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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

It depends, sometimes it could be a connection (Internet) issue.

However if its just a time to go factor then a polite goodbye or goodnight should always be the case

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Imagine being so rude as to have a life outside Fab. Suddenly having to deal with your children or go to work or bed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No. I don't know what's going on in their life that's more important than talking to someone on the net. If it happened every time we talked that would be different

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No, doesn't bother me at all. Real life is more important than chatting on here and there's a million reasons why someone might have to quickly log off without saying goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt bother me in the slightest. Life happens.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Err... No?

It's a message not a summons. Pretty much everything comes before this, shit happens, the message will still be there when they come back.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Agree with the rest, it maybe better to send a message asking why they suddenly left the chat.

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset

Real life keeps happening so sometimes we have to log off suddenly but we always pick it up again later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "
It's very common here you get used to it, I used to say to women I chatted to can you please say if you're off and some did but most don't, try not to get frustrated with the little things, their are definitely a lot more frustrating things than that lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

If you block them they can't message you later to apologise and continue the conversation !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

I sometimes have to as real life priorities get in the way. Who knows,maybe someone has come to the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them

If you block them they can't message you later to apologise and continue the conversation !"

^^^ this! It happens and who knows why ... it's not really important to know why! They come back and carry on chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's more rude to block someone for having to do something in thier life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

You block people for logging off fab?? Jeezzoooo. I'd hate to forget to put your bins out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all. Isn't that the point with messaging, that you can message when it is convenient...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It takes 2 seconds to say be back in a minute

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't see it as a big deal. Truly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It takes 2 seconds to say be back in a minute "

If it's one of the ways you filter people it's fine

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Joe and Mandy - I'm just going to walk to the bank now and while I'm there I will browse round Oxfam and Mind Charity shops so won't be messaging on this thread for a couple of hours. Hope that's OK with you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 seconds to say be back in a minute "

I agree but would be patient to wait for a further message from them just in case it was an issue at their end. Once is ok if justified, no further message is plain rude and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't think it's rude as some people have work have kids have a social life this site and what we all do here is just a bit of added extra fun in our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 seconds to say be back in a minute "

I think you have an answer to your question and it's not what you were hoping for.

I think your style works well for the people you were talking to. Like a reverse blocking

Logging off for 5 as I need a brew

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

I think it says more about your attitude op as you are quick to block over something as trivial as logging off could be a hundred reasons why probably the wife has came home from work early and nearly trapped her hubby on fab (single obviously but can’t accommodate) I got a nasty message of a lady I’d met just because I didn’t verify her within 5 minutes of dropping her off

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

We don't find it rude at all. We just figure they're busy and will get back to us later. We often drop in and out of convos throughout the day as we have young children. When someone is screaming from another room it's kinda your first instinct to go to them immediately rather than wrap up things in a fab convo. I think it's more rude that you block them instead of giving them a chance to get back to you to explain why they went offline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Imagine being so rude as to have a life outside Fab. Suddenly having to deal with your children or go to work or bed. "

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

Hi Op

No. It's not rude. I might need bathroom or doorbell rings etc. I don't give an account by account detail of what I do when I chat.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

It happens often...strange really.why people can't say 'bye' I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fab is not part of our life kids are part of our life work are part of our life friends and family are part of our life fab is just a site it's not even a hobby it's when we want that little extra in our own time

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It doesn't bother me real life takes precedent over fab any day. It happens all the time I certainly wouldn't block someone for doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got blocked for not liking the same flavour monster munch . True story.

Scandalous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine being so rude as to have a life outside Fab. Suddenly having to deal with your children or go to work or bed. "

Yes, utterly unforgivable!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I once got blocked for not liking the same flavour monster munch . True story.

Scandalous.

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What flavour do you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

Are you serious? They could be lots of reasons people log off quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, life gets in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My internet drops out all the time. No chance of sending a message to apologise for not being available when a stranger wants to talk to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice Joe and many haven't replied to this... How rude

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I get lots of men who disappear mid conversation and seem to do it regularly , I think it's rude too , a simple quick got to go catch up later msg is all it takes for the flow to be maintained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get lots of men who disappear mid conversation and seem to do it regularly , I think it's rude too , a simple quick got to go catch up later msg is all it takes for the flow to be maintained "

And in the time it takes to type that, his Mrs has looked over his shoulder and read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got blocked for not liking the same flavour monster munch . True story.

Scandalous.

What flavour do you like? "

Beef block away

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"I get lots of men who disappear mid conversation and seem to do it regularly , I think it's rude too , a simple quick got to go catch up later msg is all it takes for the flow to be maintained

And in the time it takes to type that, his Mrs has looked over his shoulder and read it! "
then he shouldn't take risks chatting to me on fab if his Mrs around , I can understand the odd occasion but on a regular basis it just seems so rude

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I once got blocked for not liking the same flavour monster munch . True story.

Scandalous.

What flavour do you like?

Beef block away "

Pickled onion would have been a definite block you chose the right flavour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

No not really, we don't really worry about it. If they disappear mid convo then they will either message back if they like us and won't if they don't. No biggy

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Um, no. Because that’d be a very odd reaction when you’ve no idea why they’ve logged off. Nor would you ever find out if they’re blocked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

No I don't think it's rude...I (F) live with my grown up sons and log off regularly mid conversation when they come into the room. I don't particularly want them to see me having a conversation with an explicit photo of a sexual nature.

One of the problems of the internet is many people don't understand other people are not on it 24/7 to answer their messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

agree.it only takes a few seconds to say "been nice talking but got to go now.speak soon".most people that see nothing wrong with it are usually quick to moan if somebody is rude to them or ignores them

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"most people that see nothing wrong with it are usually quick to moan if somebody is rude to them or ignores them"

That’s some generalisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

Well to be honest we think (logged off)

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Its now 4 hours since OP posted this, think thats far to long for us to say anything. Nothing to say here so we'll move along. Moving along now

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Imagine being so rude as to have a life outside Fab. Suddenly having to deal with your children or go to work or bed. "

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

It is a little rude but many people prioritise other things over sex with people on here so to be expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them

Well to be honest we think (logged off) "

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By *orkie_oneMan
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them

If you block them they can't message you later to apologise and continue the conversation !"
how true

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Conversations are slower on fab than instant messaging e.g. on kik

I find I'm waiting for a reply,seeing they have read my message,then it dosent show they have gone offline for a while,it's not rude it's about replying when it's convenient

At this moment I'm writing this I'm having a quick peek,now please excuse me whilst I go dish my dinner up and eat it,not sure when I will be back

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Whilst it could be perceived that way op, it's also worthwhile keeping in mind that people on fab may be close to others, or in a position where they wouldn't want to be seen to be using the site. This may be whilst on a break from work, or suddenly having to take a phone call or emergency, if they're on-call, or looking after children and need to respond to a problem.

Whilst general communication social guidelines are useful, Fab exists within an alternative system to standard life, where other relationships, professional, home, sexual etc, will take priority to Fab ones. It's also a system that isn't as fixed as, for example, speaking to someone on their home phone line - it requires the internet to be up and working, with all of the potential issues with wifi, tech etc that could happen. And phone batter life isn't always that reliable. During the working week, we should expect that many people will be dictated to by working lives etc. Other people are carers, potentially for the infirm or sick: an elderly mum would always come first, if she's bewildered and possibly at risk in the kitchen.

I don't block people for being slow - I'm slow. I also don't seek a guarantee that there's a response time or conclusion for all chats - they find their natural way. But we each make our own rules in life, if we have them.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

Nope, and it’s a little bit dramatic..

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By *ilentnoiseMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It depends, sometimes it could be a connection (Internet) issue.

However if its just a time to go factor then a polite goodbye or goodnight should always be the case "

Lol more likely his wife walked in

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them

Nope, and it’s a little bit dramatic.. "
no it's not dramatic , it's down right rude !

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No, not at all rude. People have real lives, I'm sure you do as well OP. Anyone that's not willing to put their children or real life first, I don't want to meet anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I've spoken to anyone who's said "I'm logging off now" it's not a huge deal for me.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'd say it's more rude to block someone for having to do something in thier life "

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By *hiteroseredroseWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Imagine being so rude as to have a life outside Fab. Suddenly having to deal with your children or go to work or bed. "

Agreed

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"I don't see it as a big deal. Truly. "

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them

agree.it only takes a few seconds to say "been nice talking but got to go now.speak soon".most people that see nothing wrong with it are usually quick to moan if somebody is rude to them or ignores them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, not at all rude. People have real lives, I'm sure you do as well OP. Anyone that's not willing to put their children or real life first, I don't want to meet anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who ever you are talking to.on here doesn't owe you anything so if their private life needs attention then I wouldn't be bothered if they logged off straight away then got back to me later on it's all understanding

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them

You block people for logging off fab?? Jeezzoooo. I'd hate to forget to put your bins out."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why you never got back to me ? Because I logged off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No who says bye all the time? If talking to more than one person that can be quite time consuming and fab isn't someone's whole life

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"No. I don't know what's going on in their life that's more important than talking to someone on the net. If it happened every time we talked that would be different"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

Not in the slightest, how do you know what people are doing when they message you, there are far more important things in life than Fab. Sounds like you need to chill your beans with regards to the blocking cause they didn’t reply instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I was speaking to someone in to the late hours of this morning, and I fell asleep, he didn’t block me. He just wished me goodnight.

It’s no big deal... people log off for reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with OP a lot of rude people on here

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

maybe it should be a " rule" in the FAQ. " it's not rude to log off without saying goodbye in a conversation" !

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

It’s very rude and very common - usually happens when they find something better.

Good for you to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe after chatting they decided that you were not for them afterall.

Nobody owes you anything here tbf.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Maybe after chatting they decided that you were not for them afterall.

Nobody owes you anything here tbf.

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They used to say ‘bye’ when we had a civilised society - or maybe we owe nothing to anybody else and become a Hobbesian nightmare?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm logging off now people. Goodbye xxxxxxx

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"I'm logging off now people. Goodbye xxxxxxx"

Goodbye it’s been emotional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe after chatting they decided that you were not for them afterall.

Nobody owes you anything here tbf.

They used to say ‘bye’ when we had a civilised society - or maybe we owe nothing to anybody else and become a Hobbesian nightmare? "

I tend to agree.

It is funny how people think that it is okay to leave a conversation without saying bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm logging off now people. Goodbye xxxxxxx"

Take care Doris, all the best to you and yours x

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Maybe after chatting they decided that you were not for them afterall.

Nobody owes you anything here tbf.

They used to say ‘bye’ when we had a civilised society - or maybe we owe nothing to anybody else and become a Hobbesian nightmare?

I tend to agree.

It is funny how people think that it is okay to leave a conversation without saying bye. "

Pure arrogance I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason."

Again, it’s down to pure arrogance - many people think that, because they are popular on here, they are somehow wonderful people. It’s delusion on a grand scale.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I always see messaging on here as a fluid thing, drop off for a few hours, pick it up later regardless of the time of day. I assume others treat it the same so don't get upset if they "disappear".

I don't think I've ever said "Bye" in any message. Maybe on Kik or whatnot.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Maybe after chatting they decided that you were not for them afterall.

Nobody owes you anything here tbf.

They used to say ‘bye’ when we had a civilised society - or maybe we owe nothing to anybody else and become a Hobbesian nightmare?

I tend to agree.

It is funny how people think that it is okay to leave a conversation without saying bye.

Pure arrogance I’m afraid "
I find it most ignorant when a guy asks you a personal question and by time I've wrote my reply he's logged off and gone for a week , it happens very often and I for one consider it rude , yes I get the life gets in the way and they have to dash off , fair play but regularly doing it merits a block !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always see messaging on here as a fluid thing, drop off for a few hours, pick it up later regardless of the time of day. I assume others treat it the same so don't get upset if they "disappear".

I don't think I've ever said "Bye" in any message. Maybe on Kik or whatnot. "

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

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Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason."

If I messaged and got no reply I'd just assume they weren't interested.

It's no big deal, no one owes you a "no thanks".

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason.

If I messaged and got no reply I'd just assume they weren't interested.

It's no big deal, no one owes you a "no thanks". "

Messaging someone means you’re now like a married couple... didn’t you know this?

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies."

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason."

How original.

How about reading the site FAQ?

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

Nope, they’re probably busy doing other stuff.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation "

Yeah, but this isn't a face to face convo, it's an online one. They could be having your convo as well as doing a hundred other things.

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason.

If I messaged and got no reply I'd just assume they weren't interested.

It's no big deal, no one owes you a "no thanks".

Messaging someone means you’re now like a married couple... didn’t you know this? "

Oh shit!

Mind you...think of all the weddings presents I'm owed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason."

It's impossible to reply to them all. By the time I've replied to the 30 I got this afternoon, my inbox says 53 unread mails again.

Yet my profile is utterly shite. Imagine how many the decent women will get.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation "

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason.

If I messaged and got no reply I'd just assume they weren't interested.

It's no big deal, no one owes you a "no thanks".

Messaging someone means you’re now like a married couple... didn’t you know this? "

That means I'm a bigamist then!

Aw bugger!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

Yeah, but this isn't a face to face convo, it's an online one. They could be having your convo as well as doing a hundred other things. "

Ok - that’s your opinion. The opinion of the OP is that it’s rude.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason.

If I messaged and got no reply I'd just assume they weren't interested.

It's no big deal, no one owes you a "no thanks".

Messaging someone means you’re now like a married couple... didn’t you know this?

That means I'm a bigamist then!

Aw bugger!"

Me too, I have 783 wives who don’t know I exist

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time. "

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason."
read fab faq section please.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude. "

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format. "

Your silly comment about being married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That means I'm a bigamist then!

Aw bugger!

Me too, I have 783 wives who don’t know I exist "

Lets hope they never find out you do! Blimey! That could be expensive!

Omg me too! imagine all the pants I'd need to wash!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Some people need a reality check. So now we have to say bye to everyone we chat to? Seriously? In all the time we have been on the scene we have never done that. We pick up where we left off. Rude? Get a bloody grip!!

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married "

Nothing sly about the comment. It’s there to be read and it’s also me having a sense of humour and not being so uptight. Seems rather fitting for the nature of the thread.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

Nothing sly about the comment. It’s there to be read and it’s also me having a sense of humour and not being so uptight. Seems rather fitting for the nature of the thread."

Yeah you’re a hoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married "

It is called humour.

Bye.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

"

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye "

Bye to both of you x

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

Bye to both of you x "

Bye

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

Bye to both of you x

Bye "

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye "

But humour is subjective is it not? We don't find the same things funny, because we are individuals.

So just pointing it out that it was humour, a light hearted post that does not need one getting there knick knacks in a knot over ( for the record, I did not accuse you of getting your knicks knacks in a knot, just saying some might, just to clarify.

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their"

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

Bye to both of you x

Bye

Bye "

Tarrah a bit!

Y'all come back now y'hear?!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

But humour is subjective is it not? We don't find the same things funny, because we are individuals.

So just pointing it out that it was humour, a light hearted post that does not need one getting there knick knacks in a knot over ( for the record, I did not accuse you of getting your knicks knacks in a knot, just saying some might, just to clarify.

Bye"

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Bye to both of you x "

Bye, bye. Bye. BYE!!

Like the telephone conversation where you say it half a dozen times before you disconnect the call

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

Bye to both of you x

Bye

Bye

Tarrah a bit!

Y'all come back now y'hear?! "

Maybe later....

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

But humour is subjective is it not? We don't find the same things funny, because we are individuals.

So just pointing it out that it was humour, a light hearted post that does not need one getting there knick knacks in a knot over ( for the record, I did not accuse you of getting your knicks knacks in a knot, just saying some might, just to clarify.

Bye"


"

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

But humour is subjective is it not? We don't find the same things funny, because we are individuals.

So just pointing it out that it was humour, a light hearted post that does not need one getting there knick knacks in a knot over ( for the record, I did not accuse you of getting your knicks knacks in a knot, just saying some might, just to clarify.

Bye"

I think my education for the evening has concluded now, so I must leave this thread now, goodnight wife 784 x

P.S. work clothes need washing,drying and ironing by Sunday evening x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That 'bye' thing went to far !

We haven't even said 'hi' to one another ffs!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"That 'bye' thing went to far !

We haven't even said 'hi' to one another ffs!"
oh, hi.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"That 'bye' thing went to far !

We haven't even said 'hi' to one another ffs!"

I want to Bearded but I just don’t want to send the wrong single. It can come across as a bit strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

Bye to both of you x

Bye

Bye

Tarrah a bit!

Y'all come back now y'hear?!

Maybe later.... "

Reminds me of g'night Jonboy! Whatever show that was!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"That 'bye' thing went to far !

We haven't even said 'hi' to one another ffs!"

Now that is humour

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Signal*

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

Bye to both of you x

Bye

Bye

Tarrah a bit!

Y'all come back now y'hear?!

Maybe later....

Reminds me of g'night Jonboy! Whatever show that was! "

Brady bunch

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Is it fathomable that maybe They haven’t ended the conversation as far as they are concerned? I’d think it’s rude to block someone just because they don’t conform to your need for instant replies.

It’s not a need, it’s a basic piece of common decency. Excuse it all you want, you’d think someone rude if they walked off in the middle of a real conversation

It’s not a real conversation, moreso messaging lacks context so where in reality I would say excuse me it would not work here as it would lack context and in turn likely be taken the wrong way... do you understand the issue with being overly formal over message? Bye is abrupt and and ends a conversation as oppose to it being picked up and resumed at a more appropriate time.

It’s rude, no amount of excuses or sly comments makes it any less rude.

Care to elaborate on these ‘sly’ comments? Or have you taken something out of context as is commonly the case with message format.

Your silly comment about being married

It is called humour.

Bye.

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

Bye to both of you x

Bye

Bye

Tarrah a bit!

Y'all come back now y'hear?!

Maybe later....

Reminds me of g'night Jonboy! Whatever show that was! "

The Waltons

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

And coming back to the OP, if you block people for leaving the conversation, they can't ever message to back, can they? Seems a bit harsh and rude to do that too.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Hate rudeness. Easy to say a quick goodbye. Even a 'brb something has come up'.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"And coming back to the OP, if you block people for leaving the conversation, they can't ever message to back, can they? Seems a bit harsh and rude to do that too. "

Then don’t leave a conversation - simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

But humour is subjective is it not? We don't find the same things funny, because we are individuals.

So just pointing it out that it was humour, a light hearted post that does not need one getting there knick knacks in a knot over ( for the record, I did not accuse you of getting your knicks knacks in a knot, just saying some might, just to clarify.

Bye

If you have to point out it’s humour, then it’s not that funny

Bye

But humour is subjective is it not? We don't find the same things funny, because we are individuals.

So just pointing it out that it was humour, a light hearted post that does not need one getting there knick knacks in a knot over ( for the record, I did not accuse you of getting your knicks knacks in a knot, just saying some might, just to clarify.

Bye

I think my education for the evening has concluded now, so I must leave this thread now, goodnight wife 784 x

P.S. work clothes need washing,drying and ironing by Sunday evening x"

Ok, will get on it like a tramp on chips dear husband 754.

Your pants are being held in a queue! Your pants are number 5,7683 (cue jingly music)

Bye!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

The phone could have rung, a child could have needed attention, they left something burning on the stove...all of the aforementioned have happened to me whilst chatting online. My child's stringent cry or saying goodbye to someone I might want to fuck?

Hmmmm...toughy!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"The phone could have rung, a child could have needed attention, they left something burning on the stove...all of the aforementioned have happened to me whilst chatting online. My child's stringent cry or saying goodbye to someone I might want to fuck?

Hmmmm...toughy!"

‘BRB’ takes a second to type

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"And coming back to the OP, if you block people for leaving the conversation, they can't ever message to back, can they? Seems a bit harsh and rude to do that too.

Then don’t leave a conversation - simple "

Right, gotcha. Must stay online 24/7 waiting for someone to message me back so I can message them back and not be blocked for being rude (in their opinion) are we not allowed real lives then? Ridiculous. Unworkable to those with kids, jobs, homes to run, you know, real, non fab life.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"And coming back to the OP, if you block people for leaving the conversation, they can't ever message to back, can they? Seems a bit harsh and rude to do that too.

Then don’t leave a conversation - simple

Right, gotcha. Must stay online 24/7 waiting for someone to message me back so I can message them back and not be blocked for being rude (in their opinion) are we not allowed real lives then? Ridiculous. Unworkable to those with kids, jobs, homes to run, you know, real, non fab life. "

Just say ‘brb’ or ‘got to go’ - plenty of folk manage it, even with desperately busy lives. It’s called being human.

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it's a bit weird if you've been talking to someone and chatting and tentatively making plans and then they never message you ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite shocked at this, if I’m on fab whilst my kids are playing outside, and they walk in, I log off. They are my priority, and that’s it!

I am genuinely surprised that people would find that rude, life can get in the way.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"I’m quite shocked at this, if I’m on fab whilst my kids are playing outside, and they walk in, I log off. They are my priority, and that’s it!

I am genuinely surprised that people would find that rude, life can get in the way."

“People” don’t find that rude - what they find rude is when folk just stop messaging mid conversation and then disappear.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"And coming back to the OP, if you block people for leaving the conversation, they can't ever message to back, can they? Seems a bit harsh and rude to do that too.

Then don’t leave a conversation - simple

Right, gotcha. Must stay online 24/7 waiting for someone to message me back so I can message them back and not be blocked for being rude (in their opinion) are we not allowed real lives then? Ridiculous. Unworkable to those with kids, jobs, homes to run, you know, real, non fab life.

Just say ‘brb’ or ‘got to go’ - plenty of folk manage it, even with desperately busy lives. It’s called being human. "

Scenario for you... Injured child, ie scald, cut etc, would you really not go to them immediately because you are expected to reply "got to go" or "brb" to someone who is essentially a stranger on the Internet? That to me is called being human. Now, if this happened to me, my child would take absolute priority rather than someone so easily offended or entitled that they feel the need to hit the block button on me. Let them. No skin of my nose, I'd rather not continue the conversation or meet them tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m quite shocked at this, if I’m on fab whilst my kids are playing outside, and they walk in, I log off. They are my priority, and that’s it!

I am genuinely surprised that people would find that rude, life can get in the way.

“People” don’t find that rude - what they find rude is when folk just stop messaging mid conversation and then disappear. "

I never do this, I’m polite with replies, it I read this as, if you’re mid conversation and people log off it’s rude, that’s not practical irl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine being so rude as to have a life outside Fab. Suddenly having to deal with your children or go to work or bed. "

Yeah especially if they have a disability and you have no time to reply.........think on sometimes they arent being rude but other things come first !

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I’m quite shocked at this, if I’m on fab whilst my kids are playing outside, and they walk in, I log off. They are my priority, and that’s it!

I am genuinely surprised that people would find that rude, life can get in the way.

“People” don’t find that rude - what they find rude is when folk just stop messaging mid conversation and then disappear. "

Surely that's on the assumption that they're logging off, what if their connection suddenly drops?

I used to live in rural area on a crappy connection that would come and go with no warning.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m quite shocked at this, if I’m on fab whilst my kids are playing outside, and they walk in, I log off. They are my priority, and that’s it!

I am genuinely surprised that people would find that rude, life can get in the way.

“People” don’t find that rude - what they find rude is when folk just stop messaging mid conversation and then disappear.

Surely that's on the assumption that they're logging off, what if their connection suddenly drops?

I used to live in rural area on a crappy connection that would come and go with no warning.

"

I have this occasionally with my broadband and 4g. My area can be a bit hit and miss.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Honestly, I don't give a damn if someone takes it as rude, if I need to log off, I need to log off, if someone blocks me because of it, good riddance.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It doesn't bother me at all, I do it all the time and if anyone had a problem with it they can find someone else to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I don't give a damn if someone takes it as rude, if I need to log off, I need to log off, if someone blocks me because of it, good riddance. "

I think you need a thick skin on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I don't give a damn if someone takes it as rude, if I need to log off, I need to log off, if someone blocks me because of it, good riddance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper annoying when they log off just before you get to the vinegar stroke

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I reply when I can and go offline when I want or need to.

This thread is weird.

Fab is wasaaaay down the bottom of my daily priorities and if I go offline, I’m not explaining myself.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Honestly, I don't give a damn if someone takes it as rude, if I need to log off, I need to log off, if someone blocks me because of it, good riddance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply when I can and go offline when I want or need to.

This thread is weird.

Fab is wasaaaay down the bottom of my daily priorities and if I go offline, I’m not explaining myself.

"

^^

This

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Proper annoying when they log off just before you get to the vinegar stroke "

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Wow some people have really over exaggerated on this thread and some of the posts just demonstrates why fab swinger's is seen in such a dim light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its called real life more important then talking to a stranger u aint thst important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it’s rude when you are chatting with someone and they suddenly log off.

We find it so and it always results in us blocking them "

I think your nuts.

If I log off I am probably doing something.

If someone blocked me for that they wouldn't eventually become good company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I think it is rude?

no.

Do I think it is rude to be blocked by someone because you had to go and live your life and weren't able to respond within a given (but unspecified) timeframe?

Yes.

If that is your definition of rude, I'm surprised you haven't blocked me since we last exchanged messages 5 months ago...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proper annoying when they log off just before you get to the vinegar stroke "

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By *hiteroseredroseWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I find it really boils my piss when I message & don't get a reply! The excuse, 'I get a lot of messages' doesn't cut it with me. A quick 'no thanks' or 'thanks' is more than enough. Stops pestering people for no reason."

But then that’s preference as I started replying sorry you aren’t my type or whatever and was called a stuck up bitch and was told you are just meant to block...

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Wow some people have really over exaggerated on this thread and some of the posts just demonstrates why fab swinger's is seen in such a dim light "

Very true - a lot of nerves have obviously been touched by the reactions of some.

I’m sure there are plenty of legitimate reasons for some people leaving a conversation halfway through, but - let’s not kid ourselves - there are also plenty of people who vanish because they are bored; see someone better; or because they don’t give a shit.

To try and deny that the latter group exists is very typical of some people on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are mid conversation and something else comes up then of course we stop communicating, that’s life, we would however apologise for going quiet, that’s just common courtesy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very rude

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Block away

I do it all the time, and I don’t see why I need to tell anyone I’m off doing other things.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother us in the slightest...we do it and had it done to us. We pick up the conversation next chance we get. If we are blocked we move on. It’s not the end of the world

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Wow some people have really over exaggerated on this thread and some of the posts just demonstrates why fab swinger's is seen in such a dim light

Very true - a lot of nerves have obviously been touched by the reactions of some.

I’m sure there are plenty of legitimate reasons for some people leaving a conversation halfway through, but - let’s not kid ourselves - there are also plenty of people who vanish because they are bored; see someone better; or because they don’t give a shit.

To try and deny that the latter group exists is very typical of some people on this site. "
hit the nail on the head there , I'm personally referring to men who I've met , welcomed into my home and enjoyed my hospitality , if strangers do it so what but I'm not being taken for a numpty as and when a man can fit me in , fed up of planning my time around mens wife's tbh

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Wow some people have really over exaggerated on this thread and some of the posts just demonstrates why fab swinger's is seen in such a dim light

Very true - a lot of nerves have obviously been touched by the reactions of some.

I’m sure there are plenty of legitimate reasons for some people leaving a conversation halfway through, but - let’s not kid ourselves - there are also plenty of people who vanish because they are bored; see someone better; or because they don’t give a shit.

To try and deny that the latter group exists is very typical of some people on this site. hit the nail on the head there , I'm personally referring to men who I've met , welcomed into my home and enjoyed my hospitality , if strangers do it so what but I'm not being taken for a numpty as and when a man can fit me in , fed up of planning my time around mens wife's tbh "

Like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people need a reality check. So now we have to say bye to everyone we chat to? Seriously? In all the time we have been on the scene we have never done that. We pick up where we left off. Rude? Get a bloody grip!!"

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Wow some people have really over exaggerated on this thread and some of the posts just demonstrates why fab swinger's is seen in such a dim light

Very true - a lot of nerves have obviously been touched by the reactions of some.

I’m sure there are plenty of legitimate reasons for some people leaving a conversation halfway through, but - let’s not kid ourselves - there are also plenty of people who vanish because they are bored; see someone better; or because they don’t give a shit.

To try and deny that the latter group exists is very typical of some people on this site. hit the nail on the head there , I'm personally referring to men who I've met , welcomed into my home and enjoyed my hospitality , if strangers do it so what but I'm not being taken for a numpty as and when a man can fit me in , fed up of planning my time around mens wife's tbh "

Dont fuck married men then.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Wow some people have really over exaggerated on this thread and some of the posts just demonstrates why fab swinger's is seen in such a dim light

Very true - a lot of nerves have obviously been touched by the reactions of some.

I’m sure there are plenty of legitimate reasons for some people leaving a conversation halfway through, but - let’s not kid ourselves - there are also plenty of people who vanish because they are bored; see someone better; or because they don’t give a shit.

To try and deny that the latter group exists is very typical of some people on this site. hit the nail on the head there , I'm personally referring to men who I've met , welcomed into my home and enjoyed my hospitality , if strangers do it so what but I'm not being taken for a numpty as and when a man can fit me in , fed up of planning my time around mens wife's tbh

Dont fuck married men then. "

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