FabSwingers.com forum: Woman messaging first?

By *lattank OP Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

I just noticed I get quite a few views on my profile, but very few messages.

Is It that women don't message first and the look is to get you to message them? (Yes I know they may not be interested in me)

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No, the look is to view your profile. They don't know if they want to message you until they have done that. The lack of message is a sign you are not what they are looking for.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Views can mean anything or nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just noticed I get quite a few views on my profile, but very few messages.

Is It that women don't message first and the look is to get you to message them? (Yes I know they may not be interested in me)

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Believe me, the women looking at you is definitely NOT a signal for you to message them.

There would be a few thousand pissed off women on here!

The women like to look and peruse, as we do.

Just sit back and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means nothing

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By *lattank OP Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

Yes I suppose so, it's the repeat lookers that I think confuse me.

I get some that look everyday, but never message.

It doesn't bother me, I know it's a crazy old place here for a lady, just thinking out loud.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Many of us look in stealth mode for the reason that we don't want a message after we view a profile.

They have a look to see if you are for them and message if so.

Messaging after someone has looked at you is a bit creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I suppose so, it's the repeat lookers that I think confuse me.

I get some that look everyday, but never message.

It doesn't bother me, I know it's a crazy old place here for a lady, just thinking out loud. "

Maybe they fancy you but aren't ready to make a move yet?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Take it to mean whatever you want, can't see why anyone would be pissed off or find it creepy - it's only a message you're sending. If it's not welcome they'll just delete and block, if people stop messaging the whole site will grind to a halt.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Maybe they are just keeping a little eye on you......

Jo x

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