very derogatory about how many people I meet. I just see meeting people when I can as an opportunity. I usually only get to meet in evenings due to childcare; but I have day time meets when I can too.

So I thought I would ask you more experienced people, how often is too often to meet different people?

Would appreciate your _iews.

xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

LOL compared to me you've met barely anyone! If someone decides they can't meet you because you have 'too many' verifications then ignore them and find less judgemental people.

This site is to be used and enjoyed how we feel fit, and I am here to meet lots of lovely people for horny fun. Keep at it and you'll meet some nicer people.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Whatever suits you is the right thing.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as often as YOU want... as long as you can hold your head high, enjoy every minute, get pleasure from it, get treated as an equal and have great SEX.

go for it....

the nano second, you don't.... take a break

ENJOY xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love you lot!

I love sex and I figure as long as I am enjoying it sod those who cannot keep up!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps...

also the second you start to believe all the hype, take a break.

not all do,

but when the few do, it ain't pretty

but the lovely outweigh the not so many times over...

enjoy every minute x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were not for work I would meet someone every day if possible! This is after all a sex site and what most of us are here for! Enjoy it and get what you can! I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it girl... xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Too often is when you do it to keep someone else happy.

Not enough is when you don't do it to keep your other friends happy.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Whatever suits you is the right thing."

+1

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Too often is when you do it to keep someone else happy.

Not enough is when you don't do it to keep your other friends happy.

"

great advice

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"ps...

also the second you start to believe all the hype, take a break.

not all do,

but when the few do, it ain't pretty

but the lovely outweigh the not so many times over...

enjoy every minute x"

Good advice. I'll be taking a break soon, after I've fulfilled a couple of arrangements. It can get a bit disappointing when they no shows outnumber the shows, and I could do with a rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who and when you meet is nothing to do with anyone else

if anyone tries to put you down for how offen you meet then they are not your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your concerned what other people think then hide some or all of your verifications..... some people will judge you whatever you do and some might just be jealous. Do whatever makes YOU happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it doesn't take over other aspects of your life that matter more I would say..... Everyone has to find the balance that suits them best!

But enjoy the ride!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"If your concerned what other people think then hide some or all of your verifications..... some people will judge you whatever you do and some might just be jealous. Do whatever makes YOU happy "
i have to agree with you 100%

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Your damned if you do and damned if you don't. Please yourself and no-one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is personal choice.. sometimes double figures in a day.. sometimes but rare its only one in a month..

Mostly its 3-4 times a week.

but that can be in a day if the mood takes us...

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have posted a similar post to this myself because i am finding that people on here arent quite as liberated as i first thought... it seems us single girls are much maligned... me? ive chosen to remove my verifications including ones from purely mates... it is hard to ignore all the judgements imposed on us... and that is very sad x

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By *TUDLY_GOOD_FUCKMan
over a year ago

mansfield


"who and when you meet is nothing to do with anyone else

if anyone tries to put you down for how offen you meet then they are not your friend"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have posted a similar post to this myself because i am finding that people on here arent quite as liberated as i first thought... it seems us single girls are much maligned... me? ive chosen to remove my verifications including ones from purely mates... it is hard to ignore all the judgements imposed on us... and that is very sad x"

It isnt just single girls.. lol We have had people ask how can my Master let me fuck so many men.. simple answer is because we enjoy it lol

I dont worry.. people can think of me as a sex addict, slut or slag.. I really dont care.. as its what my Master thinks that counts.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once a day if have a group of close friends

xxx

col

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

if your fanny collapses - too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about what other people say meet as often as you feel like. When you start its all new and a novelty. Don't let anyone spoil your fun though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny how even in the swinging world people are judged on how many meets they have

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"funny how even in the swinging world people are judged on how many meets they have"
correction- they are judged on EVERYTHING, so it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"funny how even in the swinging world people are judged on how many meets they havecorrection- they are judged on EVERYTHING, so it seems "

We could have a points system... for who is the most immoral and slutty

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"funny how even in the swinging world people are judged on how many meets they havecorrection- they are judged on EVERYTHING, so it seems

We could have a points system... for who is the most immoral and slutty

cali"

like a league table?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

like a league table?"

Yup something like that

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simple, when you have a toothpick instead of a headboard, its time to go shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polo and View have given you great advice.

The only thing I would add is the next time you have some quiet time on your own one evening, get a blank sheet of A4, write the question you've just asked in your Op, then write under it all the reasons you can think of for asking the question as a numbered list (I think you'll struggle to get past 5 or 6 but get as many as you can).

Wait 5 minutes.

Then start to think about all of the good sexual experiences you've enjoyed. Pick up the sheet and rip it once for each of those sexual experiences.

Hopefully you'll be left with lots of little bits of paper, throw them away and never think about the question again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polo and View have given you great advice.

The only thing I would add is the next time you have some quiet time on your own one evening, get a blank sheet of A4, write the question you've just asked in your Op, then write under it all the reasons you can think of for asking the question as a numbered list (I think you'll struggle to get past 5 or 6 but get as many as you can).

Wait 5 minutes.

Then start to think about all of the good sexual experiences you've enjoyed. Pick up the sheet and rip it once for each of those sexual experiences.

Hopefully you'll be left with lots of little bits of paper, throw them away and never think about the question again!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if your fanny collapses - too many "

Fanny's don't collapse they just keep getting looser and wiser or so I was told , how would I know anything about fanny's . I am a good boy

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"if your fanny collapses - too many "

That'd be one for Embarrassing Bodies - Dr Christian, my fanny has collapsed due to far too much shagging...what on earth can you and your umpteen million _iewers do about it????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"if your fanny collapses - too many

Fanny's don't collapse they just keep getting looser and wiser or so I was told , how would I know anything about fanny's . I am a good boy "

I wouldn't want my pussy to get wiser. My bottom gives me enough backchat as it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if your fanny collapses - too many

Fanny's don't collapse they just keep getting looser and wiser or so I was told , how would I know anything about fanny's . I am a good boy "

If your a good boy you'll know everything you'll need to know about fanny's, if your a bad boy you'll know how to put that knowledge to good use!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If casual sex comes before family, friends and work , you spend more time telling someone you've met on here what your going to do to them than you do talking to your kids...too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if your fanny collapses - too many

Fanny's don't collapse they just keep getting looser and wiser or so I was told , how would I know anything about fanny's . I am a good boy

I wouldn't want my pussy to get wiser. My bottom gives me enough backchat as it is! "

You know you can get stuff to treat backchat from your bottom , but I am sure bad boys would have other remedies

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"who and when you meet is nothing to do with anyone else

if anyone tries to put you down for how offen you meet then they are not your friend"

this^^^^^

do what makes you happy no one else, i can go a month seeing no one but Sir outside me and kev, then fuck 15 men in one night...there are no rules except enjoy and dont get hurt or hurt others...unless that turns you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me to much isnt a number of meets its when it starts ruling your life, so long as i go to work, look after and provide for my kids what i do in my spare time is upto me and that could be one meet a month or 10 meets a week, the day i start throwing sickys to meet or my daughter goes to school dirty cause im up all night shagging instead of washing her uniform....thats when its to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me to much isnt a number of meets its when it starts ruling your life, so long as i go to work, look after and provide for my kids what i do in my spare time is upto me and that could be one meet a month or 10 meets a week, the day i start throwing sickys to meet or my daughter goes to school dirty cause im up all night shagging instead of washing her uniform....thats when its to much"

Well said nn .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

As others have said, you do what you want when you want. The only time to worry is when it affects other things in your life

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