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By *rSteve6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton and Pattaya,Thailand

How do people who have 'can't accommodate/can't travel' showing in their meeting profile expect to get any meets????

Anyone like to comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about public transport? Or those people who are happy to travel to meet them, or people who are travelling to visit family and can stop off to meet them on the way?

Can't accommodate? How about hotels?

Easy

Your turn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people dont want to invite "strangers" into their home to play, some arnt able to accom due to house shareing/family.

Some people only meet in clubs, not everyone drives which would make travel limited if useing public transport

I can do both but that doesnt mean im gonna travel to Bristol like the guy that messaged me last night asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if they use public transport, doesn't that mean they can travel?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can use public transport, it is implicit in the name.

Perhaps it should be read 'can travel (easily)'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they use public transport, doesn't that mean they can travel?!"

Yes..... but how far would you go? not everywhere is that accessable and would you be catchin a bus or train home in the early hours alone? i sure as hell wouldnt.... the OP asked a question, i just offered suggestions.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they use public transport, doesn't that mean they can travel?!"

In my eyes it does

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i think they dont realise what it means, that it is an either or, and think travel means over a distance .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have can't travel on our profile simply because we're not prepared to spend hours of valuable playing time travelling to and from a meet when there are loads of sexy people much closer by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could mean you pick them up and you accomodate, not rocket science :p

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I second that reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could mean you pick them up and you accomodate, not rocket science :p"

I think only couples would go for that option if they were desperate . Really can't see a single lady doing this unless you were extraordinary .

Lots of men offer both options , can travel ,can accomodate.

How do they get on for meets ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people who have 'can't accommodate/can't travel' showing in their meeting profile expect to get any meets????

Anyone like to comment? "

I think some use it to put people off and will then message who they like rather than waiting for the mountain to come to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could just mean that things are complicated and will need to be discussed. One size rarely fits all and maybe the choices should be extended to ‘travel to yours’ ‘accom at mine’‘hotel’ and/or 'club'?

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could mean you pick them up and you accomodate, not rocket science :p

I think only couples would go for that option if they were desperate . Really can't see a single lady doing this unless you were extraordinary .

Lots of men offer both options , can travel ,can accomodate.

How do they get on for meets ? "

its never really couples who dont do the cant travel/accom,

its normally the single ladies who dont have their own transport, i normally find its the younger lasses, those without car and living at home still

but ive still had some who was a mum and cant bring someone back and dont have their own transport either.

not sure why you would have to be expectional thought! anyone ive done it for has just needed someone to help with a lift and accomodate for them to make the meet happen.

men who can do both will do as well as their profile and conduct on messages lets them. seems to work for me. sometimes you got to be a little pro active to make things happen!

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"could mean you pick them up and you accomodate, not rocket science :p

I think only couples would go for that option if they were desperate . Really can't see a single lady doing this unless you were extraordinary .

Lots of men offer both options , can travel ,can accomodate.

How do they get on for meets ? "

Well i have done this on 2 occasions now and all went well and i dont have a problem with it . Would definitely do it again

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

the say i see it would be to keep things reasonably local.

cant do either means they will meet you at a pre arranged location, thats very public, for safety, and then you can take them back to a local hotel afterwards, if all is well, and drop them close to where they live when all is finished.

if i'm wrong then i am, but thats how i read it, and its perfectly reasonable too

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"How do people who have 'can't accommodate/can't travel' showing in their meeting profile expect to get any meets????

Anyone like to comment? "

The same way the rest of us do... by sending messages to suitable people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people who have 'can't accommodate/can't travel' showing in their meeting profile expect to get any meets????

Anyone like to comment? "

i get as many meets as i want, I can't accommodate as I'm a single mum and can't drive because of my eyesight. Meeting at clubs is a lot safer than going to strangers homes and I get there by taxi and I'm then able to go when i feel like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could mean you pick them up and you accomodate, not rocket science :p

I think only couples would go for that option if they were desperate . Really can't see a single lady doing this unless you were extraordinary .

Lots of men offer both options , can travel ,can accomodate.

How do they get on for meets ? Well i have done this on 2 occasions now and all went well and i dont have a problem with it . Would definitely do it again"

Can you pick me up so we can share some mutual pleasure and when we finish drop me off back home , please.

Sounds fantastic if it ever happened .

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By *nebig1ivorMan
over a year ago

Reading

So should there be a 'will travel within x miles' option then. And perhaps a will/won't accomodate? Personally its not that i CAN'T accomodate, its that I'd rather not because I'm a single dad with a teenager at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could mean you pick them up and you accomodate, not rocket science :p"

I would never get into a car with someone I have not met though some guys think it's perfectly acceptable as they are genuine and trustworthy cos they say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the other fairly common one on here which is straight women posting that they want a gang-bang but blocking men from contacting them

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"could mean you pick them up and you accomodate, not rocket science :p

I think only couples would go for that option if they were desperate . Really can't see a single lady doing this unless you were extraordinary .

Lots of men offer both options , can travel ,can accomodate.

How do they get on for meets ? Well i have done this on 2 occasions now and all went well and i dont have a problem with it . Would definitely do it again

Can you pick me up so we can share some mutual pleasure and when we finish drop me off back home , please.

Sounds fantastic if it ever happened ."

like i said ive done it twice now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you pick me up so we can share some mutual pleasure and when we finish drop me off back home , please.

Sounds fantastic if it ever happened ."

why dont you believe she done it lol, why you think she would say she done it twice when hasnt, what would she have to gain by saying it. obviousily they going to be guys out there that dont mind giving lifts within reason to make some meets happen.

like i say ive done it a few times now, maybe some lasses are cautious about it and rightly so but it dont mean some wont go for it if they too want to make it happen and have some trust for the guy


"I would never get into a car with someone I have not met though some guys think it's perfectly acceptable as they are genuine and trustworthy cos they say so "

yeah thats true you gotta think of yourself and safety, but dont mean others dont have the confidence to take others up on it though if they both want it to happen and the trust is there.


"It's like the other fairly common one on here which is straight women posting that they want a gang-bang but blocking men from contacting them "

they probally want someone to arrange it for them or are picking their own guys out to out timewasters, just because someone has single men on block dont mean they dont want any of them. dont beat ya self up about it they have the block that means unless they messaged you they wernt going to go with you in the first place so you not lost meets

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Can you pick me up so we can share some mutual pleasure and when we finish drop me off back home , please.

Sounds fantastic if it ever happened .

why dont you believe she done it lol, why you think she would say she done it twice when hasnt, what would she have to gain by saying it. obviousily they going to be guys out there that dont mind giving lifts within reason to make some meets happen.

like i say ive done it a few times now, maybe some lasses are cautious about it and rightly so but it dont mean some wont go for it if they too want to make it happen and have some trust for the guy

I would never get into a car with someone I have not met though some guys think it's perfectly acceptable as they are genuine and trustworthy cos they say so

yeah thats true you gotta think of yourself and safety, but dont mean others dont have the confidence to take others up on it though if they both want it to happen and the trust is there.

It's like the other fairly common one on here which is straight women posting that they want a gang-bang but blocking men from contacting them

they probally want someone to arrange it for them or are picking their own guys out to out timewasters, just because someone has single men on block dont mean they dont want any of them. dont beat ya self up about it they have the block that means unless they messaged you they wernt going to go with you in the first place so you not lost meets"

Hey Robbie thanks for sticking up for me ) I honestly dont see it being a problem that i let guys pick me up then drop me off again the following morning ! I obviously wouldnt have done so if i had any doubts and didnt trust them . I honestly thought more people done things this way but it seems not but it certainly wont stop me doing it again . K )

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