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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaking my head in disbelief at the lack of respect. I can't believe that guys would try and go bareback with a complete stranger and go to a club with no condoms! Sorry to hear you've had an off putting experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?"

was it the private club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

was it the private club?"

i was just about to ask this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant think of another gang bang club in birmingham

If it is then yes this is normal for the private club, what you have to remember is the club provides girls to cater for the single men so the guys are used to just joining in, if you go as a customer some of the guys will maybe not realise you dont work there and just touch you thinking your one of the girls

All you need to do is make it clear your a customer

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Greedy Girls nights are more ,shall we say relaxed about asking, especially in group rooms, its one of the things i love about them, i can lie back and just let myself go...

However condom use is as expected as at any other night, i remember last time i went to one i was on the swing, guys surrounding me ,waiting their turn basically, and one approached me without a condom, the guys playing told him in no uncertain terms to feck off...

There is a different atmosphere, but no need to not expect, and get respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

was it the private club?"

Club begins with an X

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By *littylikka69Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

was it the private club?

Club begins with an X"

definitly not the private club then?.lol

lisa,i think the x club is actually in west bromwich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this last month, a guy tried to go bareback while we were in the group room, there was so much going on that by rights i shouldn't have even noticed. I did, just in time as he was putting the tip in, I'd actually grabbed his cock to say no, because I didn't want to do anything with him anyway and I was horrified to find he wasn't covered. I told him in no uncertain terms that it was not ok.

Not only that but he sucked Charlie off while a woman was sat on his face so he couldn't see. He's bi so it wasn't a big deal but I was appalled by the lack of respect to even ask him first. He could have been straight and totally freaked but this guy wouldn't have cared, the way he did it was so sneaky.

It really has put us off going to clubs too, and this was on a couples night. You wouldn't see them trying to pull that round our house!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

was it the private club?

Club begins with an X"

xtasia? in west brom? they have working girls there too some night so same applies as the private club? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

was it the private club?

Club begins with an X

xtasia? in west brom? they have working girls there too some night so same applies as the private club? lol"

Didn't know whether I could name it lol or whether I should.

Given there was probably about 40 people there, I doubt they bothered but are you saying then that the working girls do it without condoms then? Me thinks I must still be sweet and innocent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

was it the private club?

Club begins with an X

definitly not the private club then?.lol

lisa,i think the x club is actually in west bromwich."

Still Birmingham to me as I don't know the area

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Went to a greedy girls night at a club in Birmingham on Friday night. Just need to ask is the etiquette the same as if its a normal club night ie male asks permission of the female to touch. The club is on two floors. Was kind of off-putting as we were in the couples area; two males touched without asking permission, two that did asked my partner getting slightly tired of that to be honest, and one that did not only did he try without a condom but he didn't even have one! Best way to stop play that was so we ended up in the couples room in the end as seemed safer. When we went for a drink, the room we were in before, was completely empty.

We did report it to the staff and they were apologetic, gave us a free drink but to be honest, not that I am fantastic at reading body language, I just wasn't wholly convinced that he was sorry

To be honest, its put me off not just going to the club again as it was a very strange layout and my friend isn't sure either though we may try a Saturday night as wasn't busy either but if one holds these kind of 'events' at someone's home, surely people use condoms?

was it the private club?

Club begins with an X

xtasia? in west brom? they have working girls there too some night so same applies as the private club? lol

Didn't know whether I could name it lol or whether I should.

Given there was probably about 40 people there, I doubt they bothered but are you saying then that the working girls do it without condoms then? Me thinks I must still be sweet and innocent "

Sex workers are far less likely to have sex without a condom, most charge more for oral without...i think the suggestion was that the men might touch without asking cos there were sex workers there...

To be honest though i think its a red herring, GG nights are just more full on, you either like them or you dont...and if you play publicly you are going to be surrounded and touched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Given there was probably about 40 people there, I doubt they bothered but are you saying then that the working girls do it without condoms then? Me thinks I must still be sweet and innocent "

no im not suggesting they have sex without condoms infact i know that the private club and r3tro have a strict club rule that anyone playing with the girls must wear a condoms, that does not mean the guys wont try it without

As stated above what i was saying is because some clubs have girls laid on that the guys dont have to ask like they would in a club without girls and the guys may not always know who are working and who are customers so may approch and just touch you thinking its ok as you work there

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By *littylikka69Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"

Given there was probably about 40 people there, I doubt they bothered but are you saying then that the working girls do it without condoms then? Me thinks I must still be sweet and innocent

no im not suggesting they have sex without condoms infact i know that the private club and r3tro have a strict club rule that anyone playing with the girls must wear a condoms, that does not mean the guys wont try it without

As stated above what i was saying is because some clubs have girls laid on that the guys dont have to ask like they would in a club without girls and the guys may not always know who are working and who are customers so may approch and just touch you thinking its ok as you work there

"

i agree with you for sure about the fact that when in the clubs that i go to (the private & the r3tro)that have working girls available you just expect to play straight away without the asking,but of you have been to the club once or twice you do know who is working and who the couples or visiting single ladiers are,but everyone wears a condom!,it's read out in the club rules.

wear a condom for penetration,if you change from one lady to another take thye condom off and replace with a fresh condom.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

We would be more than upset if (a) anyone tried to touch *Her* without permission in a club setting, and (b) especially if they attempted penetration without a condom. In fact it's highly likely that we'd be chucked out after such a confrontation, because *He* would probably give the perpetrator a bit of a slap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See i dont mind a guy touching me in a club without asking but theres an acceptable way and a none acceptable way of doing it for me

If i was on a bed playing and a guy wanted to join i have no problem with him coming over and just touching my leg and so long as he stopped if i look up and said no thanks thats fine in my eyes, infact id sooner that that someone tap me on the shoulder mid blow job and say...is it ok to touch cause he'd likely get a 'are you taking the piss' from me if he did that lol

However coming over to me while im playing and just trying to stick you cock in my gob would get you a firm F**k off

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By *littylikka69Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

i think that most guys in clubs though the first move is a gentle touch on the thigh or arm just to get the ladies attention (unless your one of the brazen or inexperienced members)to get a smile of acknowledgement and then to ask if it is ok to touch elsewhere or if ok to play?,but i suppose the ladies can tell a different tale?.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

I had a really rude guy come up to me while i was playing and tried to stick his finger up my bum, after telling him to "go away" he seemed to have fallen into a door with the help of 2 guys there, gravity is a strange thing ! lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"See i dont mind a guy touching me in a club without asking but theres an acceptable way and a none acceptable way of doing it for me

If i was on a bed playing and a guy wanted to join i have no problem with him coming over and just touching my leg and so long as he stopped if i look up and said no thanks thats fine in my eyes, infact id sooner that that someone tap me on the shoulder mid blow job and say...is it ok to touch cause he'd likely get a 'are you taking the piss' from me if he did that lol

However coming over to me while im playing and just trying to stick you cock in my gob would get you a firm F**k off "

I'm pretty much the same.

I don't expect to be asked if I'm in the middle of a group room. I don't get offended if someone touches me, unless they get offended by me moving their hand away again if I don't want them to join in.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

its readin responses like these that stop us from even considering clubs.

i would go mental if someone tried to have sex with Em, either bareback or sheathed.

seems to be a lack of respect from a lot of people when the blood isnt going in the right direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its readin responses like these that stop us from even considering clubs.

i would go mental if someone tried to have sex with Em, either bareback or sheathed.

seems to be a lack of respect from a lot of people when the blood isnt going in the right direction"

Dont sound like they the right place for you to be honest

Swinging is about sharing if sharing your mrs would make you go 'mental' probably best you do keep away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Given there was probably about 40 people there, I doubt they bothered but are you saying then that the working girls do it without condoms then? Me thinks I must still be sweet and innocent

no im not suggesting they have sex without condoms infact i know that the private club and r3tro have a strict club rule that anyone playing with the girls must wear a condoms, that does not mean the guys wont try it without

As stated above what i was saying is because some clubs have girls laid on that the guys dont have to ask like they would in a club without girls and the guys may not always know who are working and who are customers so may approch and just touch you thinking its ok as you work there

"

Ah gotcha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I suggest getting your partner to have a look.. as we never get teh guys to touch without permission..and that is the whole point of GG nights to us..

To know that we are there.. and if we dont want you we will say no... I think the thing is that some will say they were put off because guys will touch, others because you have to tell them to do so..

And as Jem said the working girls are really going to be less likely to do it without condoms.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"May I suggest getting your partner to have a look.. as we never get teh guys to touch without permission..and that is the whole point of GG nights to us..

To know that we are there.. and if we dont want you we will say no... I think the thing is that some will say they were put off because guys will touch, others because you have to tell them to do so..

And as Jem said the working girls are really going to be less likely to do it without condoms.

Cali "

As I had not been before, he stood right by me and I held his cock in my hand, whilst other guys..... well you kind of get my drift, they asked him if they could touch me, he told them to ask the lady 'coughs loudly' what little ole me so he wasn't far but I think next time, I will watch and let him play

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury


"May I suggest getting your partner to have a look.. as we never get teh guys to touch without permission..and that is the whole point of GG nights to us..

To know that we are there.. and if we dont want you we will say no... I think the thing is that some will say they were put off because guys will touch, others because you have to tell them to do so..

And as Jem said the working girls are really going to be less likely to do it without condoms.

Cali

As I had not been before, he stood right by me and I held his cock in my hand, whilst other guys..... well you kind of get my drift, they asked him if they could touch me, he told them to ask the lady 'coughs loudly' what little ole me so he wasn't far but I think next time, I will watch and let him play "

To be honest I don't think we will be going back there. It's probably the worst night I have been to in the last 3 years. A total lack of respect that wound me right up and wrecked the night for Lisa. The only reason the guy didn't get a slap is I can't afford to get done for ABH in my line of work.

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