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First club visit as a single

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By *mana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm normally a very confident person but I'm actually very nervous about going to a club as a single... any advice to help keep me calm and not panic and run away would be appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm normally a very confident person but I'm actually very nervous about going to a club as a single... any advice to help keep me calm and not panic and run away would be appreciated xx"

Come with me I'll look after you.

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By *amsiMan
over a year ago

Hanworth

I remember my first time, sitting in the car to pluck up the courage lol, I walk in to realise I used to work with the guy at the reception desk (awkward) still I had a great time, happy to escort you (I'm thinking of going to kestrels on the 22nd or 23rd this month, no need to feel you have to play.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I felt very awkward the first time I went on my own so I sat in the hot tub and found it much easier to chat to people in there.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

It's simple.

Be nice.

Don't go with expectations of sex.

Be VERY clean.

Be respectful and sociable.

Have fun xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Just go with no expectations of any playing.

Try and relax in the jacuzzi if the club has one...it's a great place for a natter

And enjoy yourself

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It's probably easier going as a single lady, there are always people there willing to chat & welcome you to the club scene & make sure you're comfortable & enjoy your night.

Relax & enjoy the social side, you will be fine once you're in there. Going in through those doors for the first time can be a bit daunting but once you're in you will be looked after.

Good luck x

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester


"I'm normally a very confident person but I'm actually very nervous about going to a club as a single... any advice to help keep me calm and not panic and run away would be appreciated xx"

Speak to the staff and let them know you are a little apprehensive, all decent clubs will keep an eye out for the nervous newbies especially a single lady to check they are okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I felt very awkward the first time I went on my own so I sat in the hot tub and found it much easier to chat to people in there. "

I did this do. I went sober, didn't drink, chatted in the hot tub and at the bar and just relaxed and people watched. Didn't feel the pressure to play and I didn't on my first visit.

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By *mana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I definitely wont be drinking! Thank you for the advice xx

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