FabSwingers.com forum: So hard to meet ???

By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

4 weeks is literally nothing on fab. You could be waiting months and months for a meet in all honesty

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Women are the hardest people to meet for anyone, and four weeks is indeed nothing.

Clubs will be your best bet. There are nights that exclude single guys, and for the most part they're not that bad.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"4 weeks is literally nothing on fab. You could be waiting months and months for a meet in all honesty"

Oh lol , wasn’t the answer I was hoping for

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Women are the hardest people to meet for anyone, and four weeks is indeed nothing.

Clubs will be your best bet. There are nights that exclude single guys, and for the most part they're not that bad. "

Yeah I guess we need the confidence first to get to a club lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Women are the hardest people to meet for anyone, and four weeks is indeed nothing.

Clubs will be your best bet. There are nights that exclude single guys, and for the most part they're not that bad.

Yeah I guess we need the confidence first to get to a club lol"

We've all been there!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x"

What's in it for the single woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why you will hear people call single women Unicorns... Because they are so hard to find they are like mythical creatures

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

What's in it for the single woman?

Well she’d be totally ravished by me and Jay.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you want female play thing and the bloke can watch but not join in?? What's in it for them?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol what's in it for anyone to meet you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

What's in it for the single woman?

Well she’d be totally ravished by me and Jay.x"

Maybe make your profile reflect this. Also I don't know many single women who would agree to be restrained by two complete strangers.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ...."

Are you willing to return the favour? You join them and your hubby is only allowed to watch? If not I think you'll struggle with that one.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are you willing to return the favour? You join them and your hubby is only allowed to watch? If not I think you'll struggle with that one. "

We really don’t to play with any Male, that’s just our preference...

I guess it’s only realistic with a single female then ??

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"lol what's in it for anyone to meet you?

Rude

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

What's in it for the single woman?

Well she’d be totally ravished by me and Jay.x

Maybe make your profile reflect this. Also I don't know many single women who would agree to be restrained by two complete strangers. "

Yeah fair point, maybe we need to tweak the profile a little , thankyou.x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"lol what's in it for anyone to meet you?

Rude "

Blunt, but the question you need to ask, I'm afraid.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"So you want female play thing and the bloke can watch but not join in?? What's in it for them? "

I guess we hoped some guys would get off on just watching ???

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By *eteforprincesssMan
over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!

Bacicly single guys are just baby birds that every now and again get a crumb thrown... the operators here throw out a status..like fuk the wife..ect... then go off line... so guys get worked up...use there messages up...then they pay for more... scam really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you want a man from a couple to sit out and watch whilst you three have a FFM

So kind of you! Can we borrow your female half whilst you watch? Mmmm didn’t think so....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

What's in it for the single woman?

Well she’d be totally ravished by me and Jay.x

Maybe make your profile reflect this. Also I don't know many single women who would agree to be restrained by two complete strangers.

Yeah fair point, maybe we need to tweak the profile a little , thankyou.x"

You're welcome. When you first start swinging it's easy to get a bit carried away with achieving your fantasies but in order to do that you have to be offering something that coincides with other people's fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you want female play thing and the bloke can watch but not join in?? What's in it for them?

I guess we hoped some guys would get off on just watching ???"

Maybe you could try a club on a couples and single females night?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ffm is by far the most difficult common fantasy.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"lol what's in it for anyone to meet you?

Rude

Blunt, but the question you need to ask, I'm afraid. "

So your suggesting women don’t like to meet couples ?

Surely a female being pleasured by both a Male & Female is desirable ??

Or maybe I misunderstood the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x"

There are clubs in the west mids area that have bi nights where you’ll be more likely to meet a single lady or pick the club nights where its single ladies and couples only. Your profile n pics are nice. Just takes time. Xxx

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"So you want a man from a couple to sit out and watch whilst you three have a FFM

So kind of you! Can we borrow your female half whilst you watch? Mmmm didn’t think so...."

Are we not allowed to have that fantasy then ?

Thanks for the positive advice hun

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"So you want female play thing and the bloke can watch but not join in?? What's in it for them? "

This - you’ve potentially got a market in hot wife / cuckold / stag and vixen couples but outside of that... your Male half gets to play with her but the Male from the other couple doesn’t get to play with your female half?

Maybe you’d have more success looking for bi fem only play with both males sticking to their own partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do meet couples on my own, but looking at your profile I do have a few issues. Great there are photos of both of you on them, but I would not like to be treated like a plaything. I prefer to just have 1:1, soft play with the lady, and the guy to either only watch or to only get involved with his partner. It might change in the heat of the moment, but it may not.

You have bareback pics on your profile- I'm assuming this is just between the two of you and you wouldn't expect the lady that joins you to be happy with bareback?

Last but not least, I don't think I'd be comfortable meeting a couple who would want to restrain and dominate me, but I'm quite sure there might be some women who'd love that.

Regarding clubs- most clubs do nights/events where single guys were either not allowed in or restricted in numbers.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"So you want female play thing and the bloke can watch but not join in?? What's in it for them?

Maybe you’d have more success looking for bi fem only play with both males sticking to their own partners "

That’s it hun ! Thanks for understanding , yes we need to advertise we are looking for a cuck scenario or just a single female ...

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"So you want female play thing and the bloke can watch but not join in?? What's in it for them?

Maybe you’d have more success looking for bi fem only play with both males sticking to their own partners

That’s it hun ! Thanks for understanding , yes we need to advertise we are looking for a cuck scenario or just a single female ...

Hot Wife / Cuckold / Stag & Vixen are all nuances on the same theme (she partakes and he doesn’t) but they do have important differences and if it’s a part of the lifestyle you are looking to get involved in I’d recommend you do your homework but most importantly ask the specific couple how the dynamic works for them!

There’s plenty of us on here! But I do think you are much more suited to that sort of couple rather than a more traditional full swap couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think every man on here needs to see this post cos if yous cant get a meet then men on here have no luck. As for advise i always read their profile first and make the message personnal to them other than that just keep at it 4 weeks is nothing on here hope yous find what youre looking for

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"I do meet couples on my own, but looking at your profile I do have a few issues. Great there are photos of both of you on them, but I would not like to be treated like a plaything. I prefer to just have 1:1, soft play with the lady, and the guy to either only watch or to only get involved with his partner. It might change in the heat of the moment, but it may not.

You have bareback pics on your profile- I'm assuming this is just between the two of you and you wouldn't expect the lady that joins you to be happy with bareback?

Last but not least, I don't think I'd be comfortable meeting a couple who would want to restrain and dominate me, but I'm quite sure there might be some women who'd love that.

Regarding clubs- most clubs do nights/events where single guys were either not allowed in or restricted in numbers. "

You’ve raised some great points actually about our profile ...

If I’m honest the restraint idea was an initial one which we’ve gone off but stupidly just left it on profile - ok I’ll sort that.

I think your scanerio is much more appealing, to be fair jay may simply just play with me anyway...

No condom pics are just me and jay, safe sexy only with others ...

So actually best advice yet - we need to tweak our profile !!

Thanks hunny.x

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Couples always have what they want to happen in a meet but often forget that single women or women in couples have their own agenda too. The narrower your field for meeting than the smaller the chance of others being interested its just the way it is and could take many months and that's something you are just going to have to live with.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

We’ve been here years and have only had a handful of meets with a female

I think asking the Male half of a couple to watch if the Male half of your couple is allowed to play will make your search even harder but not impossible

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"lol what's in it for anyone to meet you?

Rude

Blunt, but the question you need to ask, I'm afraid.

So your suggesting women don’t like to meet couples ?

Surely a female being pleasured by both a Male & Female is desirable ??

Or maybe I misunderstood the question?"

I'm a "unicorn". Basically that means I'm open to almost everyone here (men, women, couples), and incredibly highly sought after. Competition is fierce. You need to make yourself stand out to get a look in. That's not arrogant, that's just the way it is. I only have so much free time.

You're only looking for unicorns or couples where the man is willing to sit out. You're allowed, of course you are. But it means you'll need to work harder to attract attention.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

Also get yourselves to a couples and single females night. You are both clearly attractive people and I think you’ve a very good chance of success!

I’ve personally had loads more luck playing with other women at clubs than meeting on here. Good luck! Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Couples always have what they want to happen in a meet but often forget that single women or women in couples have their own agenda too. The narrower your field for meeting than the smaller the chance of others being interested its just the way it is and could take many months and that's something you are just going to have to live with."

And this. Often couples seem to forget that I'm a person too, with my own needs and desires. When they do forget, I don't meet them.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

What's in it for the single woman?

She will be played with and if she's from a couple her partner has been told he's allowed to watch. Are they asking to much..... HELL YES

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you considered removing the pointless "legal warning" from your profile ?

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Have you considered removing the pointless "legal warning" from your profile ?"

Mmmmm we kinda just copied the general flow, are you saying this puts people off ?

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

And this. Often couples seem to forget that I'm a person too, with my own needs and desires. When they do forget, I don't meet them. "

Very good advice !

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Have you considered removing the pointless "legal warning" from your profile ?

Mmmmm we kinda just copied the general flow, are you saying this puts people off ?"

The Fab FAQ section actually recommends not using this. Seeing it on a profile is an instant delete or block for a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been asked this same thing a few times. To be honest, it always comes across as the male half of a couple wanting his fantasy fulfilled of two women and thinks an attached woman is an easier way to get it.

Meanwhile I’m expected to just sit and wank in the corner? No thanks, I’ve got far more self respect than that.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"We’ve been asked this same thing a few times. To be honest, it always comes across as the male half of a couple wanting his fantasy fulfilled of two women and thinks an attached woman is an easier way to get it.

Meanwhile I’m expected to just sit and wank in the corner? No thanks, I’ve got far more self respect than that. "

The whole idea comes from me and not J actually, but thanks for the feedback

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x"

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Also get yourselves to a couples and single females night. You are both clearly attractive people and I think you’ve a very good chance of success!

I’ve personally had loads more luck playing with other women at clubs than meeting on here. Good luck! Xx"

Well that’s what we must do then

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx"

Awww ty, oooo we will !

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Our opinion for what it is worth is that your profile in essence looks ok. Maybe you should be brace and decide to give up on the couple idea here entirely. You explore the club scene for that.

To us it seems much more focused on preference and respectful to concentrate your efforts on the single female you’d clearly prefer.

Either that or re-word what it is that you want.

In our own limited experience the majority of couples here are in it together. We’ve even met couples socially - where one half (more often than not the male) is far keener than the other and though they should probably talk things out they clearly come across as solid together.

Admittedly you’re not seeking the impossible (see the but you are after finding the very difficult (we think) xx

Good luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this before,

It was actually a very sexy experience,

We met a lovely couple who only wanted a female and had a great night out drinking a socialising and we all enjoyed each other's company and was not at all made to feel as though I would be a sex toy for them to use, at the end of the night we had an amazing ffm and my partner was happy to watch!

They fulfilled their fantasy and we had a great night too

And we still remain friends to this day.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"We have done this before,

It was actually a very sexy experience,

They fulfilled their fantasy and we had a great night too

And we still remain friends to this day."

That sounds like an amazing night hunny ! Shame your so far away

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Sorry that should have read (see the borrow someone’s wife for the day thread)!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Unicorn is a myth.

Go to where they go and don’t expect them to come to you.

Clubs are where they “graze” (metaphor).

It’s safe, you can see if there is any attraction, and as a couple we can also walk away.

We have had stunning times in clubs, hope you do too.

Still looking for a ploy play though.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx

Awww ty, oooo we will !"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx

Awww ty, oooo we will !

You at Quest Saturday?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You have been here for a very short time.

You are happy for the male of a couple to watch, maybe really phase that , what about the other couples feelings and wishes.

Your age,23 we have children older.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

I’m genuinely asking for advice, please refrain from rudeness when replying , is that really too much to ask ?

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx

Awww ty, oooo we will !

You at Quest Saturday?

No we have family round all weekend this weekend , although not heard of quest ???

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Quest is in Leeds

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Because your not looking for single males! If you ever change your minds. Just say'in

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

I’m genuinely asking for advice, please refrain from rudeness when replying , is that really too much to ask ?"

That's not rude, really it's not. It's a reason you might struggle.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x"

Just go on a couples and single females night and see how it goes. Worse case you get to watch others and still play as a couple. We’ve only ever managed to meet one female in the last 3.5 years. But there’s lots of couples who are interested in female play then back to own partners. X

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Quest is in Leeds"

Ahhh crikey no, that’s miles away lol

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

I’m genuinely asking for advice, please refrain from rudeness when replying , is that really too much to ask ?

That's not rude, really it's not. It's a reason you might struggle. "

Oh ok, fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

I've met loads of single ladies on the club scene over the past few years. I don't think you find as many on couples and single ladies nights. Most of us like to mingle with guys too.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx

Awww ty, oooo we will !

You at Quest Saturday?

No we have family round all weekend this weekend , although not heard of quest ???"

Sorry was talking to M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh it is hard to meet off here I get to know most people in a club

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

I've met loads of single ladies on the club scene over the past few years. I don't think you find as many on couples and single ladies nights. Most of us like to mingle with guys too. "

Yep agreed, we prefer to go to mixed nights rather than couples and single ladies as although I (Mrs) enjoy playing with the ladies I much prefer cock! But for this couple I think that’s a good way to start if they want to avoid single guys x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx

Awww ty, oooo we will !

You at Quest Saturday?

No we have family round all weekend this weekend , although not heard of quest ???

Sorry was talking to M"

Yes babe we all there xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"What are we doing wrong ?

We’ve only been here about 4 weeks now and am just struggling to connect with genuine females to meet

Fed up with fakes too !

We simply want a female to play with and if she’s from a couple we are happy for the Male to watch ....

Are we asking for too much ??

We are worried about clubs as we really don’t want the single Male hassle ...

Help and advice welcome.

Leah.x

Sexy pics shame your so far xxx if your ever up this way on a weekend and dropping by quest gimmie a shout xxx

Awww ty, oooo we will !

You at Quest Saturday?

No we have family round all weekend this weekend , although not heard of quest ???

Sorry was talking to M

Yes babe we all there xx"

Kisses- L

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

I’m genuinely asking for advice, please refrain from rudeness when replying , is that really too much to ask ?"
It not being rude it's a fact! You are new so you will not realise that I am not rude or a nasty person . I am truthful and give my honest opinion. We wouldn't play with someone younger than one of our children, it quiet simple, not rude.

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over a year ago

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

I’m genuinely asking for advice, please refrain from rudeness when replying , is that really too much to ask ?It not being rude it's a fact! You are new so you will not realise that I am not rude or a nasty person . I am truthful and give my honest opinion. We wouldn't play with someone younger than one of our children, it quiet simple, not rude."

Nope not rude at all, you're bloody lovely! Haven't seen you for ages!

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

But I’m not asking about meeting you, I’m raising a generic question about our profile then you made it personal.

Please don’t reply anymore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

But I’m not asking about meeting you, I’m raising a generic question about our profile then you made it personal.

Please don’t reply anymore."

Its a valid response though. There are quite a few people who rule out those younger than their children. It might go some way to explaining why you aren't getting too many responses.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your age,23 we have children older.

Anddddddd ?????

But I’m not asking about meeting you, I’m raising a generic question about our profile then you made it personal.

Please don’t reply anymore."

It's an open forum you asked for help and I made a valid comment.

It's clear from my comment we wouldn't meet you due to your age.

If you find my comments offensive it show you have not understood where the comments came from. As in to give you a reason why you are finding it difficult to meet.

The fact you have not got the answer you were looking for and have now told me not to post shows your immaturity.

So I will wish you all the luck with your quest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking OP is taking a lot of the comments personally, it’s not the case

Any generic mid twenties couple searching for a single female or couple where the male will take no active part will struggle because it’s a small market and not what the majority of adult swingers want

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Thinking OP is taking a lot of the comments personally, it’s not the case

And I do appreciate that i really do....

We will hit the clubs and see how things go from there

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Can I remind everyone that airing dirty linen to the detriment of the forum is against site rules. Its best to ignore each other.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Can I remind everyone that airing dirty linen to the detriment of the forum is against site rules. Its best to ignore each other. "

Yes totally agree

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Another dream I suppose all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of glad that I didn’t point out that I’ve probably got socks older than 23 .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no comment take it for a single male it is dam hard here to meet. anyway good luck

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Kind of glad that I didn’t point out that I’ve probably got socks older than 23 .....

Ha ha ha - that however would of made me giggle

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Kind of glad that I didn’t point out that I’ve probably got socks older than 23 .....

Ha ha ha - that however would of made me giggle

It did make me giggle.

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