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What is Cuckoldng?

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By *aughtystuff OP   Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

can anyone tell me...pls..Xx

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

check the definitions on the left hand side of your home or account page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

google it

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

wiki says.....

Cuckold is a historically derogatory term for a man who has an unfaithful wife. The word, which has been in recorded use since the 13th century, derives from the cuckoo bird, some varieties of which lay their eggs in other birds' nests. [1]

In modern usage, a cuckold can also mean a male fetishist who gains sexual gratification from his partner having intercourse with other people.

Cuckoldry as a fetishA cuckold fetishist is aware of the spouse's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it.[4] This knowledge and tolerance of the spouse's activities makes the person in such relationships a wittol, properly speaking. But among fetishists the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the kink so the more familiar word is used. In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her lover when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however, as wives can have husbands who take female lovers with their full knowledge.

The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress.

Theories in psychologyPsychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of masochism. In Freudian analysis, cuckold fetishism is the eroticization of the fears of infidelity and of failure in the male competition for procreation and the affection of females. In his book Masochism and the Self, psychologist Roy Baumeister advanced a Self Theory analysis that cuckolding (and other forms of sexual masochism) among otherwise mentally healthy people was a form of escapism. In this theory, cuckold fetishists are relieving themselves of the stress by relieving themselves of the burden of their social role and escaping into a simpler, less-expansive position.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

It is a number of things and may be different for you or your next door neighbour. It can be that the wife likes to play away from hubby, with his full knowledge, but not necessarily with his full or even partial consent. After her assignation, she would come home and tell him all about it!

It can also be that the hubby is present in the same room or at least house and is made to watch or listen to the sexual encounter! If watching, it is fairly common to be the subject of derision and humiliation.

The wife may tell the cuckold to “clean up” whatever the sexual partners have left behind. Or to go and get them refreshments. He may be tied or free roaming and as I understand it, the whole point is to humiliate.. Some guys just get off on this!

Well, that is my take on it, others are far better qualified to elaborate..

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"wiki says.....

Cuckold is a historically derogatory term for a man who has an unfaithful wife. The word, which has been in recorded use since the 13th century, derives from the cuckoo bird, some varieties of which lay their eggs in other birds' nests. [1]

In modern usage, a cuckold can also mean a male fetishist who gains sexual gratification from his partner having intercourse with other people.

Cuckoldry as a fetishA cuckold fetishist is aware of the spouse's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it.[4] This knowledge and tolerance of the spouse's activities makes the person in such relationships a wittol, properly speaking. But among fetishists the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the kink so the more familiar word is used. In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her lover when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however, as wives can have husbands who take female lovers with their full knowledge.

The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress.

Theories in psychologyPsychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of masochism. In Freudian analysis, cuckold fetishism is the eroticization of the fears of infidelity and of failure in the male competition for procreation and the affection of females. In his book Masochism and the Self, psychologist Roy Baumeister advanced a Self Theory analysis that cuckolding (and other forms of sexual masochism) among otherwise mentally healthy people was a form of escapism. In this theory, cuckold fetishists are relieving themselves of the stress by relieving themselves of the burden of their social role and escaping into a simpler, less-expansive position.

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I'll get me coat !

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"can anyone tell me...pls..Xx "

Why did you want to know?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Cuckholding is very very sexy.

Have in the past been used as a cuck, but now much prefer to help a sexy lady cuck her man.

The power of playing with a lady, making her hubby or boyfriend watch is divine.

I get very very naughty though and make the men suffer ........... but then isnt that was the cucks like..... to suffer

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By *ayneandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We class ourselves as a cuckold couple. Mainly hubby wears knickers...i fuck who and when I want. Hubby only gets sex on my terms and he is 100% complient to all of my demands. Win win for us!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"We class ourselves as a cuckold couple. Mainly hubby wears knickers...i fuck who and when I want. Hubby only gets sex on my terms and he is 100% complient to all of my demands. Win win for us!"

sounds horny to me and win win for you two.

hubby in knickers, i would love to see that as me and you sit sipping wine and making him serve us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be in another cuckold scenario... did it once and kinda liked it ... hope that doesn't make me weired

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I would love to be in another cuckold scenario... did it once and kinda liked it ... hope that doesn't make me weired "

its a swinging site hun...very little is considered wierd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to be in another cuckold scenario... did it once and kinda liked it ... hope that doesn't make me weired

its a swinging site hun...very little is considered wierd "

Awwww thank you

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

The best way to understanding cuckolding is to search Google for cuckolding contract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love cuckholding a man its huge turn on

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

i agree with Jem, nothing weird on here... does that make me weird.

any hotwives and cucks in the area call me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love it...."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like any word, it may mean different variation of things.

In my experience can mean as simple as having to watch whilst another man plays with the woman, without joining in.

Bixsecual = enjoys sex with men or women. Doesn't necessary mean full sex, just limited perhaps.

Guess you will have to establish what the term means to those who are potential meets

Love to all

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