FabSwingers.com forum: Loosing interest after climax

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else suffer this at all?

I'm lucky enough to have a partner who knows I dress and we often play with me like this. I keep saying that once I've cum in her I'm going to go down and clean it all up then give here the biggest french kiss so we can share our juices. Naughty right?

But, as soon as I've popped I'm right put off the idea which is frustrating.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I always try and cum second or third

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

You need to learn how to cum without orgasming.

Men are biologically wired to lose interest for evolutionary reasons I'm don't remember right now.

From memory (I don't really think about "how" anymore, I just do it) you have to work out the point of no return and either stop or apply *just* enough stimulation but not enough to orgasm.

It took me a while to work out but the benefits are great

*Him*

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Introduce another male to your relationship, obviously one you know and trust, and try to cleanup her after him,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just you

If I'm with a guy, I need to cum last to bring out my more 'deviant' side

If I cum first, I don't want his cum anywhere near me, let alone on my face / in my mouth

I'm a way more selfish bi than I am a straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men lose some interest due to the brain releasing dopamine and feeling satisfied

People who can keep going release less dopamine

There is a way to control dopamine that can keep your cock rock hard ready for round two and you do not have the feeling of satisfaction and that you want to stoo

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

"Introduce another male to your relationship, obviously one you know and trust, and try to cleanup her after him,

Perfect

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

It’s natural and dates back to caveman days .

It’s the mans role to cum then fall fast asleep, snoring and farting as that would frighten the dinosaurs away from the cave thus keeping the family safe.

I thought everyone knew that!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't lose interest exactly but for me (Mrs N) once is enough.

I know I'm not a proper swinger and should be having multiple orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The benefits of 'edging' are immense and this post states that it is a 'skill with benfits'....from a male perspective..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can also be quite a mind fuck when a guy cums and his libido drops but he still has to perform.

I occasionally would meet a dominant mature businessman at his vacant rental property. The scenarios usually involved him strapping my palms with a leather tawse before I was allowed to suck his thick impressive cock.

One day I was home alone and while my wife was out I took the plunge and invited this guy to my own home. He turned up looking smart and confident in his suit.

He insisted we use the marital bed. He stripped naked and lay on the bed instructing me to undress and straddle his muscular hairy thighs.

I was told to wank as he watched and not to touch his cock until I had cum.

Needless to say I wanked and cum quite quickly, splashing my cum all over his torso. As I was coming down from my orgasmic high, he instructed me to lick my cum off him and clean up every drop. Then I was to suck his big thick cock until he cum in my mouth.

I genuinely felt satisfied and just wanted him to put his clothes on and leave. He knew that and enjoyed knowing his naked presence on the marital bed indicated he was in no hurry to leave.

I dutifully got on with his instructions feeling extremely dirty and humiliated eating my own cum and then giving him the best blow job I have ever given, to bring him to climax.

It was a very clever strategy on his part using my post climax libido dip to reinforce his dominant presence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You need to learn how to cum without orgasming.

Men are biologically wired to lose interest for evolutionary reasons I'm don't remember right now.

From memory (I don't really think about "how" anymore, I just do it) you have to work out the point of no return and either stop or apply *just* enough stimulation but not enough to orgasm.

It took me a while to work out but the benefits are great

*Him*"

Sounds like a "ruined orgasm" and something I would love to be edged towards one day if I was bound

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Introduce another male to your relationship, obviously one you know and trust, and try to cleanup her after him,

I've barked up that tree a few times, unfortunetely its a no go

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

You can always snowball. Then you could share juices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even like being touched immediately after. Lose all interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand this when I cum that’s it but now I still play with her with toys or fingers till she cum

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

I found you need to train yourself a little to reduce the effect that comes from orgasming... one method, masturbate into a shot glass and down it as soon as you can. The other, if the lady fancies some fun too, tie you down and give you a 'ruined' orgasm (you'll have cum but be still very turned on) and make you clean your mess from her hand

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