FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you enjoy sex?

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't mean what positions you like.... I mean what is it about sex with meets which you enjoy? Is it the physical stuff, the sensations? Is it something mentally you get from it? Is it something emotional you get from it, the closeness and intemacy?

If it's a combo of a few things, which aspects are more important?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why dont u answer ur own question

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Hard one, think its mental stimulation for me, being on the same wave length as someone sexually. Without the mental attraction i wouldnt get off on just the act of having sex

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

"why dont u answer ur own question

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Bit harsh !!..but op's question fiendishly difficult to answer..from biological determinism to hedonistic delight..some spectrum

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"why dont u answer ur own question

Because I'm still thinking about it, to ensure it matches the eloquent expressiveness and deep insight of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont u answer ur own question

Because I'm still thinking about it, to ensure it matches the eloquent expressiveness and deep insight of yours

now thats harsh

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"why dont u answer ur own question

Because I'm still thinking about it, to ensure it matches the eloquent expressiveness and deep insight of yours

now thats harsh

How come you only ever reply to threads sarcastically and never actually have anything decent to say on them

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Ok I tried to answer this, and had wrote about 300 words... then stopped as I realised I was going way too deep! (theres a first for everything...;-)

So I'll just say, its incredibly complex!

Sorry thats a bit of a cop out.

But great topic. Others on here will probably be able to sum up what I'm thinking in 3 sentences, at which point I'll give them a +1, but suffice to say it really is more psycological than physical.

Thanks

D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont u answer ur own question

Because I'm still thinking about it, to ensure it matches the eloquent expressiveness and deep insight of yours

now thats harsh

How come you only ever reply to threads sarcastically and never actually have anything decent to say on them"

i mix it up. and its easy to take things out of context

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

"why dont u answer ur own question

Because I'm still thinking about it, to ensure it matches the eloquent expressiveness and deep insight of yours

now thats harsh

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harsh..but funny !

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

dunno. never really been 'into' sex, tbh. late starter (lost virginity in my early 20's) and with my ex wife could take it or leave it. but with Em i dont know, the sensation is just awesome. i just look forward to the next time so much. we have a connection both physically and mentally.

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By *ich_shadiwMan
over a year ago

closeish

The physical and mental stimulation the build up of tension that can be built up. Finding new a dareing places to do it . But more the build up to sex is we're the best sensations are.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I don't mean what positions you like.... I mean what is it about sex with meets which you enjoy? Is it the physical stuff, the sensations? Is it something mentally you get from it? Is it something emotional you get from it, the closeness and intemacy?

If it's a combo of a few things, which aspects are more important?

Good question.

For me it's the connection both physical and mental.

Plus I like the pleasure and sensations

I also find sex gives me an extra spring in my step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical and mental stimulation, pleasure and sensations when it’s the ones I love(d) and ‘just’ physical stimulation, pleasure and sensations with playmates. Does that sound emotionally detached with the latter?

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's the closest I get to being a timelord. The world just stops turning while I enjoy the intense magical moment. Corny but true.

So it touches a mental need inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who its with, i like the feeling of being dominated, enjoy making a man happy and pleasing him. Sex makes me feel like a whole person, makes me feel young again and alive, its like being massaged all over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply the pleasure and the buzz of meeting a good natured, funny and sexy woman with naughty intentions. So I guess I'm here for the mental and the physical side of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's also the mental and the physical. The pleasure of experiencing new people and the fun of exploring with regular friends mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's also the mental and the physical. The pleasure of experiencing new people and the fun of exploring with regular friends mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The willingness of the other person to get naked.

Naked People (Most) are sexy

Then when your body feels their naked body against yours.

Then the kissing

Then the fisrt time my cock goes in

The it's me using my cock as a sex weapon on them

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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

i think a lot of it is the mental build up, the physical side is somethin you experience hundreds of times .. and after . again its a mental thing ..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

intimacy is for kev, and in a different way sir...meets are about the pure physical pleasure of a good fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the best sex, when I am in a relationship, is when you make up after a huge row, but why?

Well, you think your partner was going to leave you, when she said all 'those things', and now she is not, so the bond is reinforced and our psyche loves that.

You feel a very strong sense of passion, because its almost as if you are falling in love again for the first time and how nice is that, we all want it.

You drop all your prejudicial feelings towards your partner, so your feelings for them are pure and unbiased. I am talking about those little annoyances that build up with time, in relation to your partner, ie pranged the car, spent too much with the credit card, was rude to my sister. They all go and thats what your inner self likes.

Then there is the feeling of confidence when you realise that your partner is having a great time too and you are doing them a bit of good. For me,I always hope that the next time I have sex, that those feelings will come to the fore and so when your partner shows feelings like them during the act, it makes you feel good and to me that is the difference between enjoying sex and masturbating. There is that extra fulfillment with the actual sex with a partner and spicing it up by swinging adds to the confidence factor, I think, that you know your partner is having a good time and it makes you feel better.

I also like it when you are really insulting to each other during the sex, but of course that is a welcome release and you know the opposite is really true so more security, perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i think what i like most about sex is the physical contact with another person, i like the closeness of being with another person im not really into clinic sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simply the pleasure and the buzz of meeting a good natured, funny and sexy woman with naughty intentions. So I guess I'm here for the mental and the physical side of things.

aye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but I think there is a lot about touch with me. a sensual lover will drive me wild with his touch. touch on my body paints pictures in my mind, beautiful ones, swaying fields of grass, summer breezes, the sea, all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont u answer ur own question

Because I'm still thinking about it, to ensure it matches the eloquent expressiveness and deep insight of yours

I think it is a great questions cos it is though provoking.

Don't know why peeps always have to take things in the wrong spirit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why I like sex with a meet is mainly the mental stimulation, which gives me such a buzz and turns me on, so obviously I'm then enjoying the physical side.

I enjoy sex with the OH. He is a very talented man and he knows how to play me, so the physical side is well catered for.

But I am an exhibitionist. I like being looked at. Before swinging and still on nights out with girlfriends I enjoy wearing quirky and unusual clothing, accessories and make up. I get off on others looking at me.

I enjoy swinging sex because in my mind its taboo, because I was brought up very strictly in relation to sex with my parents). The kick of being a respectable, fairly quiet working woman offset by the louder, confident diva strutting her stuff is a turn on for me.

Sexually I like doing things that I can't do everyday, things you need two cocks for, I like the feel of two different hands on my body, or a writhing mass of bodies if we play with couples in a group situation. I'm not looking for great one on one sex and if with couples I dislike the pairing off that sometimes goes on, I want to play together and do things that aren't achievable in everyday sex as to me there's no point. I have good sex with my OH on a one on one basis.

So exhibitionism coupled with sexual activities that can only be achieved with more people added into the mix is why I like swinging sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months ago i had my first mmf was still horny afterwards, went downstairs to tell my hubby how good it was, then he wanted to have sex with me as well, and it was even better than it normaly is.

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