FabSwingers.com forum: Looking For A Lodger?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know it's a common (non sexual) fantasy for a lot of people to just pack a bag and leave their old life to start anew but I am starting to think it's the best possible opportunity for me to live openly as a bisexual guy who is ethically non monogamous.

Had my eye on Hull since it has the joint benefits of a swingers club, gay sauna, and just being a generally quite affordable city but to be honest, I would be happy to live anywhere if it was with another sex-positive individual like myself or even a couple. Sex between us does NOT have to be a definite, just living with someone I can be open with about my sexual pastimes and you can be open with yours.

Is there anyone else out there feeling like they are in the same boat? Feeling so stifled by my family life and personal life (Im neither married nor have any kids before any of you start!)

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Haven’t you already posted this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A third same thread in a week? Give it a rest maybe.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A third same thread in a week? Give it a rest maybe.

Mrs "

Original thread got deleted. Not sure why as pretty sure it doesnt break the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A third same thread in a week? Give it a rest maybe.

Mrs

Original thread got deleted. Not sure why as pretty sure it doesnt break the rules. "

No it wasn't deleted. You still have two more exactly the same threads started 6 days ago. Click on your own green arrow.

Mrs

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your threads get deleted because you start a duplicate one. You have had four identical opening messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your threads get deleted because you start a duplicate one. You have had four identical opening messages. "

Yes still got 3 but the one that was getting traction was the one deleted ironically! Wouldnt mind if the other 2 get deleted now

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So why didn't you comment on the longest one rather than starting a fourth?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suprised there arent more people on here looking for lodgers tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suprised there arent more people on here looking for lodgers tbh"

Nothing would possess me to consider a lodger off a sex site personally, no matter how much he claimed sex was not expected.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah but it’s still Hull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suprised there arent more people on here looking for lodgers tbh"

Say you owned a house and have a spare room. A lodger is already a stranger in your house that you will have to share your kitchen, bathroom etc. with. Now would you want a stranger to keep bringing more strangers to your home whether it's for a couple of hour, a night or a weekend? Strangers that you know nothing about?

Think somewhere there lyes your answer.

Mrs

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

When I was going through my divorce, I advertised on a different site (for Tgirls) a house share or anyone with a flat to rent. I got a message back from a guy, although the flat was further away from my work it seemed ok. I asked about the rent, that's when it went weird, it appeared I had to dress up every night and occasionally pleasure him. Good news this would be rent free

turned him down, but got all nasty on me, so eventually blocked him.

Be careful out there

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"When I was going through my divorce, I advertised on a different site (for Tgirls) a house share or anyone with a flat to rent. I got a message back from a guy, although the flat was further away from my work it seemed ok. I asked about the rent, that's when it went weird, it appeared I had to dress up every night and occasionally pleasure him. Good news this would be rent free

turned him down, but got all nasty on me, so eventually blocked him.

Be careful out there

I wonder what had happened to Michael Barrymore “ aw wight”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah i guess there has to be a lot of trust but that works from both sides. The home owners woukd have a lot of power over the lodger too so id have to trust they wouldnt creep on me either. I know there are plenty of sane people on here. Personally id rather KNOW whay the person was into ratber than a complete stranger as a lodger

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Yeah i guess there has to be a lot of trust but that works from both sides. The home owners woukd have a lot of power over the lodger too so id have to trust they wouldnt creep on me either. I know there are plenty of sane people on here. Personally id rather KNOW whay the person was into ratber than a complete stranger as a lodger"

Plenty of sane people?? Are we talking about the right site?

Live with a complete stranger off a sex site....nah.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its cool if youre not interested. Im looking for those that are lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a few leads but still lo9king

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I see you've changed your name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see you've changed your name. "

Yup just to make it extra clear what im looking for atm haha.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Got a lovely detached kennel out back, with a run possible garden space, £100 a week it’s a steal

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Got a lovely detached kennel out back, with a run possible garden space, £100 a week it’s a steal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a lovely detached kennel out back, with a run possible garden space, £100 a week it’s a steal

Is food included lol

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Hard bargain a 24 pack of hero and a can opener knock yourself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard bargain a 24 pack of hero and a can opener knock yourself out "

I'm in lol

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Tbh if you are a swinger and have lodgers, it does make meeting people.very hard , we know as we do have lodgers . I can see the benefits of a like minded lodger , but also as has been said before I wouldn't want to be seeing loads of strangers in my house , it definitely is a trust thing , our lodger is on pof all the time but he doesnt bring them home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Got a lovely detached kennel out back, with a run possible garden space, £100 a week it’s a steal

Is food included lol "

Lol

No seriously I’ve a spare room to rent out x

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

Honestly, he's asking a genuine question.

Not your thing?

Move on, stop piss taking with your kennel.

Have a bit of thought jeez so perfect you, don't know how you cope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly, he's asking a genuine question.

Not your thing?

Move on, stop piss taking with your kennel.

Have a bit of thought jeez so perfect you, don't know how you cope"

Thanks for sticking up for me. To be honest every time ive posted something sincere on the forums theres always people being dismissive and rude. Its bizarre to me what a close minded community swinging can be. Every single one of us is here because we are afyer things that aren't "normal" but everyone is quick to judge the other people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Got a lovely detached kennel out back, with a run possible garden space, £100 a week it’s a steal

Is food included lol

Lol

No seriously I’ve a spare room to rent out x"

Whats huddersfield like for swinging then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh if you are a swinger and have lodgers, it does make meeting people.very hard , we know as we do have lodgers . I can see the benefits of a like minded lodger , but also as has been said before I wouldn't want to be seeing loads of strangers in my house , it definitely is a trust thing , our lodger is on pof all the time but he doesnt bring them home."
do you both need another lodger

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So far everyone thats offered has gone quiet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow! Just had a gay guy offer me his couch as long as i dont pollute it with any "fishy females"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sounds reasonable as it's his couch !

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By *eedshandymanMan
over a year ago

leeds

Did he get it from dfs??

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By *wsw1londonMan
over a year ago

London

I’m actually looking to rent a room in MKC. If anyone is looking to rent a room then please message me.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ffs just had a couple tell me they had a spare room and when i asked legitimate questions (location, room furnished?) they deleted the the messages and are now ignoring me!!!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We still have a spare room to rent between York & Hull

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We still have a spare room to rent between York & Hull

Too far out im afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

bump

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Buuuuuuump

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait..."

Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...

Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene? "

Much the same as anywhere else I guess...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...

Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene?

Much the same as anywhere else I guess... "

I was meaning are there any clibs nearby? Gay saunas? I bet cornwall is a pretty exoensive place to live tbh

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...

Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene?

Much the same as anywhere else I guess...

I was meaning are there any clibs nearby? Gay saunas? I bet cornwall is a pretty exoensive place to live tbh "

There are a few clubs in the area and it's actually fairly inexpensive here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...

Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene?

Much the same as anywhere else I guess...

I was meaning are there any clibs nearby? Gay saunas? I bet cornwall is a pretty exoensive place to live tbh

There are a few clubs in the area and it's actually fairly inexpensive here "

Could be interested in renting then. Can you DM me? Im out of age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *inocchio1Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Not this shit again ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not this shit again ffs

If you're not interested, don't comment lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you so desperate for replies??

You've posted this 3 times. People have commented, yet still you keep bumping this particular thread.

Everyone has fantasies. Maybe this is yours, but to keep posting it is a bit dull and, personally, I find it a bit psycho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you dont like the thread, ignore the thread. Me posting to the forum is getting me private messages so it is working for me even when you dont see it. Unfortunately not found the right place yet so the search continues. I've been considerate enough to not soam the other threads and just concentrate on this one.

Me doing this is harming literally nobody

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *icepair2012Couple
over a year ago

Crewe

Do not like the idea of a full time lodger living with us but, the idea of someone staying a night or too while working in the area regularly brings some naughty thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bump"

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

"Do not like the idea of a full time lodger living with us but, the idea of someone staying a night or too while working in the area regularly brings some naughty thoughts? "
this is something we’d love too. A regular guest on business lodging a couple of nights a week. Anyone wanting a room in Newcastle mid week msg us

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Bump"

You are so considerate to keep bumping his thread

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Bump

You are so considerate to keep bumping his thread "

A helping hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bump

You are so considerate to keep bumping his thread

A helping hand."

Novody on this site turns down a helping hand

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Bump

You are so considerate to keep bumping his thread

A helping hand.

Novody on this site turns down a helping hand

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Bump"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People of the world join hands.

Start a bump train, bump train!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not like the idea of a full time lodger living with us but, the idea of someone staying a night or too while working in the area regularly brings some naughty thoughts? "

mmmm very horny thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Keep getting a lot of people saying the thought of all this is too weird and get a lot of "for all you/we know, we/you could be an axe murderer!" but ironically, a swinging site is probably the best way to vet tenants/landlords. if you get a regular lodger they literally could be anyone but a swinger comes with verifications from other users that have met them in the most intimate of occasions and can vouch for them! You certainly don't get that with a regular tenant/landlord!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had a lad say i could lodge with him. But its only a 1 bed flat and we can share the bed or he will sleep on sofa. Seriously?!?!

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