FabSwingers.com forum: Annoying... Annoyed !!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I am sure everyone has had their fair share of friends invites without so much as a little messgage or introduction. Now, I am finding that when I send the first message I don't get a reply instead I get a friends invite. i don't care about friends invites I just want to know there is someone human on the otherside. It's disappointing because these are people I would like to get to know and more.

Should I just accept the invites and wait for a reply? Or just delete the invite and move on?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i only accept friends invites if we have communicated, i cant see the point in having millions of "friends" you have never met...

i delete all unsolicited friends invites...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Or just delete the invite and move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i send a message and dont get a reply i just forget about it, what else can you do if they dont send a reply back? i wouldnt send any more than one message untill i got a reply because thet just looks desparate and wink and friends invites dont count as a reply in my books

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and move on

They are most likely picture hunters only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably just want a peek at your private pics ... Anyway, i've sent you a friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If friends do not communicate just delete them, we do after a week or so.

If its an invite without a wink or words watch your Private gallery

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i only accept friends invites if we have communicated, i cant see the point in having millions of "friends" you have never met...

i delete all unsolicited friends invites..."

I am the same and rather not have lots of people in my network (friends list). I regard my pics to be private and only let a select few have access to them.

But, should I accept a response in the form of friends invite to my intial approach as an acceptance that they are interested? Even from people who are popular swingers on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you should do is hide your pics so they cant be seen by friends and add them then when they go for a perv theres nothing to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If i send a message and dont get a reply i just forget about it, what else can you do if they dont send a reply back? i wouldnt send any more than one message untill i got a reply because thet just looks desparate and wink and friends invites dont count as a reply in my books"

I see your point... Thanks.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

from my own personal point of _iew, if someones that interested theyll message back ! if they make that lil effort before meet doesnt bode well if you were to meet .

if they dont message then theyve saved you any further time and effort and you can move on to meny folks who do message you back .

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Or just delete the invite and move on?

xxx

ditto..

set your own rules and stick to them..

if others cant do the same, block n delete without hesitation..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"But, should I accept a response in the form of friends invite to my intial approach as an acceptance that they are interested? Even from people who are popular swingers on here?"

no..

'popular swingers' should know better..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"from my own personal point of _iew, if someones that interested theyll message back ! if they make that lil effort before meet doesnt bode well if you were to meet .

if they dont message then theyve saved you any further time and effort and you can move on to meny folks who do message you back ."

True, true. It amazes me how many people put on their profile "looking for that elusive single bi-fem" and when they get genuine interest from one they mess things up by not playing by the rules. then they wonder why we are so "elusive" lol... crazy.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

their rule maybe different to urs though. they may well be goo to go for a meet afer just seeing a profile ! persoanlly not for me but are others that it suits and work for . maybe make clear friend invites wont cut it for you and conversation and mental connection required to get your interest. their will be loads of folks happy to chat and meet you without a doubt ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete all unsolicited winks and friends invites.

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I delete all unsolicited winks and friends invites.

Totally agree with Pearl on this and they are only after your private pics i would guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I welcome all winks and invites, I am a single male. Things must be different for ladies, and I do not blame them for deleting all unsolicited winks and friends invites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heres my tip for dealing with friend invites...... wait till they have gone off line, accept, perv private gallery, then either remove from friends list or send a message.......

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"i only accept friends invites if we have communicated, i cant see the point in having millions of "friends" you have never met...

i delete all unsolicited friends invites..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot. Send a message of interest and get a friend invite back. I only add friends if we have talked and it is going to go somewhere. It happened earlier I replied saying I don't accept friend invites right away and they deleted the reply. No loss really I am not just looking for a massive friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I am sure everyone has had their fair share of friends invites without so much as a little messgage or introduction. Now, I am finding that when I send the first message I don't get a reply instead I get a friends invite. i don't care about friends invites I just want to know there is someone human on the otherside. It's disappointing because these are people I would like to get to know and more.

Should I just accept the invites and wait for a reply? Or just delete the invite and move on?

xxx"

It would seem to us that because you have 24 pics in your Friends Gallery they think they'll have a good perve at those.

Anyone can see by the 2 pics in your Public Gallery that your very attractive and therefore should be happy you mailed them and reply without delay.

Anyone wanting to be added to Friends first sounds like a time waster or pic collector to us.

Delete and move on.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for your opinions. However, I have received a message... Some hours later. Hmmm dilema! what to do??? Who said this was easy? lol.

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