FabSwingers.com forum: Would you or would you not

By *ream3.14159 OP Man
over a year ago

Here & there

If you have gone on not having sex for long period, I'm talking few years here not couple of weeks, then you're offered sex after that long but not so attracted to the person who offered would you go for it just to break the long spell, or say no thanks?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'd say no thanks, I if there's no attraction & the you're just doing it for the sake of it then it's unsatisfying & pointless to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say no thanks, I if there's no attraction & the you're just doing it for the sake of it then it's unsatisfying & pointless to be honest"

This

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not I have to have an attraction and a connection or I literally would not be able to get my mind or body to engage or enjoy the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in that position and said no

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've been in that position and said no "

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no thanks

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I've been in that position and said no "

I've been in that position and said yes. Beggars can't be choosers.

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By *ream3.14159 OP Man
over a year ago

Here & there

Most answers echoes my feeling about it, I wouldn't either as someone already mentioned, it would be pointless and will feel bad about it after.

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I'm in that position (months not years). It's a big "no" from me!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say no thanks, I if there's no attraction & the you're just doing it for the sake of it then it's unsatisfying & pointless to be honest"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have gone on not having sex for long period, I'm talking few years here not couple of weeks, then you're offered sex after that long but not so attracted to the person who offered would you go for it just to break the long spell, or say no thanks?"

Not so attracted to them?

So as in you like them a little but not loads? Then yes.

Or if its 0 attraction then no.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definetly no thanks

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By *ream3.14159 OP Man
over a year ago

Here & there

"I've been in that position and said no

I've been in that position and said yes. Beggars can't be choosers. "

I rather be a choosing beggar, if the currency is not what I'm begging for, I'll say thank you very much but I can go hungry for another day.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd say no thanks, I if there's no attraction & the you're just doing it for the sake of it then it's unsatisfying & pointless to be honest"

Totally agree

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No thanks, I’d invariably regret it otherwise (based on past experience

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Not worth it.

More satisfying alone that without some form of connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would say no thanks.

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By *ream3.14159 OP Man
over a year ago

Here & there

"No thanks, I’d invariably regret it otherwise (based on past experience

I totally agree

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By *ream3.14159 OP Man
over a year ago

Here & there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I don't believe most answers.

If a man especially has gone years without sex I think the person offering it to him would need to be pretty bad for him to refuse.

Might but be the Pc Answer but I'm pretty sure it's the true one.

I have never been in that position but can imagine how I would be if I were.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I would say no thanks.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I don’t think I could rise to the occasion

I’m not 18 anymore.

So a definite no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% no.

Mutual sexual chemistry, physical attraction and most importantly a, mental connection have to be felt to do anything.

So definitely no from me.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No...I'd rather masturbate that fuck for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on dates where I wasn't attracted to them enough to grow old with, but I told them I was happy to play and 50% of them have said yes. A couple of them turned into fuck buddies for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's subjective. Do you mean attracted to the person physically? A good personality can go a long way.

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By *s ShalomWoman
over a year ago

RUSHDEN

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time I was very young and horny, early 20's.

She was Ok but not my full of cup of tea

The rest my dear friends, is history.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

No thanks. More than happy to go without rather than compromise on what I want

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I've been there...over 6 years.

The guy who broke the streak I am 100% attracted to n have a connection with .. wouldn't have been the one to break it if I didn't.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

When Ive not had sex for any length of time it's been by choice, so I wouldn't be tempted by a so-so random.

Longest by choice was 2 and a half years.

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By *ensousladyWoman
over a year ago

Naughtyville

"100% no.

Mutual sexual chemistry, physical attraction and most importantly a, mental connection have to be felt to do anything.

So definitely no from me. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once upon a time I was very young and horny, early 20's.

She was Ok but not my full of cup of tea

The rest my dear friends, is history. "

That should have been young and very horny

...

Ahhhhh, the complexities of text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey a standing cock has no conscience lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure each and everyone has had that dreaded regret after a one night stand, it really depends longest I've ever had to go without was 3 months and it didn't ruin my life ha... I can say that I could go at least 3 months without banging a munter

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

God no, I'd rather wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no thanks.

Must feel the electricity in the air and tingling in my body to go for it or it's just not worth it.

Mrs

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I would still have sex, but make them do a chore for me, like wash the the car.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I would still have sex, but make them do a chore for me, like wash the the car."

Oooo bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Willing duck breakers and car washers step forward

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By *ream3.14159 OP Man
over a year ago

Here & there

"I'm sure each and everyone has had that dreaded regret after a one night stand, it really depends longest I've ever had to go without was 3 months and it didn't ruin my life ha... I can say that I could go at least 3 months without banging a munter

For me the first three to six month is the most difficult, after that becomes easier and strangely the longer it goes the less I worry about it!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'd prefer not to bother so that's what I do most of the time. You get use to it after awhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I can sort myself out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't play with someone I'm not attracted to.

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