FabSwingers.com forum: Female led relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it "

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd end up in one anyway dude

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

In what way do you want the woman to lead the relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!"

If only I could find a relationship never mind get married lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'd end up in one anyway dude "

Here's hoping

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In what way do you want the woman to lead the relationship?"

Like in always it's easy to look up female led relationship to know what it is

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!"

lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8X_Ot0k4XJc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do any ladys like the idea of it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!

lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8X_Ot0k4XJc"

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

All of my relationships have been female led so far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All of my relationships have been female led so far."

That's how it should be I need to find myself someone like you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are better websights

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are better websights"

Where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are better websights

Where "

Google "John baku"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Do any ladys like the idea of it xx "

I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are better websights

Where

Google "John baku""

I will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do any ladys like the idea of it xx

I do "

I am glad someone likes the idea of it

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!"

this made me smile

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We live a full time FLR, you have to treat a women like a queen for her to become one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We live a full time FLR, you have to treat a women like a queen for her to become one!"

I would treat a women like a queen as that is the way a women should be treated anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it "

She Dom you Sub easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks to that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bollocks to that!

It's great fun try it

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!"
lol

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We’re a switch couple, and FLR normally ends up with BBC lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’re a switch couple, and FLR normally ends up with BBC lol"

I dont mind if it end up with a bbc I would like that as well

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was offered one but its too much of a mind fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always the boss in any relationship.

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

It's all I crave

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Plenty of ladies are in to it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it "

My wife is in charge regarding this lifestyle. She does what she wants with whoever she wants. I have no say. As a cuckold I love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was offered one but its too much of a mind fuck"

Why is it to much of a mind fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m always the boss in any relationship.

I bet you are and that is the way it should be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plenty of ladies are in to it too. "

I just cant seem to find one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always the boss in any relationship.

I bet you are and that is the way it should be

Yeah but I like someone to challenge that not give me the power on a plate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

My wife is in charge regarding this lifestyle. She does what she wants with whoever she wants. I have no say. As a cuckold I love it. "

That sounds good to me that's how I would like it but it's not a easy think to find

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m always the boss in any relationship.

I bet you are and that is the way it should be

Yeah but I like someone to challenge that not give me the power on a plate. "

I dont think I could say no to someone like you so you would have all the power

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By *aughtyNipplesWoman
over a year ago

newport, shrops

From what I understand FLR looks great. But I think that's coz I like the idea of the empowerment it brings rather than the control of a person.

...move to Shropshire, by me ...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!"

Is that really true??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From what I understand FLR looks great. But I think that's coz I like the idea of the empowerment it brings rather than the control of a person.

...move to Shropshire, by me ...simples

I like someone been in charge of me and move to Shropshire I am on my way lol

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By *aughtyNipplesWoman
over a year ago

newport, shrops

"From what I understand FLR looks great. But I think that's coz I like the idea of the empowerment it brings rather than the control of a person.

...move to Shropshire, by me ...simples

I like someone been in charge of me and move to Shropshire I am on my way lol "

Well what are you waiting for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From what I understand FLR looks great. But I think that's coz I like the idea of the empowerment it brings rather than the control of a person.

...move to Shropshire, by me ...simples

I like someone been in charge of me and move to Shropshire I am on my way lol

Well what are you waiting for

I am on my way now get ready to have all the power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!

Is that really true??"

Yes!! Ha

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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago

Near the River

It’s even better if she earns much more than you or is a millionairess

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"Is it bad that I want to be in a female led relationship and its really hard to find it is there many ladys on here that like it

Just get married.....your wish will come true in no time!"

Haha

so true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I looks like I will have to get married then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looks like I will have to get married then

No your just on the wrong websight.

The women on hear are "pillow queens"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looks like I will have to get married then

No your just on the wrong websight.

The women on hear are "pillow queens""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looks like I will have to get married then

No your just on the wrong websight.

The women on hear are "pillow queens"

I am jokeing. I suspect your not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looks like I will have to get married then

No your just on the wrong websight.

The women on hear are "pillow queens"

I am jokeing. I suspect your not."

I know you were hence my use of an emoji. If I thought you were serious then words would be used.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I looks like I will have to get married then

No your just on the wrong websight.

The women on hear are "pillow queens"

I am jokeing. I suspect your not.

I know you were hence my use of an emoji. If I thought you were serious then words would be used.

Let's keep it all a joke

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think probably 5% of women on this websight might be intrested in this with someone.

95% aren't..

I think.

But that other 95% aren't that kinky anyway.

I don't hold it against them because I'm not into "swinging".

There aren't that many free websights you can just go on.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think probably 5% of women on this websight might be intrested in this with someone.

95% aren't..

I think.

But that other 95% aren't that kinky anyway.

I don't hold it against them because I'm not into "swinging".

There aren't that many free websights you can just go on.

Ah made up statistics are cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think probably 5% of women on this websight might be intrested in this with someone.

95% aren't..

I think.

But that other 95% aren't that kinky anyway.

I don't hold it against them because I'm not into "swinging".

There aren't that many free websights you can just go on.

Ah made up statistics are cool

Are you always so cranky?

Lighten up abit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like my first day in nhs admin when they made me sit next to kim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any ladys like the idea of it xx

I do "

So do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always the boss in any relationship.

I bet you are and that is the way it should be

Yeah but I like someone to challenge that not give me the power on a plate. "

No you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think probably 5% of women on this websight might be intrested in this with someone.

95% aren't..

I think.

But that other 95% aren't that kinky anyway.

I don't hold it against them because I'm not into "swinging".

There aren't that many free websights you can just go on.

There are other free sites to find this on and your statistics are way off.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think probably 5% of women on this websight might be intrested in this with someone.

95% aren't..

I think.

But that other 95% aren't that kinky anyway.

I don't hold it against them because I'm not into "swinging".

There aren't that many free websights you can just go on.

There are other free sites to find this on and your statistics are way off. "

I said that and apparently that makes me cranky! Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think probably 5% of women on this websight might be intrested in this with someone.

95% aren't..

I think.

But that other 95% aren't that kinky anyway.

I don't hold it against them because I'm not into "swinging".

There aren't that many free websights you can just go on.

There are other free sites to find this on and your statistics are way off. "

I tried to deduce a very difficult statistic. That's why I said "probably".

On "other websights" you get more.

In genral there aren't that many really kinky people on hear compaired to "other websigts".

Even normal dateing sights i find more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said that and apparently that makes me cranky! Go figure

Your always cranky with me

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I said that and apparently that makes me cranky! Go figure

Your always cranky with me

No, I disagree with a great deal of what you say, I’m not cranky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will have to look at over sites as well I just dont know any of them over then this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will have to look at over sites as well I just dont know any of them over then this site "

Google "John baku"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I disagree with a great deal of what you say, I’m not cranky."

That's cool.

I don't mind if you debate against what I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think probably 5% of women on this websight might be intrested in this with someone.

95% aren't..

I think.

But that other 95% aren't that kinky anyway.

I don't hold it against them because I'm not into "swinging".

There aren't that many free websights you can just go on.

There are other free sites to find this on and your statistics are way off.

I tried to deduce a very difficult statistic. That's why I said "probably".

On "other websights" you get more.

In genral there aren't that many really kinky people on hear compaired to "other websigts".

Even normal dateing sights i find more.

Yes, my swinging and kink experiences has been from dating sites as the guys I meet off here generally are not into that. Doesn’t mean that there aren’t lots on here though. I just haven’t been attracted to any.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I will have to look at over sites as well I just dont know any of them over then this site

Google "John baku""

Thank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums and throwing a shot into the dark with random women sometimes.

The rest of it isn't really my thing. I'm only really into bdsm/"vanilla"....my online activities are all about FLR

I sometimes I get phonecalls from people on hear who live too far.

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Just a little note from my experience, don’t confuse female lead relationships with Domme/sub kink relationships. There is a lot of crossover, but there are also big differences, the main one being, it is not about ‘allowing’ the lady to lead the relationship it is ‘enjoying’ the direction that comes from the lady leading the relationship.

In simple terms, and I hope I have not done the ladies any offence in my attempts to describe this, you can’t say ‘I want you, the lady, to lead the relationship like this’... that’s topping from the bottom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like the forums and throwing a shot into the dark with random women sometimes.

The rest of it isn't really my thing. I'm only really into bdsm/"vanilla"....my online activities are all about FLR

I sometimes I get phonecalls from people on hear who live too far."

What you get phone calls from some people about FLR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't done people offence.

Your not topping from the bottom in a forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you get phone calls from some people about FLR

On this websight I met 2 women who claimed this and wanted me to go where they lived.

But it was too far.

I had a (weekend) partner who was into this for 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What you get phone calls from some people about FLR

On this websight I met 2 women who claimed this and wanted me to go where they lived.

But it was too far.

I had a (weekend) partner who was into this for 2 years. "

I wish I was that lucky lol

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By *aise-moiCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I’m always the boss in any relationship.

I bet you are and that is the way it should be

Yeah but I like someone to challenge that not give me the power on a plate.

I dont think I could say no to someone like you so you would have all the power

Mate just seems you’ll say whatever to get yourself a shag.. just an observation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m always the boss in any relationship.

I bet you are and that is the way it should be

Yeah but I like someone to challenge that not give me the power on a plate.

I dont think I could say no to someone like you so you would have all the power

Mate just seems you’ll say whatever to get yourself a shag.. just an observation "

No that's not the case if I want just a shag then I would say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was that lucky lol "

Top tip

Talk to them on normal terms before you say:

"Ohhh goddess permission to speak I am so sorry"

You see what they are into from their profiles so they get loads of messages from men like that.

You message them and get them talking about hobbies/themselves and stuff.

Yes. It was kinda "lucky" because it's hard to find from someone who is actually genuine/not wanting your money.

You can find events on "the other websight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that's not the case if I want just a shag then I would say that "

I'm not into just shagging.

I got a blow job the other week lol

I like bdsm/femdom better. It's more exciting.

I wouldn't go online just for sex. I can also date vanilla woman I meet at my classes/training/bars..

I use online just to find flr.

I don't even look to "hook up" with domme women.

I wouldn't travel just for spank and dank then go back home.

....but if you not tried it b4 you might aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish I was that lucky lol

Top tip

Talk to them on normal terms before you say:

"Ohhh goddess permission to speak I am so sorry"

You see what they are into from their profiles so they get loads of messages from men like that.

You message them and get them talking about hobbies/themselves and stuff.

Yes. It was kinda "lucky" because it's hard to find from someone who is actually genuine/not wanting your money.

You can find events on "the other websight"

Thank you and I will have a look at over sites as well

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