FabSwingers.com forum: Is dating dead

By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Is old fashioned dating or one night stands from a pub dead nowadays or is it just a fuck and go world now? So bad.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would rather go a swingers club than go to a vanilla club and have a one night stand. Safer in my opinion x

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"Is old fashioned dating or one night stands from a pub dead nowadays or is it just a fuck and go world now? So bad."

Where in the world are you getting that information from. The majority of the general public still date as they always have and always will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one will carry on dating iv got myself one for tomorrow just by chatting at my Costa coffee still got it by being cheeky lol

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I really hope not....otherwise I best go and adopt a 100 cats now

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I think sex is so readily available why would a guy bother going that extra mile or putting any effort in. Dating is not what it use to be that's for sure and it's a real shame that we are all only interesting until the next face pops into there box hah.

It's just not real all this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating no its not dead, i love dating and getting to know someone...

One night stands.. yeh to me they are i hate them.

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By *ent79Man
over a year ago

Fareham & Torquay

Dating has definitely changed but not dead, in some ways it is better as you can work out whether they are a good fit, but also online dating does kill the mystery a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating is still very much alive, as are one night stands obviously.

I think the idea of dating for a long term monogamous relationship that, leads to marriage may be: not dead, though - slowly dying out.

It’s a lot of effort to date now, when it may not lead to anything, other than a hefty food bill. (Equality: always go half)

People will always partner up, just not in the same ways as before. I see the majority of people splitting after the first child is born. I call it check list love. When everything on the list has been ticked, they need to refresh the page and do it all over again. (Men and women)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather go a swingers club than go to a vanilla club and have a one night stand. Safer in my opinion x"
a swingers club is for sex not a date lol and dating such as the Op wants still exists, it's all about personality

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Mate !!

Move to Cheshire!!

It’s a live and well around here !!

Seriously

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though."

Let me know if that ever happens.

I’ve just received some discount vouchers for 12” subs at subway only today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though."
the Ops 44 so not necessarily young

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I never did 'date' I just had relationships - usually with people I already knew. I hate the interview process of dating!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best dates have always been from a chance meeting in a cafe or on a train etc. I'm not very good at arranged meets

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

I have tindr dates and pick up in pubs. One night stands too on both. It helps a great deal if I don't get above tipsy d*unk (4 pints)

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I find regular dating boring. Seems alot of effort to end up going home in a cab. It'll be new n fresh for some. Some older peeps will give it another try. Me? I'll leave it to the experts.

Always thought dating was for people lookin for love and a regular partner.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Every one will carry on dating iv got myself one for tomorrow just by chatting at my Costa coffee still got it by being cheeky lol "

Wish I could get a normal date

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

"Is old fashioned dating or one night stands from a pub dead nowadays or is it just a fuck and go world now? So bad."

Tinder or bumble.

Pretty easy to get dates off there.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Whats a date ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is old fashioned dating or one night stands from a pub dead nowadays or is it just a fuck and go world now? So bad."

It isn't dead at all, I get dates!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I go on dates but they are never with the view of a LTR. My dating profile is pretty clear on that, having said that it's not just about sex. Being single it's great to meet new people who become friends and you have someone to do things with. Fab is fab. Dating sites I use a little differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came back on here as found on dating apps most guys just wanted to hook up. Least on here truthful about it and not lying about wanting more. Seems dead to me. I'd love to be dating

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I really hope not....otherwise I best go and adopt a 100 cats now

Make that 200 and we can rot away in cat poo together.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.

Let me know if that ever happens.

I’ve just received some discount vouchers for 12” subs at subway only today

ok. Is that with a cookie and a drink?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.the Ops 44 so not necessarily young "

Still 18 years younger than me

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By *aughtyNipplesWoman
over a year ago

newport, shrops

"I came back on here as found on dating apps most guys just wanted to hook up. Least on here truthful about it and not lying about wanting more. Seems dead to me. I'd love to be dating "

This....yes, exactly the same. I'd love to date normally. But, I feel like guys prey on women on dating sites and feed lies after lies. Empty promises until they get into your knickers.

I would prefer the honesty even on a dating site, if I knew a man's intension then I am adult to either carry on and fuck or walk away.

I feel like guys don't warrant us females with enough intelligence to decide. Well their idea of deception isn't the right way that's for sure!!!

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By *aughtyNipplesWoman
over a year ago

newport, shrops

"I came back on here as found on dating apps most guys just wanted to hook up. Least on here truthful about it and not lying about wanting more. Seems dead to me. I'd love to be dating "

This....yes, exactly the same. I'd love to date normally. But, I feel like guys prey on women on dating sites and feed lies after lies. Empty promises until they get into your knickers.

I would prefer the honesty even on a dating site, if I knew a man's intension then I am adult to either carry on and fuck or walk away.

I feel like guys don't warrant us females with enough intelligence to decide. Well their idea of deception isn't the right way that's for sure!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.the Ops 44 so not necessarily young

Still 18 years younger than me

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you're as you as the person you feel, great saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been on a date so wouldn't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.the Ops 44 so not necessarily young

Still 18 years younger than me

you're as you as the person you feel, great saying "
you're as young as the person you feel geez how did I miss that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.the Ops 44 so not necessarily young

Still 18 years younger than me

you're as you as the person you feel, great saying you're as young as the person you feel geez how did I miss that

It's your age

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By *eteforprincesssMan
over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!

As a guy who'd never dated...yep .. dead as a door nail lol.. cant even get sex on a sex site....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.

Let me know if that ever happens.

I’ve just received some discount vouchers for 12” subs at subway only today

ok. Is that with a cookie and a drink?"

I’d be willing to go the extra mile so, yes, yes it is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.

Let me know if that ever happens.

I’ve just received some discount vouchers for 12” subs at subway only today

ok. Is that with a cookie and a drink?

I’d be willing to go the extra mile so, yes, yes it is

When I was about 20 a guy took me 'for something to eat'. It turned out to be a bag of chips but I was offered gravy. So it's a step up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.

Let me know if that ever happens.

I’ve just received some discount vouchers for 12” subs at subway only today

ok. Is that with a cookie and a drink?

I’d be willing to go the extra mile so, yes, yes it is

When I was about 20 a guy took me 'for something to eat'. It turned out to be a bag of chips but I was offered gravy. So it's a step up.

It’s the thought that counts of course. There’s a plus side to this also, chips are portable and, can be eaten in more romantic surroundings than a four course meal

The one time I was bought anything edible by a woman, she ate it, (it was a custom Easter egg) romance ain’t dead, eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.the Ops 44 so not necessarily young

Still 18 years younger than me

you're as you as the person you feel, great saying you're as young as the person you feel geez how did I miss that

It's your age

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lol hey who would believe that seawe#d is changed into sea if you write it in a message...... I thought I was going mad

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.the Ops 44 so not necessarily young

Still 18 years younger than me

you're as you as the person you feel, great saying you're as young as the person you feel geez how did I miss that

It's your age

lol hey who would believe that seawe#d is changed into sea if you write it in a message...... I thought I was going mad

Yep, try d*unk

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.

Let me know if that ever happens.

I’ve just received some discount vouchers for 12” subs at subway only today

ok. Is that with a cookie and a drink?

I’d be willing to go the extra mile so, yes, yes it is

When I was about 20 a guy took me 'for something to eat'. It turned out to be a bag of chips but I was offered gravy. So it's a step up.

It’s the thought that counts of course. There’s a plus side to this also, chips are portable and, can be eaten in more romantic surroundings than a four course meal

The one time I was bought anything edible by a woman, she ate it, (it was a custom Easter egg) romance ain’t dead, eh

It certainly is not. I sometimes treat Mr N to a Big Mac on the beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If gods forbid, I was single I would date and I would probably not have one night stands. I guess you're talking about younger people though.

Let me know if that ever happens.

I’ve just received some discount vouchers for 12” subs at subway only today

ok. Is that with a cookie and a drink?

I’d be willing to go the extra mile so, yes, yes it is

When I was about 20 a guy took me 'for something to eat'. It turned out to be a bag of chips but I was offered gravy. So it's a step up.

It’s the thought that counts of course. There’s a plus side to this also, chips are portable and, can be eaten in more romantic surroundings than a four course meal

The one time I was bought anything edible by a woman, she ate it, (it was a custom Easter egg) romance ain’t dead, eh

It certainly is not. I sometimes treat Mr N to a Big Mac on the beach

All of life’s glories summed up in one post

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