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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

With me it's feet. About as sexy as going to Screwfix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scat... gokkun...

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

With me it's feet. About as sexy as going to Screwfix."

Agree, they are gross. Nothing nice about even the nicest feet and don’t get me started on men’s feet *vom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scat... gokkun...

This!! Definitely!!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Messy food sex, what's sexual about it, just can't see the appeal??? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet omg...... They're smelly, hard skin, athletes foot and ticklish and I hate my feet touched lol

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Custard wrestling. Jesus what a waste. My recommendation is to bring a chocolate sponge pudding at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely food, I tried whipped cream with an ex once, I felt so sick afterwards,

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye another vote for feet here I just can't stand them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet, piss, cuckoldry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet - just don't get it!

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body. "

Do people do that, tie boobs so they go blue? That’s just wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public humiliation, scat, feet, watersports and hard sports... WTAF?

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Spunking on feet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of people don't get this but I'm a non smoker with a smoking fetish. When I'm not turned on I cannot stand being near someone who's smoking but the second I'm turned on I love the smell, taste of it on someone and have it blown in my face, over my body and used as a human ashtray sometimes. Strange one and I don't even understand why I like it so much myself. But we're all different and all have our own niche fetishes at the end of the day we'd be boring if we were all into the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

With me it's feet. About as sexy as going to Screwfix."

I'm glad foot worship is a thing... I was the same as you until I had my toes sucked and massaged... heaven!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fisting or extreme stretching

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body. "

With you on that. Hate to see things like SLUT and CUM DUMP written on a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, people? Just because we don't understand something do we need to be derogatory about it?

Didn't think so.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Feet, rimming, eating poo & drinking pee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing separately. I don't understand it to a degree and at the moment it isn't something I'm comfortable with, however I don't find it gross or anything else putting people down for their choices, and it's something that will happen again for us in time.

Not a fetish as such but still something that some get off in and others don't.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Erm, people? Just because we don't understand something do we need to be derogatory about it?

Didn't think so."

Quite so. There are many fetishes that I don't get, but the people who like them obviously get something from it. It's not wrong, it's not disgusting, it's just not for me.

Someone explained the boob tying one to me recently. Apparently the relief when they are untied feels wonderful and tingly. It's still not something I want to do myself, but now I understand why people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think about others fetishes if Iam honest but openly discuss mine to encourage the sharing of others...

although I don’t understand adult baby’s.

It’s wrong.

It’s weird.

I don’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet; my ex had a foot fetish and he tried to explain it to me but I just never got it.

And also fisting, I don’t find the thought of it remotely erotic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body. "

100%

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Poo. i really find poo quite nauseating and it's not exactly sterile.

Sploshing... I'm just not someone who enjoys mess like that.

Daddy/mummy - little. Lots of friends are into this and i really don't get how one becomes aroused by the trappings of childhood.

Nothing inherently wrong with any of the above (though poo safety is difficult). Just very much not my cup of tea.

I'm sure I do things people don't understand.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rimming. I will never understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

With me it's feet. About as sexy as going to Screwfix.

Agree, they are gross. Nothing nice about even the nicest feet and don’t get me started on men’s feet *vom"

I could agree more, feet are not nice at all. I was in the swimming baths this morning and I had a front row view of someone’s feet........ I will never be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolds, scat.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body.

With you on that. Hate to see things like SLUT and CUM DUMP written on a lady. "

Well we knew we was weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 P's no thanks.

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By *anSMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"With me it's feet. About as sexy as going to Screwfix."

Same here, can’t stand feet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fur coats , had to get it out there!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Lol at the hatred of feet, when it’s my (Chris’s) best bodypart, very unfair.

There’s lots of fetishes we don’t ‘get’ but we do appreciate people are influenced throughout their lives in all sorts of different ways.

In maybe a hundred club visits I don’t think we’ve been shocked by anything, the thing we don’t follow is where a fetish activity doesn’t actually lead to sex. Eg being lead round on a collar literally all night.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

With me it's feet. About as sexy as going to Screwfix."

I admit I have a little foot fetishism but, they have to be really good looking feet.

I suppose it like your favourite band or group that no one knows why you like them or it just for you. Until it becomes mainstream and then it just becomes fad.

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

Cum in eye didn't even know it was a thing

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Cum in eye didn't even know it was a thing "

Not pleasant if you're wearing contact lenses haha

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

What's with all the kink shaming just because you guys aren't into something? It's unnecessary.

Different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

scat

and some age play

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I'm more curious about how some of the really niche/odd kinks get "set" in a person.

There's a few I don't get, and do nothing for me, but not much I wouldn't do if someone liked it enough.

Probably poo is the only one off the list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scat and tit binding, but love a sexy foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine has a thing for girls wearing dirty white sports socks .....

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"A friend of mine has a thing for girls wearing dirty white sports socks ..... "

That's the kind!

Where the hell does that sort of thing come from?!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Everything couples do. Everything involving bodily fluids or excretions. Everything involving feet. Name-calling, humiliation, pain.

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester

Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks

If we all liked the same thing fab would be a dull boring place

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell


"Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

"

Don't worry about them. You like what you like. These kink shaming vanilla bitches shouldn't put you off anything. You should join FL though, its much more open and accepting towards kink.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

Don't worry about them. You like what you like. These kink shaming vanilla bitches shouldn't put you off anything. You should join FL though, its much more open and accepting towards kink. "

Proud to be a "vanilla bitch". Babe in Total Control of Herself.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell


"Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

Don't worry about them. You like what you like. These kink shaming vanilla bitches shouldn't put you off anything. You should join FL though, its much more open and accepting towards kink.

Proud to be a "vanilla bitch". Babe in Total Control of Herself. "

That's good for you. People like what they like.

No need for vanilla people to be constantly kink shaming us just because they don't get it though.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

Also why are you insinuating that just because someone is kinky they must not have control of themselves. That's a bit ignorant.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Also why are you insinuating that just because someone is kinky they must not have control of themselves. That's a bit ignorant. "

Certainly not. Just writing the abbreviation in full. It has nothing to do with sexual preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding (not sure if it’s classed as a fetish though)

The daddy thing

Rimming

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

Don't worry about them. You like what you like. These kink shaming vanilla bitches shouldn't put you off anything. You should join FL though, its much more open and accepting towards kink.

Proud to be a "vanilla bitch". Babe in Total Control of Herself.

That's good for you. People like what they like.

No need for vanilla people to be constantly kink shaming us just because they don't get it though. "

The question was "What don't you get?" Just answering the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

Don't worry about them. You like what you like. These kink shaming vanilla bitches shouldn't put you off anything. You should join FL though, its much more open and accepting towards kink. "

Don’t see how it’s kink shaming?? Genuinely interesting question I think.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell


"Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

Don't worry about them. You like what you like. These kink shaming vanilla bitches shouldn't put you off anything. You should join FL though, its much more open and accepting towards kink.

Don’t see how it’s kink shaming?? Genuinely interesting question I think. "

The OPs question isn't. There is tons of kinks I don't get or have any interest in.

But the people commenting stuff about how it's gross or weird etc are kink shaming and that's not right.

It's already difficult enough to be kinky especially when you're new to it and your kink is particularly niche because you're already internalising tons of shame and embarrassment. And responses like the ones on here only make people feel more ashamed and embarrassed.

Some people here need to remember what site they are on.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

Pain. I cant understand how being in agony can be a turn on

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

With me it's feet. About as sexy as going to Screwfix."

So will I find you at Screwfix. What's so bad about Screwfix. You might get better luck there with what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm well some of the fetishes that many of you are turning your noses up at are definitely on my list

Don't worry about them. You like what you like. These kink shaming vanilla bitches shouldn't put you off anything. You should join FL though, its much more open and accepting towards kink.

Don’t see how it’s kink shaming?? Genuinely interesting question I think.

The OPs question isn't. There is tons of kinks I don't get or have any interest in.

But the people commenting stuff about how it's gross or weird etc are kink shaming and that's not right.

It's already difficult enough to be kinky especially when you're new to it and your kink is particularly niche because you're already internalising tons of shame and embarrassment. And responses like the ones on here only make people feel more ashamed and embarrassed.

Some people here need to remember what site they are on. "

No I disagree. Don’t really see any kink shaming on here, just opinions. Someone saying feet are gross isn’t kink shaming that’s an opinion. If someone feels they’re being kink shamed on here they need tougher skin if they’re going to hang around. I’ve seen it on here before and I don’t agree with it as each to their own but people are just answering the OP question as far as I can see.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I meant to send this a couple of hours ago but got side tracked.

I respect the right of free speech and commentary. But it applies both ways.

As someone involved in fetish it appears to me to be acceptable on fab to go beyond saying something is not for you or you don't understand it but to be rude about kinks and those that practice them. Despite the fact that the kinks are consensual, and not abusive. In other words adults having fun. I am sure vanilla people could say lots of rude things about swinging in its variety, such as weird, gross or strange.

As swingers we would say it is non of their business. As kinksters we say the same. It is not too long ago people were free to be abusive about gay people. When I was young I remember the jokes and comments made. We are only now rolling back that prejudice.

I am always puzzled by people giving views on non mainstream adult fun. Sometimes it feels like the bad old days when it was acceptable to be rude about people who had different cultures.

Even on the discussions about kink on Fab, people who are supposed to be experts in kink make very vanilla statements.

In kink they say " your kink is not my kink but I respect your right to do it". Which, in the absence of abuse or lack of consent, is the way to approach kinky practices you don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m writing this stuff down and looking it up in the urban dictionary. Keeps me out of mischief

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

FEET...horrible trotters

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith


"Different strokes for different folks

If we all liked the same thing fab would be a dull boring place "

I done want try poo but if a couple are into it. what they do is up to them.

I sat in pub one night listening to a vanilla friend go on about how disgusting oral sex was lol i just said nothing but thought might be why your gf left you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foot worship & receiving painfull things lmao

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

there are many I dont understand and some I would never try, but if someone likes it good for them.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

There are a crazy amount of wine bottles in vaginas for my liking.

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By *ntcovMan
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

I quite enjoy a trip to Screwfix...some hot builder type guys there in work gear usually...

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By *n080971Man
over a year ago

Billericay

Assuming it’s legal i’d say don’t knock it till you’ve tried it. Never in a million years would have actually gone looking to be made wear a collar, bent over then flogged and fingered by a woman wearing a latex hood. Turns out it was quite fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming it’s legal i’d say don’t knock it till you’ve tried it. Never in a million years would have actually gone looking to be made wear a collar, bent over then flogged and fingered by a woman wearing a latex hood. Turns out it was quite fun "

Good for you..

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

Really don’t get the whole squirting thing... big turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don’t get the whole squirting thing... big turn off for me"

Yeah it’s annoying when men squirt all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poo,pee,,yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"poo,pee,,yuk"
tmi but yes

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

Each one of us is different so let’s not berate someone’s personal preference unless it’s illegal or not consensual.

Me, the 5Ps are a definite Nono

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree poo or pee is a no no

I don’t mind ladies feet tho (don’t know why)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nudity! always dress up hot n sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gimp masks and the adult baby omg really don't get these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spanking "

Arh love a good spanking during sex x

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

Lots of things I don’t understand, but each to their own eh. Hence we have profiles with what we like on it. It’s not right to have a go at others just because it’s not your thing !!

Come on peeps be nice x

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Feet

Looners

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I meant to send this a couple of hours ago but got side tracked.

I respect the right of free speech and commentary. But it applies both ways.

As someone involved in fetish it appears to me to be acceptable on fab to go beyond saying something is not for you or you don't understand it but to be rude about kinks and those that practice them. Despite the fact that the kinks are consensual, and not abusive. In other words adults having fun. I am sure vanilla people could say lots of rude things about swinging in its variety, such as weird, gross or strange.

As swingers we would say it is non of their business. As kinksters we say the same. It is not too long ago people were free to be abusive about gay people. When I was young I remember the jokes and comments made. We are only now rolling back that prejudice.

I am always puzzled by people giving views on non mainstream adult fun. Sometimes it feels like the bad old days when it was acceptable to be rude about people who had different cultures.

Even on the discussions about kink on Fab, people who are supposed to be experts in kink make very vanilla statements.

In kink they say " your kink is not my kink but I respect your right to do it". Which, in the absence of abuse or lack of consent, is the way to approach kinky practices you don't understand."

I think that saying that you find something disgusting is not being abusive or rude, it’s just a statement of fact. It’s no different to people calling the vanilla world boring.

Now if someone was derogatory towards someone because of their choices, then that would be different.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Anything where I come out with bruises and scratches.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Each to their own I guess.

For us:

No to toilet games

No to bloodsport

No to feet fetish

Other than that, we're good to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking. I assume those who are into it jizz their pants when they walk past smoking shelters

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I meant to send this a couple of hours ago but got side tracked.

I respect the right of free speech and commentary. But it applies both ways.

As someone involved in fetish it appears to me to be acceptable on fab to go beyond saying something is not for you or you don't understand it but to be rude about kinks and those that practice them. Despite the fact that the kinks are consensual, and not abusive. In other words adults having fun. I am sure vanilla people could say lots of rude things about swinging in its variety, such as weird, gross or strange.

As swingers we would say it is non of their business. As kinksters we say the same. It is not too long ago people were free to be abusive about gay people. When I was young I remember the jokes and comments made. We are only now rolling back that prejudice.

I am always puzzled by people giving views on non mainstream adult fun. Sometimes it feels like the bad old days when it was acceptable to be rude about people who had different cultures.

Even on the discussions about kink on Fab, people who are supposed to be experts in kink make very vanilla statements.

In kink they say " your kink is not my kink but I respect your right to do it". Which, in the absence of abuse or lack of consent, is the way to approach kinky practices you don't understand.

I think that saying that you find something disgusting is not being abusive or rude, it’s just a statement of fact. It’s no different to people calling the vanilla world boring.

Now if someone was derogatory towards someone because of their choices, then that would be different."

Like in the reply directly above yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here are lost of things I wouldn't do, but understand the fetish.

Scat is about the only one I just do not understand.

Anything else, I get why some people are into it, even if I'm not.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I have a foot fetish (Mr) but I don’t love all feet. Big feet, chipped nail varnish etc are a turn off for me. On the other hand a delicate, clean pair of small feet with button toes are heaven. Shouldn’t hate all feet equally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i must be so peculiar i love feet toes painted toes licking heels rimming spanking w/s snowballing etc etc i thought i heard somewhere there were two things you shouldnt try in your life and one of them was folk music - or was that jazz ??

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By *kdazMan
over a year ago

nottingham \ linc

Needle play

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By *heif6999Man
over a year ago

malton

I always got abuse for having a hair cutting fetish... women with shaved hair etc still to this day couldn’t say what it is about it but if doesn’t harm anyone else so I don’t see an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I chose the wrong thread to read before lunch ??

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"I meant to send this a couple of hours ago but got side tracked.

I respect the right of free speech and commentary. But it applies both ways.

As someone involved in fetish it appears to me to be acceptable on fab to go beyond saying something is not for you or you don't understand it but to be rude about kinks and those that practice them. Despite the fact that the kinks are consensual, and not abusive. In other words adults having fun. I am sure vanilla people could say lots of rude things about swinging in its variety, such as weird, gross or strange.

As swingers we would say it is non of their business. As kinksters we say the same. It is not too long ago people were free to be abusive about gay people. When I was young I remember the jokes and comments made. We are only now rolling back that prejudice.

I am always puzzled by people giving views on non mainstream adult fun. Sometimes it feels like the bad old days when it was acceptable to be rude about people who had different cultures.

Even on the discussions about kink on Fab, people who are supposed to be experts in kink make very vanilla statements.

In kink they say " your kink is not my kink but I respect your right to do it". Which, in the absence of abuse or lack of consent, is the way to approach kinky practices you don't understand.

I think that saying that you find something disgusting is not being abusive or rude, it’s just a statement of fact. It’s no different to people calling the vanilla world boring.

Now if someone was derogatory towards someone because of their choices, then that would be different.

Like in the reply directly above yours? "

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester


"Lots of things I don’t understand, but each to their own eh. Hence we have profiles with what we like on it. It’s not right to have a go at others just because it’s not your thing !!

Come on peeps be nice x"

We dont all have profiles with what we like on it, despite fab supposedly being quite open minded etc when I listed my fetishes my profile got deleted so hence my profile is quite blank now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fetching or poo eating....why just why would anyone get turned on by that

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I've read this whole thread hoping to find out what skat (fab won't let me spell it correctly) is! Can someone please help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prolapsing and blood play. Nasty.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’re just going to sneak out the back door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Football!!! But hey each to their own ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body. "

This ..... also piss and poo just gross

Don't even get me started in this "if my master let's me " bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read this whole thread hoping to find out what skat (fab won't let me spell it correctly) is! Can someone please help "
It's poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy wanked in my shoe once, I found it annoying, they were nice shoes & were ruined. At least I wasn't wearing them...

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Watersports, scat, not washing, dirty knickers, facials, BDSM, for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to google s,c,a,t y ?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men wearing women's underwear

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?"

The whole dom/sub thing is a complete mystery to us. We're all equal and we don't want to treat anybody (or be treated) any other way.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Food and sex.

Lots of the things mentioned I'm really into but mixing edible foods with sex just turns my stomach in the worst way.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Pain. Receiving or giving a caning for example. To me sex is a pleasure not pain.

I also don't get the dress up as a schoolgirl for me. Smacks of pedophilia.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Messy food sex, what's sexual about it, just can't see the appeal??? X "

Food fun is great. I love covering a woman in something like yoghurt or chocolate sauce and whipped cream. Then slowly licking and kissing her clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry im another one for feet i don't even like my own feet so im definaley not going to like anyone elses

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By *W_RedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Poo

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Dunno if it's classes as a fetish but dogging!!

Also I'm not keen on watersports or any toilet play. But whatever floats your boat. Not into kink shaming!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Anything to do with pee or poo makes me feel sick.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I've read this whole thread hoping to find out what skat (fab won't let me spell it correctly) is! Can someone please help "

Poo play. Having somebody poo on you. Some scatters like to bite the poo in half. Not for me.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

The whole dom/sub thing is a complete mystery to us. We're all equal and we don't want to treat anybody (or be treated) any other way. "

Hmm, it's a difficult one to explain. From the outside looking in it seems like an unequal partnership. But speaking from a sub perspective I am very much in control of the scene - if I'm not into it, we stop. It's the power play within the scene that we both find so erotic. It's not one person controlling the other in the non bdsm sense as it's something both parties seek. Does that make sense?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I meant to send this a couple of hours ago but got side tracked.

I respect the right of free speech and commentary. But it applies both ways.

As someone involved in fetish it appears to me to be acceptable on fab to go beyond saying something is not for you or you don't understand it but to be rude about kinks and those that practice them. Despite the fact that the kinks are consensual, and not abusive. In other words adults having fun. I am sure vanilla people could say lots of rude things about swinging in its variety, such as weird, gross or strange.

As swingers we would say it is non of their business. As kinksters we say the same. It is not too long ago people were free to be abusive about gay people. When I was young I remember the jokes and comments made. We are only now rolling back that prejudice.

I am always puzzled by people giving views on non mainstream adult fun. Sometimes it feels like the bad old days when it was acceptable to be rude about people who had different cultures.

Even on the discussions about kink on Fab, people who are supposed to be experts in kink make very vanilla statements.

In kink they say " your kink is not my kink but I respect your right to do it". Which, in the absence of abuse or lack of consent, is the way to approach kinky practices you don't understand."

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I've read this whole thread hoping to find out what skat (fab won't let me spell it correctly) is! Can someone please help

Poo play. Having somebody poo on you. Some scatters like to bite the poo in half. Not for me. "

Thanks for the exclamation! And explains why I've never heard it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

The whole dom/sub thing is a complete mystery to us. We're all equal and we don't want to treat anybody (or be treated) any other way.

Hmm, it's a difficult one to explain. From the outside looking in it seems like an unequal partnership. But speaking from a sub perspective I am very much in control of the scene - if I'm not into it, we stop. It's the power play within the scene that we both find so erotic. It's not one person controlling the other in the non bdsm sense as it's something both parties seek. Does that make sense?

Mrs TMN x "

That’s how I feel. I haven’t felt the desire to relinquish power to anyone before I met Mr. I was always adamant it was wrong and abusive, but that was because I was approaching it from the viewpoint of someone who had been controlled in a non BDSM sense.

Then I met Mr. The pain I experience from being spanked is very much different to the pain I felt from being assaulted. But that’s just one small element of us. I choose to participate. I trust him completely. He loves that he has someone who does that. It’s a symbiotic relationship, not one of inequality. We fill a need within each other.

That is what I have found to be empowering. That I can now relax enough to trust someone else. He will never hurt me or make me do anything beyond what I want to do. I am not a sub to anyone but him. I may never be again. It’s the love I feel for the man, how truthful we are with each other and how I know that he respects my rights to have a say in what is done to my body, etc, that has meant I’m in this role.

I’m equal to him, I choose this and can walk away without fear of reprisals. I never could with my exes x

Viv xx

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Adult Babies, not for me. Although baby food is quite tasty, farleys rusks n all.

The nappy n bonnet thing not my look.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Anything that assumes that both(all) parties are not equal is not on our radar. The schoolgirl thing is an absolute no-no as this assumes a dominant role for the "adult".

Anything that smells unpleasant and that can included someone beery breath.

G&A

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

This has opened a big ole can of worms.

That's probably a fetish too.

I like a sexy foot, mine are an erogenous zone , I get turned on when a guy or woman cums on them. Strappy heeels clinging to my feet. Wanking a guy with my feet.

Once complimented a girl with tiny size 3/4 feet in high heel mules on the tube, she appreciated my compliment.

I have a theory alot of sc4t porn is fake. they make fake poo insert it and then poo it out.

I once made a fake poo, flour n water n chocolate powder and placed it on a friends car bonnet after a night out.

He was cussing the hell out of the "d*unken fucker" who crapped on his pride n joy. It looked pretty good, really pround of it too.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body.

With you on that. Hate to see things like SLUT and CUM DUMP written on a lady. "

Oh god yeah !! I really don’t get that at all ... looks so nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body.

With you on that. Hate to see things like SLUT and CUM DUMP written on a lady.

Oh god yeah !! I really don’t get that at all ... looks so nasty "
you back from your hols? Tan fading fast?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Had one yesterday.

Custard.

I asked him what he had in mind.

Sex with bodies covered in custard; rimming me filled with custard.

I declined.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Tieing boobs so that they go all blue... Yuk, and writing rude words in lipstick on someone's body.

With you on that. Hate to see things like SLUT and CUM DUMP written on a lady.

Oh god yeah !! I really don’t get that at all ... looks so nasty you back from your hols? Tan fading fast? "

Back and it’s staying nicely

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sounding and trawling and felching

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

I have a newspaper fetish

Wet (pee) soaked nix fet

SPLOSH fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men in wigs and makeup, especially as many look odd or unattractive when out of female dress

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"What are the fetishes that seem to be popular, but you really don't see the appeal?

The whole dom/sub thing is a complete mystery to us. We're all equal and we don't want to treat anybody (or be treated) any other way.

Hmm, it's a difficult one to explain. From the outside looking in it seems like an unequal partnership. But speaking from a sub perspective I am very much in control of the scene - if I'm not into it, we stop. It's the power play within the scene that we both find so erotic. It's not one person controlling the other in the non bdsm sense as it's something both parties seek. Does that make sense?

Mrs TMN x

That’s how I feel. I haven’t felt the desire to relinquish power to anyone before I met Mr. I was always adamant it was wrong and abusive, but that was because I was approaching it from the viewpoint of someone who had been controlled in a non BDSM sense.

Then I met Mr. The pain I experience from being spanked is very much different to the pain I felt from being assaulted. But that’s just one small element of us. I choose to participate. I trust him completely. He loves that he has someone who does that. It’s a symbiotic relationship, not one of inequality. We fill a need within each other.

That is what I have found to be empowering. That I can now relax enough to trust someone else. He will never hurt me or make me do anything beyond what I want to do. I am not a sub to anyone but him. I may never be again. It’s the love I feel for the man, how truthful we are with each other and how I know that he respects my rights to have a say in what is done to my body, etc, that has meant I’m in this role.

I’m equal to him, I choose this and can walk away without fear of reprisals. I never could with my exes x

Viv xx"

You put it much better than me! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bare feet i would not go near but theres just something sexy about feet in tights/stockings

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