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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are there so many married guy's out there whose wife/partner has gone of it/not interested anymore.

This is becoming a very corny and stale excuse can you think of a better one for these poor soles.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

no they just need to be honest and state im playing away she doesnt know about this but i wont tell if you wont. The amount og guys who claim the mrs got cold feet can i come on my own is a common one too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

This is becoming a very corny and stale excuse can you think of a better one for these poor soles. "

the same can be said about threads mentioning it.

just block and move on if you don't want to meet them

good luck for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can either choose to believe them or choose not to.

Some will be telling the truth, some will not be.

It's not something I concern myself with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our thought is that if they cant interest someone sexualy who knows them, then how are they going to interest someone who doesnt know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think its an excuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our thought is that if they cant interest someone sexualy who knows them, then how are they going to interest someone who doesnt know them"

Quite easily.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Why are there so many married guy's out there whose wife/partner has gone of it/not interested anymore.

This is becoming a very corny and stale excuse can you think of a better one for these poor soles. "

It's life - it happens. And it is not just blokes that this happens to - although it is probably a large percentage.

As has been mentioned earlier - it is true in some cases and in others it isn't.

Everyone has to be guided by their 'moral compass' - and act accordingly.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"our thought is that if they cant interest someone sexualy who knows them, then how are they going to interest someone who doesnt know them"

i used to have those very words on my profile

A friend suggested another reason recently, that they dont want their wives to swing...the old i will fuck your wife but no way is mine being a dirty swinger...i think she might be onto something there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is becoming a very corny and stale excuse can you think of a better one for these poor soles.

the same can be said about threads mentioning it.

just block and move on if you don't want to meet them

good luck for the future"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our thought is that if they cant interest someone sexualy who knows them, then how are they going to interest someone who doesnt know them"

i dont go with this

sometimes people just drift apart and other things that happen in a marrage effect how you feel about someone sexually, i had a rubbish sex life with my ex, tho i never cheated on him but that does not mean im shit at sex just because there was nothing left between us and our marrage and sex life had dried up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think unfortunely lots concern themselves with judging on this site perhaps if we just all stuck with what we want and left whose who want to play with married guys or girls too it. i know sereval ladies that prefer to swing with married guys as 'they know were they r with them' which i think means it is nsa and these guys won't get jealous when they swing with others. cheating is something that is as old as time its self and i believe internet may have made it easier but honestly most would find a way if not satified and some would cheat just for the thrill. whatever there reasons r no concern of mine and i wish them the best of luck in finding what they r looking for xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many married men on here looking for a bit extra, because it's on first looks, it looks easy.

Free and the scatter gun approach is used by many, 'I may get lucky' is their thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our thought is that if they cant interest someone sexualy who knows them, then how are they going to interest someone who doesnt know them

i dont go with this

sometimes people just drift apart and other things that happen in a marrage effect how you feel about someone sexually, i had a rubbish sex life with my ex, tho i never cheated on him but that does not mean im shit at sex just because there was nothing left between us and our marrage and sex life had dried up"
++1

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

is this the subject of choice at the moment or what..... wow...

plenty of talk on the subject in the last week or so....

and before someone else mentions it... it is not just the domain of married men.. there are plenty of married women doing the same thing... and they get the same short schrift...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our thought is that if they cant interest someone sexualy who knows them, then how are they going to interest someone who doesnt know them"

If a partner goes off sex it isn't always the other partners fault. Could be lots of reasona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is becoming a very corny and stale excuse can you think of a better one for these poor soles.

the same can be said about threads mentioning it.

just block and move on if you don't want to meet them

good luck for the future"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about, 'I'm on here because..... '

My wife is a black widow spider and will eat me after we mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think unfortunely lots concern themselves with judging on this site perhaps if we just all stuck with what we want and left whose who want to play with married guys or girls too it. i know sereval ladies that prefer to swing with married guys as 'they know were they r with them' which i think means it is nsa and these guys won't get jealous when they swing with others. cheating is something that is as old as time its self and i believe internet may have made it easier but honestly most would find a way if not satified and some would cheat just for the thrill. whatever there reasons r no concern of mine and i wish them the best of luck in finding what they r looking for xxxxx"

Well said you x

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"Why are there so many married guy's out there whose wife/partner has gone of it/not interested anymore.

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They probably never was 'interested' as in...they didnt exist in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are also quite a few females on here who claim to be playing with hubbies full consent. Tho given the fact that they state you can only contact them at certain times etc etc I doubt this is the whole truth and nothing but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate to find my partner playing away without my knowledge - if he wants to shag someone - fine - but not behind my back.. Swinging is about being honest with each other - anything else is cheating & destroys the good relationship...

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