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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think fab should have a red flag for those who are very rude and not polite in here, especially when they think you don’t have the right to say no or you’re not interested. It must be something that get you red flagged from at least three users with evidence of your rudeness message. It will become more easier to spot them and they will think a million before say something stupid.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Who decides what's rude, how much context is needed, etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who decides what's rude, how much context is needed, etc? "

So rude !

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Do you mean rude in chat, forums or messages OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In chat

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Isn't that what the block button is essentially?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I think fab should have a red flag for those who are very rude and not polite in here, especially when they think you don’t have the right to say no or you’re not interested. It must be something that get you red flagged from at least three users with evidence of your rudeness message. It will become more easier to spot them and they will think a million before say something stupid. "

Or just delete there profile and set up a new one. Pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s simple as that... you will know exactly when it’s rude when you don’t feel comfortable reading their messages

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

There would be about three people left on here, all telling one another they don’t meet and don’t want to shag their way through Fab

Actually, sounds like a good idea!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And losing all their verification pics fabs etc?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I just block if anyone is rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, another flag then for time wasters lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s simple as that... you will know exactly when it’s rude when you don’t feel comfortable reading their messages "

But a flag of what other people think is rude doesn't mean you'll find them rude.

And many people have different sides to them. I've messaged some guys whose veris say they're lovely, charming, etc, who've been horrible to me. They turn on/off the charm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have a red flag please. If it puts people off I'm all for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And lets them bothering someone else?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"And losing all their verification pics fabs etc? "

Who says they have veris or pics? And yes new repeat offenders rejoin all the time. We have one in my area new orofile every few days. Abusive as!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s why I said at least three users must be pointed that this user is rude and not a good person either by meet or chat etc, however it doesn’t mean if he is not you cup of tea must be red flagged which I believe many people would just bloke people because they don’t like how they look

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"And losing all their verification pics fabs etc?

Who says they have veris or pics? And yes new repeat offenders rejoin all the time. We have one in my area new orofile every few days. Abusive as!!"

And people recycle their pics, lol. See it all the time.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"That’s why I said at least three users must be pointed that this user is rude and not a good person either by meet or chat etc, however it doesn’t mean if he is not you cup of tea must be red flagged which I believe many people would just bloke people because they don’t like how they look "

Open to abuse. Easy to get 3 friends to report you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mentioned with evidence

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I mentioned with evidence "

Yeh its not gonna happen.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just block them. No big deal.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Just block them. No big deal."
and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who decides what's rude, how much context is needed, etc? "

Typicly the thought police and overzealous moderators in forums.

It's especially prevalent in our country these days.

It's all "politicly correct"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fab should have a red flag for those who are very rude and not polite in here, especially when they think you don’t have the right to say no or you’re not interested. It must be something that get you red flagged from at least three users with evidence of your rudeness message. It will become more easier to spot them and they will think a million before say something stupid. "

Who judges who is rude?

I might think the other person is rude but for the fact I am not a bitter little snitch who doesn't tollerate other people's opinions.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Who decides what's rude, how much context is needed, etc?

Typicly the thought police and overzealous moderators in forums.

It's especially prevalent in our country these days.

It's all "politicly correct" "

Ding ding ding!

That's two "pc gone mad" buzzwords/phrases, 10 point penalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ding ding ding!

That's two "pc gone mad" buzzwords/phrases, 10 point penalty "

Oh cool what do I win?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Every single woman would have one from rejecting at least three men lol.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"

Ding ding ding!

That's two "pc gone mad" buzzwords/phrases, 10 point penalty

Oh cool what do I win? "

A 10 point penalty..redeemable at all good bookshops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I don’t reply or say no thanks and a snowflake decides I’m rude, then I’m to be flagged

Don’t think it’s gonna work

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"So if I don’t reply or say no thanks and a snowflake decides I’m rude, then I’m to be flagged

Don’t think it’s gonna work"

Oh no, op is proposing it's 3 snowflakes that have been offended to earn you a red flag. Much more workable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fab should have a red flag for those who are very rude and not polite in here, especially when they think you don’t have the right to say no or you’re not interested. It must be something that get you red flagged from at least three users with evidence of your rudeness message. It will become more easier to spot them and they will think a million before say something stupid.

Who judges who is rude?

I might think the other person is rude but for the fact I am not a bitter little snitch who doesn't tollerate other people's opinions.

"

you tell em bum face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I don’t reply or say no thanks and a snowflake decides I’m rude, then I’m to be flagged

Don’t think it’s gonna work

Oh no, op is proposing it's 3 snowflakes that have been offended to earn you a red flag. Much more workable. "

Ah right, I’ll be off booted off immediately with the amount of red flags I’ll get for my witty responses

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I think fab should have a red flag for those who are very rude and not polite in here, especially when they think you don’t have the right to say no or you’re not interested. It must be something that get you red flagged from at least three users with evidence of your rudeness message. It will become more easier to spot them and they will think a million before say something stupid.

Who judges who is rude?

I might think the other person is rude but for the fact I am not a bitter little snitch who doesn't tollerate other people's opinions.

you tell em bum face "

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"So if I don’t reply or say no thanks and a snowflake decides I’m rude, then I’m to be flagged

Don’t think it’s gonna work

Oh no, op is proposing it's 3 snowflakes that have been offended to earn you a red flag. Much more workable.

Ah right, I’ll be off booted off immediately with the amount of red flags I’ll get for my witty responses "

You and me both!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

That woman you're banging has sensational shoes

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"That woman you're banging has sensational shoes "

Rubbish idea though, sorry, it's just too subjective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just thinking loudly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of nonsense, is that rude enough for you OP? So perhaps 3 of us will club together to report your post is rude about being rude and you can be the first with a red flag

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If people are rude or abusive by pm, in chat or on the forum report them. Admin have a system of sanctions in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fab should have a red flag for those who are very rude and not polite in here, especially when they think you don’t have the right to say no or you’re not interested. It must be something that get you red flagged from at least three users with evidence of your rudeness message. It will become more easier to spot them and they will think a million before say something stupid. "

And a brown flag for them that are so far up their own arse they think they are something special.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I think fab should have a red flag for those who are very rude and not polite in here, especially when they think you don’t have the right to say no or you’re not interested. It must be something that get you red flagged from at least three users with evidence of your rudeness message. It will become more easier to spot them and they will think a million before say something stupid. "

Technically there is that facility

If someone is abusive , report and block

Rudeness is nothing , abusive is different

I wouldn’t even bother worrying if I saw someone with the Red flag you are talking about because what the reporter deemed as rude I might see it as nothing

It’s too subjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any couple or woman that doesn't give a single guy the repsonse they want will get given a red flag. We get told we are rude all the time for not responding to guys who clearly haven't read our profile.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Any couple or woman that doesn't give a single guy the repsonse they want will get given a red flag. We get told we are rude all the time for not responding to guys who clearly haven't read our profile. "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any couple or woman that doesn't give a single guy the repsonse they want will get given a red flag. We get told we are rude all the time for not responding to guys who clearly haven't read our profile. "

Exactly this. On my single's profile I delete the messages I'm not interested in without replying to avoid breaking any future filters I may want to set. Surely that is seen as rude by those who don't read the site rules.

Mrs

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