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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block as it makes it easier ...oh and a lot of men do pester

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Some men will get abusive after a decline.

Users can block who they want to.

Maybe they don't want repeat messages from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

And 3 months down the line after messaging hundreds of others you will remember you've messaged her already?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

Why dpes it bother you? Apologies if it doesn'tbut you seem pretty irritated by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

The only way you'd know they blocked you is if you messaged them again, so you're contradicting yourself.

And I know several women who would bitchslap you if you called them "love".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of men dont take no first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block as it then stops the person coming up in future searches etc

Men have a short memory and very often they’ll send another msg a week later and pretend they don’t remember the initial No.

Plus, maybe we don’t want the No’s looking at our pics or profile?!?

A persons profile, whether male or female, so their right to use it as they want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes but I only went to msg them again because the last one who did it was a bit abusive to me so I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not that irritated by it really just wonders why they do it mainly the ones who slag you then block x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And yes for sure anyone does have the right to use it I totally agree but when I'm told a no that's that wouldn't be arsed to try again with her and if I did msg her again it would be a accident x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but I only went to msg them again because the last one who did it was a bit abusive to me so I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x"

Report abusive messages. Report from the message she sent.

If you use the reply + quote button people know who you are talking to.

Welcome to the forum.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Why does it bother you? Okay, they don't block you but you're never going to meet them, that it sounds like you accept already, is it that you'd still like to view their profile when you want? Isn't the block the best thing they could have done as they're out of your match pool that they were never in.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Yes but I only went to msg them again because the last one who did it was a bit abusive to me so I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x"

Report her then. Top right of page, drop down menu.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Because it stops people messaging them again asking for the same thing like they will change their minds like pizza toppings.

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By *ubergenieWoman
over a year ago

Neath


"Yes but I only went to msg them again because the last one who did it was a bit abusive to me so I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x"

People aren't generally on here to have arguements or feel bad or attacked so blocking is a good way to stop an unwanted conversation. I wouldn't say it was cowardly.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Why does it bother you that much, obviously she was not interested, get over it and move on, simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yes for sure anyone does have the right to use it I totally agree but when I'm told a no that's that wouldn't be arsed to try again with her and if I did msg her again it would be a accident x"

And that's why we block after refusal. So there can't be an accidental message again.

Don't take it personally it's the way it works on here to stop the abusive after refusal messages from coming in.

The block button is used as a filter. Alot of people block others that they aren't interested in to stop then from showing up in there searches.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it doesn't bother me much like you say get over it and move on thats what I do I just find it a bit out of order for her to slag me then block me when all I did was say do you want fun, to me that's yes they can give it but they to scared to hear it back at them pussys yep haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh and I wouldn't report her I'm not that petty and sad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folks like to get the last word, If she's been abusive then blocked you, you may have not read her profile fully.

That's no excuse to be abusive though.

Although I reckon a lot of folks feel empowered with the block button, I certainly do....lol

Deal with it and move on Pal, unfortunately it's a fab fact of life and it will happen plenty more times before you're done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"
It's another frequently commented on scenario, blocking just means you definitely won't make a mistake and message again, you'll have to get used to it especially if you hit them with that question lol but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

I think the longer you spend messaging women online the more etiquet you develop after time.

But it still isn't 100% foolproof and you still get volotile unexpected reactions (on this websight).

It's not specificly like chatting a woman up in a bar. It's w rittern communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple, we use the block function to stop people we are not interested in, from repeated contacts.

We also block people who have turned us down....it then stops us viewing them in a few months, seeing we messaged each other, but, as some say, a few months down the line, forgot who said what.

And, as stated, yes, loads of people do pester, especially single guys. (sorry, guys, just reality, not ‘single male bashing’).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it doesn't bother me much like you say get over it and move on thats what I do I just find it a bit out of order for her to slag me then block me when all I did was say do you want fun, to me that's yes they can give it but they to scared to hear it back at them pussys yep haha "

It would seem your basic chad dude morrals and ettiquet trump the manners of the women your getting these reactions from.

Thus your probably out of their league in normal offline settings.

I think they will behave like that if most people message them.

Change your immages so you look more like 6 pack farrari generic businessman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With what question? Do you want fun why shouldn't I say that were am I going wrong in asking that please let me know how I should go about msging women x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"No it doesn't bother me much like you say get over it and move on thats what I do I just find it a bit out of order for her to slag me then block me when all I did was say do you want fun, to me that's yes they can give it but they to scared to hear it back at them pussys yep haha "

You didn't say that in your original post, you clearly didn't like being blocked after being declined, you've moved the goal posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha mate so should I post a pic of me stood next to a Nissan gtr would that help don't know were I will get the six pack from tho haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and I wouldn't report her I'm not that petty and sad x"

But you would moan about her on the forums...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block as it then stops the person coming up in future searches etc

Men have a short memory and very often they’ll send another msg a week later and pretend they don’t remember the initial No.

Plus, maybe we don’t want the No’s looking at our pics or profile?!?

A persons profile, whether male or female, so their right to use it as they want to "

It's not really forgetting.

If you send woo messages to random profiles (after reading all of them)

You forget miss 76

Nobody is really special to me untill I've actually met them in person.

I can't remember every woman I flirt with genrally.

The man who only has eyes for 1 woman and focused on her will not be sucessfull.

But I don't care about blocking.

They might later witness my genious in forums and then live to regret it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No like I've said I only went to reply coz she slaged me for no reason then blocked so I can't give it back to her if she would have just said no I would nt have even known she block me coz I wouldnt have tried again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha mate so should I post a pic of me stood next to a Nissan gtr would that help don't know were I will get the six pack from tho haha x"

Nothing wrong with how you dress. Or nakedness.

But on hear they might want suit and the pics involving cars and post scenery/well taken pics...

I always found it difficult to have pics like that because if you run round taking selfies at the gym or in polite society people think it's common....

But that stuff works on hear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Na mate I'm not moaning about just her I havnt said her name or anything have I x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No like I've said I only went to reply coz she slaged me for no reason then blocked so I can't give it back to her if she would have just said no I would nt have even known she block me coz I wouldnt have tried again x"

Yah I know it's fustrating.

But it's childish women who do that.

They always got their own way with daddy/exs when they did that so they think it works with us.

If you politely/ladlike ask a woman out she's obliged not to be a bitch about rejecting you.

It shows lack of empathy and narcasistic traits. You are able to dodge a bullet.

If she likes a guy she would not show this behaviour for adout 2 months then she would slowly come out of character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is just another way to filter.. don't take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of men dont take no first time "

Or second. Or third...

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Lot of men dont take no first time

Or second. Or third..."

this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocking is just another way to filter.. don't take it personally. "

He said they send back rude responses sometimes.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Blocking is just another way to filter.. don't take it personally.

He said they send back rude responses sometimes."

And that's why he's been advised to report. You can still do that even if you are blocked from the message or top right corner of mobile app.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x

The only way you'd know they blocked you is if you messaged them again, so you're contradicting yourself.

And I know several women who would bitchslap you if you called them "love". "

I think this sums things up quite succinctly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

You’re sort of unwittingly answering your question.... you’ve spat your dummy out a little (whether you can see it or not) so in my very first honest impression I would say you’re on the list of fellas that will turn when you get no reply or whatever judging by your comment. I block people who I know ill never have contact with, if people wanna block me then fire away, it makes the experience of all this better, s out the idiots, fakes, and people who you don’t want to coerce with ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With what question? Do you want fun why shouldn't I say that were am I going wrong in asking that please let me know how I should go about msging women x"

Can you clarify.

You only messaged once and it was basically just "hi do you want to Have fun"? You didn't think that rather than your opening message be "fuck me please" that it should be an introduction to you, who you are, where you are, what you're looking for. Save the "want to meet" for further down the line (unless the other party mentions it first).

There are a lot of threads about how best way to message, how to get contacts. Pretty much all will say the same - This is not a sex site, it's a swingers site. A lot of people confuse swinging with free sex, it's not what its about. Yes there is sex but there is a lot of social interaction and meeting new people who become friends, some with benefits.

My advice, don't fixate on one person blocking you, concentrate on the content of your first message and try not to hammer a tack in with a sledge hammer.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

Unfortunately yes exactly what you said

I don’t think people message time & time again to be a pest I think they just forget who they’ve messaged

I’ve just done my first block in months after a polite no about 6 weeks ago and receiving 7 messages since, each exactly the same copy & paste style, would’ve been easier all round if I’d blocked him at the start

And he’s not alone I’d say at least 5 of the messages we receive a day are repeat massagers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block anyone who says we are not there type as no point being able to see them if we won’t ever meet makes it easier on the long run

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I find it strange to discover I've been blocked by someone whose pictures I think are worth a fab .. usually too far away and 'out of my league' to consider trying to meet with.. however it's their profile and their choice as to how to manage it ... just missing out on a fab or two ..their loss

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Na mate I'm not moaning about just her I havnt said her name or anything have I x"

It's against forum rules to bad mouth another member without naming them. Have a look at the rules before you post that way you'll avoid a ban .

Always report abusive messages, let admin deal with it.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"I block as it then stops the person coming up in future searches etc

Men have a short memory and very often they’ll send another msg a week later and pretend they don’t remember the initial No.

Plus, maybe we don’t want the No’s looking at our pics or profile?!?

A persons profile, whether male or female, so their right to use it as they want to "

This

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast

Any messages that start:

‘Do you want to have fun?’

‘Do you have pics?’

‘I’m nearby I can come round’

Are deleted without a reply, a second message from them is usually ‘????’

And that’s a block.

Some other messages get a polite no thank you.

A well worded message that catches our interest for whatever reason would get a ‘no thanks’ but would chat for a while and maybe send some photos.

A lot of single men pester and have to be blocked.

Work on your opening message and change your user name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the couples that get me. Yes yes it's me the female talking and the next day blocked! Makes me chuckle. Must get off pretending to have a partner and then being the partner.

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast


"It's the couples that get me. Yes yes it's me the female talking and the next day blocked! Makes me chuckle. Must get off pretending to have a partner and then being the partner. "

Maybe they enjoyed the chat on the day but don’t want to receive anymore messages from you afterwards.

We’ve chatted to singles, had some laughs on the day and then they think it’s a licence to message 4 or 5 times daily after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the couples that get me. Yes yes it's me the female talking and the next day blocked! Makes me chuckle. Must get off pretending to have a partner and then being the partner.

Maybe they enjoyed the chat on the day but don’t want to receive anymore messages from you afterwards.

We’ve chatted to singles, had some laughs on the day and then they think it’s a licence to message 4 or 5 times daily after that."

Quite possible but I sent just one message, not into bothering people. Just chatting. Not all are like that, just see to find them

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


".....I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x"

So you were going to send a hostile response to her rejection (I’m confident it wouldn’t have been just ‘whatever’), but you don’t understand why women here block? Behaviour like that is why we block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".....I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x

So you were going to send a hostile response to her rejection (I’m confident it wouldn’t have been just ‘whatever’), but you don’t understand why women here block? Behaviour like that is why we block. "

Not necessarily. I've had nasty messages and I've replied in a nice way and they have apologised. So it's unfair to assume that he was going to be hostile.

He's come across as a nice bloke, maybe he wanted to apologise for somehow offending her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x

I think the longer you spend messaging women online the more etiquet you develop after time.

But it still isn't 100% foolproof and you still get volotile unexpected reactions (on this websight).

It's not specificly like chatting a woman up in a bar. It's w rittern communication.

"

Thoughtless text comes to my mind. We cannot like everyone. Some people fear rejection and that no thank you goes into a continuation of verbal abuse. As some people cannot understand what the word 'No' means.

I use it to mute those who think verbal aggression is the norm. Or a person who is getting on my nerves it's my choice and yours. Civilisation did not teach us all to get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".....I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x

So you were going to send a hostile response to her rejection (I’m confident it wouldn’t have been just ‘whatever’), but you don’t understand why women here block? Behaviour like that is why we block.

Not necessarily. I've had nasty messages and I've replied in a nice way and they have apologised. So it's unfair to assume that he was going to be hostile.

He's come across as a nice bloke, maybe he wanted to apologise for somehow offending her. "

I think the post where he said she was a pussy as they give it out but don't want to hear it back is indicative that he wasn't looking to apologise.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

All single males might as well be blocked on this site

We are not wanted

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Some men do abuse you after you say no thanks,so that's why it happens.

We know men are not all the same thankfully,but it can save them asking why not or save further contact.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If I message someone and they say no thanks I block them. Not because I’m taking my bat and ball home. It’s because I don’t want to trouble them in the future.

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By *enonlyMan
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"If I message someone and they say no thanks I block them. Not because I’m taking my bat and ball home. It’s because I don’t want to trouble them in the future. "

That's the same for me

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"All single males might as well be blocked on this site

We are not wanted "

Single men are wanted. Abuse and grief are not wanted.

I block as I dont want the abuse and I dont want another message from the same guy further down the line. Its not me being cruel it's being efficient lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It can't be nice being called all the nasty things after saying no thanks to someone who previously told you that you were the most sexy attractive gorgeous thing since sliced bread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

We understand what you are saying that you wouldn't message again but a hell of a lot of men do over and over and over again.

We don't like to block but sometimes it just makes it easier for all involved.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

This is exactly why they’ll block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it bother you tho?

I mean surely after they said no thanks it’s irrelevant if there’s blockage or not?

I mostly block people who message me one liners/clearly not read my profile. Save s the bother to them messaging again....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"All single males might as well be blocked on this site

We are not wanted "

Rubbish. I'm specifically looking for them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Blocking is an incredibly useful tool.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Time and inbox management. If I am not interested, I do not want the same person messaging me again.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"All single males might as well be blocked on this site

We are not wanted "

I only have single men on my friend list. Well, and some women I know personally and am friendly with. The couples on my friend list are usually party profiles.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Nothing to do with your initial message asking if she wants fun I'm sure.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"All single males might as well be blocked on this site

We are not wanted

I only have single men on my friend list. Well, and some women I know personally and am friendly with. The couples on my friend list are usually party profiles."

My veris are almost all single men...

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes but I only went to msg them again because the last one who did it was a bit abusive to me so I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x"

Personal choice. Accept it. People will use the site the way they choose to. You can do the same - see what facilities it offers and use them to improve your experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes but I only went to msg them again because the last one who did it was a bit abusive to me so I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x

Report abusive messages. Report from the message she sent.

If you use the reply + quote button people know who you are talking to.

Welcome to the forum. "
ok thanks for the welcome by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blocking is an incredibly useful tool. "
well it wouldn't be if ther were a lot more men like me who take the no as ther answer and then move on to the next profile and if you did get another msg of me it would be by total accident x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No like I've said I only went to reply coz she slaged me for no reason then blocked so I can't give it back to her if she would have just said no I would nt have even known she block me coz I wouldnt have tried again x"

So you wanted to message to slag her off.

I don't thin abusive messages and replies are ever good.

But you have said you would not report her as you are not that petty.

But you admit you were going to message her back and give her abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it bother you tho?

I mean surely after they said no thanks it’s irrelevant if there’s blockage or not?

I mostly block people who message me one liners/clearly not read my profile. Save s the bother to them messaging again....

"
no I'm not even botherd about her blocking me I was just botherd about how she had to slag me off for no reason whatsoever and not even let me reply to her slaging of what she can give it but not take it and like I say if it would have been just a no well that's fine and I wouldn't have even known she had blocked me because I wouldn't ever msg her again so to people who have my attitude to getting knock backs the block button isnt really doing anything don't think people on hear look to see how many women or couples have blocked them haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocking is just another way to filter.. don't take it personally.

He said they send back rude responses sometimes."

You are assuming that his message was polite to her. Remember this is only one side of the story.

Every story has multiple versions depending on who tells it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blocking is just another way to filter.. don't take it personally.

He said they send back rude responses sometimes.

You are assuming that his message was polite to her. Remember this is only one side of the story.

Every story has multiple versions depending on who tells it. "
ok yes it is only one side of the story but what you trying to say that I'm lieing my msg was very polite why would I make it up, in what way would i benifit in making something up like that and I don't talk shit but she seems to think she can talk to people like shit for some reason some people hey xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocking is just another way to filter.. don't take it personally.

He said they send back rude responses sometimes.

You are assuming that his message was polite to her. Remember this is only one side of the story.

Every story has multiple versions depending on who tells it. ok yes it is only one side of the story but what you trying to say that I'm lieing my msg was very polite why would I make it up, in what way would i benifit in making something up like that and I don't talk shit but she seems to think she can talk to people like shit for some reason some people hey xx"

As I stated. How you are talking about her in the forum goes against what you are trying to make out.

You have stated you don't talk shit to someone. But you have in this forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as I said I don't think abuse is the answer in these things.

But if your message goes against what she had on her profile she would not of seen it as polite.

It is all relevant to the individual reading it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blocking is just another way to filter.. don't take it personally.

He said they send back rude responses sometimes.

You are assuming that his message was polite to her. Remember this is only one side of the story.

Every story has multiple versions depending on who tells it. ok yes it is only one side of the story but what you trying to say that I'm lieing my msg was very polite why would I make it up, in what way would i benifit in making something up like that and I don't talk shit but she seems to think she can talk to people like shit for some reason some people hey xx

As I stated. How you are talking about her in the forum goes against what you are trying to make out.

You have stated you don't talk shit to someone. But you have in this forum "
I don't talk shit were in this forum have I talked shit please point it out to me coz I really don't know I said I wasn't going to reply back to her nasty which I wasnt it would have been nice just to ask her why the nastiness for no apparent reason and that's all x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Blocking is an incredibly useful tool. well it wouldn't be if ther were a lot more men like me who take the no as ther answer and then move on to the next profile and if you did get another msg of me it would be by total accident x"

Sending someone a message to have a go back isn't an accident. You clearly aren't taking no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x

The only way you'd know they blocked you is if you messaged them again, so you're contradicting yourself.

And I know several women who would bitchslap you if you called them "love". "

Yes I was about to say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and I wouldn't report her I'm not that petty and sad x"

Really you could have fooled me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All single males might as well be blocked on this site

We are not wanted "

Speak for yourself, I'm doing alright.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I wonder if anyone has read this and gone on to block you.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wonder if anyone has read this and gone on to block you. "

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I wonder if anyone has read this and gone on to block you. "

Already had. I block all abusive messages.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yes but I only went to msg them again because the last one who did it was a bit abusive to me so I was just going to say to her whatever then but she had already blocked that's just being a coward that slag someone then block x"

See? That’s why she blocked. She said no and you didn’t accept that.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I wonder if anyone has read this and gone on to block you.

Already had. I block all abusive messages. "

Not just me that blocks from forum posts then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I've replied to overly forward first messages with a dose of reality and directions to the forum for advice on writing messages that don't offend. I don't get abusive but I am blunt. I would say 80% respond with abuse, 10% ignore me and another 10% take the advice and say thanks. I wonder if that is what has happened here, is the OP one of the 80% who don't take constructive criticism well.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Me thinks he doth protest too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if anyone has read this and gone on to block you. "

YES lol

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wonder if anyone has read this and gone on to block you.

YES lol"

Actually, last time.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I went to a party a few days ago where most men wanted to meet women who are about 20 stones - and a good party it was, too. And of course ugliness, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

I often think that 'block's should be renamed to 'hide' as it carries a negative vibe. All most people are doing is using it to hide profiles of people they aren't attracted to. This stops them coming up in each others searches any more and is ing out those profiles that hold no interest for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha mate so should I post a pic of me stood next to a Nissan gtr would that help don't know were I will get the six pack from tho haha x"

Try off licence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often think that 'block's should be renamed to 'hide' as it carries a negative vibe. All most people are doing is using it to hide profiles of people they aren't attracted to. This stops them coming up in each others searches any more and is ing out those profiles that hold no interest for you."

Or mute because we don't have accept any message good bad or indifferent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re clearly bothered about being blocked or you wouldn’t make a forum post about it.

I block because some men have this attitude. I block because some men cant take no as answer. I block because some like to pop up a month or so later, hoping I’ve forgotten.

But most importantly; I block simply because I can.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fab would be unmanageable and upsetting for me without the block function.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the couples that get me. Yes yes it's me the female talking and the next day blocked! Makes me chuckle. Must get off pretending to have a partner and then being the partner. "

Administration could not check every profile for being real.

This is a free site.

Photos with fabswingers on them every time you post one would be an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

I got accused of being patronising Clearly it wasn’t my intention. Some are so difficult to read. So I block them get them out of your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x

I think the longer you spend messaging women online the more etiquet you develop after time.

But it still isn't 100% foolproof and you still get volotile unexpected reactions (on this websight).

It's not specificly like chatting a woman up in a bar. It's w rittern communication.

"

I disagree with you on the longer you message it gets better who you kidding

What the OP does not like is rejection. Most people don't like being told no thank you for whatever reason. So you can write till cows come home if he or she rejects some take it on chin others bite back with aggressive text. Had it happen to me a few times, for them to come back on another profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some women on hear with blocking you, you send them a msg asking if they want fun, they say no they don't then block you haha really what are they thinking that I'm going to get a no and keep pestering them to do so, no love I heard you first time you said no, bye won't be msging her again so really your blocking is not doing anything but if it makes you feel good eh haha x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the block button is great.

I block ppl that I turn down. I block ppl who I find offensive on the forums.

it's my way of making sure ppl who I'm not interested in, but are within my filters, can't message me

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