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By *orkshire_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.

Anyone else feel this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i don’t feel guilty at all

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile clearly says you cant reply to all messages

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By *orkshire_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

Lovely pics your majesty. X

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By *orkshire_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

It does but still feel guilty when someone has put a lovely 1 together

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.

Anyone else feel this way. "

Not in the slightest

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It does but still feel guilty when someone has put a lovely 1 together "

Well reply to it then !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just answer the ones we want to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get that many and will reply to all the ones who are polite. If they are not, they don't get a response and I feel no guilt in that

Holly

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By *orkshire_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

Thank you for replies everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby here I understand whenever someone has messaged us and clearly took the time to read our profile but are not our type I always try and reply. I've even went as far as helping them with profile tips, advice etc if I'm in a position to help.

Cheers Jay (KJ x)

Jsy

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No we don't get messages

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No, not at all if they have ignored my profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We answer some messages but not all by any means. We don't feel guilty for not replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly answer all my messages unless they clearly haven't read the profile and just written a fancy a fuck or can I lick your toe kinda thing! So 9 out of 10 get answered tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to well written nice messages. If they’ve read the profile and i like the look of theirs then i’ll defo answer otherwise its ‘thanks but no thanks’ block.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

If someone has taken the time to read our profile and written a little more than 'hows things' or 'what you into' we will reply. Sadly, this means that 90% will not get a reply.

To be honest, folks who don't make an effort with their response tend not to make an effort anywhere.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we don't get messages "

Shocked you don't get any messages.. amazing pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who reads profiles and takes time to write pertunant and relevant messages that are whitty and charming (at least I think so)

I expect 90% to be ignored so don't feel guilty it seems to be the majority of members sops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as it clearly says csnt reply to all. Plus most dont read profiles anyway. So it's no wonder they get ignored.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No as some of the messages don't deserve being replied to.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope, no guilt here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it’s just fab. It’s just amusement not serious life stuff for me. I don’t feel anything over people I don’t even know .

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"We just answer the ones we want to...."

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.

Anyone else feel this way. "

Strange you have been on this site a long time, you get too much mail to deal with, yet you haven’t got a single verification???

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.

Anyone else feel this way. "

We must be doing something wrong as an unanswerable volume of messages is not a problem we encounter

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Strange you have been on this site a long time, you get too much mail to deal with, yet you haven’t got a single verification??? "

Interesting

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Maybe wrong but we are getting quite good at smelling a rat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. No guilt here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why feel guilty..? Being popular does have its' problems... It could be worse with no messages at all.. Enjoy whilst you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes at times but I do try to reply to the ones that make an effort but if they message ‘hi’ or ‘fancy a fuck’ then I never reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.

Anyone else feel this way.

Strange you have been on this site a long time, you get too much mail to deal with, yet you haven’t got a single verification??? "

We have heard of couple's who go to the socials and lap up the attention but never play.

Likewise there are couples accounts on fab where they comment on the volume of mails they receive like the OP but when you look closer they have been on fab for over a year and don't have a single verification to there name.

Either they set up the account ages ago and have just come back to it only recently and you are viewing them before they have been able to have there first meet.

Or they are here for the fantasy, they enjoy the chat / talking about meeting, get off on the knowledge that they have the ability to easily turn fantasy into reality but ultimately doing it for real is a step to far or isn't for them.

We have been let down 3 times in a row now by couples and single males on fab (meaning we have reverted mainly back to clubs) I'm pretty sure at least some of them were getting off on the fantasy and when the reality of actually doing it hit home they panicked and bailed.

Let's be fair it's one thing to fantasise about say taking part in a threesome with a couple you haven't met but it's totally different to actually having the nerve to do it in reality.

KJ x

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Why would you feel guilty just because someone is being polite about wanting to dick you?

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