FabSwingers.com forum: Male half watching only

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are a fairly new cpl to swinging. Male dabbled in it years ago, female looking to dip her toes in.

We want to meet either bi females or couples where the males will just watch the girls playing before fun with own partners.

Finding it really hard to meet cpls who want this, any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we would be interested in this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH and I enjoy something similar...just neither of us are than keen on him just sitting watching...I want him actively participating at least with me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We would be up for this with the right couple.

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I like to be watched by a guy as I enter his wife or girlfriend

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We've done this before, it can be a lot of fun.

(Shame we're so far away)

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By *otwhenwetCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Sounds right up our street, hot erotic viewing pleasure for the guys as well as fun for all

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

"We are a fairly new cpl to swinging. Male dabbled in it years ago, female looking to dip her toes in.

We want to meet either bi females or couples where the males will just watch the girls playing before fun with own partners.

Finding it really hard to meet cpls who want this, any tips?"

its what we do but lots on here say it until you meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all we are looking for too , for me to explore my curious side and hubby to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We want to meet either bi females or couples where the males will just watch the girls playing before fun with own partners."

There are couples who play exactly like this. My tip is to put your words above, or something like them, right at the top of your profile, to make it really clear what you're after. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched and took pics of hotwife playing on sat (pics on profile)

Great seeing her have so much fun, Defo having a repeat soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good name on you Louise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something we're very much looking at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Louise is looking to explore her bi side with the right girl(s) and has no interest in playing with guys at this moment.

I’m happy just watching the girls play and playing with Louise.

I would only join in if I got the nod from both Louise and the other girl.

Finding a lot of guys out of cpls are doing the talking and when We ask if the girl chats on here it goes quiet????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m happy just watching the girls play and playing with Louise.

I would only join in if I got the nod from both Louise and the other girl."

Ah, so you're not genuinely looking for girl-only play, you also want to join in. That's a lot different to how you started this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Louise is looking to explore her bi side with the right girl(s) and has no interest in playing with guys at this moment.

I’m happy just watching the girls play and playing with Louise.

I would only join in if I got the nod from both Louise and the other girl.

Finding a lot of guys out of cpls are doing the talking and when We ask if the girl chats on here it goes quiet????????"

They probably assume the man is mailing them, not Louise. Men often make fake profiles looking for wank chat. They either think you are fake, or they are fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make it clear who is looking (he or she) and what they are looking for, that might help.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Bi fem here and I personally don't enjoy that sort of play. I just feel like a performing circus monkey if I'm honest. I prefer the play where everyone is involved!! Just our preference. And lots of others will feel like this as well that I've spoken to anyway. I don't mind being watch but I don't want to feel like I'm putting on a show for the man's benefit. Also bear in mind if you're playing with couples sticking to your own partners is fine but the male half can't expect to play with the other female while her partner has to watch (that wasn't meant to sound harsh).

Make it clear what you're looking for, chat to couples and single fems that are verified and looking for this sort of play.

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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago

Village life in West Yorks

Got to agree with the post above

Not into putting on free shows for guys to get off on and then wanting to reap the rewards.

Pleasure for all or don’t bother

Jay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My OH and I enjoy something similar...just neither of us are than keen on him just sitting watching...I want him actively participating at least with me

Yes thats pretty much what we want. I dont want to play with any other men just the lady but happy for the men to join in but with their own partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya. Marc hasnt really worded the 2nd post well.

Basically im wanting to play with a female and if the men want to join in thats fine but with their own partner. Im not looking to play with the male only the female if part of a couple. If its a single woman i want to play but am happy for marc to join in with us if its what we all want or he can watch, again if everyone ok with that. Im also ok to meet a woman on a 1 on 1 as long as im safe and have met socially first. Anyway thank you for the comments and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was literally just day dreaming about this earlier.

Best sex I’ve had on here was mr P watching me and me riding another guys cock. Mr P came and joined in later!

It was fucking hot!!!

So - I’m certain you’ll find some decent couples who’d be open to this. It’s a shame if they say no- as it’s another great avenue to try even if it’s not a regular thing

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a newbie we were once tricked into this ,nothing was discussed . Hence absolutely hate this scenario. I understand that men like to watch lesbian but I think it's very artificial to put up a show .

If it's all four in a bed then it's fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a newbie we were once tricked into this ,nothing was discussed . Hence absolutely hate this scenario. I understand that men like to watch lesbian but I think it's very artificial to put up a show .

If it's all four in a bed then it's fine."

From the off set of joining we have said what we are looking for and if thats not for some then politely asked to not get in touch and waste anyones time. As ive said happy for 4 in a bed but with own partners. My personal choice that im not looking to play with other men. There are lots of couples like us on here but sadly live miles away. Im certainly not going to do something that i dont want to just as i wouldnt expect anyone else to neither. We were tricked on here by someone who we believed to be a woman who actually was a single man. All a learning experience for a newbie like me.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

If we met up with a unicorn then For MrJ to watch wouldn’t be a problem but if we met a couple he’d like me to involve both. Actually I’d like all three to see to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's all four in a bed then it's fine.

Our post was not meant judging you.

At least you are clear on what you want,some aren't .

We learnt a lesson from it and hence now make sure we discuss the play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it's all four in a bed then it's fine.

Our post was not meant judging you.

At least you are clear on what you want,some aren't .

We learnt a lesson from it and hence now make sure we discuss the play.

I wish more people were clearer on what they want and also that they read your bio before contacting you. Frustrating. Like you we have learnt a few lessons since joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Precisely, if we were told about the play at first hand , we may have enjoyed it or at least been curious about it. The first introduction to bifem experience was so bad that it just put us off completely.

Now whenever we read " hubby like to watch me with another men" , we just laugh and pass it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Precisely, if we were told about the play at first hand , we may have enjoyed it or at least been curious about it. The first introduction to bifem experience was so bad that it just put us off completely.

Now whenever we read " hubby like to watch me with another men" , we just laugh and pass it."

Thats understandable. Had they have been honest and upfront you could of decided yourself if you wanted to play and might of just enjoyed it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But there are many cpls who like bifem play and I am sure you will find them. Fab is full of variety .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's all four in a bed then it's fine."

What happened?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But there are many cpls who like bifem play and I am sure you will find them. Fab is full of variety .

Thank you. Since this post ive heard from a few couples who are like us so will see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant thread x

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I used to fuck a woman in a sauna her husband just watched us fucking did not do anything but watch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've done this before, it can be a lot of fun.

(Shame we're so far away)"

Nice to see there are other couples who are up for the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bi fem here and I personally don't enjoy that sort of play. I just feel like a performing circus monkey if I'm honest. I prefer the play where everyone is involved!! Just our preference. And lots of others will feel like this as well that I've spoken to anyway. I don't mind being watch but I don't want to feel like I'm putting on a show for the man's benefit. Also bear in mind if you're playing with couples sticking to your own partners is fine but the male half can't expect to play with the other female while her partner has to watch (that wasn't meant to sound harsh).

Make it clear what you're looking for, chat to couples and single fems that are verified and looking for this sort of play. "

Thanks for your comments.

Just to be clear though our profile says we are looking for either a single female or a couple and if we are meeting a girl then marc would play too as well as watch if everyone happy with that and if a couple both men could watch then join in with their own partners as we are not looking to swap partners. Not being funny to you but think some have taken it the wrong way reading some of the comments.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Make it clear what you're looking for, chat to couples and single fems that are verified and looking for this sort of play.

Thanks for your comments.

No that's fine it's just there have been profiles on here when the couple expects her fella to play with the other women but the other women's fella can't.

For us it's not what we're after but plenty of couples are so I'm sure you'll find it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Make it clear what you're looking for, chat to couples and single fems that are verified and looking for this sort of play.

Thanks for your comments.

No that's fine it's just there have been profiles on here when the couple expects her fella to play with the other women but the other women's fella can't.

For us it's not what we're after but plenty of couples are so I'm sure you'll find it

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Yeah i totally get that. Im in no rush but have spoke to a few couples now that are like minded like us so atleast we know there are couples after the same out there.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Best stick to looking for single ladies who want this kind of play OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best stick to looking for single ladies who want this kind of play OP. "

Why when there are lots of couples too that are looking for the same.

Everyone on this site has their own preference and agenda of what they are looking for and we are no different.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Best stick to looking for single ladies who want this kind of play OP.

Why when there are lots of couples too that are looking for the same.

Everyone on this site has their own preference and agenda of what they are looking for and we are no different. "

To be fair I think most couples are looking for this more than anything else now

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Best stick to looking for single ladies who want this kind of play OP.

Why when there are lots of couples too that are looking for the same.

Everyone on this site has their own preference and agenda of what they are looking for and we are no different.

To be fair I think most couples are looking for this more than anything else now "

Really? With one of the males being left out of any play completely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly how we prefer to play.

Wife happy to just play fem on fem or at times will also play wuth male.

We always finish with own partner fuck.

Any couples that would like to discuss or meet please get in touch. X

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Best stick to looking for single ladies who want this kind of play OP.

Why when there are lots of couples too that are looking for the same.

Everyone on this site has their own preference and agenda of what they are looking for and we are no different.

To be fair I think most couples are looking for this more than anything else now

Really? With one of the males being left out of any play completely? "

No I mean with the two girls playing and men just watching or playing with own partners. Or most of the couples profiles we see are anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best stick to looking for single ladies who want this kind of play OP.

Why when there are lots of couples too that are looking for the same.

Everyone on this site has their own preference and agenda of what they are looking for and we are no different.

To be fair I think most couples are looking for this more than anything else now

Really? With one of the males being left out of any play completely? "

One male isnt being left out... single lady plays with us both. Couples the females play whilst men watch then men join in but with their own partner. At no point have we said that a man is left out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m happy just watching the girls play and playing with Louise.

I would only join in if I got the nod from both Louise and the other girl.

Ah, so you're not genuinely looking for girl-only play, you also want to join in. That's a lot different to how you started this post."

He doesnt actually want to join in.. this is my thing. What he said was he would join in if i and the other girl invited him as he is more than happy to sit it out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My OH and I enjoy something similar...just neither of us are than keen on him just sitting watching...I want him actively participating at least with me

Thats what we said if we met a couple... happy for the men to join in with their partners. Im just not wanting to swap partners only interested in playing with the female not the male other than marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a headache from reading and understanding this thread......

Yes there are a few couples around who will play girl on girl with guys watching and joining in with there own partners etc etc

Where you trip up is saying your guy may join in if you were playing with a single female, most of us who have been around a while know that really he wants to play with a lady have a FFM what he doesn’t want is you playing with another man, I mean why not, 2 cocks are so much more fun than one

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"I’m happy just watching the girls play and playing with Louise.

I would only join in if I got the nod from both Louise and the other girl.

Ah, so you're not genuinely looking for girl-only play, you also want to join in. That's a lot different to how you started this post.

He doesnt actually want to join in.. this is my thing. What he said was he would join in if i and the other girl invited him as he is more than happy to sit it out. "

If he doesn’t want to join in why not meet with a woman solo to start with that’s what we’d do, as I’d like to explore my bi side more but I have no intention of letting my husband sit & watch as like you said it’s my thing

MrsH

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Got a headache from reading and understanding this thread......

Yes there are a few couples around who will play girl on girl with guys watching and joining in with there own partners etc etc

Well i can assure anyone who thinks that, that if i wanted to play with another man marc would have no issue... point being I dont want to play with another man as not interested, im here to meet and play with a female whether marc is present or not and if it turned into a ffm play then as long as all parties are happy then great. There are females that are looking for what we are as much as other couples too. Which we have found since marc posted on here... i know what i want and have a very supportive partner.

I dont think its fair of you to judge him and his agenda though as not all men are the same and im nore than happy with just the one cock... but thanks for your comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m happy just watching the girls play and playing with Louise.

I would only join in if I got the nod from both Louise and the other girl.

Ah, so you're not genuinely looking for girl-only play, you also want to join in. That's a lot different to how you started this post.

He doesnt actually want to join in.. this is my thing. What he said was he would join in if i and the other girl invited him as he is more than happy to sit it out.

MrsH"

Im happy to meet solo. Tbh like i said when i joined in the thread his wording was not quite right but its hard trying to put into words properly what your trying to say. Whilst most have been understanding and like similar to us some of the comments have been harsh. Everyone is different and like different things and i dont judge... we all have "our thing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gah this is a minefield, seems ff play with partner watching isn’t as popular as I thought. I feel like a single fella on here looking for the holy grail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gah this is a minefield, seems ff play with partner watching isn’t as popular as I thought. I feel like a single fella on here looking for the holy grail

Most ladies don’t want to put on a show for the guy, it’s difficult enough for a couple to find a single lady let alone one who will go along with the FF play with male watching scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a headache from reading and understanding this thread......

Yes there are a few couples around who will play girl on girl with guys watching and joining in with there own partners etc etc

I dont think its fair of you to judge him and his agenda though as not all men are the same and im nore than happy with just the one cock... but thanks for your comment.

You might have slightly more luck setting up a single lady profile and going down that route, but any mention of the boyfriend watching and possibly joining in if all happy will normally turn ladies looking for FF meets off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gah this is a minefield, seems ff play with partner watching isn’t as popular as I thought. I feel like a single fella on here looking for the holy grail

Most ladies don’t want to put on a show for the guy, it’s difficult enough for a couple to find a single lady let alone one who will go along with the FF play with male watching scenario "

Yeah that’s fair enough. I guess I’m just greedy and focus on what fun I’d be having rather than putting on a show. He sees what he sees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gah this is a minefield, seems ff play with partner watching isn’t as popular as I thought. I feel like a single fella on here looking for the holy grail

Most ladies don’t want to put on a show for the guy, it’s difficult enough for a couple to find a single lady let alone one who will go along with the FF play with male watching scenario

Yeah that’s fair enough. I guess I’m just greedy and focus on what fun I’d be having rather than putting on a show. He sees what he sees

The single lady may not see it like that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gah this is a minefield, seems ff play with partner watching isn’t as popular as I thought. I feel like a single fella on here looking for the holy grail

Most ladies don’t want to put on a show for the guy, it’s difficult enough for a couple to find a single lady let alone one who will go along with the FF play with male watching scenario

Yeah that’s fair enough. I guess I’m just greedy and focus on what fun I’d be having rather than putting on a show. He sees what he sees

The single lady may not see it like that...."

Yeah of course some won’t, some people like being watched though

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