FabSwingers.com forum: Long term slow thread!!

By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

This is similar to a thread i was doing on here a while ago, when I was seeing if my wife was going to be up for swing clubs. It didn't work out, and for reason other than that we are going through a divorce.

OK, a club I am in which i wont disclose, there is a new lady starting. I have to "take charge " of people showing them the ropes.( I'm being vague as I don't want to revel the club!). From the beginning she was a little confrontational, as she couldn't master what we were doing, when in fact she was a lot better than she thought, so instead of being overly pleasant to her, I was just as forth right. Now her skill levels are coming through she is being more cheeky then confrontational, and we get on pretty well. There seems to be something behind her comments, and I think she may be a bit game. In this thread i'm going to record how we move on , and it will be pretty slow, as the club is weekly, and i don't go every week, but i thought it may be interesting to some.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

First time we've been at the club for a couple of weeks. It looked like we may not be in the same group, but when offered the chance to change I did. This meant I was involved in directing her and the lady who was working with her. The session went really well, and it looks like I know what I, m talking about, and the two of them progressed really well. When it was all over and we were cleaning up there was a little horse play and the low cut top she was wearing, spilled her breasts beautifully. I think she knew I was watching as she squeezed them back in. I didn't feel the moment was right to make a comment so now it's on the back boiler. On the group chat we're on, she complimented me on the day, ,and we have replied back and forth a bit. The messages haven't got naughty yet, because I have to be careful due to me position in our organisation. I said the thread was going to be a slow burner !!..lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not understanding what this is about? A story? A journal? You work in a club but only once a week?

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

There's a lady at a club I go to (i'd rather not describe the club, to keep it private)who I am slowly building a friendship with. She looks like she has a naughty streak in her, so this is a real time record of how it is "developing". Will she be a naughty minx, or will it just fade away... I certainly don't know. But it will all be true, Well from perspective!!...lol.. we are currently messaging each other on social media about the events of today, but nothing naughty at all. If I over stepped the mark and was reported I would required to leave the club, so I am taking it all slowly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a stories and fantasy section

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

and ?

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

Big(ish) leap forward... completely unexpected. Just been chatting to her on social media, and she brought up dogging and swinging, We chatted around it for quite a while , where she said she had f

friends who were swingers, but nothing on dogging. Seemed more than happy to chat about it. So, I'll probe and suggest and see where it takes me!

If you're not happy with thew post feel free to move on without commenting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me know when you get to the part about felching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is the club you both work at a swinging club?

I asked because you started with you couldn't get your wife to go to a swinging club and subsequently split up. So is the club mentioned after your wife where you know this lady a swinging club?

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

So let me get this right, you went to a club and a woman in there has a naughty streak ?

Wow beam me up Scotty !!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I’m so hugely confused. What are you teaching this woman to do OP? Mr.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Hold on, is this NOT a swinger’s club OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and ?

And that is where your story belongs

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Let me know when you get to the part about felching "

1/ felching mostly wont be happening

2/ Not a swinging club. I don't intend to reveal the type of club it is, but there is no sexual activity there i'm aware of.

3/ It's just a real time log of how I'm getting to know a lady, and how things may get to a place where swinging may take place. Sorry if it isn't fast or furious enough for some people, but reality can be like that ! I prefer real life stories to fantasies

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Yeah this is the wrong forum mate

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

nobody forces you to look.. unless that's what you're into.. move on if you don't like it....

The Forum Police seem pretty active... happy with the posts asking about it... I'm sure most people have the gist of what I'm doing....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Good luck..hope it works out with you and your lady friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m so hugely confused. What are you teaching this woman to do OP? Mr. "

Here’s your mate. I haven’t the foggiest myself. I thought It was a swinging club

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Good luck..hope it works out with you and your lady friend"

Cheers mate

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"I’m so hugely confused. What are you teaching this woman to do OP? Mr.

Here’s your mate. I haven’t the foggiest myself. I thought It was a swinging club "

Maybe you are one of the people who haven't got the gist of it. I do say above why i can't tell you the club I'm in. No need to be "totally confused" it's just a light hearted thread in real time. Why not PM me and maybe I can explain there, instead of making the thread any longer than it needs to be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m so hugely confused. What are you teaching this woman to do OP? Mr.

Here’s your mate. I haven’t the foggiest myself. I thought It was a swinging club

Mate keep it coming, I'm intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m so hugely confused. What are you teaching this woman to do OP? Mr.

Here’s your mate. I haven’t the foggiest myself. I thought It was a swinging club

I though it was a open public forum not a personal blog/journal. Sorry for being confused but I’m not the only one by the sounds of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you met a woman. Not in a swing club.

You like her and want to fuck her but not sure she feels the same

Is that the gist

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"So you met a woman. Not in a swing club.

You like her and want to fuck her but not sure she feels the same

Is that the gist

Just a bit more than that!.It's that situation where you ask yourself, are they into this kind of life style?... so a bit more than is she just a fuck. if she is into it, will I find out, what might she be into etc...baring in mind there hs been no hint of it what so ever, other than she has a bit of attitude, and I'm enjoying the journy of finding out !!

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

Well !!!,,, things have changed very dramatically !!!!...Had a little chat with the lady on social media, nothing really moved... always going to be slow moving hence the title... However.... i walked into our local supermarket and saw a lady I've know for a good few years as our oldest kids went to nursery together. We never really chatted much as we were always passing though, but she was always pleasant. A pretty lady and very slim, very demure, nice small talk always walk away feeling you've met one of the worlds nice people. We had a chat as I was between jobs, and I quickly put in you know me and my wife are getting divorced, she made the appropriate face, and said she wasn't really getting on with her husband, who once again was always polite etc. We swapped small talk and she said when I told her I had to go , we should go out for a beer. oooooh !!.. i wasn't expecting that!.. I told her I don't drink as I walked off, but my mind was turning already... The seed was sown

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

When i got home I was like a cat on a hot tin roof. I had ask around her sons surname to get her name from social media, , which was a lot quicker than I Thought, and soon we were chatting on line. I later went around to a friends house , who quite often chats on line as we chat and I was doing the same, so it wasn't being rude .Slowly the chat got a little raunchier, but i can;t really say when it started. Saying she was horny stuck in my mind as it was the first time I had overtly !made a move!.. She was teasing me saying she hadn't had sex with her husband for 10 years, but had been with two other men. I was getting hornier as it looked like she had been missing sex !! I remembered she was finishing work at 9.30 and had to drive passed where I was, and my plan was to ask to meet her on the way through, and I thought I was being a bit presumptious ! I mentioned she was being a tease and she laughed it off, and I was getting hornier. The next thing she said was she was going to bed !!. i told her i thought she finished at .30 and she no 9 !! My interception plan blown out of the water. The chat then turned a little more raunchy. She admitted she was masturbating and I egged her on, saying what I would like to do to her. She then posted " that was one very intense orgasm". I was like a dog with two dicks, and nothing to work it off on , as I was still at my friends house. I made my excuses and left as it was getting late as well.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

i asked her to turn her phone down, as i wanted to to call her and make her cum while I listened, but fair play to her she didn't answer the phone. She has very weird working hours, and By coincidence I had to drop a relative off, very early in the morning, which coincided with her going to work , and as we live pretty close together, a couple of roads away I now know I suggested a stupid o'clock meet for a quick play. Second planned dashed as she had already agreed to take a work colleague in, but she finished work at 8 am, and I started at 9am, and I had to pass the shop where she worked. Ok so I try again, and let her know. bingo Stingo,, she tells me where she has parked and by good fortune she is facing away from the main car park. I see her walking over to her car and I get out and walk over to her, noticing some of her colleagues are leaving as well, and I don't want to be conspicous. We get into the back of her car, which had black out windows, and she leans forward over the front seat to adjust something , and I rub my hands over the back of her thighs and over her arse. She turns around with a huge smile on her face adn gives me a gorgeos kiss, WOW can she kiss. Cock was hard in an instant and our hands start exploring each other. Baring in mind, I haven't touched a woman in two years( the ladies of Fab aren't THAT forthcoming !!!.LOL) with the situation between me and my wife, and she has been pretty well left alone by her husband, we were pretty restrained. However we both love the way other kissed and I had her petite breasts out and had a little suck on her nipples, which are beautiful. I gave her a little naughty talk which she seemed to like, and we both had to be off, but texted each other all day while at work.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

So we text each other during the day and we work out we cant meet, but she is starting work at silly o'clock again, and by coincidence I have an early morning errand to do at the same time. Pure coincidence, so now I am formulating a plan to meet her really early and what can go wrong... I have two place in mind, one will do . Except that she has agreed to give a colleague a lift in !!..So no go !. Our first chat was on the Tuesday and now it's Thursday . I usually go out on a Thursday so nothing new for my soon to be ex to think about. I'll call this lady Susie.. Susie tells her OH she's going out for drinks with her friends. She picks me up and off we drive to A pub a few miles away in the country. There's a few people around and no tables that are secluded. to make matters worse, there's small kids running around and we are desperate to get our hands on each other ! I suggest we go for a walk and soon we are arm in arm into the Downs. As we go down a small incline I realise we can't be seen from the car park , and I turn Susie around and our tongues thrash it out for a good while God did w need it. Soon she is grinding hard against me like a woman possessed I kiss her neck and call her a slut which she tells me she finds horny. I tell her she's behaving like a proper slut letting me grind against her, and she responds by grinding back even more. I have now realised she responds massively to dirty talk. I tell her we need her open her mind to the things we can do , and that she has to trust me, she just about nods and says yes. Now my hands are inside her kickers. She is soaking. I have two fingers working deep inside her and I can feel her pussy pulsing away. She tells me she feels all light headed , as she's not used to it. I slow down a bit but carry on and she's ok to continue. We have some more dirty talk and she's really flying. A couple of times people nearly catch us, but it's twilght by now , so we aren't too bothered. As she has her silly work time the next day we decide to call it a night. She still hasn't paid much attention to my cock other than the grinding. i'm not bothered, because I have uncovered a women who is opening he mind to me, and that's much hornier. When we get back to her car, we have a little kiss, and she admits that she once wanted to get more than friendly with a female work colleague, but did no more that dirty dancing with her. I asked would she have liked it to have gone further and she said yes. We drive home knowing that in two days she is going away with her family, and she is dreading being in the closed environment with her OH for so long.

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By *asey666Man
over a year ago

Dublin 13

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

To be brutally honest I didn’t make it past the first couple of posts. They make Finnegans Wake look like an airport novel.

Haven’t the faintest idea what’s going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be brutally honest I didn’t make it past the first couple of posts. They make Finnegans Wake look like an airport novel.

Haven’t the faintest idea what’s going on.

Same here tbh, I ended up hastily scrolling past the essays to see any comments from others thinking the same as me.

Sorry OP but this thread did nothing for me (her).

Good luck to you

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

The thread started as a record of how me and a woman I was:getting to know, may end up on here as s couple. I knew it was gong to be long and slow hence the title,. Since then I've started to get a woman I've known for years more intimately . I swapped ad the other woman isn't contact as often , and the new woman had expressed an interest in lots of sex in lots of ways , she's currently on holiday, and she'll be back in a week.

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By *asey666Man
over a year ago

Dublin 13

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"The thread started as a record of how me and a woman I was:getting to know, may end up on here as s couple. I knew it was gong to be long and slow hence the title,. Since then I've started to get a woman I've known for years more intimately . I swapped ad the other woman isn't contact as often , and the new woman had expressed an interest in lots of sex in lots of ways , she's currently on holiday, and she'll be back in a week."

How many women do you have, I'm confused now?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the critics. I understood instantly you meant a hobby club and I love this format. The will they/won't they reeling in when you first starting flirting. The twists and turns. Keep going!

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

How many women do you have, I'm confused now?!

Two... the one from the vanilla club, and my new one on holiday.

The one on holiday is texting like crazy and telling my when she is fingering herself.. which is a lot!!

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Ignore the critics. I understood instantly you meant a hobby club and I love this format. The will they/won't they reeling in when you first starting flirting. The twists and turns. Keep going! "

Thank you for your support. It's Nic to have questions on the thread, and great when someone feels they need to support you and does .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many women do you have, I'm confused now?!

Two... the one from the vanilla club, and my new one on holiday.

The one on holiday is texting like crazy and telling my when she is fingering herself.. which is a lot!!"

Sounds like a catch OP.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"How many women do you have, I'm confused now?!

Two... the one from the vanilla club, and my new one on holiday.

The one on holiday is texting like crazy and telling my when she is fingering herself.. which is a lot!!

Sounds like a catch OP.

I was thinking that myself !!.. one bit to go , before the whole thing is up todate. We ar texting madly when I can in the day, and she said, " I'm your slut, I'll do anything you want". Now bearing in mind neither of us have been in that kind of relationship in the past, that was a fantastic statement. And VERY horny to hear !

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

From zero to your slut in a week? Get her on here! Mr.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"From zero to your slut in a week? Get her on here! Mr. "

Your enthusiasm is noted, welcomed and will be worked on !!!.. If there was ever a lady made for this site it was her!!!

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By *asey666Man
over a year ago

Dublin 13

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

ok folks... the last part of before she went on holiday...her crazy hours meant she was going finish at 9 pm. Where to meet?.. not for from here work was an area where truckers stop of, and as the weather was in out favour I thought w could pay there. I had a look round, and next to the road was a little hill and on the far side finished up against a wall. Would be really hard to see into it, unless you were high up, and were looking for things to be happening. She was to park around the corner in another car park , where she would be about now, and then drive to where I had just scouted. It was literally 30 seconds away, but walking her there would have attracted attention to us, so she drove . We parked up, but we couldn't really hide the car, so it was the only car n the side of the road. I led her to the wall. where our tongues immediately got to work on each other. Christ she could kiss!. hands allover tits into her kickers from behind. So passionate. remember we hadn't had regular sex from our partners in a few years, so it was a miracle that we weren't fucking there and then. She couldn't stay long as she was gong away and had to pack. I loved the tease of her not touching my cock! So we decided she had to go . My boxers swimming in pre-cum, and her kickers soaking. we parted to wait for 2 weeks, til we met again.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

bumping for my horny friend to read !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many women do you have, I'm confused now?!

Two... the one from the vanilla club, and my new one on holiday.

The one on holiday is texting like crazy and telling my when she is fingering herself.. which is a lot!!

Sounds like a catch OP.

Is this a fantasy story as there is a section for it?

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

if it was. that's where I would have posted it !!... It's real and on going.. the lady in question is trying to see if she can read it.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Then I hope she finds it

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Then I hope she finds it

She did mate.

This will be just about the last part of the thread.

We have texted constantly through the day and night, about sexual thoughts that we have been having. She's been on this site looking at pictures and coming back saying that things like, 3 men one fem, cum over tits, anal, all holes filled etc, have turned her on so much and she wants to do so much. If I'm watching porn I'll let her know what I'm watching and she'll usually come back saying, !i want to watch that with you!, or "I want to do that". S he also tells me of fems around the pool, that make her horny, and that she'd like to play with the. All round horny woman who can't wait to old back to dear old Blighty and start to have fun !!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

ok.. another "surprising" change!! The latest lady has decided that there are too many things I want to do , all of which got her really horny and she masturbated at the thought of, and she doesn't want to let me down, so she decided that we shouldn't meet any more !.. life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is like arts and crafts club thing? No no is it a strip club hold on no, because you said her tits came out! And if it was a strip club there'd be out all the time

Ooo not unless she works behind the bar at the stirp club BOOM!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok.. another "surprising" change!! The latest lady has decided that there are too many things I want to do , all of which got her really horny and she masturbated at the thought of, and she doesn't want to let me down, so she decided that we shouldn't meet any more !.. life !"

Sounds like a rubbish excuse.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

ok.. tonight she is seeing a few miles way and she was going by bus. I asked why by bus, and she said she was going to have a little drink with a friend. I offered to pick he up, ot wasn't going to be too late because of her weird work hours. Soooo lets see what happens... if anything,!

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"Is like arts and crafts club thing? No no is it a strip club hold on no, because you said her tits came out! And if it was a strip club there'd be out all the time

Ooo not unless she works behind the bar at the stirp club BOOM!!

Just a normal club !!.. honest !!....

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

" Soooo lets see what happens... if anything,!"

I can’t bloody wait. I’ve been on tenterhooks since your last post. I thought that it was all ended, but now it seems that something might happen. Best of luck on the next part of your incredible adventure.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

" Soooo lets see what happens... if anything,!

Cheers mate.. picking her up at 9:30 tonight. I haven't got a clue what may happen!!..

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

Well that didn't go as well as I had hoped!! She said she felt I would be wanting to do all the things that I had said to her in our texts, and that she felt that it would be too much pressure on her as she wouldn't want to do them. I tried to persuade her otherwise, but she wasn't to be convinced ! ... and life goes on !!.. right where are my tissues !?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

So what do you want to do that she can’t cope with?

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

We talked about meeting couples, things going on in porn films etc that we'd do. To be honest, it would have been great fun chatting about stuff and shagging !!...lol.. she has such a filthy mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We talked about meeting couples, things going on in porn films etc that we'd do. To be honest, it would have been great fun chatting about stuff and shagging !!...lol.. she has such a filthy mind."

Maybe it’s all just a fantasy to her. No intention to do anything or maybe you are coming on too strong. You can’t jump into those things. Takes time to build up trust.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

"We talked about meeting couples, things going on in porn films etc that we'd do. To be honest, it would have been great fun chatting about stuff and shagging !!...lol.. she has such a filthy mind.

Maybe it’s all just a fantasy to her. No intention to do anything or maybe you are coming on too strong. You can’t jump into those things. Takes time to build up trust. "

She's back tracked on it all. Says she never really wanted to do it. I said lets just leave it there. Not for me to tell someone what they should or shouldn't do.

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