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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To message people that are going to the same club as you...or was at the same event just saying “see we was at the same event, hope you had a good time?”

Even if you know your not there type but your just being friendly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To message people that are going to the same club as you...or was at the same event just saying “see we was at the same event, hope you had a good time?”

Even if you know your not there type but your just being friendly..."

No

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Yes, many times I've received & sent messages like that

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've had messages like that when I'vebeen going to clubs. It's ok, in my opinion, as long as its a genuinely friendly message. Not a creepy one x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"To message people that are going to the same club as you...or was at the same event just saying “see we was at the same event, hope you had a good time?”

Even if you know your not there type but your just being friendly..."
yes. If they have advertised they are going x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn’t have an issue with it. But then we enjoy the social side.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it's a nice, friendly thing to do.

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By *arcobell21785Man
over a year ago

leeds

It’s find it might reassure the nervous ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's ok unless you were socialising at the event.

In which case you wouldn't need to write it.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Yes of course.

We always have messages after a night at a club saying

'nice to see you sorry we didn't get a chance to talk'

Or

'was great to meet you guys'

Clubs are social places. It's not all about sex.

We also post meets up before going to a club so people can introduce themselves before being face to face

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We would someone if we saw they was going somewhere we was.

Clubs/events can be daunting so knowing someone before hand is always nice interested or not, if someone messages us we reply.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If this happened to us I'm sure we'd be fine with it but I think we'd wonder why you didn't come and say hello in person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Almost every time this has happened to us it's been followed up after a message or two by a request to meet to play. We love to be friendly and socialise but we're quite cautious now.

I'd say do it.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I would welcome it and certainly had messages afterwards asking if I enjoyed myself

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"To message people that are going to the same club as you...or was at the same event just saying “see we was at the same event, hope you had a good time?”

Even if you know your not there type but your just being friendly..."

Yeah of course it is, you can make good friends doing this.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Yes of course it's ok. Swinging is a social event too. Just be adult if they are not the sort of person you would like to play with.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Yes of course it's ok. Swinging is a social event too. Just be adult if they are not the sort of person you would like to play with. "

Think some miss this concept

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