FabSwingers.com forum: Taking the plunge

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After many many years of talking about it we have finally found the guts to go to a club. Any advice would be greatly appreciated xx

By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Have a look in the club reviews section on here and pick a club that has a lot of good reviews and has been established a while.

Speak to people that have been to clubs that look for similar things that you guys do and see what they say.

Clubs are all different with different things to offer. We would recommend going on a coulples/single fem night for your first time.

Go with an open mind and dive into conversations if you sit back you'll usually be left alone.

We love the vanilla alternative in Bedfordshire but it doesnt have many private play areas. Though you can go back to the attached hotel if that's what you would prefer.

Good luck and have a great time xx

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As you're in Birmingham you're spoilt for choice. There's another thread running about bullshit things that swingers say, all of which I disagree with, and the first one is go without any expectations which is the best way to approach it. Just go with the flow and have your own red lines in place, relax and enjoy.